If you have a wife like this, it doesn't matter if you don't care about other aspects.

But I found that I seemed to be thinking a little too much, and it was already very good to be able to ask for a wife in the future, and I still thought about these messy things, it did seem that I was thinking a little too much.

I used to think that my conditions were quite good, but now I feel that my conditions are really a lot worse, at least compared to the people around me, I feel that it is indeed a lot worse, and it is not a little and a half star.

No matter who the people around me feel that their conditions are better, let's just say those boys, Qiyang, and Xiaofeng, which of these men is not conditional, but now it seems that they are a little in the direction of tracheitis.

Such an excellent man has such a development trend, which also shows that there are indeed a little few good seedlings.

In fact, a lot of my thoughts come from the pager of the current male status on the Internet, that is, those articles are written, but I feel that those articles are written in a particularly unscrupulous way, and I even suspect that some women wrote them, in order to improve their own status.

In fact, I feel that marrying a daughter-in-law is really not a particularly simple thing now, especially on the issue of money, it seems that many people are going bankrupt when they marry a daughter-in-law, and a lot of news has also instilled in us such a concept.

Recently, it seems that the state advocates not allowing too many dowries, that is, the gift money, but I don't think this matter has much significance, at least for now.

The state really doesn't allow it, but you can't check it one by one, and once you spend less money, people don't marry you and there's no good way, so I don't think there's a good way to do this policy at present.

But in fact, it is understandable that this form of marriage, the form of marriage is specifically, the woman goes to the man's house, and then basically becomes a person in the man's family.

This point does exist and exists on a large scale, that is to say, if there is only one daughter, the daughter of the group is married, and the family is indeed lonely.

So if there is a gift money, it is actually normal, but as a man, I can really feel that this gift money has risen a little seriously.

It may be the reason why the consciousness of 7 comparisons has become more and more serious recently, if there are 100,000 in a city, it is not a big deal, after all, the economic conditions are relatively better, so it is a relatively normal thing.

But as far as I know, it seems that this has happened in many rural areas, and it has appeared on a large scale.

In fact, as far as I understand, there is still a certain gap between this gift money and the gift money, and the gap is that sometimes the money is the same, but the place where the final payment is different, and I think this different source is actually in the dowry.

Some people or some parents just want the man to show an attitude, to show an attitude that I can be good to your daughter, so they want to be a little higher, but in the end it seems that almost all of them have returned.

Whether it's in cash or through some items, it's true that these things have been returned, but some of them have really paid for it.

As for whether it will produce a happy marriage, I'm not sure about that, but I remember that Yang told a joke.

I may have told this joke before, but I think it will be very funny if I continue to tell it, and this joke is like this.

There is a man and a woman who are in a relationship, and they have finally reached the age when it is time to talk about marriage, but at this time the man does not have much money because he has just started working.

The mother-in-law was reluctant, saying that she had to have the money to be able to marry her daughter.

In the end, the man didn't have a good way, and he just discussed it a little, and the two chose a compromise method, and the man said that the way was that the money was okay, but there was really no way to take it out at one time.

So be prepared to pay in installments and give 3000 per month after getting married.

So the mother-in-law agreed, and within three months of getting married, her daughter came back and said to her mother angrily: "Mother, what do you mean? What does it mean to ask our family for 3,000 yuan a month? ”

The mother-in-law sighed: "I knew it would be the result, so I didn't want it." ”

Very smart, right, this man diverted the contradictions, as if in the colonies, and transformed the contradictions into contradictions between them, and let the contradictions be degraded.

It's a lot of fun, and while it doesn't really happen, it's okay to be a joke, but I think I told it as a joke.

In fact, I still want to talk about the matter of gift money, as long as there is a dispute over this matter, then it is basically the public saying that the public is reasonable, and there is no way to argue about a right or wrong.

Everyone has their own opinions, and they don't even have to be debating with one person when arguing, which we often see in League of Legends games.

A good example would do the trick.

We have two teams, one is Team A and the other is Team B, and the hatred between the fans of the two teams is relatively large.

One day, Team A won, and the fans started to brag about it at this time, but when they bragged, they were mixed with some ill-intentioned people, so they belittled Team B to raise Team A.

