Chapter 916: Shy Girl

I'm a shy girl, and that's probably no surprise, and I think it's not just me who admitting it, but everyone in my neighborhood does.

Who said that girls who go to art school can't be shy, who said that girls who work as resident singers in night shows can't be shy, and there is no inevitable connection between them.

This condition is neither sufficient nor necessary, nor is it necessary or insufficient, because girls who go to night games are not necessarily extroverted girls, girls who play at night are not necessarily shy, and girls who don't play at night are not necessarily extroverted, so if it is really necessary and insufficient according to what high school math says, I think this condition should be neither sufficient nor necessary.

The backward and backward calculations were unsuccessful.

Anyway, I remember when I was studying high school math, there were two things that blinded me, and it took me a long time to stop trying to get started, and the first thing was the problem of permutations, and I don't know why men really seem to be very talented for this permutation.

The learning is worse than me, and it is still a lot worse, and I feel that the level of understanding of this matter is much higher than mine, and they seem to be really, really fast when they learn this thing.

After listening to the teacher's lecture, after doing a few questions below, the mock test was better than me, of course, the mock test was a unit test, so it was normal to be better than me.

This kind of unit exam still depends on personal interests, at least I think that's what it looks like.

But I may not be so relaxed when I look at them so relaxed, or maybe they just look relaxed, but if most of the boys look like this, it seems a little abnormal, which may involve a problem of thinking.

Although it may not have much to do with IQ, I think it has a lot to do with the way of thinking.

Research shows that boys and girls have different ways of thinking, and I think this place is probably not from genes, but from the family's concept of education for boys and girls, an invisible education or a very small and invisible way of education that causes boys and girls to be separated more and more on this road.

Actually, I'm not a person who particularly believes in IQ, to be precise, most people don't seem to be suitable for this situation, I remember there seems to be a saying like this on a very funny website.

It's just that most people don't compete to the point of fighting genes, or the level of talent.

The meaning of this sentence is that if it is competition, in fact, it seems that hard work is enough, self-discipline is a little enough, why this sentence can get my favor, in fact, it is not necessarily so right, I think this sentence can get my favor One of the main reasons is that most people.

Most people can rely on this method to get the best words, in fact, this means that it gives us a lot of hope, gives us ordinary people a lot of hope, in the process of competition with others, if we can only rely on self-discipline to overpower others, we will feel that we still have a little hope.

Of course, I think this sentence still has a deep meaning, and this deep meaning is that there are still a small number of people who are really talented, and this talent may come from genes, or from IQ, and of course, it may come from their parents.

In my understanding, it is difficult, that is, since we can't reach this point, we don't have any need to compete with each other, and it is not a particularly good thing for you to communicate with each other, because it is easy to cause an inferiority complex.

So what you need to do now is to use your own hard work and self-discipline to beat those of you who are running the same line, and then you will be able to do everything to a very good point.

Of course, different people may have different understandings of this sentence, but what I understand is that I am still more positive about myself, people just want to live happily, in fact, I may not understand too much competitive pressure now.

But I think life is just a few decades, and if you really live a tiring life for the future or for the unknown hundreds of years, it really doesn't seem to have any good meaning.

What I mean by this for hundreds of years is to build a better platform for my own descendants, and many people seem to live for this thing.

Let my bloodline be inherited, I really feel that if there is no so-called netherworld, this kind of thing really doesn't make much sense, I don't see my descendants living well, I can't see it anymore, what I want to do as a handful of loess is to make my life as happy and meaningful as possible before turning into loess.

Of course, the current idea is only for the present, and it does not necessarily mean that there will be a change in this idea in the future, whether there will be some doubts about this idea in the future, or even a ridicule of the current self, which is an uncertain thing.

But now I feel like I'm going to say what I think, at least I'm a more sincere person.

Of course, this sentence is actually a bit excessive, just now I was talking about the problem of permutations and combinations in high school, and the permutations and combinations in high schools are talking about a problem of the difference in thinking between boys and girls.

I think this thing does exist, and I wouldn't dare to say it if it didn't, at least in my class, where some of the boys were much taller than me.

