"Zhang Lina, do you know? The reason why I married you is because I see your potential. I know Sister Ping's ability, you will definitely be able to take the exam in the future. ”

"You, from today onwards, earn more money. Study more, and when the time comes, take the test a few more times. When you have the preparation, the future of our family will also be settled. ”

"The reason why I am looking for a teacher like you is because I think that when you are not working, you will have winter and summer vacations, and you can raise and take care of your children at that time. And the extra time, you can also serve my grandparents and be filial to my parents. ”

Seeing the man in front of him, with a smug face, saying such a heartfelt word, Zhang Lina unconsciously hooked a sarcastic smile on the corner of her mouth.

She felt that the man in front of her was too chicken thief and disgusting.

He only knows how to ask for this request from others all day long, and he never thinks about what he can do for others.

Whatever he does, he only knows how to start from his own standpoint.

Before Zhang Lina got married, she had a careful conversation with him, "If you have a child, how will you educate the child".

At that time, Wang Jiacheng told her seriously.

If he has a child, he must let his son learn taekwondo, calligraphy, piano, hip-hop dance, painting, and sanda......

Zhang Lina was surprised when she heard it, and the question he thought was that a child has only experienced so much, and he has learned so many things at once, will he get bored?

As a parent, you should start from the child's position and not put too much pressure on him.

A child's childhood is inherently short, so let him learn in happiness and be happy in learning.

If a child is bored with learning, it will continue to be detrimental to his growth and his future.

The second one, let the child learn things all at once, is there any money at home to cultivate?

Zhang Lina had been in contact with piano before, but he knew that learning piano was still quite expensive, and it cost about 50 yuan to find an ordinary teacher to learn such a lesson, 45 minutes.

A slightly better teacher has to pay 200 yuan an hour for tuition.

If you can't learn the piano for a few years, the child won't be able to learn anything at all.

Therefore, Zhang Lina made a rough calculation at that time, if she wanted her child to have the skill of piano, she had to invest more than 100,000 yuan in her child.

As for calligraphy, painting, taekwondo, sanda and other messy things, it also takes extra time and energy.

……

Zhang Lina told him such a reason at the time, but Wang Jiacheng just didn't listen.

"None of this matters," he said to himself. The important thing is that when I was a child, my family was relatively poor, and I never learned any special skills, and every time I saw my classmates perform on Children's Day or school day, I felt very envious and jealous. ”

"Every time I noticed my classmates and looked at those who had special skills, I was filled with admiration and yearning, and I thought at that time, if only I had them so dazzling and colorful one day, it would be great......"

"So when I grew up, I thought it would be great if my children could be like them, with skills, specialties, and performances......"

When Zhang Lina heard him say this, she felt that something was wrong, but she didn't think about it.

At that time, she didn't see from this detail that Wang Jiacheng was an extremely selfish person.

Whatever he does, he only thinks about himself.

He has always put himself in the shoes of others and thinks about problems.

He only thinks about the lack of his childhood, he only thinks about it, he wants to be that kind of person.

But he never thought that his children were different from him.

Do your children want to be that kind of person? Are your children willing to learn that specialty?

This kind of selfish person is not a good parent.

All he knows is putting pressure on his children.

All he knows is to ask.

He can't give his children that great and inclusive fatherly love.

Zhang Lina, who was locked in the house by Wang Jiacheng, beat and scolded every day, this is the first time she has thought so calmly.

She used to be blinded by Wang Jiacheng's words that "the family said that they were going to be demolished, and his father was a ...... who contracted the government project".

She thought his family was rich.

Therefore, she automatically felt that he was a good man.

She listened to the matchmaker, "He is an honest and loyal person who can live......"

She thought she could pick up the leak.

She really didn't expect that after she got married, she would suffer such a big loss and fall for such a big deal.

Sure enough, in this economically underdeveloped small town, a man who is older, that is, more than 30 years old and has not yet married a wife, has major defects in his body or personality.

Zhang Lina, who has been robbed of a dowry of 30,000 yuan, realized for the first time that a man like Wang Jiacheng is a contemptible man.

He's not just a problem of running out of money.

His mind, vision, mind, and nature are all problematic.

Wang Jiacheng didn't know that he was a wife, and he was very dissatisfied with him.

And that dissatisfaction has reached the level of disgust.

Hearing his voice and seeing his face, Zhang Lina instinctively felt disgusted.

Seeing that Zhang Lina had kept her head down all the time, not daring to look at herself, Wang Jiacheng was beaming with pride.

He thought to himself, sure enough, this woman can't be a weapon if she doesn't fight, and she can't be talented if she doesn't fight.

I beat her twice for three days and repaired her, but she began to be obedient to herself without making noise or noise.

Seemingly...... I have to fight and scold more in the future.

This woman who is beaten, scolded, and tortured every day is much more honest than those women outside.

Zhang Lina was on the line because her brain was online, so she could see at once that the old man in front of her who had a low level of education and only had a secondary school plan.

She hooked her lips with disdain in her heart and sneered.

Thought, do you want to keep repairing me?

No way!

As long as you want me to go out and make money, I can get out of here.

If you don't let me make money outside, then you can only suffer yourself and support her.

For a man like Wang Jiacheng who picks the door and has no ability, it is extremely painful to have a wife and children.

And it's extremely disadvantageous.

He only has more than 2,000 yuan a month.

More than 2,000 yuan to support himself, all barely enough.

How could he afford to raise his wife and children?

The child is born to eat milk powder, to use diapers, to buy clothes to wear, to grow a little older, to buy toys, and to go to school when he is five or six years old......

Which one does it cost nothing?

For a man like Wang Jiacheng, who calculates his wife to the core, he will only force her to go outside and make money like crazy.

When the time comes, they will be able to feed their family.