At this time, of course, the fans of Team B were unwilling, so they started a scolding battle, saying that your Team A just won a championship and was embarrassed to be here BB.

Then, of course, Team A was unwilling, so it was said that Team B used some means to win the game, but in fact, the previous games were not won by legitimate means, so there was such a statement.

As the topic became more and more biased, it finally evolved into a war that I didn't know why I quarreled at the beginning, and the people who provoked this topic in the first place didn't know where to run for a long time.

And then someone will say this, what is this for fans of the AA team, here is a curse word, it's good, if you like your own team, you like it, and I have to say that we can't.

In the end, it became a black spot for these two sides to attack each other, but how this war was caused or whether it was said by the original team fans is inconclusive.

So, it's very easy to cause a war, but it's very difficult to destroy a war, whether it's a war of words or a real war.

It is also very clear that this matter is used in other situations, such as the matter of gift money for men and women.

It is likely that a person said something that was smooth, and it caused a relatively large war, and there is no way to explain this war of words.

And we can't force many people to be very high-quality, that is, when they say something or express their own opinions, they are prone to some extreme arguments, and use these more extreme arguments to prove their arguments.

So it caused some wars, and if he couldn't say anything, and he couldn't say anything about others, he basically just scolded and hid it.

But at this time, there are also people who agree with his point of view, although the argument may not be so extreme, but it was also the original person who affected the pond fish, so when others sprayed people, it is estimated that even this guy was brought along.

Of course, this is a very, very normal thing, because when others hear some of the more extreme arguments, especially on the opposite side, they will feel very angry, then this anger is likely to turn into anger towards one camp.

Then there will be some extreme remarks, and then the war will become more and more intense.

No matter what software or website we are on, we can see similar quarrels, and this similar quarrel actually seems to be just a few reasons.

The woman said, what are we doing when we get married? If you don't have money, do you have to live a hard life? Who chooses not to choose a better one? You don't have the money, at least it shows a big attitude, otherwise why should we marry you? Is it really by love?

But the man began to say again, "Oh, look at what you look like, are you worth the money?" As far as the money you are talking about, even if Lao Tzu goes to that every day, it is estimated that he will not be able to spend it in his lifetime.

These are all slightly radical remarks, as for what is that, I believe almost all boys should understand.

So I won't explain too much here.

Of course, there are some remarks that are not particularly extreme.

For example, some say this, let's talk about the woman's point of view first: If we have a choice in this world, we will definitely choose a little better, and if we can't choose, as a modern urban woman, we still have the ability to be financially independent, so when facing the choice of a mate, we must choose something with slightly better economic conditions, at least we can't drag our hind legs, right? And this kind of thing still depends on fate, I think we can still be little princesses for many years.

Boys also have unbiased views, of course, these people are more qualified, and the quality is slightly higher, and it will not cause some huge contradictions when discussing, at most it is a difference in views.

The argument of the South may sometimes be like this: in fact, economic conditions are not everything, and if there is no help from parents in this world, how many people can come up with those conditions? Doesn't the person who can come up with that kind of economic condition not have a suitable friend? So this kind of thing is definitely needed, but it's really too much now, and it's reached a point where it can't be solved.

In fact, when watching this kind of remarks, it is like watching a sketch, all kinds of remarks emerge in endlessly, some are very reasonable, but they are too one-sided, and some seem very unreasonable, but the words are not coarse.

Isn't the essence of a sketch a contradiction? I feel that if I find a few sentences or a few words with more quality, I can basically use them as a script for a small sketch.

There are even some software that those big guys who answer questions can be published as a paper by appropriately changing the questions answered.

So sometimes it's fun to look at those things, but I don't think there's much need to be involved in them.

Because to be honest, this kind of thing is really really unspeakable, as an ordinary person, when talking about these things, there is always no fixed direction.

Of course, the reason for not having a fixed direction is not because of oneself, everyone tends to profit when arguing, and no one wants to lose their debate, so they may add some other factors to the debate.

For example, if I am discussing A's argument on this issue, but when the other party finds that A's argument is not true, it is likely to be converted to B's argument.

But he didn't admit it at all.

