I suddenly found that my mentality is a little bit like my dad, this is when I do something, if it has something to do with books, in fact, if it has something to do with studying, it will more or less open up to me.

Now I am facing a situation like this, I think it would be worth my tiredness if she brought a few books, and I don't know why I had such an idea.

Anyway, such an idea actually seems to be a bit mature when it comes to speaking, in other words, this kind of thought seems to be a bit unexpected by myself, and I always feel that I shouldn't have such an idea, because this kind of thought seems to be relatively old, but I really have this kind of thought now.

I just think that if she can study if she brings a little book, it seems that everything is worth it.

I could tell at a glance that the books were for study, not novels, so I didn't think I should be so her.

Anyway, it's not Zhuli who spends money, what I said just now is just assuming that Zhuli spends money, and people's wages may be much higher than I imagined in the future.

In the past, I always thought that as long as I went to college, there should be no problem with a salary of tens of thousands, but now I find that it seems that it should not be so simple, and my thoughts are sometimes too optimistic.

Maybe it is impossible to earn this amount after graduating from university, especially in third- and fourth-tier cities, even if you can earn this salary in first-tier cities and second-tier cities, it will take a lot of effort.

There is nothing that can really say that there is more money and less life close to home, it is really unless there is some special relationship, just like me or Zhuli, I don't do anything at home, or Zhuli doesn't do anything at home, and the two of us let our parents spend money.

But obviously this can't be like this for a lifetime, no one can be like this for a lifetime.

Including those rich second generations, those rich second generations also need to bear huge pressure after their parents die, unless they really say that those companies are not sold directly into property.

But I don't think it's done very much.

An entrepreneur I remember saying that when a person leaves his job, there are actually two reasons, one is that he is tired and the money is not in place.

In fact, as far as I know, there are also industries with relatively high wages, such as the financial industry and the Internet industry, but these two industries are actually without exception, that is, they are not tired or tired.

It is impossible for an ordinary person to want to be able to get a high salary without being physically tired or tired, either they need to work overtime or they need to use their brains.

It's not clear which of the two is more tiring, or who can adjust their mentality better, and in which aspect it is not particularly clear, only after their own experiments can they understand what kind of industry they are in.

Zhuli's salary may be a little higher in the future, and the salary I said is actually just to scare her and let her feel this thing.

To be honest, I'm a little dissatisfied with her behavior, that is, she brings so many clothes, and she always feels a little perverted, maybe she and I don't live in the same grade anymore, but I always feel that this behavior should not be agreed with in the past.

The price of clothes is one thing, but in fact, the other is the mentality and character that it shows.

In fact, I understand that my learning is not particularly good, and perseverance is not particularly strong, in fact, I think a person's ability is divided into two aspects, either a person's talent is better, or a person's perseverance is stronger.

But one thing that is obvious, and that is that in the first twenty years of my life, I don't have either of those things that I have now, and that is that I certainly can't be a strong person.

I used to think that as long as I went to college, my salary would be higher than that after my father's care, but now I don't think it's so easy to say.

In the past, I didn't care about my father's position in the company, but now I know a little, in fact, the salary of a secretary or assistant in my father's company is actually about 3000 to 5000.

The better one is about 7,000, and as far as I know, a lot of people are competing for this position, because such positions are basically non-pressure positions, which is a very, very good place for those who don't want to accept too much pressure.

They don't need to face the pressure of performance, they don't need to face the pressure from the company's customers, in fact, their biggest pressure comes from the pressure of leadership.

But this pressure is actually some things, some small things to organize things, for people who can fully understand office software or can master some software, this thing is simply a small thing.

If the mentality or personality is a little better, basically there will be no other pressure, and life is very comfortable, in fact, it is especially suitable for a little girl like me.

It seems that people like us can find someone and marry it.

Although this kind of pressure is small, in fact, there are very many people who think this way, that is to say, many people want to live this kind of stable life, and then there are many such people to compete in such an industry.

