Chapter 897: Strong Illness
The rest of the time when he came over really wasn't very much, but there were a few times when I was more annoying, and maybe I thought that he would be in this situation a lot.
Of course, in his case, the key clanged on his body, compared to Wu Yili, the sound was still a lot heavier, but through Wu Yili's mobile phone, I remembered that strange guy.
Now it's really rare for students to be able to bring so many keys, but if you don't have these keys, the first thing to say is that students won't bring them with them when there are so many keys in a class.
Generally, it will be placed in a schoolbag or indoor bag, maybe there is still a certain generation gap.
Or did people in the past feel more secure to carry such a large set of keys on their bodies?
If you lose it, you can feel it immediately, because when it rings, it suddenly stops ringing, and it seems that you know that the key is lost.
But does it seem like there's much point?
Going back to this mobile phone, I feel that boys and girls will also have some conflicts, especially in high school.
That's why there are a lot of breakups when you're in a relationship in high school, and I think the reason why they broke up wasn't just because of this graduation season.
In many ways, it is this kind of ideological conflict, it seems that this ideological conflict is not particularly serious during the love period, but as the love period passes, this conflict will become bigger and bigger.
When there is a sense of ambivalence, it will grow bigger and bigger.
Anyway, when I was a child, I knew that basically boys and boys played together, girls and girls played together, and if boys and girls played together or girls came to play with boys, they would be laughed at by the original small group.
In fact, it's not a ridicule, because who can think so much at that time, I think the most is to find a fun for yourself, after all, when the entertainment conditions are not particularly much, gossip at this time is used as a more entertainment direction.
So in order not to be ridiculed by their own small group, then this kind of thing will happen to the extreme, in fact, when boys and girls play together, their camps will also be dispersed very clearly.
For example, when kicking a shuttlecock and jumping a rubber band, or when throwing sandbags, boys and girls are the same enemy and divided into two different camps.
One is the boys' camp and the other is the girls' camp, and after dividing into these two camps, continue to contribute to your own small group to gain a better position in this small group.
Of course, this thing seems to be a bit utilitarian, in fact, if you simply give an example, you can fully understand this sentence, and you can see that this sentence is not as utilitarian as it is in the mouth or literally.
For example, if we take the sandbag drop, the rule on our side is that if we can catch a sandbag, and make sure that sandbag does not fall, one of the people on our side who has been eliminated can come up.
Suppose there is a boy who thinks it is very good to pick up the sandbags on our side, they have a very high status in our small group, and if there is any activity or competition in this small group, then this person will be the first object of our thoughts.
This shows that he has a very, very high status in our small group.
The reason for him to achieve such a very high status is his own strength, and the words of the rest of us will also be desperately exercising our strength in this kind of game because of this matter.
This can be understood why there is a certain team status.
In other words, boys and boys play for a long time, and girls and girls play for a long time, and finally it is time for junior high school or high school to merge with each other.
That is, when the legendary Wang Ba looks at the mung bean one day, another thing will be shown at this time, which is the legendary early love.
The contradiction of general early love lies in the fact that this kind of character has been cultivated in one's own small team since childhood, and one character has been developed with another small team, in which the thoughts are concretely shown and the actions are greatly collided.
This kind of collision will definitely not be shown at the beginning of love, after all, everything is right during the love period, and everything is right, but when this love period is over.
Then this matter is obvious, the contradiction will still be shown in the end, and as a child, I am certainly not particularly familiar with dealing with this contradiction.
Now there is a feeling that no one will let anyone, so it will feel very easy to break up.
If you are in high school and junior high school, you will understand if you look closely, those who have early love generally do not take a particularly long time, of course, this sentence is not an absolute statement.
I've seen a lot of things like being able to fall in love and talk about college, but I don't think there's a survivorship bias.
Survivorship bias is that I have just learned a word that I haven't been exposed to before, but I feel a little advanced when I have just learned it in high school.
That's the feeling of the legend, and I'm a little cute.
But I know that this kind of thing can't be too showy, because if other people also know about it, and have known about it for a long time, but I'm still showing it here, I also know that it's really a shameful and shameful thing.
