Chapter 1053: Comfort Zone Changes

I used to think I could remember everyone's name, but it's a shame that I didn't remember most people's names.

I'm just remembering some of the better relationships, or some of the names that are really easy to remember, and I think I'm going to do a certain review.

I always feel that we will always be classmates, and we will not feel stranger even when we contact each other in the future.

But now don't talk about the question of whether the contact is strange or not, I can't even call the other party's name after contact, and I feel particularly embarrassed.

In fact, he slapped himself hard.

In the past, I thought I was basically with Yi Qiyang and forgot about these things, but now, I already know what happened, it's just me, it's just that I forgot about it. It doesn't have anything to do with anyone else.

So this slap woke me up and I realized that many of my thoughts were wrong.

Of course, I didn't think it was surprising that Qi Yang had told me many times, and she said that many of her classmates she had forgotten their names.

Sometimes I just remember a nickname, and sometimes I just remember a back, or a code name.

The meaning of this code name is completely different from the nickname.,The bad meaning is that classmates or other people give this person a nickname.,For example, dogs, for example, little 6.,And so on.。

But the meaning of the code name is, for example, the school bully who often raises his hand, the boy who sleeps in the back every day, and the girl who wears jeans all day.

Blah blah bla

I'm just giving an example, showing a more dignified attitude, that is, I don't even remember people's faces, but only what they have done, or what they often do.

Or what clothes you wear, or what you wear often.

I don't know why I feel very, very sad when I hear this, and when I think about it, my tears seem to be about to flow out.

It's just that in the past, I was more sentimental, but now I don't have so much sentimentality.

I secretly cried when I watched the TV series, I was afraid of being embarrassed, and I didn't want anyone to find out.

But now when I watch that TV series, I feel sparse and normal, I don't know why the tear ducts were so developed at that time, in fact, it really shouldn't be so.

But now when I watch some TV series, I mean that when I watch some TV series that are still relatively good, I will still make myself cry, but as far as this matter is concerned, it only needs that this plot is really good.

I finally found out that the plot is good, or it is easy to make people cry, it doesn't mean that there are people crying in the plot of this plot.

I think the better plot is the content, especially a look, plus some music next to it, that is to say, the most important thing is the acting skills of the actors, plus some music sensationalism. Then the matter becomes very easy.

Of course, it's not as easy as imagined, otherwise there will not be so few good movies and TV series.

In fact, there are indeed very few good movies and TV series now, and I very much agree with what Qi Yang said.

What I wanted to say just now, by the way, I remembered, in fact, most of my classmates' names have been forgotten, and the name of that student has also been forgotten.

So when I talk about that Xueba, I basically use the word Xueba instead, and it's not even a nickname, it's just a code name, doesn't it feel very sad.

You are not mistaken, I feel very sad.

That Xueba and his mother quarreled many times at the door, I actually always thought that he quarreled with his mother, and his mother's desire to control him was too strong, and controlling this desire had suppressed this man.

So most of them are Xueba, although their expressions are very bad in front of their mothers, but they are very well-behaved, and I don't think there is any inevitable connection between this bad expression and being well-behaved.

I also think that this student bully is actually a little pitiful.,The main reason is that the student bully actually doesn't have a good relationship with me.,If you get to the future, you can't get along with the object of your work.。

I mean colleague, not the object, and the two words "object" must be described from another aspect, and it is not specifically to describe this thing.

Then I think it should be a tragic thing, from his mother's clothes I should be able to judge that his family conditions are not particularly good, and of course not particularly bad.

That feeling of expectation seems to make people feel that he is a big official, but one thing that is obvious is that this kind of character, if you don't make any big changes, some should be difficult to do that kind of big task.

So I think we still need to think twice about this matter.

That's why I feel a little bit pitiful, but this loss is basically because of his mother.

It's really a pity for the parents of the world, this kind of mood was not understood before, but now it is really more understandable, sometimes the comparison between two universities can make a person have a drastic change.

This kind of upper limit will make people immediately higher, which means that for ordinary people.

This ceiling is not to say that it cannot be broken, but it is indeed very difficult for ordinary people to break through, and I have nothing to say that has changed dramatically.

A lot of people don't like change, no one likes change, well, I'm saying something absolute, I think in other words, most people don't like to change.