Then there is no need to say much about such an industry, once those people find that this market is very large, it is merit-based admission, that is to say, the decision is in their hands, that is to say, they can make a big request.

Anyway, I came into contact with my father's company, and a small assistant dared to graduate from graduate school or above, proficient in some office software, and had more than three years of secretarial experience.

Actually, I have a lot of resistance to my dad, of course, only in this regard, and I don't know why I asked for something so serious.

Of course, as mentioned earlier, it is likely to be the reason for this market, but even the salary given for the reason of this market shocked my eyes, and a secretary who graduated from graduate school only gave 6,000 yuan for the internship.

After becoming a regular, it is about 8,000 yuan, you must know that he is a graduate student, and he has spent a long time studying, and he will definitely come out with great ambitions when the time comes.

Some people say that 8,000 yuan is very high, but if you have a little understanding, you will know that 8,000 yuan is really not particularly high in my hometown.

This money should be regarded as a lower salary in my hometown, after all, my hometown is a first-tier city, and people's academic qualifications are also very high.

If you calculate this kind of salary carefully, you will know that it is nothing at all, excluding five insurances and one housing fund and then removing the tax on work, in my opinion, it is more than 5,000 and nearly 6,000.

With this salary, I believe that many college graduates will understand that this salary is very good for living in the city of my university.

Because in my city, I have a very deep research, and I don't need to say much about the research, it's basically the price of renting and things like that.

The price of goods is basically the same, and I'm talking about the same city in my hometown, so there is basically no big difference.

The goods are almost the same in the supermarket, but they are a little expensive outside, a little expensive at the wet market, and a little expensive when you eat at a store.

Everything else is pretty much the same.

In fact, the main thing is rent.

My father's company is definitely not covered, if the secretary in this city can reach 56,000, then it will already live very, very well.

Because as far as I know, the rent in this city is actually about 500 to 600 if it is a single room, and it is about 20 square meters, and there is a small toilet and washing room in it.

Maybe in my hometown, such a small single room is unimaginable, but five or six hundred for this house is really not expensive.

If his salary reaches about 5,000, he only contributes 500 yuan to the rent, and even the 500 yuan is more than 600 yuan if the water and electricity bills are included.

In other words, if it's you, you don't accept it or don't accept it.

If you eat out for a month, it will cost you 2,000 yuan, so you can stay about 3,000 yuan to 4,000 yuan.

The amount of money is also relatively high.

But what happens if this salary is transferred to our hometown?

Let's talk about the reason for this rent, if you rent a small single room in our city, I think this house will have to be about 2,000 yuan, and in some places I feel that I still say it is low.

That is to say, he has to pay about 1/3, maybe 1/3 more of his salary, to pay the rent, and the rest of the money has to pay for his daily needs.

Obviously, this salary is a bit insufficient.

Maybe it is said that people's hometown is here, and there happens to be a house in the family to live at home, and such a situation is indeed there, and generally such a situation is more suitable for doing some kind of work in the local area.

Because it can cut out a large part of the expenses.

But most of you in my hometown haven't thought about it, in fact, most of the people in this place just come empty-handed, and a large part of them don't have any foundation here, and can only rely on some of their own efforts to work hard.

I admire such people very much, but I also feel a little sorry for them.

I haven't experienced anything like this, I don't know if it's a bearable thing for them, or maybe most people can bear it, but there is still no security in their later life.

One of the things I feel bad about my dad is here, of course, this job posting is not necessarily posted by him, and he doesn't even know about it, but I think this behavior seems a bit too harsh.

However, it seems that because of the booming market, if you don't do this, there will likely be a lot of people coming to compete, resulting in unnecessary workload.

There are still a lot of applicants in this way, which shows that such a line is actually quite popular, and many of us young people actually like to be comfortable.

Just like the sentence that Qi Yang once said in the space, if you are not afraid of death, you are afraid of being uneasy, and if you don't want to die, you must be comfortable.