In fact, we can often see such a process on TV dramas.

One person is right, this person says, "How can you steal from others?" ”

Then another thief said, "I didn't steal I just didn't steal, did you see me stealing?" ”

The first said, "Of course I saw you stealing." So he beat the man up and showed the stolen things as evidence for the people around him to see.

The man who stole the things said, "What, why did you arrest me, go and go to the government with me, you are a lion and you don't know it?" I'm going to sue you. ”

We can call this a diversion of the topic, of course, this example is a bit inappropriate, the argument of the person who stole the object is not the original thing, and it can be regarded as a diversion of a contradiction.

But we can often see such an argument on the Internet, no one wants to argue on their own is a mistake, so when they find that the argument here is a little insufficient, or even when the argument is about to tilt in favor of the other side, they start to say something else.

This is basically the kind of person who doesn't have anything to say, and I used to say this before, and now it feels like it was a little naughty at that time, just a little vexatious.

In fact, this kind of behavior is a manifestation of cowardice, that is, simply making trouble unreasonably and then obtaining your own victory, although others do not approve of it, but you feel that you have won, and you also erect a monument to yourself.

I used to be such a disgusting person, but now if I find out that my arguments are really incorrect, I will basically change them.

However, it turns out that most people are still relatively difficult to change their own problems.

I remembered a woman who said something from her girl's point of view: People now know that birds are courting to build a house first, what's wrong with asking for a house? If you don't have a house, the landlord will be unhappy one day, and when you are in the cold wind on the street, you know the importance of the house.

Of course, there are a lot of replies and rebuttals below, and the funniest thing about this feeling refutation is that I can also build a nest in a tree, or can we both live in a tree?

In fact, the words of this parable are somewhat inappropriate, in fact, all the parables in the world cannot be completely fitted, but it is only proved that some truths cannot prove complete truths.

Proving some truths without using them, but using those truths that cannot prove this argument to prove this argument, is obviously a fallacy, and after reading Qin Shi Mingyue's words, I think it may be called sophistry.

I think if I refute this point of view, it will be as if I am speaking from the perspective of a boy, but if I don't refute this point of view, I feel very uncomfortable.

Then I won't refute this point of view, I'll just say the following comments, the following comments have a lot of comments in addition to the above one.

Some comments say that at the current housing price, even if some people empty the wallets of six people, they may not be able to afford it, so why do you ask the other party to afford it?

There is also a comment like this: It turns out that the landlord is in a bad mood and wants to kick you out? Looks like your character isn't very good.

Of course, this comment is a bit bad, and to be honest, it involves a bit of a personal attack, so I won't comment on this comment.

And then there's the question: Haven't you heard of a thing called a hotel? Why am I blowing the cold wind on the street? Don't I even have the money to stay in a hotel?? Is it really hard to find another house then? Did the landlord dare to go out because he was in a bad mood? Why not say it ahead of time?

Of course, these comments are really refuting this girl's point of view, and I don't know what this girl has experienced, and it seems that the words seem a little pessimistic, and I am not sure if what I said is right, so I can only use words that seem to be possible.

It's that this sentence itself is indeed a bit pessimistic, because as far as the current market is concerned, I think that in addition to the first-tier cities, the rental market in the second- and third-tier cities is still relatively prosperous.

That is, it is now a buyer's market.

As for such pessimistic conditions, it may be possible in first-tier cities.

But then again, how many people can buy a house in a first-tier city? There are still a few tens of millions of people in first-tier cities who can indeed buy a house.

From this ratio, I think we should more or less understand in our hearts, we all like the dreams we yearn for, and we all say that it is very meaningful to struggle in such a city, in fact, if it is really some people with weak ability, these cities are indeed not a suitable city.

On the contrary, those cities with less pressure and more stable jobs should be regarded as a royal road, of course, this matter is also said to be justified, and it is impossible to accurately determine that the mother is reasonable.

In fact, after talking for a long time, I just want to say that it will be very difficult for me to find a daughter-in-law in the future, so I have to work hard in college and strive to find a daughter-in-law who I can look at, which is basically determined in college.