That's why a lot of people ridiculed steam when it first came out, and I remember as if studying history there was an illustration like this, pulled with a horse, rather than choosing to use steam.

Because I just don't like change.

At first, I thought it was slow and couldn't catch on, but later on, it got faster and faster, faster than Mara's.

He also said that this thing is a ghost, so he still doesn't want to change the status quo.

Most people get used to it in their own living quarters, and it's not necessarily very comfortable, but it's getting used to.

If this kind of behavior occurs, it means that even if this place is bitter, if you can adapt to it, then you won't feel bitter.

In the end, I was reluctant to change in my own adaptation zone, even if it was a better phenomenon.

It feels like I'm talking about me, I used to hate change, especially when I was in college, and I felt like I needed to go to the dormitory and adapt to some of the other people's behaviors.

If you have a simple example, you can all relate to it.

For example, when it comes to turning on the air conditioner, some people think it's better to turn on 23 degrees, some people think it's better to turn on 27 degrees, and some people think it's best not to turn it on.

I understand that some people are really afraid of heat, and I also know that some people are really afraid of turning on the air conditioner, which should make people feel very uncomfortable.

And it is to adapt not to yourself, so you choose to adapt to others.

So when I first started college, I was very uncomfortable, especially in the dormitory.

But I think there's a very good saying that Seon is not blessed if he loses something, and if he gains something, he must lose something, and conversely, he loses something and gains something.

This sentence reminds me of a sentence from Wulin Gaiden.

It was Guo Furong who said to the shopkeeper Tong: "But there must be gains if you lose." ”

The shopkeeper Tong said to Guo Furong: "Then there will be gains and losses." ”

Even when reading a proverb, in fact, most people will choose the aspect that is optimistic, and this should include me.

Well, for example, Saion lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing, and a very, very big premise had been made earlier, that is, something was lost, but I believe that most people still look at the back, which is the word blessing.

Of course, I don't want to say such a big truth, but I want to say that sometimes the dormitory is quite comfortable, especially the coordination between everyone and everyone, and there may be conflicts at the beginning, but in the back this contradiction will make people feel very comfortable.

The reason why I give this example of turning on the air conditioner is because this example has appeared in our dormitory, and I do like to turn on the air conditioner, even on a hot day.

But one of the people in our dormitory was really not interested in turning on the air conditioner, and even asked us not to turn on the air conditioner.

In the end, the matter was finally resolved, and the temperature was 25 degrees.

The girl who doesn't like to turn on the air conditioner, she will cover a quilt or a blanket when we turn on the air conditioner.

Of course, this may seem like an unfair solution, but I think it's a very good solution, because there's no way to control the heat and cold.

It's good to put on clothes when it's cold, but if it's hot, it's hot, so turn on the air conditioner a little, but don't make those who are uncomfortable with the air conditioner feel uncomfortable.

It's usually just to move them to the lower bunk, and then let them put on a blanket when the air conditioner is on, put on a little more clothes, and so on.

It is always necessary to coordinate with each other, and this coordination can actually make people feel a little warm, and it can also grow a little bit of relationship.

Of course, if you don't coordinate well, you will evolve into a very big contradiction.

It is estimated that there should be a lot in common with a quarrel between a couple.

For example: "It's all your fault, it's all your fault, you didn't let me buy a diamond ring in the first place!" ”

Do you feel that if this thing is not well coordinated, in order to definitely become a quarrel capital in the future, this quarrel will eventually evolve into a greater contradiction?

So when solving things, we still have to solve it, this solution is more or less to pay attention to, when I first started college, especially on a hot day, in fact, to be honest, there were a lot of contradictions.

But if these contradictions are not resolved, it is actually a very, very uncomfortable thing, you need to meet every day, you need to meet back and forth every day, if it is a short distance, it is fine, but if it is a long distance, it is exactly at this end of the corridor and that end.

Two people don't want to talk, there is no one in between, and two people still see each other, so they need to walk a long distance, and they don't know where to put their eyes.

I've really encountered this kind of embarrassing situation, but after the conflict is resolved, it really feels very, very smooth, so this kind of thing still has to be solved.

Of course, if I go back to the beginning, I still feel very uncomfortable.