Although I haven't watched this TV series, I still feel quite touched by the talk I sent to him, but I didn't like it or comment, because if that's the case, this guy will become more and more arrogant.

But one thing I have to say is that this seems to be quite correct in some way, but Qi Yang watched a TV series as if it was a war movie, I just said that this sentence seems to be quite interesting, but I didn't say that this sentence really fits a realistic scenario.

But I'm not saying to criticize others, everyone wants a comfortable life, I think not only Chinese like this, in fact, many people like this way.

Some of us may live in a very relaxed environment and do not feel how important this comfortable life is to them, or that this ordinary life is also an unattainable dream for some people.

But when many people want to be comfortable, then the channel is very small, and the final result means that competition is needed.

At the end of the day, most people need to move up to a very high level, but they don't get the corresponding rewards for this stage, so I feel a little sighing.

Now that some jobs can be replaced, these jobs are very replaceable.

My hometown is a first-tier city, which means that all kinds of novelties can appear in my hometown.

You can experience the impact of a new industry on some traditional industries when it comes out.

I don't know if other cities have such a profound experience of the impact of online stores on some physical stores, but as far as I am concerned, I have a very profound experience.

There is a very interesting pedestrian street in our hometown, the rent on this pedestrian street is very expensive, the main reason is that the location is very good, whether it is to come here to dream hard or to live here, as well as those who come to our hometown to play will come to this street to see.

At that time, I didn't think online shopping was particularly popular, but when online shopping became popular, I was able to quickly see a few stores that sold clothes or bought some small items quickly closed down.

After the closure, a butterfly effect arose, and one after another shops began to close, and slowly this store changed to mostly eat.

When all the food and drink is eaten, or most of the food and drink, the small street loses the fun it should have.

Because when we come to this pedestrian street to play, it doesn't really mean that we really come here to eat and drink, there are other places to eat and drink, and it is cheaper than yours, why do I have to come to you to eat?

Therefore, this pedestrian street has slowly cooled down, and when there are fewer and fewer people, those who sell food and drink also begin to rent out those shops.

In the end, this pedestrian street is gone, and I feel more uncomfortable, because I can clearly see the impact of some emerging industries on traditional industries.

Maybe some of them have lost money, they may have spent a long time trying to face one of their own little dreams, but they were washed away by reality, I don't know if this statement is appropriate.

But in other words, if they don't open this thing but go to a place to work, maybe tens of thousands of yuan have been earned, but now because they are facing such a situation, they even say that they have lost tens of thousands.

This shop is certainly not particularly simple, the rent does not need to be said, there is also some decoration, raw materials have been introduced, and even some advertising.

These things should be counted in the cost, I said tens of thousands of dollars is actually a bit conservative, and now it is impossible to lose tens of thousands of dollars if you want to lose.

There are hundreds of thousands of people, maybe they came with a dream, or even an idea to be able to gain a foothold here.

So sometimes I may be a little uncomfortable when shopping online, but I find that I am a bit of a green tea, that is, while enjoying the low price of this network, I am lamenting the dissatisfaction of this reality.

I always feel like I want everything, I always feel like a great good person.

In fact, the final result is also very clear, and in the end, I can only say that there is no way to watch this happen.

If no one sees it, what they actually think of is why do I want you to buy yours, why don't I buy it online, buy it with free shipping, and I can return it, and I can enjoy a much lower price than you.

Of course, it does not mean that every online shopping is smooth, after all, online shopping still has certain defects, such as the size may not be the same, the picture and the feeling of wearing it are different, some things may not be able to be returned, and some things may not be of such good quality.

But basically a general direction has already emerged, that is, I buy the same quality of things basically cheaper than in physical stores.

After all, there are not many rich people, I can choose to buy some cheaper ones online, so why should I choose to buy one that is more expensive, if I save a little money, I can also spend it elsewhere.

