Chapter 1055: It's Not Easy for Parents
Actually, it was the first time that I realized how hard it is to raise a child.
I have a lot of relatives, and they also have their own children, in fact, I have one thing that I am quite confident in myself, and getting along with those children is really very good, really, really very useful.
No matter what age the child is, as long as they are younger than me, I can spend a lot of time with them.
Maybe you will understand what I say, this period is just a pleasant time, if a certain time passes, this certain time is not an exact time, sometimes it may be three hours, sometimes it may be a day.
I would be very, very annoyed with these children, and I was thinking that if I were to get married, I would definitely not have children, and this is actually the reason for my phobia of children.
In fact, when a child is very cute at the beginning, sometimes he will be very cute, and sometimes he will feel very cute, because when you don't want him to do something, he thinks that it can be done and makes you laugh, that is, they may be in a good mood, but they are not sure of that degree.
Without this certainty, even if you want to get angry, they will think that you may be pretending to be angry, so they will continue to tease you in the same naughty way, of course, but they think, they think it is fun, and they don't feel that you don't want to do it or are about to get angry.
You won't be angry, after all, it's a relative's child, and you don't do it so excessively, and since it's not so excessive, it's as if you don't have the grace to be angry.
And I won't stay with them for too long, and even if they prefer to spend time with you, it may only be a few days, I think at most a few days.
But I think these days are very difficult days, so this fear of children may come from this.
But one thing is for sure, and for the most part I like them very much, and I'm willing to buy them some gifts, if I have the money.
And for a long time I was willing to play with them, after all, their toys were much better than mine, I just had some cards and yo-yos, and those kids were already playing with drones and boats that could be remotely controlled in the park.
Of course, this is a relatively good family condition, and I can even see some amphibious toys, such as the kind of car that can run and fly on the ground.
That kind of thing is really fun, and it has that kind of camera, which makes people feel very refreshing.
So one of the reasons why I hate those children is that there is no spirit of contract, as for what it means to say that there is no spirit of contract, that is, I have already agreed with those children that we will play alone for how long.
When that time comes, the kids will choose to make you give up a chance in all sorts of ways, and I hate them so much, which means that if they let me play with the toy, maybe I can really play with them for a long time.
There is also a fact that I believe many people have this feeling, that is, children seem to be very energetic all the time, and children seem to be not tired.
I've read this scientific talk in a book, it seems to be some kind of messy hormones and whatever, and the nervous system and so on, anyway, in general, this delusion of yours is not an illusion, you think this thing is true, he is really true.
Children are very energetic, and they are very energetic all day long, as if they don't know what it means to be tired, of course, I think on the one hand because this spirit is not under too much pressure, and on the other hand, it may be because of the science.
Anyway, I have to do my best when I play with them, and distribute my spirit reasonably, otherwise they will be making trouble all day long, and I would have chosen to go to sleep a long time ago.
I once helped my relative watch a child and liked to play with me, and the main reason is, of course, that I also liked the game he played, so we both played it all day and night, so he liked me.
If I am a very strict brother or uncle, and I have to let him do his homework, or let him play with his time while doing his homework, I believe he may not like him as an older brother or uncle.
Plus I'm not going to be angry with him.
But there is one thing, if my sincere dad is either or his dad, forget it or his dad, I will definitely beat him up, because it is so annoying to have a child.
In fact, this kind of talk about bear children seems to be only now, and now it is indeed a little pampered, but the previous things can basically appear, or that sentence, that is to say, those bear children will actually have it before, if they may do different things because of different times.
In addition, the information on the Internet is not particularly developed, which leads us to think that this kind of thing will not happen, but in fact, we think that some new things in the current society have been available before, and we think that there have been things that are more corrupt in the past.
It's just that the degree of information communication in the past was not particularly large, and I still remember a historical event, that is, from the 80s to the 00s, not a single county-level unit had a phone call, that is, there was no telephone conversation between them, which led to the increase of this kind of contradiction and even produced some such things, that is, some violent incidents.