Although at this stage of college, it may not be allowed to get married and have children, but I think that finding a girlfriend is not too much of a problem, and finding a girlfriend or a boyfriend at this time still belongs to a more emotional stage.

I don't know about it, it's something that Qi Yang told me, though I don't know how he knew about it.

When the time comes, I will make some money, if I really can't do it, follow Qiyang to mix it up, and then let Qiyang buy me a house, how do I feel that the more I talk, the more shameless I become.

How could I think of asking Qi Yang to buy me a house, how can I feel a little bit at a loss in this matter, as if Qi Yang is my father.

In the past, I may have been a little concerned about this title, but now I don't particularly care about this title, if Qi Yang can really buy me a house, I think it doesn't matter if he calls him dad every day.

Now I feel more and more shameless, and this shamelessness is slowly spreading to me, and this kind of behavior does seem to be a bit inappropriate.

But I really feel now that if Qi Yang can really buy me a house, so that I can get married well, even if I immediately call him dad now, I will shout on the spot, and I will kneel down directly.

What kind of TMD man has gold under his knees, I have been kneeling for so many years and have not found a single gold, so it is better to buy me a house, this house is actually worth a lot of gold.

Of course, it is estimated that it is difficult to protect itself now, and it may not be able to buy me a house, so it is okay to think about this matter, I don't think there is any need to be so serious.

Now I'm thinking about how to chase girls after college.,I don't want to ask Qiyang about this anymore.,On the one hand, I feel that Qiyang will laugh at me.,On the other hand.,The main thing is that I'm afraid that this guy will cheat me.。

Especially in this regard, I feel that it should be a relatively normal thing for him to cheat me, so I will realize it myself in the future, and it is a big deal to chase a few more girls.

Now I have set a goal slightly, if the goal is the goal, the personality should be like Wu Yili, I am willing to beat me at home, and I think it is very good to be able to give me a face in front of others, and I have already determined this matter.

The figure is the same as Wu Yili, it doesn't matter if it's a little smaller than Wu Yili, in fact, I feel that Wu Yili's figure is really good, and I think I should admit this.

However, I feel that Wu Yili's figure is out of reach, that is, this figure must be there, but it may not be able to take my turn.

So it doesn't matter if it's small, I can develop it myself.

Ahem, I don't think you should say much about this condition, if you say too much, you feel a little obscene, so this condition will be bypassed first, and continue to the next thing.

There are some other conditions, such as being knowledgeable and reasonable, but I don't think these conditions should be thought of anymore, I feel like I'm a little too much, and now I don't even have a girlfriend, so it seems that I do think a little too much.

At that time, it will be good to give me a female role, in case I change my head in a university, I guess it may be a little bad, so let's let go of it first, you can't be so greedy, and you can't be so excited.

If you are sincere, you may not be able to get a good result, so you must lower your posture at the beginning.

After eating, I take a break in my room, it's impossible to take a nap, it's impossible in this life, and now I need to do something else, like playing with the computer?

If your own task is down, that is, if you lower your own study task, it will be difficult to complete tomorrow's task, and you will feel that your task has been completed.

But if one day something happens and I don't complete my study task, I will obviously tell myself that there is a reason why I didn't complete my study task today, so I will forgive myself.

Obviously, people are a double standard, especially for themselves, or when they are in their own relatives, this double standard is especially serious.

However, this kind of thing is understandable, after all, people don't destroy heaven and earth for themselves, but it is said that people misunderstand the word, as if it did not mean this in the original sense.

But in any case, people will seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, of course, this pursuit of advantages and avoiding disadvantages is not necessarily a correct one, that is to say, this pursuit of advantages and avoiding disadvantages is likely to be a short period of time.

For example, in a short period of time, I feel that I have learned a little less and made myself less tired, so I feel more comfortable, but if this thing is calculated from a long period of time.

Maybe you still have to spend an extra day in the future, then you will slowly delay some of your own time, maybe some things can be done a day earlier in a better way, but it is because of this day that some situations do not get better.

Of course, such a statement is an exaggeration, and if you really don't have that good luck, there doesn't seem to be a good way.

In fact, if we talk about this matter, we should say that there is a different situation, that is, there are some things today that I feel that there is nothing to delay for a day, and there may be a little thing tomorrow and I feel that there is nothing to delay for a day, and in the long run, there may be a little too many things to delay.