So in that unit mock test, my name dropped rapidly, which led to my mother's dissatisfaction with me, and then I went to the school to ask.

I thought something unusual had happened to me recently, maybe something else had happened to disturb my study, but this kind of thing is obviously a very ridiculous thing.

There is nothing that interferes with my studies now, because I really don't have any extra time to do the things they can do, such as surfing the Internet, playing on their phones, reading novels, chatting, and talking about relationships.

It is said that who doesn't want to do this kind of thing when I am in high school, but one of the big reasons why I can't do it is that there is no time, when there are 24 hours a day, except for eight hours or even about six hours of sleep, and then about an hour of eating time, and then more than an hour of rest.

That is to say, my time is about 14 hours now, 14 hours is basically either a parent or a teacher, and I am still in love, and I don't even have the time to cultivate feelings to fall in love, obviously I want to know what it feels like to fall in love, of course, this thing is really not a particularly good thing in high school.

I'm just talking about it.

At that time, it caught my mother's attention, and my father actually cared about me as well, but her relationship was generally not on the surface, and when they discussed something, they must have both expressed their opinions, but it was my mother who made the final decision or implemented it.

So my mother went to the teacher to ask, but fortunately, this teacher is relatively good, and what he said is not so extreme, and he has a more pertinent attitude when he speaks.

That is to say, the simulation of the unit, the rise and fall of the ranking is very normal, because of the difference in this knowledge point, some people are good at it, some people are not good at it, so some people may learn more slowly, some people may learn better, plus the simulation time of the exam is the same, so there will definitely be some better and some poorer.

But this thing doesn't mean that this one is not good, in fact, you need to rely on overall knowledge when you take the college entrance examination.

In fact, the teacher's explanation is quite good, but every parent's heart is very urgent, which is absolutely and absolutely understandable, especially from my point of view, I can also absolutely understand this matter.

It's just that I didn't understand it at the time, and my mother seemed to be a bit extreme, and my mother thought it was like this: although the college entrance examination is comprehensive, but this is also a part of the college entrance examination, if this place is not good, it will also affect the overall score.

Then he told me some truths bitterly, what is the pressure of thousands of people, what must be learned well, and people must develop in an all-round way.

In fact, I especially want to know one thing, if I let my mother be a matchmaker, will there be a relatively big achievement, at least not like the current situation, put all my mind on me, and in the end has not achieved a good result.

Of course, I'm not saying to mock my mother, I'm just saying that it's a bit overkill.

This little unit test made me jump, and I was so scared that I didn't dare to relax any more units.

I remember there was a little argument at the time, because the main thing was that they didn't have any innovation when they spoke, and they always said those few words, even if those few words were very correct, they must have been calloused again.

If I say that my mom said a few words, you will definitely resonate.

For example, if you say, "Child, how good your learning conditions are now, you don't have to worry about eating, drinking, or wearing."

Did you get something in common, did you feel that this sentence was so familiar, did you feel that sentence came out again in your memory?

Of course, this is not the end, I will tell you again: Oh, you know who didn't wear cotton pants when he was a child in school, you look at what university they are admitted to now, what unit they are the director of, and how much is the salary.

Does this sentence find common ground again, does it feel particularly familiar, and this person is likely to be your elder, about your older generation, they may be more miserable in the countryside when they go to school, if you add another sentence, it looks like this:

At that time, they were about ten kilometers away from the school when they went to school, and they had to wade through the water, and they didn't have cotton shoes to wear in winter, and they only ate pancakes and brought a little pickles with them.

You've heard of it, and if you're not studying hard, or if you're doing poorly, I'm absolutely sure most people have heard it.

Of course, these words are not over, in fact, there are still a lot of fun, but I actually want to analyze this ten or so kilometers, and I really think this distance is a bit exaggerated.

It's not that I don't think there can be people who are about ten kilometers away, it's that there are definitely students who are about ten kilometers away from school, but I certainly don't think that the ten kilometers they say is a correct distance.