It sounds unlikely, but that's exactly what happened, so for this matter, you can see the importance of messaging.
In fact, I can also think of the situation that the transmission of information in ancient times was even more incomprehensible, and how difficult it was for their court to control the locality, even if the mutual supervision system was very powerful, it was impossible to be perfect.
So now information is actually relatively important, of course, if you get it, it may not be so important, just like everyone has money and feels that this life doesn't matter, but if I go back to the era of eating chaff, I will feel that my original life is too comfortable.
What do I want to say?
That's right, the question of bear children, anyway, I think almost all of them around me are bear children, and bear children actually have a limit, and this limit is what kind of thing they can do, and some may be a little naughty and prank.
Some of them are more bad, that is, for example, rowing other people's cars and doing some more powerful pranks, as far as this kind of thing is concerned, this is called a real bear child.
Anyway, I have met a lot of such bear children, the main reason is, of course, from the habit of parents, I don't know what a really qualified parent should be, anyway, it seems to be very difficult, I think it is really difficult for a parent.
It's much more difficult than doing other things, you said that if you have a dog and a cat, you don't need to stir their minds, you just need to let them eat and drink, it's a very easy thing, this is the understanding of life.
Let their minds be corrected to a reasonable range, who can do it so appropriately, within this reasonable range, there are different boundaries in everyone's heart.
This kind of boundary is simply much more difficult than doing other things, if the management is too dead, the child can not show the most real appearance in front of the child, or a relatively real appearance, do not tell you any truth, it also feels very uncomfortable, and it is easy to hold back the disease, this disease, not necessarily a physical disease, may be a mental disease.
I remember that there are many people who say some ridiculous things, such as criticizing modern life, saying that modern people are prone to some mental illness and are more stressful, and look at how good people are in ancient times, there is no mental illness at all.
After hearing this, I felt very, very puzzled, as if the person who said this really traveled back and saw that the ancient people did not have any mental illness, and there is another thing that I am not very clear, even if the ancient people had mental illness, as if they really knew.
There seems to be no record of this disease other than this neurosis and madmen, and who told them that the life of the ancient people was less stressful?
I still believe in a sentence, and I really blame that person, let these people eat too much, after they are full, it is easy to think of more boring things, and writing these boring things is easy to hurt others, and even easy to hurt the whole era.
I just said it casually without doing anything to prove it, and I just promoted it to others as a truth, and I felt that I was a very knowledgeable person, so I casually read an article, an advertising article, an advertorial, and believed in what was said.
I've never checked the information, I haven't checked the data, turning over the phone is the truth, how do I feel like it's a bit extreme, okay, okay, don't talk about it.
I'm saying that it's really a difficult thing to be a parent, and the degree of difficulty is a matter of grasping the degree, in fact, if a child has any problems in society, I believe that many people have begun to spray their parents, and I also know that some parents do not do it properly, but I think no one is easy, except for a small number of people who are indeed more animalistic, most people are still more eager to do better.
Even if there is no reference to this situation, the things that others say are all out of the blue, it seems that there are many reasons, and it seems to be very reasonable, but when it comes to doing it yourself, you find that it is not so easy, but you have to follow the advice of others.
In fact, most people may highlight their abilities when giving advice, and if you say something unpleasant, you may be a little pretending, and this time it has left a brand in the hearts of others.
For example, have you ever heard such a saying?
"Look at the 2 fools in the house next door, they all went abroad to study, and they came back and found a job with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan."
This kind of thing can easily leave a mark on the children, that is, it may not be so good to ask your children to do so well.
This turtle may just be a so-called pheasant turtle, and another point is that his annual salary may be 80,000 or 60,000, but she is afraid of being embarrassed by it, so she says 1230,000.
But when it comes to your parents' mouths, it may become 200,000, so when facing some boasting or parents' salaries, it is basically a discount and multiplied by 7% off, and that's it.
Actually, it was the first time that I realized how hard it is to raise a child.
