Chapter 196: Question
Because as long as you say something seriously, as long as you say some problems seriously, then obviously, the other party will think that you are hating these places of his, and the other party will think that you are disgusted with these places of his, so you don't really need to say it at this time.
You feel that it is bearable, as long as you feel that the other person's shortcomings are not a big deal. So what do you need to say in the end, what do you need to say in the end, in fact, it doesn't mean that everything should be said, of course, you need to make your own judgment. Of course, you need to think about it for yourself. Only when you really think about it, only when you really think about it, can you know whether you want to say something or not.
Whether you want to hide certain problems, of course, all hiding is actually for getting along better, or all patience is for getting along better, since you can get along better, since you can get along better, since you want to get along better, then obviously, in some things, in other things, you need to decide some things to do some things according to this principle. If you master this principle, it is obvious that everything will be solved as long as you master this method.
Since someone else says their name, then it is obvious that it is too necessary to say their own name Yes, in fact, sometimes it is like this, if someone else does something and they treat you well, then obviously you should also be nice to others, or someone else gives you something, of course you also need to give others advice. This is true for strangers, but even more so for close people. If it's a very close person, or if the two of you are close people, obviously, if the other person expresses his meaning to you, alas, and so desperately wants you to respond to the other person, you also need to express your love, or the other party has given you a gift, very. Then you also need to send the other person's eyes. Then you don't give a gift to the other person to give back, and of course it doesn't mean to make the other person happy, but to say that this kind of thing is what should be done. This kind of thing is the right thing to do. No one else's contribution can be reciprocated, only when someone else's contribution can see the effect is obvious, and others will really continue to do this thing.
Only the two of you really interact, only the two of you really start interacting with each other. By the interaction of the lives of the two of you, then it is clear that this life will be active and this life will be rich. Life will only look good, and this thing can really go on. Of course, if you are an ordinary person, if you and another person are ordinary people, if the two of you don't know each other at all, at this time, of course, you should really respond to each other, or say that the other party said thank you to you, then you need to say a word, politely or the other party gave you a thing of your own, then obviously you also need to respond to the other party a thing, although the two of you are not very familiar, but this is the basic politeness, or you only have the most basic things, you can really live your own life, only if you have the most basic politeness, you can make yourself stable is everything he hasIn fact, it is all for your inner stability, and everything is for your inner satisfaction. Of course, not everything necessarily needs to be responded to, and if you meet a stranger and the stranger is very angry, the stranger may be very anxious at that time.
So he may have said something unkind to you, and of course you don't need to respond at this time, or once you do, it's clear that there will be some conflict between the two of you, and there may be some conflict between the two of you in terms of words. There may also be some conflict between the two of you, but in any case, the two of you will fall into an unhappy environment, and many of you will fall into such a depressed mood, so if you don't respond, maybe this matter does not occupy a big place in your heart, you may forget about it after a few minutes, maybe you don't really take this thing to heart after a few minutes, but if you respond obviously you will not really forget him quickly, because this thing has taken up too much of your time。 Yes, as long as a certain thing occupies a lot of your time, as long as a certain thing occupies some of your thoughts and occupies some of your positions, then it is obvious that you cannot easily forget this person, and you cannot easily forget this thing.
Time in a person's life is actually very precious, when you spend this period of time on this thing, it is obvious that you can't take up this period of time for other things, so in order to cherish time, in fact, you shouldn't really care about some people in order to cherish time, in fact, you shouldn't really let yourself be to some people. Very bad. Actions and react to your own actions, or when others are really wasting your time, you should actually know that others are really wasting you. When others say these boring words and other people's provocations against you, they are actually a waste of time? Because after all, the two of them are strangers, because after all, the two of them don't know each other very well, because after all, the two of you don't really have anything to do with interests. At this time, you can actually let go of this one thing gently, in fact, letting go of others is also letting go of yourself, because you let go of this period of time, because you can use it for other things during this period of time. Yes, you can use this time to do something very meaningful, and you can use this time to do something that makes you happy.
You can do something intimate with someone close to you, you can do something with someone you love, you can do something with someone you feel like you have a good personality that really makes you feel happy. Anyway, all in all, you need to do something happy and fill those hours during this time, and then you will forget about those unpleasant things.
If the other party is really teasing you, or the other party although you don't know each other, or even though you don't know each other very well, but if he is really provoking you, it is obvious that you should really fight back, or that you don't need to let him go at this time, or that you shouldn't let him go at this time, because once you let him go, then? For a long time to come, or for a long time to come, you will think that this person is actually intentional, you will think that this person is actually deliberately trying to sweep your face, and this person is actually deliberately trying to make you unhappy.
So obviously, whenever you think about it, whenever you think about this person. You're going to be angry, you're angry at this person, you're struggling, why did this person give you this memory, you're angry at why this person came to you for no reason? Because you're confused, because you don't know. Because you don't know why this person is coming to you for trouble, you are in a hurry. Say this one thing and stay in your life. Of course, after many years, you may really forget him, or when something never makes you forget him. But in any case, it seems that things have taken up too much of your time, and this one thing has really taken up too much of your heart and mind when you. After this period of suffering is occupied by this painful thing it is clear that you can't have other happy things, yes, when you can't be happy, when you can't really have happiness. I'm shouting you're still thinking about it. It's not that this one thing obviously annoys you, but if you're annoyed, of course you hate it. Actually, it's not just that, when you start to hate this one thing.
And then it has an impact on other people, that is, even on the people around you. When you hate, when you are unhappy. When there is no way to be happy, it is obvious that the people around you will not be happy, the people around you will also be depressed, the people around you will also miss you, why are you depressed now, why are you unhappy, then it is obvious that you are also taking up the other party's time, and the other party's time is wasted. Of course, at this time, it is obvious that you really hit back at the other party, even if after you hit back at the other party, the other party did not say why. But all in all, you're fighting back. All in all, you are really fighting back against others, as long as you really fight back against others, as long as you really let yourself express yourself well, so at this time you obviously don't really regret it, you won't regret it at the time, you won't really regret it when you think about it later, you won't be really depressed, even if you are depressed, maybe you will think that you actually did something, since you have done something, then it is obvious that you have really reacted to this thing, not as before。 I didn't react as I should.
So at least at this time, your heart will feel a little better, as long as you feel a little better, then the people around you will definitely feel your mood. Then obviously you don't waste your time, you don't waste your emotions, you don't waste your feelings. For the people around you, you no longer need to waste your feelings, you don't need to waste your time, and you don't need to waste your sincerity.