I used to think I could remember everyone's name, but it's a shame that I didn't remember most people's names.

I'm just remembering some of the better relationships, or some of the names that are really easy to remember, and I think I'm going to do a certain review.

I always feel that we will always be classmates, and we will not feel stranger even when we contact each other in the future.

But now don't talk about the question of whether the contact is strange or not, I can't even call the other party's name after contact, and I feel particularly embarrassed.

In fact, he slapped himself hard.

In the past, I thought I was basically with Yi Qiyang and forgot about these things, but now, I already know what happened, it's just me, it's just that I forgot about it. It doesn't have anything to do with anyone else.

So this slap woke me up and I realized that many of my thoughts were wrong.

Of course, I didn't think it was surprising that Qi Yang had told me many times, and she said that many of her classmates she had forgotten their names.

Sometimes I just remember a nickname, and sometimes I just remember a back, or a code name.

The meaning of this code name is completely different from the nickname.,The bad meaning is that classmates or other people give this person a nickname.,For example, dogs, for example, little 6.,And so on.。

But the meaning of the code name is, for example, the school bully who often raises his hand, the boy who sleeps in the back every day, and the girl who wears jeans all day.

Blah blah bla

I'm just giving an example, showing a more dignified attitude, that is, I don't even remember people's faces, but only what they have done, or what they often do.

Or what clothes you wear, or what you wear often.

I don't know why I feel very, very sad when I hear this, and when I think about it, my tears seem to be about to flow out.

It's just that in the past, I was more sentimental, but now I don't have so much sentimentality.

I secretly cried when I watched the TV series, I was afraid of being embarrassed, and I didn't want anyone to find out.

But now when I watch that TV series, I feel sparse and normal, I don't know why the tear ducts were so developed at that time, in fact, it really shouldn't be so.

But now when I watch some TV series, I mean that when I watch some TV series that are still relatively good, I will still make myself cry, but as far as this matter is concerned, it only needs that this plot is really good.

I finally found out that the plot is good, or it is easy to make people cry, it doesn't mean that there are people crying in the plot of this plot.

I think the better plot is the content, especially a look, plus some music next to it, that is to say, the most important thing is the acting skills of the actors, plus some music sensationalism. Then the matter becomes very easy.

Of course, it's not as easy as imagined, otherwise there will not be so few good movies and TV series.

In fact, there are indeed very few good movies and TV series now, and I very much agree with what Qi Yang said.

What I wanted to say just now, by the way, I remembered, in fact, most of my classmates' names have been forgotten, and the name of that student has also been forgotten.

So when I talk about that Xueba, I basically use the word Xueba instead, and it's not even a nickname, it's just a code name, doesn't it feel very sad.

You are not mistaken, I feel very sad.

That Xueba and his mother quarreled many times at the door, I actually always thought that he quarreled with his mother, and his mother's desire to control him was too strong, and controlling this desire had suppressed this man.

So most of them are Xueba, although their expressions are very bad in front of their mothers, but they are very well-behaved, and I don't think there is any inevitable connection between this bad expression and being well-behaved.

I also think that this student bully is actually a little pitiful.,The main reason is that the student bully actually doesn't have a good relationship with me.,If you get to the future, you can't get along with the object of your work.。

I mean colleague, not the object, and the two words "object" must be described from another aspect, and it is not specifically to describe this thing.

Then I think it should be a tragic thing, from his mother's clothes I should be able to judge that his family conditions are not particularly good, and of course not particularly bad.

That feeling of expectation seems to make people feel that he is a big official, but one thing that is obvious is that this kind of character, if you don't make any big changes, some should be difficult to do that kind of big task.

So I think we still need to think twice about this matter.

That's why I feel a little bit pitiful, but this loss is basically because of his mother.

It's really a pity for the parents of the world, this kind of mood was not understood before, but now it is really more understandable, sometimes the comparison between two universities can make a person have a drastic change.

This kind of upper limit will make people immediately higher, which means that for ordinary people.

This ceiling is not to say that it cannot be broken, but it is indeed very difficult for ordinary people to break through, and I have nothing to say that has changed dramatically.

A lot of people don't like change, no one likes change, well, I'm saying something absolute, I think in other words, most people don't like to change.