I have a lot of relatives, and they also have their own children, in fact, I have one thing that I am quite confident in myself, and getting along with those children is really very good, really, really very useful.
No matter what age the child is, as long as they are younger than me, I can spend a lot of time with them.
Maybe you will understand what I say, this period is just a pleasant time, if a certain time passes, this certain time is not an exact time, sometimes it may be three hours, sometimes it may be a day.
I would be very, very annoyed with these children, and I was thinking that if I were to get married, I would definitely not have children, and this is actually the reason for my phobia of children.
In fact, when a child is very cute at the beginning, sometimes he will be very cute, and sometimes he will feel very cute, because when you don't want him to do something, he thinks that it can be done and makes you laugh, that is, they may be in a good mood, but they are not sure of that degree.
Without this certainty, even if you want to get angry, they will think that you may be pretending to be angry, so they will continue to tease you in the same naughty way, of course, but they think, they think it is fun, and they don't feel that you don't want to do it or are about to get angry.
You won't be angry, after all, it's a relative's child, and you don't do it so excessively, and since it's not so excessive, it's as if you don't have the grace to be angry.
And I won't stay with them for too long, and even if they prefer to spend time with you, it may only be a few days, I think at most a few days.
But I think these days are very difficult days, so this fear of children may come from this.
But one thing is for sure, and for the most part I like them very much, and I'm willing to buy them some gifts, if I have the money.
And for a long time I was willing to play with them, after all, their toys were much better than mine, I just had some cards and yo-yos, and those kids were already playing with drones and boats that could be remotely controlled in the park.
Of course, this is a relatively good family condition, and I can even see some amphibious toys, such as the kind of car that can run and fly on the ground.
That kind of thing is really fun, and it has that kind of camera, which makes people feel very refreshing.
So one of the reasons why I hate those children is that there is no spirit of contract, as for what it means to say that there is no spirit of contract, that is, I have already agreed with those children that we will play alone for how long.
When that time comes, the kids will choose to make you give up a chance in all sorts of ways, and I hate them so much, which means that if they let me play with the toy, maybe I can really play with them for a long time.
There is also a fact that I believe many people have this feeling, that is, children seem to be very energetic all the time, and children seem to be not tired.
I've read this scientific talk in a book, it seems to be some kind of messy hormones and whatever, and the nervous system and so on, anyway, in general, this delusion of yours is not an illusion, you think this thing is true, he is really true.
Children are very energetic, and they are very energetic all day long, as if they don't know what it means to be tired, of course, I think on the one hand because this spirit is not under too much pressure, and on the other hand, it may be because of the science.
Anyway, I have to do my best when I play with them, and distribute my spirit reasonably, otherwise they will be making trouble all day long, and I would have chosen to go to sleep a long time ago.
I once helped my relative watch a child and liked to play with me, and the main reason is, of course, that I also liked the game he played, so we both played it all day and night, so he liked me.
If I am a very strict brother or uncle, and I have to let him do his homework, or let him play with his time while doing his homework, I believe he may not like him as an older brother or uncle.
Plus I'm not going to be angry with him.
But there is one thing, if my sincere dad is either or his dad, forget it or his dad, I will definitely beat him up, because it is so annoying to have a child.
In fact, this kind of talk about bear children seems to be only now, and now it is indeed a little pampered, but the previous things can basically appear, or that sentence, that is to say, those bear children will actually have it before, if they may do different things because of different times.
In addition, the information on the Internet is not particularly developed, which leads us to think that this kind of thing will not happen, but in fact, we think that some new things in the current society have been available before, and we think that there have been things that are more corrupt in the past.
It's just that the degree of information communication in the past was not particularly large, and I still remember a historical event, that is, from the 80s to the 00s, not a single county-level unit had a phone call, that is, there was no telephone conversation between them, which led to the increase of this kind of contradiction and even produced some such things, that is, some violent incidents.