As for why, I think it's easy to say this, because they are very easy to exaggerate when they talk about things, if you don't believe it, you can think about the old days, when you studied for an hour, you and your mother said Mom, I studied for an hour, can you play it.

Your mother will definitely say: What to play, not even half an hour to play, how embarrassing to play after learning so much time, learn another hour and then play.

But when you play for a while, it's less than half an hour, and then your mother comes up to you and says, "Look at you've been playing for an hour, don't stop, hurry up and study."

Do you feel very familiar again, do you feel that I said that your heart is on the top again?

Of course, this matter is to be seen dialectically, when the child is playing games and when he is studying, he concentrates on the different, maybe he studies for an hour, and the learning time in the cow school is only half an hour or even 20 minutes.

But he spent an hour playing the game with a certain concentration of 100 percent.

Of course, I actually want to talk about this problem of grasping time, parents always like to adjust this time to their liking, saying that it is fast, it is fast, and when it is slow, it is slow.

That's why I have some doubts about this journey, no, I think this journey is fake.

They always extend some of their comparative advantages indefinitely, and indefinitely reduce some of their comparative disadvantages.

If we can do this according to time, we can imagine it like this.

Let's say you have a classmate who is six kilometers away from school, and you are five kilometers away from school, and one day you say to your mother, "Mom, I'm so far away from school, can I ask for a bicycle?" ”

But your mother doesn't want to buy you a bike, she may feel that it is dangerous or she may think that you are prone to comparisons (here is just an analogy, not to say how expensive the bicycle was at that time, or how expensive the bicycle was at this time, if it doesn't feel very realistic, we can replace this bicycle with an electric car).

So your mother said to you: "Look at your classmates, people are more than ten kilometers away from the school, people don't say they're tired, they still run to school, you look at you are only two or three kilometers away from school, you say you're tired, you still want a bicycle, what kind of bicycle do you want!" ”

Did you immediately find the feeling, did you immediately feel that the ten kilometers or so that your parents said was wrong, or it was simply exaggerated.

Originally, the gap was only one kilometer, but because of the gap, the gap could be stretched infinitely, and then it became seven or eight kilometers.

At this time, you will think of the sky, it turns out that my classmates are so powerful.

This is a sentence that often parents say, I just through the above example to some of the words that parents said is indeed questioned, in their data for education they will definitely make this data look more convincing, but it is too easy to exaggerate the data is not convincing, that is, too extreme will lead to the other extreme.

Maybe this is the legendary thing that must be reversed.

Of course, what my parents said was not enough, and I could go on to give examples, such as the following examples:

How good are you now.,How many books to use for learning?,Do you know that we used to use the book on both sides?,And I'm not willing to throw it away when it's used up.,After putting it away, sell it in tatters.。

At that time, our desks and benches were missing arms and legs, and the blackboard was brushed with a layer of ash on the bottom of the pot, and the chalk at the bottom of the pot would make it look particularly harsh (I can't stand it anymore, so I won't say much about this topic), and there was no heating in the classroom, and my hands were red in the cold in winter.

I believe that if you have never heard a word, you are either a very good student, that is to say, parents will not care about your teacher and will not care about you, you are very conscious, so teachers and parents will not say such similar things to you.

Or maybe you're a very, very poor student, and of course he's not saying that there's anything else wrong with your character, I'm just talking about the simple aspect of learning.

At this time, the teacher has already given up on you, and the parents have already given up on you, so naturally they will not say these words.

But I really believe that most of the students have heard these words, not only have they heard these words, but they have already sounded calloused.

But when I didn't do that permutation and combination well, it was that unit test paper, and then my mom started to educate me, and these words naturally popped up.

The point of this contradiction is also because of this place, that is, I directly refuted these words, and then my mother became very angry, thinking that I was contradicting her, and I deliberately did not study well.

Then he punished me to make this paper, to make this permutation and combination of papers, and found a lot of similar papers for me to do, and that was the darkest time for me, because I was not particularly familiar with it, and I had to work hard to do these papers, and I had to complete the homework that should have been done, so this thing was like a knife on my neck to listen to the sound of chalk scratching on the blackboard.