That's why a lot of people ridiculed steam when it first came out, and I remember as if studying history there was an illustration like this, pulled with a horse, rather than choosing to use steam.

Because I just don't like change.

At first, I thought it was slow and couldn't catch on, but later on, it got faster and faster, faster than Mara's.

He also said that this thing is a ghost, so he still doesn't want to change the status quo.

Most people get used to it in their own living quarters, and it's not necessarily very comfortable, but it's getting used to.

If this kind of behavior occurs, it means that even if this place is bitter, if you can adapt to it, then you won't feel bitter.

In the end, I was reluctant to change in my own adaptation zone, even if it was a better phenomenon.

It feels like I'm talking about me, I used to hate change, especially when I was in college, and I felt like I needed to go to the dormitory and adapt to some of the other people's behaviors.

If you have a simple example, you can all relate to it.

For example, when it comes to turning on the air conditioner, some people think it's better to turn on 23 degrees, some people think it's better to turn on 27 degrees, and some people think it's best not to turn it on.

I understand that some people are really afraid of heat, and I also know that some people are really afraid of turning on the air conditioner, which should make people feel very uncomfortable.

And it is to adapt not to yourself, so you choose to adapt to others.

So when I first started college, I was very uncomfortable, especially in the dormitory.

But I think there's a very good saying that Seon is not blessed if he loses something, and if he gains something, he must lose something, and conversely, he loses something and gains something.

This sentence reminds me of a sentence from Wulin Gaiden.

It was Guo Furong who said to the shopkeeper Tong: "But there must be gains if you lose." ”

The shopkeeper Tong said to Guo Furong: "Then there will be gains and losses." ”

Even when reading a proverb, in fact, most people will choose the aspect that is optimistic, and this should include me.

Well, for example, Saion lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing, and a very, very big premise had been made earlier, that is, something was lost, but I believe that most people still look at the back, which is the word blessing.

Of course, I don't want to say such a big truth, but I want to say that sometimes the dormitory is quite comfortable, especially the coordination between everyone and everyone, and there may be conflicts at the beginning, but in the back this contradiction will make people feel very comfortable.

The reason why I give this example of turning on the air conditioner is because this example has appeared in our dormitory, and I do like to turn on the air conditioner, even on a hot day.

But one of the people in our dormitory was really not interested in turning on the air conditioner, and even asked us not to turn on the air conditioner.

In the end, the matter was finally resolved, and the temperature was 25 degrees.

The girl who doesn't like to turn on the air conditioner, she will cover a quilt or a blanket when we turn on the air conditioner.

Of course, this may seem like an unfair solution, but I think it's a very good solution, because there's no way to control the heat and cold.

It's good to put on clothes when it's cold, but if it's hot, it's hot, so turn on the air conditioner a little, but don't make those who are uncomfortable with the air conditioner feel uncomfortable.

It's usually just to move them to the lower bunk, and then let them put on a blanket when the air conditioner is on, put on a little more clothes, and so on.

It is always necessary to coordinate with each other, and this coordination can actually make people feel a little warm, and it can also grow a little bit of relationship.

Of course, if you don't coordinate well, you will evolve into a very big contradiction.

It is estimated that there should be a lot in common with a quarrel between a couple.

For example: "It's all your fault, it's all your fault, you didn't let me buy a diamond ring in the first place!" ”

Do you feel that if this thing is not well coordinated, in order to definitely become a quarrel capital in the future, this quarrel will eventually evolve into a greater contradiction?

So when solving things, we still have to solve it, this solution is more or less to pay attention to, when I first started college, especially on a hot day, in fact, to be honest, there were a lot of contradictions.

But if these contradictions are not resolved, it is actually a very, very uncomfortable thing, you need to meet every day, you need to meet back and forth every day, if it is a short distance, it is fine, but if it is a long distance, it is exactly at this end of the corridor and that end.

Two people don't want to talk, there is no one in between, and two people still see each other, so they need to walk a long distance, and they don't know where to put their eyes.

I've really encountered this kind of embarrassing situation, but after the conflict is resolved, it really feels very, very smooth, so this kind of thing still has to be solved.

Of course, if I go back to the beginning, I still feel very uncomfortable.