This is the impact I think on the industry, of course, this substitutability on the other hand still needs to be discussed, not to say that the substitutability of this thing is also very strong.

I'm just talking about another issue, and the other issue is the fungibility of the industry.

I'm just using the above example to bring out the substitutability of the industry, and then I'm going to talk about another example, another example is that I saw something new.

When I came out of online shopping, I remember seeing an automatic checkout device in a supermarket, this thing does not need to be manual, only one person needs to watch it.

Even one person can look at two or three devices, which is very popular among young people, and the main reason is that there is no need to wait in line at the supermarket.

You can directly use your mobile phone to check out, and you can brush these things by yourself, and you don't have to worry about those cashiers swiping these things wrongly, and there is not much to do about it.

And it's easy to find if you're looking for it, and it's more novel to be welcomed, of course, fast checkout is the main purpose, and young people are actually reluctant to check out.

To be precise, they are reluctant to queue up to check out, but most people's time means that most people seem to be able to go shopping for the same time, which means that they have to face such a situation, a situation of queuing for checkout.

In fact, I don't need to say more, for example, during the Chinese New Year, I remember that a big supermarket near us said that it was open until ten o'clock, but because I knew each other about shopping during the New Year, I could still see people queuing up to check out at about 12 o'clock.

Therefore, this queue is a very hateful thing for young people, although this device also has a certain interest in most young people, but at least these facilities have removed some of the middle-aged and elderly people, and the movement of young people is relatively fast.

Sometimes it even feels faster than the cashier, and when you check out, you quickly swipe those things and pay with your phone, and the whole process takes about a minute.

Almost half of the people in line have been removed, and some young people don't trust this thing, so this thing has become popular.

I mean it's all over the place, it's not that it's all over my hometown, it's just the impact of seeing it.

Maybe when this thing starts to become popular, it will also have a certain impact on the cashier industry, so I illustrate this substitutability.

And this is to lead out the secretarial, so whether there is a substitutability in my industry, to be honest, I don't know very well, and I don't know what some deep work is.

But as far as I know, part of these jobs is very replaceable, which means that after reading books for so many years, they finally found that some machines can replace themselves, and I always feel very bleak, whether it's calling me a green tea, or saying anything else.

I always don't know whether the benefits outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, and some people think that I must be stupid because the advantages must outweigh the disadvantages.

I just wonder if this impact on traditional industries can lead to more jobs, or if they can only be treated as a civilian in the future, and occasionally pay a small salary to survive.

Because once faced with such a situation, I think it is likely that people who are happy to master this kind of technology will get richer and richer, but there is no substitute for people with weaker skills, so they can only get poorer and poorer, and finally even have no ability to work.

Although this statement may be a bit radical, although what I said may not be true, I always feel that such a situation may be a possible situation.

Let's go back to my opinion, a graduate student may reach such a low salary, maybe the salary of other graduate students may be tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands, not necessarily.

But I have met too many poor people in this school, and I used to think that as long as I went to college, the salary was not too big a problem to be 20,000 or 30,000 yuan.

But now I have found out that there are a lot of people with a salary of only five or six thousand, and I may not be a little clear about what I said, but in fact, there are also a lot of people with a salary of three or four thousand.

They seem to be alive too, but I always feel as if my old ideas have been broken.

That's why I talked to Zhu Li about this, and I think Zhu Li's worldview seems to be a little wrong.

Maybe after she buys these things, she is likely to be able to get a larger ideological level, that is to say, he may get a larger social circle or a higher social circle in the future, so that she can be in a better profit-seeking situation in this social circle.

However, I always feel that it is not appropriate to spend so much money to pursue something that has been invisible and untouched for a long time, and maybe it may bring a certain sense of achievement to my psychology and enrich my mental activities, but I still don't agree with it.

On the contrary, I feel a little better when I read these books.

So I smiled and asked Zhu Li: "Do you want to study with these books?" ”

But Zhu Li replied with a word that almost made me want to beat her to death!