First of all, remember that this chalk has a lot of impurities, and ask who can stand such a situation.

But that's a permutation and combination, and I did learn it pretty well later, because it seems that there are only about one or two questions about this aspect in the college entrance examination, and it doesn't seem to be particularly difficult.

It seems that my college entrance examination experience is like this, I haven't taken the college entrance examination twice, anyway, based on my college entrance examination experience that time, I feel that the permutations and combinations of questions are not so difficult in the college entrance examination papers, or is our paper relatively simple? Of course, there is no way to assess this matter, and of course I don't particularly care about this matter.

Of course, it's not just this question, it's not just the permutations and combinations that I may not have done very well, but there is another aspect, which is the aspect that I mentioned at the beginning, the sufficient and unnecessary conditions and the unnecessary and sufficient conditions.

In fact, I feel that the most complicated part of this aspect is that it involves a lot of knowledge points and knowledge aspects, in fact, it is not necessary to understand this sufficient, or to understand this necessity is not sufficient, but it is also a very simple thing.

Because you only need to remember a sequence before and after, I believe that as long as you are a fool, you can basically remember this matter very clearly, but the difficulty of this question lies in the many aspects involved.

So when I did this question, the success rate was really not particularly high, although I didn't know if my question was right or wrong during the college entrance examination, because I didn't care much about my college entrance examination results at that time, and then I didn't want to answer correctly, so I forgot about this question.

But in normal times, the success rate of this question is about 30% at the beginning, and when it comes to the later years, it begins to slowly memorize by rote, and even relies on some memorization questions to increase it to about 70%.

But this question has always been a question that has been haunting my mind, and it is also a question that has always made me uncomfortable.

In fact, after saying so many things, what I want to talk about most is a question of way of thinking, in fact, sometimes I especially want to remember when I was in school.

I still remember our physics teacher, our physics teacher might say a word to us every time he talked about a new unit, and the possible reason was whether this unit had the same place as the previous one, or whether this unit was a new place to start.

Once it is a new place, we will say something like this: "Don't worry if you haven't studied well before, if you listen to my lectures from now on, then you will definitely do well in the next unit simulation."

There must be a certain reason for saying this sentence for physics, because some courses in physics really have nothing to do with the previous ones, and it is indeed a new beginning stage in the process of calculation and in the process of considering this theorem.

I clearly remember that one of the most difficult places I felt was the magnetic part, many good students did not learn very well, including me, of course, but we all learned better in the end, because the teacher explained more clearly and explained the question type every day, and I understood it when I talked about it.

But I remember one thing very clearly, and this one thing is a very special thing, otherwise I wouldn't have talked about it.

This thing is a boy.,Originally, he didn't learn that aspect of electricity very badly.,It's not an exaggeration to describe it as a mess.。

But this boy doesn't know what went crazy, or what medicine he took, anyway, from this time on, she began to learn magnetic fields seriously, and according to this boy's performance, this boy may really be the legendary very smart kind of person.

It's just that I play games on the Internet and sleep in normal times, etc., etc., and don't study seriously.

He didn't seem to have any questions, he just finished the homework assigned by the teacher, and then listened carefully in physics class, as if that's all he wanted.

But this guy was the first in the class in the physics teacher's unit simulation, so why did I remember one thing so clearly, an unimportant unit exam.

It was because we were looking at the scores when the physics teacher asked the physics class representative to send the paper down in advance, and then the physics teacher came in and said a bunch of things like this: "I remember that there seems to be a multiple-choice question that has been corrected wrongly, and you add your own wrong score, and if you accidentally correct it, you subtract it, I think there seems to be a person in your class who scored 96 points, and the physics multiple-choice question is still correct, who is it?" I forgot. ”

At that time, the unit mock questions were 100 points, and a multiple-choice question was 4 points, which means that if this four points are added, it will be a full score, and I always thought it was the top few students.

As a result, the boy, who was very inconspicuous and basically ranked at the back of the class, stood up, excitedly held up the roll and said to the teacher, "Hahaha, I am me, I am perfect score, I am full score."