When quantitative change causes qualitative change, it may take more time, that is, others have already undergone qualitative changes and obtained better profits and greater benefits, but you are still making quantitative changes.

Then the time that is delayed is something that you will do to obtain greater benefits through qualitative changes.

I don't know how to describe it, but it feels like it's pretty much the same.

Playing on the computer in the room, I also deliberately looked at the pictures and videos of yesterday's sister's cosplay.

At this time, I especially wanted to make another phone call with Dieyan, but I felt that I was a little annoyed, no, I felt that others were likely to be a little annoyed with me, and it was not particularly good to always look like this.

After all, it's not yet afternoon, it's just past noon, and if I call immediately, it's as if I have some bad intentions for this matter.

Then I tried to send a message to Qi Yang, but this message was not replied to, but it was within the range of my expectations, because I thought that the noon sampling might be a solo row in the training room to increase my personal ability.

It's also a normal thing to do that, and it's normal not to reply to my text messages.

But now I'm a little itchy in my heart.,I just want to know if Ki Yang knows or doesn't know about it.,But I always feel like Ki Yang has some secret he doesn't want to tell me.,This secret might be this cosplay thing.。

But now I think of a person who can make a phone call to this person, and I haven't called this person for the past few days, as if several of us have ignored this guy a bit.

But I think it's a very normal thing, after all, a few of us live in a different circle than he lives, a person's circle of friends is limited, this circle of friends does not refer to the circle of friends of WeChat, refers to the circle of friends in real life.

I think this circle of friends is indeed limited, and it can always be maintained more limited, after all, people's energy is limited, so when maintaining the relationship between friends, it is as much as possible within the scope of their own life or around their lives.

This person is the little monk, his name seems to be what, the surname Chen is called Chen Beize, right, I remember, this is the name, when I first called this name, I felt very embarrassed.

But I have the phone number of the little monk, and the remarks are also the little monk, I feel that this is smooth, and it feels very cordial, I remember every time the little monk called Yang, it was about Brother Yang, and it felt particularly special and awkward.

I can't feel energetic, I don't know what's wrong, but I just feel like I can't stand up to the whole person, and it seems to be itchy and painful, but I just don't know which part of the body.

It's not called that now, it's definitely called Yang, so I think not only Qiyang can adapt, but we can also adapt to it.

At this time, I think the little monk should almost get up, the little monk's work and rest time is relatively regular, and even I think the little monk may be able to get up at ten o'clock.

The little monk is always better than Dieyan, it's better than Dieyan's physical fitness, Dieyan at that time I remember that she said that she got up at seven or eight o'clock.

But the little monk doesn't seem to need to do that at all, so it's okay to get up at ten o'clock, and I also believe that the little monk can get up at ten o'clock.

In other words, I convinced myself that I was going to make phone calls to disturb people.

Luckily, when I called him, his ringtone wasn't a curse, otherwise I would have smashed my phone.

Soon the little monk answered the phone: "Hey, Mo Xiang?" ”

I could hear his voice on the phone, a very recognizable voice, and I could hear it from many voices at once.

I smiled and said, "Yes, yes, it's me, and you weren't there yesterday to look for you?" What are you doing? ”

Now I also feel a little slippery, that is, when I speak, I don't go straight to the topic, and I have learned to make some detours, first shush the cold and ask for warmth, and then slowly lead the topic to this.

In the past, I felt that this kind of behavior was not done by a gentleman, but now I suddenly found that I also seemed to be a villain, in fact, I have not been a good bird, which I know very well, but I can say this kind of thing myself, and others will definitely not say about me, including Qiyang and Xiaofeng, even if I am beaten......... Forget it, if you are beaten, you should bear with it, after all, heroes don't suffer immediate losses.

The little monk also quickly replied to me: "Yesterday, there was something that a friend needed help, so I went over for a while." ”

Actually, I think I have heard of this friend, because at the beginning, Qiyang wanted the little monk to live in our rented house, but the little monk said that he already had a place to live.

It is estimated that this friend should be the friend that the little monk said, because I feel that this guy should not have too many friends in this city.