"What, who's here to study, I think you think you're looking up to me a little too much." Julie sat on the bed and smiled at me.

I put the bags on the table and said to her, "Why don't you learn to carry those books?"

Then Zhuli lay on the bed, looking very comfortable, and said to me: "You don't understand this, I am now showing an attitude, showing that I can study seriously, and I don't forget to read books when I come out to play." ”

I didn't expect such a situation, but now I suddenly feel a little unworthy, I feel so tired of taking these books, this little girl is actually this idea, I really want to beat her up.

But I suddenly realized that I had become like her parents, like most parents to be exact, because I had done a lot of things before, why should anyone else do this thing.

Suddenly, a big, big contradiction arose in my heart.

I put them on the table and said to her, "Okay, okay, you can pack your things." ”

I suddenly felt a little tired in my heart, and I don't know why I often feel like this, and my contradictions seem to have broken me to pieces.

But Zhuli seemed to be a little moved by what I said, and she squatted down to clean up her things while saying to me: "Actually, I really haven't calculated it in detail, but these things you said are what Qi Yang told you."

I didn't expect him to be able to be moved by me, since she said such a thing, it means that she was really moved by me.

Although I felt a little tired, I still said to her: "Almost, he said this to me before, and I can be regarded as borrowing flowers to offer Buddha."

"Actually, I know, but in fact, that sentence is really right, it is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift."

"By the way, you know what kind of people my circle of friends are, right?" Zhuli asked me.

Of course, I know what kind of people her circle of friends and social circles are, basically grew up with us, and now Zhuli still keeps in touch with them often, but I'm a little reluctant to contact them.

Because every time I eat or play with them, I always feel a deep sense of pride, and I mean they show me a sense of accomplishment.

Although ordinary friends will try to talk about their own affairs as well, that is, they will try to talk about their jobs and things they buy, but what they say is a bit excessive.

I feel like they mean that if I don't reach that level, I don't deserve to live in this world at all, and I actually belong to the lowest level in their level, and my grades in high school were not particularly good, and when I arrived at college, I felt very disappointed for the first time.

I was disappointed with our first meeting, but I ended it with a proper mood and vowed never to attend them again.

Try to use some of the more common methods of refusal to refuse, and there is no need to play with them without hurting feelings.

Suddenly I felt that there were some different ways of not conspiring with each other, and I used to think that learning and other things were not those aspects that hindered our friendship, but now it seems that my thoughts are a little simpler, and this thing can just hinder the communication between us.

Their communication is very smooth, in other words, they can also find a common ground when bragging, let each other have a gaochao mentality, I don't even know how to respond to their bragging, I don't know how to brag about myself.

In the end, I found that Zhuli was still able to talk to me, and now I was a little disappointed, and even said that I felt like Zhuli was like them now, but I didn't express it at the party.

Even Zhuo Xiangyi is like this, but Zhuo Xiangyi also knows how to read people's moods, just to see that he has changed when I am in a bad mood.

This is the main reason why I have a little bit of a feeling of being able to maintain friendship with Zhuo Xiangyi, and he can more or less see that I am a little dissatisfied, so I don't think I show it in my expressions or words.

But Zhuo Xiangyi seemed to see it, and then he didn't do anything like that to me or say anything like that to me.

So I'm quite satisfied with this point, although I think that if you can understand my feelings, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are a very good person, this is not an argument for a good person or a bad person, but I think that the person who can understand me is actually a person who can be friends to a high extent.

Zhuli doesn't need to say more, in the past, the two of us were like glue, in fact, she didn't show such an image in the party for a long time.

That was now, and I suddenly felt as if she was getting closer and closer, and I felt that the question I had just asked me was also clearly reflected, and I don't think I need to say more.