Then all the students looked at this guy, so we remembered, and I was very impressed by this incident, and I always thought that this boy was probably plagiarism.

The physics teacher nodded: "Yes, yes, I remember it was you." ”

Nothing unusual happened next, but the boy sat down, and the physics teacher continued to talk about the topic.

After thinking about it for a while, in fact, I may think that the boy did not cheat like this, because the boy is very disdainful of doing such things, according to my observation, the boy is generally able to show his very real results, the main reason is that he can cheat, but he does not cheat a lot of the time.

For example, when I took the English test, I remember that it was a relatively important midterm exam, but this guy thought that he would go to sleep after writing it.

If you want to cheat, there are many opportunities, because you can check the answer with the person next to you and contact the person next to you a little.

Sleeping at this time actually means that he may not really have much interest in cheating, and he may also feel that this score is not so important to him.

Of course, I'm not sure if he cheated that time, because I didn't observe him in that exam, and I didn't have a lot of contact with him when I was detained.

This boy is very unruly, and this boy is not bad, but he just doesn't want to do some mainstream things, anyway, he wants to do what the teacher doesn't let him do.

I even wrote a poem in a relatively important Chinese exam, and the poem was read by the teacher, of course, not because the writing was better, but because he was mocking the boy.

The boy didn't seem to care very much, didn't have a bad opinion of the teacher's behavior, and accepted the matter with a smile.

I've always wanted to be friends with him, after all, this person is actually quite suitable to be friends, but he seems to have a social circle that is only within the range of boys, and only those boys who are relatively low in their studies.

I can't take the initiative to run over and make friends with him, can I?

As for the question of poetry, I believe that most people who have gone to high school have the impression that we can clearly remember those eight words on the requirements of that composition, except for poetry.

I think these eight words seem to be used in reverse, because there is a contradiction in this sentence, and if it is not limited to the genre except poetry, this sentence may be more comfortable.

However, according to some of my college classmates' understanding, it seems that in some places, the scrolls are written in any genre other than poetry, but why does my volume seem to be written in a genre other than poetry?

Of course, there is no need to discuss this problem, and the problem that is now being talked about is the problem of this boy, and one of the problems derived from this boy is that what the physics teacher said is quite right.

When the teacher read the poem, I also appreciated it a little, and I found that it was quite smooth to read, and the writing was okay, at least there was a different style, and the writing might not be so good, but it did show a sense of unruliness.

But one thing I suspect is that this guy probably wants to write his essay with fewer words.

He barely scored 40 points when writing essays, because I understand this very well, the teacher often criticizes the boy, criticizes the boy's unserious attitude towards the exam, because the teacher said, try to write an argumentative essay when writing the essay, this style is easier for us to grasp, of course, it is also easier to grasp when the teacher rewrites, so it is also a more clear thing when giving you a score.

But as I said before, this boy is working against the teacher, and he may not really like articles on other topics, he just thinks that the teacher says that this article is good, then I think this article is not good.

That is, what we often call rebelliousness is still relatively strong, and this situation is very common.

Actually, I still wanted to know for a long time what kind of essay she wrote, a novel or an essay? Or is it poetry again?

Another thing is that he is the person who enters the office the most in our class, in fact, this guy doesn't like to make any mistakes, I don't like to put any big mistakes, such as fighting, early love, etc., he has never made such a mistake, one of the reasons for entering the office for a long time is to sleep in class, and then read novels, read some magazines.

It's not uncommon for such things to come into the office, and I didn't mean to observe him, but all the homeroom teachers are the same, and they look from behind the window every time, so the chance of him being caught is very high.

I was taken away by the head teacher when I was in class.,I don't think I'll be able to see this kind of situation.。

However, there are indeed many good students who suspect that he is cheating, and the means of cheating may not be known, it may be that there is such a similar paper and know the answer, or it may be that he is right with someone else with the correct answer.

Anyway, there are many people who doubt it, and of course this suspicion is also reasonable to a certain extent, after all, I was also skeptical at the beginning.