So it's good to know this in your heart, look at the reaction of others and then think about whether to show off or not.
But I think it's a very correct term for this thing, and some of it is easy to create a survivorship bias, and I learned this term when it was actually in the financial field.
It's a bit advanced, in fact, I understand this word is to read some books about business, okay, I'm talking a little bit more advanced, and I kind of make myself feel cute.
Actually, I just read an article about business, and this article mentions this word, so I know a little bit about this word.
Survivorship bias is also called survivorship bias, or survivor bias, and in the sense I searched for, it's a common logical fallacy.
That is to say, the fallacy here is a typical error, not a deviation, the explanation of the word is not quite correct, that is to say, the word can not be seen in the positive meaning, if you want to understand the word, you still have to look at the real meaning.
In fact, in layman's terms, the meaning of this word is that we only see the final results, and we see the results that have passed through the difficult screening.
But I didn't see this difficult process, and through these survivors to make some people feel that this thing or these difficulties are not particularly difficult.
I remember that recently, the state encouraged entrepreneurship, and then some entrepreneurs also set countless examples for themselves.
It is to be able to make themselves go further and further on the road ahead, but unfortunately these examples they have formulated are survivor biased.
In strong terms, there is no understanding of the essence of these problems and these fundamental data.
That is to say, one out of 10,000 entrepreneurs may be successful, but you see one who succeeds, but you don't see the 9,999 who fail, and there are 9,999 people who fail and can't get up.
In fact, people are often selfish in some things, and always think that a small probability will befall them if something good happens, and a small probability will happen to them if something bad happens, but they still don't think that it will happen to themselves.
To give a very simple example, Mount Everest, I think the mortality rate is about 1/3, and then a lot of people don't think that they are 1/3, and there are still a lot of expeditions going there.
But it's still this data, which means that there will still be people dying, in fact, I think this probability is not very low, and it can even be regarded as a high probability of an accident.
In the end, the corpse is not easy to clean up, after all, there is already a high mortality rate in that place, and if you stop with it, it will definitely be a little higher.
There are also some common examples, for example, a road is very dangerous, because of special reasons on this road, whether it is terrain or curves, etc., resulting in a lot of accidents on this road.
However, it seems to be 12% compared to the overall probability, but there are still many people who do not believe in evil, and they still drive very fast in this place.
Needless to say, there may be a lot of people who have passed, but there are indeed some people who are particularly careless in driving, and they will be left forever.
In the past, I thought this kind of thing was something to brag about, but now I don't think it's something to brag about.
If you drive so fast, there are not many people who envy you, at most they are just gangsters like you, so this is a certain reason.
Of course, let's go back to the problem of survivorship bias, and the first two examples are not particularly appropriate, but just to illustrate the problem.
In fact, the problem of survivor bias is often exploited in the sales industry, which is one of the more exploited industries.
Because I read a lot of articles when I knew this word, it is because this word is used to read a lot of articles, so I still work hard.
As for why it is used in the sales industry, it is to motivate the sales ranks, that is to say, the hearts of salespeople make them more attentive to the work in hand.
Again, I don't have much prejudice against this profession, but I have some prejudice against the management of certain companies, especially using this survivor bias to motivate certain employees.
I think this practice is tantamount to drinking water to quench your thirst, and the final result or the final disadvantage will still come to your own head.
In other words, I am particularly opposed to this kind of company's approach to this kind of sales staff, which always makes people feel very two-and-two.
That is to say, take some legendary stories, and then make these legendary stories as simple as possible, or even apply them directly.
Let them also feel that they have the foundation and factors to achieve the legend, and finally stimulate their ability to act, so that they have a high hope for something.
It's just a pity that in the end, the biggest hope has also become the biggest disappointment, not only the disappointment of this company, but also the time when many people are still in this industry.
That's why I'm a little prejudiced against this company, and the reason for the prejudice is to destroy some of the atmosphere of this ranks, so that many people can't really understand the industry, and the more people can't really understand, then the grade of this industry will be lower and lower.