I still replied to Zhuli's words: "What's the matter, you say, you can say what you want to say, you ask me what to do." ”

"Actually, they often tell me in their usual words, forget it, forget it, I won't tell you, why do you feel that you hate me a little?" Zhuli said to me with a smile as she packed her things.

The meaning of Zhuli's first sentence just now seems to be that there is an exchange between them, and this exchange is likely to be a high-level exchange, of course, I don't mean that this high-level is a compliment, and it even has a bit of a derogatory meaning for me.

If this high-level communication has not been at a high level, then the future situation is that there is no way to communicate with them, and some people may say that if you don't communicate, you won't communicate, what's good about communicating with them.

But if you don't live in such an environment, you may not know much about it.

But I think a simple example will be enough to understand, for example, if your friends are playing a game, and you don't play the game anymore, and then they all start talking about the game in the dorm, and then the game is played, the characters of the game, the background of the game, and so on.

You can't fit in as their roommate, and they use this communication as a point of overriding you, so you may feel a little uncomfortable being in such an environment.

If it's a little uncomfortable, then how to deal with it, in fact, I think most people will choose to go with the flow, I also try to play this game, I also try to make a certain understanding of this game, I don't need to understand this game particularly high, I just need to know that this game can communicate with them.

Some people may feel that such words seem to be a bit tiring and have to cater to others, but sometimes it is really involuntary, and not everyone can take their own destiny into their own hands.

That is to say, this kind of drifting with the tide does not mean that everyone wants, but it does not mean that everyone can control it, and it is a very, very difficult thing to be able to sail against the current in the big rivers and waves.

There are very few people who can do it, and most of them will be in the boat against the current, the ship will be destroyed, break through the entire era, and stand at the heresy of the times, which requires great courage and extraordinary strength.

So people like Zhuli may not be able to control it, so maybe Zhuli has also fallen into such a trap, so there is no other way? In fact, this method is very simple, it just says whether you have the courage to break the kettle.

For other things, this is a relatively simple thing, in fact, I think it is good not to contact directly, occasionally say hello when you meet, do not do things very well, and really produce a deeper exchange, then refuse in a way that does not hurt feelings.

Zhuli asked me if I hated her a little, if I said just now, it was a little bit, but now it seems that I want to open it a little.

Then I laughed and played with my phone, lowered my mood to a controllable range, and said to Zhuli, "I hate you? Why would you say such a thing? ”

If anything else is that I don't actually hate you, or where is it, it seems to mean that I have already had such a mood and just ask for forgiveness.

But I think if I ask back, it's as if I've never felt like this, and I still hope that the friendship can continue.

But now you have to ask me if I would ever break off this friendship if Zhuli had reached that level.

My answer is that I don't know, in fact, there are very few former friends who can communicate with me except for my roommates, and it seems that all my friends come from Qiyang's side.

His friends seem to have a very good appetite for me, that is, there are not too many things that we can't communicate with when we communicate, and some of our interests are different, for example, they like to play that computer game, for example, my roommate likes to play that mobile game.

But we didn't feel particularly difficult to communicate, and we didn't feel the slightest obstacle when we communicated.

I think that's one of the reasons why we're friends, maybe we're all poor now, and we all seem embarrassed to compare.

In fact, that means that there is really nothing to compare, we are all the kind of people who don't buy luxury goods, no cars, no houses, in fact, the most expensive among our friends is Mo Xiang's computer.

But one thing I know very well is that they don't show off this thing of the computer as otaku to a particularly high degree, or no one understands it when it comes out, and there is no need to show off if this circle is small, not to mention that the words of that circle are not a top thing.

Of course, this is also what Qi Yang said to me, and I didn't say it myself, and if it were me, I wouldn't have had too much of a plot about this kind of show-off.

Zhu Li smiled while cleaning up: "Maybe, forget it, I'll give it a try: I decided to listen to your try, but do you say that I will study or not with these books?" Looks like you're angry. ”

Well? Am I angry? Am I so obvious? I think I'm doing okay, I guess it's pretty normal.