But lately, I really feel that I have neglected this little monk, and even a few of us seem to have forgotten the existence of this person.

But I think Qi Yang is to blame for this matter, because the little monk is Qi Yang's good friend, and the relationship with us is relatively poor, and this matter should be handled by Qi Yang.

But what I'm saying now is so righteous and awe-inspiring, in fact, I am also for some purposes, so I still feel a little guilty.

But I know that guy who started to rise, his memory is not particularly good, especially for such a thing, his memory is simply very poor!

So forget the little monk for a while, I think it should be a normal thing, if it wasn't for yesterday to light a cigarette and take us to the night market, it is estimated that Qi Yang still can't remember the little monk, but yesterday Qi Yang did mention it.

I nodded, of course I nodded the little monk can't see it, in fact, I especially want to have a video chat with the little monk, but it's a pity that he uses a keyboard machine.

Another day, a few of us will allocate money to buy him a smart phone, even if the purchase is not particularly good, but it is still a smart phone, if there is really any situation, the smart machine can indeed bring better results.

So I think this thing should be on the line, and when the time comes, let's talk to Qi Yang, if a few of us pay together, no, I suddenly thought about it, how many of us pay together, how many people are there?

It seems that no one else can force it, and besides, it's not sure if Qiyang has money, that is, this guy doesn't have to pay.

There are other people who don't seem to have much to do with this matter, and it is natural for them not to pay for it.

I calculated and calculated, and it seemed that I was able to pay for it now, and I suddenly felt that I felt a little sad, and I felt that there was no way to get this thing online.

But I still have to talk to Qi Yang about this, after all, I was too uncomfortable to see the keyboard machine used by the little monk.

I said to the little monk, "Oh, that's how it looks, I didn't go to look for you yesterday, but I found that you weren't there, what a coincidence." ”

Let's see if I'm getting more and more shameless when I talk myself, yes, I guessed you right, I'm just getting more and more shameless, and I'm going to push this pot on someone else's body, the most suitable person to carry this pot is to raise it, it's this guy who taught me badly!

Well, now the pot has been thrown out.

The little monk smiled and said, "Qi Yang has already told me about this, are you still here today?" I'm at work today, and I can treat you guys to dinner if I can. ”

I thought about it for a while, it seems that it is not the turn to pay wages at this time, right? The little monk didn't work for long, right?

Or do I feel like time is passing faster? But after thinking about it for a while, I found that the little monk seemed to have come before the Chinese New Year? In other words, it may also be a salary.

Suddenly I felt that my brain seemed to be a little stupid, why did I always feel that something was right in front of me.

But let's go eat the little monk's meal, I guess each of us can't eat, the little monk always gives us the feeling of being very poor and very poor, I remember the first time I met him, it can be described in seven words, a mouthful of porridge.

It's really a whole person who can create a little beggar feeling, there are a lot of patches on his clothes, and his hair is not so messy, but the main reason is that he has no hair.

So let's eat this little monk's meal, it is estimated that none of us can bear it, but if the little monk says such a thing, we must not say that you are too poor.

When I spoke, I must have greeted other people's feelings, and I also smiled and said to the little monk: "Maybe go today, hey, by the way, I want to ask you something?" ”

"Brother Mo Xiang has something, but it doesn't hurt to say it."

After hearing this, I felt awkward again, why did this little monk become literate again, if he talked to people like this in the night club, would they beat him up, I felt very funny when I thought of this scene.

"Oh, you guys seem to have been performing lately, right? Do you come every day or once in a while? "I finally got to the point at this time.

I feel that it is not easy to get to the point now, and I can do such a large circle of speech to show that I have learned very badly now.

Of course, I still don't think the pot should be on me.

The little monk was stunned for a moment, and seemed to be thinking about this matter: "I remember, you are talking about the performance of changing into the clothes of the nine-tailed fox, right?" ”

This seems a bit bad, I feel that he is also more interested in this matter, of course, it may be that I think about it more, but why does the little monk have such a clear impression of this nine-tailed fox?

I think there is a certain reason, or is it the Dharma reason? Is there such a legend? I feel as if a company has really talked about it.