In the end, a vicious circle is formed, and when some people mention these things, the first thought is disgust, then the obvious thing is that they can't go far.
In layman's terms, this method is to draw a flatbread, and there are many ways to draw a flatbread.
That's why they're using the problem of survivorship bias to create some convincing stories.
But because the employees are just starting to enter the ranks, they don't think too much about it.
In fact, I think the luck component is very large, that is to say, although the person who succeeds in the end has subjective factors, the objective promotion also has an incomparable role.
is still the same sentence, often their luck is better, their luck is better, and they do have that strength, and finally they stand at the top and form a legend.
In other words, there are many, many people with that strength, at least much more than we think.
In fact, if you have this strength, it actually means that you have the qualifications to be cannon fodder, not that you can really rush to the front, but only to have a qualification to be cannon fodder.
It seems a little sad to say this kind of thing, or it will give people a sense of negative energy that they can't work hard, but I think that if these two sentences make a really motivated person stop it.
In other words, he simply doesn't have the momentum, and all the goals he wants to strive for are fake.
People who really have a persistent yearning for this matter in their hearts will basically not be intimidated by this kind of words, and if they are intimidated by this sentence, in fact, I think it is just to screen some people, and screen some people who are not suitable to continue in this direction.
It's not necessarily a bad thing, is it? At least that's how I feel.
Therefore, for the matter of falling in love in high school or junior high school, you must not face this matter with the wrong conclusion of a survivor bias.
In other words, of course, it is possible to talk about love, it is originally some human desires, and it is not necessarily a good thing to force desires.
But what I want to say is that when you devote yourself to this thing, don't follow the trend, it is easy to cause disappointment, and in the end, it is not only the thing itself that causes disappointment, but also a disappointment in a higher behavior.
In fact, it is not only possible to have a feeling of disappointment with this boy or this girl, but also a feeling of disappointment with the behavior of falling in love.
I think if you do it to such a point, it seems that the gains outweigh the losses, and it will definitely not work, and this is the disadvantage of following the trend.
Maybe some relatives and friends who are a few years older and they fell in love and got married because they were in high school, they feel very envious of their behavior, but after feeling very envious, they want to follow the trend to do it.
There is no understanding of the actual situation, nor is there any understanding of the reasons why the pair of relatives and friends were able to produce this situation, and they really do not take into account the difficulties experienced among them.
In fact, there are many complicated things that I haven't seen, or a lot of bad things I haven't seen, and I only see their happy places.
Then there was a strong sense of envy, and it was obvious that the final result would definitely be disappointing.
It is completely and completely understandable that people have a certain yearning for beautiful things, but there are often two sides to this yearning for beautiful things.
In fact, the final thing I want to say is that boys and girls have a certain contradiction at this age, and the problem of mobile phones just mentioned is a contradictory embodiment.
If I and Wu Yili have an in-depth discussion on the issue of mobile phone accessories, then there will definitely be a disagreement, although it will not be a quarrel, but our concepts are different, and our understanding of this matter is also different, so we will definitely think that the other party does not understand themselves.
In addition, boys and girls will definitely have conflicts in the process of falling in love, especially when they have just left their own small group, and they are not particularly familiar with the unit where the other small group is located, and this unit is a certain unit, that is, a certain person.
Just because of the hormones, there is some affection, and in the end, some of these behaviors are not the kind of dirty behaviors that you might think.
That is to say, after the act of falling in love, the contradictions begin to accumulate for a short time.
In fact, I think this aspect can be understood as the hiding of the two of them in their own not very good places, and gradually lose their patience to hide and expose their original nature.
This nature is not necessarily bad or good, but often this nature is not accepted by the other person.
The simplest example is for example, if a boy doesn't brush his teeth in the morning, or if a boy squeezes toothpaste from below instead of from above.
This kind of little thing is some contradictions, I saw a news yesterday that a married couple, they have a certain disagreement because of the different ways of squeezing toothpaste, and finally led to the divorce of two people.
At that time, it was very to hear such news, and I even wondered if the two of them had other things, but they just said this reason to the public when they divorced.
