If you want to truly understand a person, you must truly and thoroughly understand the person's upbringing environment and all their experiences.

Because the soul of the original owner is still there, and all the thoughts are still in a very active stage, Qin Gu can easily detect it.

Including some memories that the original owner had forgotten, but had actually left their mark on his life.

- Almost all of Tao Yu's memories when he was a child are related to his grandmother, and his mother's impression is very vague and ...... Cold shoulder.

In this imprint, grandma is his closest, most relied on, and...... The person who has the most voice in the family.

Mother is a strange, indifferent, even somewhat hostile synonym.

When Tao Yu was six years old, his parents divorced, largely because of the role of his grandmother Ding Xiaoxiao.

Grandma Ding Xiaoxiao has only one son, Tao Hongzhe, whose husband died in a car accident when his son was just admitted to college.

She herself is the leader of a company and an enterprise, and her husband originally ran transportation, but after his death, he had to pay a large amount of compensation, and his family was not bad.

Ding Xiaoxiao has been more spoiled by Tao Hongzhe since she was a child, and when she grows up, whether it is studying, choosing a school, major, or later getting a girlfriend to get married, buying a house, etc., she takes the idea.

After the death of her husband, she shifted all the focus of her life to her son.

Tao Hongzhe and Qian Hongying met through acquaintances, and lived with Ding Xiaoxiao after getting married.

In fact, there were some conflicts between the two from the beginning, mainly on the issue of their mother.

Tao Hongzhe's sentence on his lips is "My mother said, my mother said XX", but these small frictions in life, who hasn't had a little bumps in the family, aren't they all improvised, after all, the cost of divorce is too high.

But with the birth of Tao Yu, the contradictions between them escalated.

Ding Xiaoxiao's love for her grandson is beyond ordinary people, no matter what, she is reluctant to scold a little.

Even when Qian Hongying went home and wanted to play with the child and cultivate parent-child feelings or something, Ding Xiaoxiao also separated the two, feeling that Qian Hongying was too strict with the child, "The child is so young, what do you know? asked Qian Hongying to do housework, and said to the child behind her back, "Don't listen to your mother, grandma is the one who loves you the most..."

Over time, Tao Yu's feelings for his mother were divided, and he didn't listen to Qian Hongying's words at all, and was even full of resistance and hostility.

As soon as Qian Hongying taught him a lesson, he cried and said that he would "tell grandma", and then there was inevitably a chicken and dog jump at home.

Qian Hongying said that he couldn't blindly get used to the child, that would hurt him.

Every time the chickens fly and the dogs jump, Tao Hongzhe is one-sided towards his mother, but she said, "It's not as good as your child to be taken by my mother, and you will do all kinds of things as soon as you come"

The contradiction between Qian Hongying and Ding Xiaoxiao intensified, and Tao Hongzhe derailed during this time period.

In his words: Qian Hongying does not have the gentleness and virtuousness of a woman at all, and every day she comes back, she is a chicken feather, she forced him not to go home, and she forced him to seek "comfort" outside.

Qian Hongying looked at her mother-in-law, who was full of defensiveness and resistance to her, and her son who looked at her with strange and hostile eyes, and her husband with the scent of other women.

She felt that her whole life was plunged into the darkness that would never see the end, she worked hard and fought for it, but the reality was so cruel, she was irreparable, powerless to fight, and finally, she and Tao Hongzhe embarked on the road of divorce.

However, the divorce of the two was also very unsmooth, mainly due to the issue of child support and property division.

Tao Hongzhe had an affair, but he couldn't form evidence on the table.

Because the law clearly stipulates that it is "to maintain a husband and wife relationship with a third party for a long time", how can this be proved? Go to video every day, secretly take pictures? That is privacy, I am afraid that I will enter the bureau myself before I grasp the handle of others.

In other words, it is impossible to sue Tao Hongzhe for divorce because he is at fault in the marriage.

Qian Hongying wanted to take the child alone to reverse the child's habits, but Ding Xiaoxiao and Tao Hongzhe didn't let her get close to the child at all, and the child was not close to her at all.

You can't get custody of your child.

The house was a down payment that Ding Xiaoxiao helped provide, but the later mortgage and decoration fees were paid by Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe together.

Moreover, Tao Hongzhe's salary is not as high as Qian Hongying, so relatively speaking, her contribution to the family is greater.

Because she couldn't stand it first, she filed for divorce first, and she didn't want to get a share of the family property.

The mother-in-law, husband, and son have all formed a united front and isolated her alone.

In the end, Qian Hongying was disheartened and was left of the house.

Even so, she has to pay child support every month until she reaches adulthood.

In the memory of the original owner, Tao Yu's memory of his mother is very faint, and his grandmother helped him receive the monthly alimony before he became an adult, he knew about it, but in his words: This was originally what she should have given me, who told her to give birth to me?

Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe both re-formed their families after the divorce, and Tao Hongzhe, who wanted Qian Hongying to leave the house, did not continue to take Tao Yu with him, but lost it to Ding Xiaoxiao.

So Tao Yu has been with his grandmother since he was six years old, and Ding Xiaoxiao can no longer describe him as pampered, but spoiled.

Give whatever you want, even if you are knocked on the foot by a stone while walking on the road, grandma will step on the stone a few times.

This has developed the character that Tao Yu must get what he wants, he used to be small, those toys, snacks, or some small things, he wanted, no problem, Ding Xiaoxiao could satisfy him.

Although there were some troubles, the problem was not big, and it was solved with some money.

But this time it's different, Tao Yu likes a girl, and he can't catch up and swears not to give up.

It's human, it's not a toy snack, just if you want someone else, you have to cater to your ideas?!

The girl's name is Zeng Yuanyuan, and she is from another department in the same grade.

In fact, at first, Tao Yu didn't like Yuanyuan as much as he thought, but this Yuanyuan didn't care about him at all, but it inspired him to want to possess it.

So Tao Yu pursued each other in different ways, classrooms, canteens, and even went downstairs to the girls' dormitory many times to confess in public.

Every time, Yuanyuan solemnly said that she is now focusing on her studies and will not consider having a boyfriend. It's kind of a polite rejection of his pursuit.

Tao Yu failed to courtship many times, but he provoked ridicule from the people around him, saying that he couldn't even handle a little girl from the countryside.

This Tao Yu didn't know which tendon was wrong in his mind at that time, so he actually sent a message to the other party, saying that if she didn't go to the appointment at the appointed time, he would jump off the building.