I used to think I could remember everyone's name, but it's a shame that I didn't remember most people's names.

I'm just remembering some of the better relationships, or some of the names that are really easy to remember, and I think I'm going to do a certain review.

I always feel that we will always be classmates, and we will not feel stranger even when we contact each other in the future.

But now don't talk about the question of whether the contact is strange or not, I can't even call the other party's name after contact, and I feel particularly embarrassed.

In fact, he slapped himself hard.

In the past, I thought I was basically with Yi Qiyang and forgot about these things, but now, I already know what happened, it's just me, it's just that I forgot about it. It doesn't have anything to do with anyone else.

So this slap woke me up and I realized that many of my thoughts were wrong.

Of course, I didn't think it was surprising that Qi Yang had told me many times, and she said that many of her classmates she had forgotten their names.

Sometimes I just remember a nickname, and sometimes I just remember a back, or a code name.

The meaning of this code name is completely different from the nickname.,The bad meaning is that classmates or other people give this person a nickname.,For example, dogs, for example, little 6.,And so on.。

But the meaning of the code name is, for example, the school bully who often raises his hand, the boy who sleeps in the back every day, and the girl who wears jeans all day.

Blah blah bla

I'm just giving an example, showing a more dignified attitude, that is, I don't even remember people's faces, but only what they have done, or what they often do.

Or what clothes you wear, or what you wear often.

I don't know why I feel very, very sad when I hear this, and when I think about it, my tears seem to be about to flow out.

It's just that in the past, I was more sentimental, but now I don't have so much sentimentality.

I secretly cried when I watched the TV series, I was afraid of being embarrassed, and I didn't want anyone to find out.

But now when I watch that TV series, I feel sparse and normal, I don't know why the tear ducts were so developed at that time, in fact, it really shouldn't be so.

But now when I watch some TV series, I mean that when I watch some TV series that are still relatively good, I will still make myself cry, but as far as this matter is concerned, it only needs that this plot is really good.

I finally found out that the plot is good, or it is easy to make people cry, it doesn't mean that there are people crying in the plot of this plot.

I think the better plot is the content, especially a look, plus some music next to it, that is to say, the most important thing is the acting skills of the actors, plus some music sensationalism. Then the matter becomes very easy.

Of course, it's not as easy as imagined, otherwise there will not be so few good movies and TV series.

In fact, there are indeed very few good movies and TV series now, and I very much agree with what Qi Yang said.

What I wanted to say just now, by the way, I remembered, in fact, most of my classmates' names have been forgotten, and the name of that student has also been forgotten.

So when I talk about that Xueba, I basically use the word Xueba instead, and it's not even a nickname, it's just a code name, doesn't it feel very sad.

You are not mistaken, I feel very sad.

That Xueba and his mother quarreled many times at the door, I actually always thought that he quarreled with his mother, and his mother's desire to control him was too strong, and controlling this desire had suppressed this man.

So most of them are Xueba, although their expressions are very bad in front of their mothers, but they are very well-behaved, and I don't think there is any inevitable connection between this bad expression and being well-behaved.

I also think that this student bully is actually a little pitiful.,The main reason is that the student bully actually doesn't have a good relationship with me.,If you get to the future, you can't get along with the object of your work.。

I mean colleague, not the object, and the two words "object" must be described from another aspect, and it is not specifically to describe this thing.

Then I think it should be a tragic thing, from his mother's clothes I should be able to judge that his family conditions are not particularly good, and of course not particularly bad.

That feeling of expectation seems to make people feel that he is a big official, but one thing that is obvious is that this kind of character, if you don't make any big changes, some should be difficult to do that kind of big task.

So I think we still need to think twice about this matter.

That's why I feel a little bit pitiful, but this loss is basically because of his mother.

It's really a pity for the parents of the world, this kind of mood was not understood before, but now it is really more understandable, sometimes the comparison between two universities can make a person have a drastic change.

This kind of upper limit will make people immediately higher, which means that for ordinary people.

This ceiling is not to say that it cannot be broken, but it is indeed very difficult for ordinary people to break through, and I have nothing to say that has changed dramatically.

A lot of people don't like change, no one likes change, well, I'm saying something absolute, I think in other words, most people don't like to change.