Actually, I don't particularly believe in it now, but I have a certain understanding of this kind of thing, and you say that this thing is likely to be able to happen.
Especially for a boy with a very strong obsessive-compulsive disorder, or for a girl with a very strong obsessive-compulsive disorder.
I have a very strong OCD next to me, and this person is either someone else or a lifter.
When squeezing the toothpaste, it must be squeezed from the bottom, and it must be squeezed again after squeezing, and then screwed on the lid and then forcibly squeezed again, that is, all the toothpaste inside is piled up on top.
Of course, his obsessive-compulsive disorder for this thing is not so serious, compared to other things, so when we usually tease her, we generally don't use this thing to tease him, because it doesn't get to the point where he has to stop it, he gives up a lot of things to plan this thing into what he wants.
I wasn't so impulsive about squeezing toothpaste.
But we can still use his obsessive-compulsive disorder to do something more beneficial to us, which is actually tacitly shared by Xiaofeng and me.
As for how to implement it or Xiao Feng to think of an idea, I always thought that Xiao Feng was a rough person, but I didn't expect him to be in place for such a thing, that is, the thinking is still relatively rich, and the methods used are still relatively sharp.
One of the simplest examples is housekeeping.
Although we are renting out a house, we still need someone to tidy up the housework during normal times.
Once neither of us is willing to sort it out, then the matter is basically going to fall on the head of the lifter, as for how to implement it.
A very simple and simple way is to make this home a little more messy, to this position where Qi Yang can see it at a glance, and I feel unbearable.
In fact, this method is like catching birds in a textbook, first sprinkle rice and then follow the road to a basket, that is, a frame supported by a wooden stick, and wait until the bird enters the range of this box.
And then we pulled the rope that supported the stick in the basket, and the bird got into the basket at once, and then we caught the bird.
It's the same with the Lifter in this kind of thing, and the Lifter doesn't necessarily get into the basket, because he finds it to be a trap.
But what Xiaofeng and I did was to introduce it into that trap, and the specific way we did it was to make a mess of some places, like we wanted him to clean up some things under the couch.
At this time, we made a mess of things on the sofa, and by the way, we made some garbage on the ground, such as melon peels, such as potato chips.
At this time, he saw that the sofa was a little unbearable, so as an obsessive-compulsive disorder, he had to clean up the sofa, and after cleaning up the sofa, he found that there was some garbage on the ground, so he cleaned up the garbage.
When we put this garbage, we will put it in some position where he can see it, but this broom may not be able to reach it.
In other words, if he can't stand in a position that he can't reach, then he will crouch down and lie down, so he will see that it is very dirty under the sofa.
Then he tidied up under the couch, and finally achieved one of our goals.
Some people may say that you clean up yourself, isn't it over? Why bother making such a big game, I feel that the time of this layout is much longer than the time of cleaning.
Of course, that's not true! As the saying goes, it is often easier to destroy than to create.
Of course, it is not always necessary to say that it is easier, that is to say, it does not take much time for us to get dirty sofas and get some garbage on the floor.
But to tidy up the sofa, we often need to move the sofa away, and then sweep the inside, and if we can't see it, we have to mop it.
These take a very long time, although Xiaofeng is not afraid of trouble most of the time, but to be honest, sometimes the two of us are more afraid of trouble if we are tired.
Then this glorious and arduous task will be handed over to Qi Yang, if he talks about this matter directly, then he really won't necessarily do it.
But if we are like this, then he can honestly do this very well, although it does seem a little unauthentic, but we are only taking advantage of one of his flaws.
Besides, Qi Yang has lied to me countless times, so what if I let him clean up a little housework?
Of course, this is just an example, and we'll ask him to do some more complicated work, such as cleaning the toilet.
This kind of thing can be done by the two of us, to be precise, Xiaofeng can also do it, but when neither of us is willing to do it, someone always needs to solve this matter well.
But one of the things I'm curious about is that Qi Yang has a serious obsessive-compulsive disorder for the placement of some items, but he doesn't have much obsessive-compulsive disorder for himself when it comes to tidying up the house.