But one thing that really needs to be said is that I found that I am really not particularly smart, and once I encounter such a similar problem, I have to pay a higher price than others to be able to understand this problem more clearly.

That's why I think IQ may be a bit insufficient, but to be specific, I still deal with the sentence, that is, most of the effort is not to the point where you need to fight for talent.

It seems that this sentence is a little different from what I said at the beginning, but I think the core of this sentence has not changed, and I think my understanding should be about the same.

When the two of us arrived at the second photo studio, this photo studio looked a little more advanced, of course, the price also looked so expensive, no, it should be a lot more expensive.

But I think we can fully accept this, because as long as the shooting is better, the price is really not too much of a problem, anyway, we are facing a situation now, ask for a little better, after all, we take photos to be able to retain this youth.

Just now I think the price is a bit expensive, in fact, a lot of reasons are subjective factors, but it is indeed a bit expensive, after sending it out, you may see the effect of a little comfortable, I now look at the price just to see the amount of money.

That is to say, there is no limit to how many old heads I will spend, and it is likely that I feel more uncomfortable with just one old head.

Another thing is a different feeling between online payment and offline payment, in normal times you may give two hundred feelings feel very expensive, this time you give a cash, but if you swipe the card or pay with a mobile phone, you suddenly feel that 500 yuan seems to be just a number.

At least it doesn't feel so distressing.

Another thing is that there is another place where we feel very different, I think it is the place to grab red envelopes.

If you come across a dime on the road, it's when there's a dime steel jump on the ground, you probably won't even look at it, let alone bend down to pick it up.

But if there is a group at this time, when the red envelopes start to be distributed, you will definitely go crazy to grab it, even if you grab a few cents, you will feel very happy.

At this time, you don't think about what will happen if you pick up a dime on the street, and you don't think about how much traffic you spend just grabbing that dime.

None of these things seem to be on the radar anymore, but this matter does appear in our sight.

What exactly is the reason for this thing, why there is such a big difference, if we are allowed to say it, we may not be able to explain this matter completely, and we may not be able to explain this matter very clearly.

I do have an idea, or there is a reason for this thing, I think a big reason for this thing is entertainment, the entertainment effect is relatively high, or the entertainment itself is higher than the value of the red envelope itself.

That is what we call strong interactivity, and if this thing is more interactive, then it may be able to produce something beyond its own value.

For example, League of Legends, if you play in an Internet café, if you carefully calculate the Internet fee, you will sometimes feel that it is really not worth it.

You may be a little more cost-effective when you play at home, but when you play with friends in an Internet café, your friends sit next to you, and the interactive effect is very strong at this time, and you can have an experience or a better feeling is stronger.

Playing League of Legends in an Internet café can be compared to grabbing a red envelope, and then playing League of Legends at home can be compared to picking up a dime on the road.

Although playing League of Legends at home is really cost-effective, it really doesn't mean that you can play at home very comfortably or very happily, of course, it does not mean that everyone is not particularly comfortable, but some people are particularly happy.

In other words, if you have a dime on the road, someone will really pick it up.

It's just that there is no absolute right or wrong between the two themselves, and the real words about this issue are still a problem in their own circle, sometimes they feel that it is worth it, and sometimes they feel that it is not worth it.

Just like luxury goods or some cosmetics, if these things can bring psychological comfort, it is not necessarily worth their spending, because some things do not have some of the effects they say, and even they make up some things or something, negative ions and oxygen-rich molecules, I dare to guarantee that most of the ingredients I contain are not there, originally I wanted to say that there is no guarantee at all, but this is a bit absolute.

But I can guarantee that most of them, the definition of this majority is more than 80%, most of the products are bragging, and I will eat him alive if he has this thing in it.

But it may be able to make the heart feel this thing, and if there is this thing, we will feel that it has a certain effect, and if it has a certain effect, we may be happy, we are likely to be very confident, and we may be able to produce a good effect.

But this kind of thing should not be too much, in fact, there is no need to laugh at people who are different from us, even if some of them are indeed wrong.