That's why a lot of people ridiculed steam when it first came out, and I remember as if studying history there was an illustration like this, pulled with a horse, rather than choosing to use steam.

Because I just don't like change.

At first, I thought it was slow and couldn't catch on, but later on, it got faster and faster, faster than Mara's.

He also said that this thing is a ghost, so he still doesn't want to change the status quo.

Most people get used to it in their own living quarters, and it's not necessarily very comfortable, but it's getting used to.

If this kind of behavior occurs, it means that even if this place is bitter, if you can adapt to it, then you won't feel bitter.

In the end, I was reluctant to change in my own adaptation zone, even if it was a better phenomenon.

It feels like I'm talking about me, I used to hate change, especially when I was in college, and I felt like I needed to go to the dormitory and adapt to some of the other people's behaviors.

If you have a simple example, you can all relate to it.

For example, when it comes to turning on the air conditioner, some people think it's better to turn on 23 degrees, some people think it's better to turn on 27 degrees, and some people think it's best not to turn it on.

I understand that some people are really afraid of heat, and I also know that some people are really afraid of turning on the air conditioner, which should make people feel very uncomfortable.

And it is to adapt not to yourself, so you choose to adapt to others.

So when I first started college, I was very uncomfortable, especially in the dormitory.

But I think there's a very good saying that Seon is not blessed if he loses something, and if he gains something, he must lose something, and conversely, he loses something and gains something.

This sentence reminds me of a sentence from Wulin Gaiden.

It was Guo Furong who said to the shopkeeper Tong: "But there must be gains if you lose." ”

The shopkeeper Tong said to Guo Furong: "Then there will be gains and losses." ”

Even when reading a proverb, in fact, most people will choose the aspect that is optimistic, and this should include me.

Well, for example, Saion lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing, and a very, very big premise had been made earlier, that is, something was lost, but I believe that most people still look at the back, which is the word blessing.

Of course, I don't want to say such a big truth, but I want to say that sometimes the dormitory is quite comfortable, especially the coordination between everyone and everyone, and there may be conflicts at the beginning, but in the back this contradiction will make people feel very comfortable.

The reason why I give this example of turning on the air conditioner is because this example has appeared in our dormitory, and I do like to turn on the air conditioner, even on a hot day.

But one of the people in our dormitory was really not interested in turning on the air conditioner, and even asked us not to turn on the air conditioner.

In the end, the matter was finally resolved, and the temperature was 25 degrees.

The girl who doesn't like to turn on the air conditioner, she will cover a quilt or a blanket when we turn on the air conditioner.

Of course, this may seem like an unfair solution, but I think it's a very good solution, because there's no way to control the heat and cold.

It's good to put on clothes when it's cold, but if it's hot, it's hot, so turn on the air conditioner a little, but don't make those who are uncomfortable with the air conditioner feel uncomfortable.

It's usually just to move them to the lower bunk, and then let them put on a blanket when the air conditioner is on, put on a little more clothes, and so on.

It is always necessary to coordinate with each other, and this coordination can actually make people feel a little warm, and it can also grow a little bit of relationship.

Of course, if you don't coordinate well, you will evolve into a very big contradiction.

It is estimated that there should be a lot in common with a quarrel between a couple.

For example: "It's all your fault, it's all your fault, you didn't let me buy a diamond ring in the first place!" ”

Do you feel that if this thing is not well coordinated, in order to definitely become a quarrel capital in the future, this quarrel will eventually evolve into a greater contradiction?

So when solving things, we still have to solve it, this solution is more or less to pay attention to, when I first started college, especially on a hot day, in fact, to be honest, there were a lot of contradictions.

But if these contradictions are not resolved, it is actually a very, very uncomfortable thing, you need to meet every day, you need to meet back and forth every day, if it is a short distance, it is fine, but if it is a long distance, it is exactly at this end of the corridor and that end.

Two people don't want to talk, there is no one in between, and two people still see each other, so they need to walk a long distance, and they don't know where to put their eyes.

I've really encountered this kind of embarrassing situation, but after the conflict is resolved, it really feels very, very smooth, so this kind of thing still has to be solved.

Of course, if I go back to the beginning, I still feel very uncomfortable.