This means that he often doesn't even need to wear gloves when cleaning up the house, for example, when he cleans the toilet, although his hands often don't touch the toilet directly.
But to be honest, whether it is us or some other people, when we are tidying up these things that feel dirty, we will bring some equipment that can be protected.
At the very least, you have to bring a rubber glove, but this guy doesn't need it, he just goes on with his bare hands!
Then the toilet brush is very clean, if you say where this small brush can't reach, even use your hands directly!
I was sick for a while, and if you could bring something to eat at this time, he would just take it with his hand and stuff it into his mouth.
It's amazing that this guy can do this, and although it does have a good side to us, I still don't understand the reason for his divergent behavior.
In fact, I think that people with obsessive-compulsive disorder generally have a little bit of cleanliness, and this kind of cleanliness should be shown on this kind of housework, that is, they will make their own protective measures complete.
Another thing I don't understand about this guy is that this guy can gnaw on his toes, and every time he asks him to chew on it, he doesn't feel dirty.
In fact, most of our boys can understand that most of us boys use a basin for footbaths and washbasins, and even say that a towel for wiping your face and a towel for wiping your feet is understandable, although I won't do this as a boy, but I will still understand.
But I don't understand this guy licking his big toe with his tongue, and I think this kind of behavior is rare for us boys.
According to Qiyang's words, it is all his own flesh, and it is not necessary to divide a high and low.
There is actually a certain amount of truth in hearing his words, in fact, his feet are not dirty, and he usually does this behavior after washing his feet.
After washing the feet, it is actually relatively clean, in fact, if you think about it carefully, the feet are indeed better protected, and there is less contact with the outside world.
In terms of cleanliness and after washing the feet, it is true that you can do it to the point where you can lick it with your tongue, but to be honest, I believe that most people can't do it.
Most of them should have included me, and I couldn't do it, and we didn't let him lick it a few times, to be exact, because we felt very, very nauseous.
Originally, at the beginning, we had some low-level fun, just to laugh at him, but people didn't care about it at all, but disgusted ourselves.
Needless to say, this kind of thing obviously doesn't cost more than it gains, so we don't have to laugh at him at this time, and then we don't know that he did such a thing in front of us.
Of course, I'm just saying that we use this obsessive-compulsive disorder of Qiyang to do something, so I said that the couple divorced because of the toothpaste thing, but it was not for nothing.
Of course, I'm just saying that this kind of thing is possible, in fact, I think that the couple should have been in conflict for a long time, but it broke out through such a small thing.
That is to say, one of the things that is often mentioned in our history books,* I think these three words appear many, many times in history books.
caused the whole conflict, and then ignited the whole * barrel, and finally triggered the time of divorce.
Of course, if you want to say that the divorce was because of squeezing toothpaste, there is really nothing too big wrong, and it seems that it is indeed because of such a thing.
It's just that the essential reason for this matter needs to be explored in detail.
Actually, I still want to talk about this aspect of Xiaofeng, in fact, Xiaofeng is still quite bad in some aspects, it seems that he is quite honest and honest as a soldier, but it is still quite bad.
At this point, I have to say that Xiao Feng, the idea of this kind of thing is all from Xiao Feng, Xiao Feng's understanding of Qi Yang should be a little deeper than mine.
This idea was all told to me by Xiaofeng, and I didn't think that such an idea would succeed at first, but I didn't think Qiyang was so stupid, even if he had an obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Although I also know that he has an obsessive-compulsive disorder, and the obsessive-compulsive disorder of the group is very serious, it is a little better for the individual.
To give the simplest example, in our classroom, if the trash can behind us is full of garbage, it is good not to be seen by Qi Yang, once Qi Yang sees this thing, he will definitely organize these garbage things into the trash can.
If the trash can is full at this time, and there is no way to throw anything into this trash can, then what he will choose to do must be to take out the garbage, and call someone to take out the garbage.
Of course, the premise is that he sees that the trash can is full.
Another thing is this table, each of us has a table, if one day we find that our table is messy, it is when the left and left sides are not aligned, and the right and right sides are not aligned.
