Chapter 1205: Independence and Confidence
Again, I don't think this thing doesn't seem so noble, in fact, many things are produced in interests, interests are the most essential things, and some other things are incidental values.
So I agree with what Yang said in the book he gave me, only when the interests are in place, that is, the money is in place, can we talk about feelings.
And it's not just this book that says about it, but also some people say about it, that is, an ancient Chinese saying, which actually contains many aspects, but the final result is that poor couples mourn everything.
No matter how much money you have, you can reduce some of the fights, that's for sure.
I think a lot of cases are because of the quarrel because of money, for example, the mother-in-law has to ask for 200,000 yuan, at this time because the young man has just graduated and has no money, so he can only ask his parents.
At this time, parents may feel that there are too many, so there will be some contradictions, and the woman may feel that this is too stingy, and she can't even take out this money, in fact, I also know that when the two parties think about the problem, they are thinking about the problem in their own way.
This is the common nature of human beings, if there is a person who has a daughter and a son, according to the current situation, the final result can be imagined, that is, he will definitely look completely different to him, feel that his daughter is very delicate, and at the same time feel that his son does not have much money.
Of course, I'm not criticizing anything, I just think it's still fun, especially in this case, it's really fun, most people are double standards, which doesn't need much.
It's just that some people don't reflect it, that is to say, some people may only have one daughter, and some people may have a son, this kind of thing is not an easy thing for most people, and it is not easy to make this standard very fair, or even relatively fair.
But if this young man has just graduated and has 200,000 yuan, or even 1 million, it is estimated that he doesn't care.
It is even said that if there are one or two million later, the mother-in-law thinks that her daughter may live very happily, that is to say, she may not need money, which is possible, and she may even accompany the car.
So this money can basically solve most of the pain, of course, there is so much money for a young man to graduate, except for the rich second generation, it is estimated that most people have no way to do such a situation last night, to be honest, as far as the situation I see, it is still a relatively difficult behavior.
I think it's very good for a college student not to ask his parents for money after graduation, such people are not common, of course, I think this kind of behavior is actually a very rare behavior, or make me feel more admired, especially when the age is still relatively young, in fact, one year younger than me, but to be able to achieve such an independent situation, but also to make people feel this mentality, may be the independent self-confidence of the rise, It always makes people feel that this guy can show a very good state in ordinary life.
Again, I don't think this thing doesn't seem so noble, in fact, many things are produced in interests, interests are the most essential things, and some other things are incidental values.
So I agree with what Yang said in the book he gave me, only when the interests are in place, that is, the money is in place, can we talk about feelings.
And it's not just this book that says about it, but also some people say about it, that is, an ancient Chinese saying, which actually contains many aspects, but the final result is that poor couples mourn everything.
No matter how much money you have, you can reduce some of the fights, that's for sure.
I think a lot of cases are because of the quarrel because of money, for example, the mother-in-law has to ask for 200,000 yuan, at this time because the young man has just graduated and has no money, so he can only ask his parents.
At this time, parents may feel that there are too many, so there will be some contradictions, and the woman may feel that this is too stingy, and she can't even take out this money, in fact, I also know that when the two parties think about the problem, they are thinking about the problem in their own way.
This is the common nature of human beings, if there is a person who has a daughter and a son, according to the current situation, the final result can be imagined, that is, he will definitely look completely different to him, feel that his daughter is very delicate, and at the same time feel that his son does not have much money.
Of course, I'm not criticizing anything, I just think it's still fun, especially in this case, it's really fun, most people are double standards, which doesn't need much.
It's just that some people don't reflect it, that is to say, some people may only have one daughter, and some people may have a son, this kind of thing is not an easy thing for most people, and it is not easy to make this standard very fair, or even relatively fair.
But if this young man has just graduated and has 200,000 yuan, or even 1 million, it is estimated that he doesn't care.
It is even said that if there are one or two million later, the mother-in-law thinks that her daughter may live very happily, that is to say, she may not need money, which is possible, and she may even accompany the car.
So this money can basically solve most of the pain, of course, there is so much money for a young man to graduate, except for the rich second generation, it is estimated that most people have no way to do such a situation last night, to be honest, as far as the situation I see, it is still a relatively difficult behavior.
I think it's very good for a college student not to ask his parents for money after graduation, such people are not common, of course, I think this kind of behavior is actually a very rare behavior, or make me feel more admired, especially when the age is still relatively young, in fact, one year younger than me, but to be able to achieve such an independent situation, but also to make people feel this mentality, may be the independent self-confidence of the rise, It always makes people feel that this guy can show a very good state in ordinary life.
Again, I don't think this thing doesn't seem so noble, in fact, many things are produced in interests, interests are the most essential things, and some other things are incidental values.
So I agree with what Yang said in the book he gave me, only when the interests are in place, that is, the money is in place, can we talk about feelings.
And it's not just this book that says about it, but also some people say about it, that is, an ancient Chinese saying, which actually contains many aspects, but the final result is that poor couples mourn everything.
No matter how much money you have, you can reduce some of the fights, that's for sure.
I think a lot of cases are because of the quarrel because of money, for example, the mother-in-law has to ask for 200,000 yuan, at this time because the young man has just graduated and has no money, so he can only ask his parents.
At this time, parents may feel that there are too many, so there will be some contradictions, and the woman may feel that this is too stingy, and she can't even take out this money, in fact, I also know that when the two parties think about the problem, they are thinking about the problem in their own way.
This is the common nature of human beings, if there is a person who has a daughter and a son, according to the current situation, the final result can be imagined, that is, he will definitely look completely different to him, feel that his daughter is very delicate, and at the same time feel that his son does not have much money.
Of course, I'm not criticizing anything, I just think it's still fun, especially in this case, it's really fun, most people are double standards, which doesn't need much.
It's just that some people don't reflect it, that is to say, some people may only have one daughter, and some people may have a son, this kind of thing is not an easy thing for most people, and it is not easy to make this standard very fair, or even relatively fair.
But if this young man has just graduated and has 200,000 yuan, or even 1 million, it is estimated that he doesn't care.
It is even said that if there are one or two million later, the mother-in-law thinks that her daughter may live very happily, that is to say, she may not need money, which is possible, and she may even accompany the car.
So this money can basically solve most of the pain, of course, there is so much money for a young man to graduate, except for the rich second generation, it is estimated that most people have no way to do such a situation last night, to be honest, as far as the situation I see, it is still a relatively difficult behavior.
I think it's very good for a college student not to ask his parents for money after graduation, such people are not common, of course, I think this kind of behavior is actually a very rare behavior, or make me feel more admired, especially when the age is still relatively young, in fact, one year younger than me, but to be able to achieve such an independent situation, but also to make people feel this mentality, may be the independent self-confidence of the rise, It always makes people feel that this guy can show a very good state in ordinary life.