Then he will definitely choose to put this table in order, in fact, he will also be kind to persuade people when they are learning, at this time I am worried about one thing, what if the length of the table of different classmates is different, will he die directly because of obsessive-compulsive disorder.
But one of the good things is that the tables in our class are generally long, which means that if he aligns the left, the right side will also be aligned.
As soon as I remembered what I had imagined, I remembered an article.
The article was all about OCD, such as a neat row of students standing in a row, and suddenly a person stepped forward.
Another example is a whole pizza, which is cut into those fan shapes, and each pizza angle is quite good, and the size is the same, but there is one pizza that is cut crookedly, which makes people look very uncomfortable.
I don't think I look particularly comfortable even if I don't have OCD, and I don't look particularly comfortable, for example.
Not to mention those who are experienced OCD, so I don't need to say more about this.
There are many other pictures that are for OCD, anyway, a lot of neat things have an abrupt unit, which makes those OCD people feel very uncomfortable.
The following comment is actually the most interesting, the first comment looks like this: Thank you for curing me of OCD for many years, and now I want to repay you well, can you tell me the address of your home so that I can thank you in person.
When I saw this sentence, I understood, in fact, this sentence means that I want to hack you to your face!
But this kind of thing doesn't seem so funny to say, but it's still funny if you imagine it yourself.
This kind of comment under the article can be commented on the original comment, that is, it can be commented on a certain person, not the author of the article.
Here's what the comment looks like:
Author: Thank you, thank me, what are you doing with that knife? Put the knife down! Yes......
This kind of is still more funny, in fact, it is more fun for netizens to spoof.
But I believe that those obsessive-compulsive patients have the heart to kill him after seeing such pictures, and I don't know what kind of enmity he has with obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Of course, it's not just about cleaning the toilet, in fact, there are many, many things that we are doing for Qiyang's disease to make him do some work.
For example, wiping floor tiles, this kind of thing is bitter and tiring, and if you don't wipe it, you really feel more uncomfortable, and we are taking advantage of this collective obsessive-compulsive disorder of rising.
That is, one of the most serious obsessive-compulsive disorders.
When I think about it, I actually seem to feel a little sorry for the meaning of Yang.
Of course, in fact, the most important thing I want to say is that this man and woman have different concepts, I can't stand Qiyang licking his own toes, not to mention other girls who are in love with him, it is estimated that Yun Ci can't stand it when he knows about it.
Qiyang should have been hidden for a long time, and it is estimated that the two of them did not live together, and maybe there will be a relatively big contradiction after living for a long time.
Conflicts don't just happen after the love period, I think the most likely time to have conflicts is after cohabitation or marriage.
That kind of small contradiction in life is more likely to stimulate some deeper contradictions, and the emergence of such contradictions often leads to the most severe test for two people.
In fact, from this aspect, I think that the essence of marriage or cohabitation between men and women is actually similar, and the essence of these two is to constantly adapt to each other and reduce their influence on each other.
I think cohabitation is actually similar to marriage, marriage is actually a man-made thing, and the main reason is not to protect one party.
I even have reason to believe that marriage will be abolished in the future, especially in a period of time when society is developing so fast, and marriage actually protects the disadvantaged and creates a legal relationship.
When there is no law, that is to say, when human beings are still animals, they also need to reproduce, but at that time they are still together without the constraints of the law.
In the end, we can't judge what the result is, but just say that the essence of this thing is still two people together.
It's just that there are some people who take advantage of the loopholes of these things to get some of their own profits.
The purpose of the law is to prevent these opportunistic people, and then produce a relationship that is prescribed by law, and to make a certain understanding and restraint in this relationship.
In the end, there is such a thing, which people call a tradition, which is essentially artificial, that is, it has little to do with human reproduction in essence.
Without this thing, human beings will still reproduce, but because of the prominence of social contradictions, this kind of thing has to appear to promote the development of society and allow society to enter a higher level.
I believe that in the future, this may become an obstacle for society to push to a higher level, and then people will naturally abolish this thing.