It sounds unlikely, but that's exactly what happened, so for this matter, you can see the importance of messaging.
In fact, I can also think of the situation that the transmission of information in ancient times was even more incomprehensible, and how difficult it was for their court to control the locality, even if the mutual supervision system was very powerful, it was impossible to be perfect.
So now information is actually relatively important, of course, if you get it, it may not be so important, just like everyone has money and feels that this life doesn't matter, but if I go back to the era of eating chaff, I will feel that my original life is too comfortable.
What do I want to say?
That's right, the question of bear children, anyway, I think almost all of them around me are bear children, and bear children actually have a limit, and this limit is what kind of thing they can do, and some may be a little naughty and prank.
Some of them are more bad, that is, for example, rowing other people's cars and doing some more powerful pranks, as far as this kind of thing is concerned, this is called a real bear child.
Anyway, I have met a lot of such bear children, the main reason is, of course, from the habit of parents, I don't know what a really qualified parent should be, anyway, it seems to be very difficult, I think it is really difficult for a parent.
It's much more difficult than doing other things, you said that if you have a dog and a cat, you don't need to stir their minds, you just need to let them eat and drink, it's a very easy thing, this is the understanding of life.
Let their minds be corrected to a reasonable range, who can do it so appropriately, within this reasonable range, there are different boundaries in everyone's heart.
This kind of boundary is simply much more difficult than doing other things, if the management is too dead, the child can not show the most real appearance in front of the child, or a relatively real appearance, do not tell you any truth, it also feels very uncomfortable, and it is easy to hold back the disease, this disease, not necessarily a physical disease, may be a mental disease.
I remember that there are many people who say some ridiculous things, such as criticizing modern life, saying that modern people are prone to some mental illness and are more stressful, and look at how good people are in ancient times, there is no mental illness at all.
After hearing this, I felt very, very puzzled, as if the person who said this really traveled back and saw that the ancient people did not have any mental illness, and there is another thing that I am not very clear, even if the ancient people had mental illness, as if they really knew.
There seems to be no record of this disease other than this neurosis and madmen, and who told them that the life of the ancient people was less stressful?
I still believe in a sentence, and I really blame that person, let these people eat too much, after they are full, it is easy to think of more boring things, and writing these boring things is easy to hurt others, and even easy to hurt the whole era.
I just said it casually without doing anything to prove it, and I just promoted it to others as a truth, and I felt that I was a very knowledgeable person, so I casually read an article, an advertising article, an advertorial, and believed in what was said.
I've never checked the information, I haven't checked the data, turning over the phone is the truth, how do I feel like it's a bit extreme, okay, okay, don't talk about it.
I'm saying that it's really a difficult thing to be a parent, and the degree of difficulty is a matter of grasping the degree, in fact, if a child has any problems in society, I believe that many people have begun to spray their parents, and I also know that some parents do not do it properly, but I think no one is easy, except for a small number of people who are indeed more animalistic, most people are still more eager to do better.
Even if there is no reference to this situation, the things that others say are all out of the blue, it seems that there are many reasons, and it seems to be very reasonable, but when it comes to doing it yourself, you find that it is not so easy, but you have to follow the advice of others.
In fact, most people may highlight their abilities when giving advice, and if you say something unpleasant, you may be a little pretending, and this time it has left a brand in the hearts of others.
For example, have you ever heard such a saying?
"Look at the 2 fools in the house next door, they all went abroad to study, and they came back and found a job with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan."
This kind of thing can easily leave a mark on the children, that is, it may not be so good to ask your children to do so well.
This turtle may just be a so-called pheasant turtle, and another point is that his annual salary may be 80,000 or 60,000, but she is afraid of being embarrassed by it, so she says 1230,000.
But when it comes to your parents' mouths, it may become 200,000, so when facing some boasting or parents' salaries, it is basically a discount and multiplied by 7% off, and that's it.
Actually, it was the first time that I realized how hard it is to raise a child.
I have a lot of relatives, and they also have their own children, in fact, I have one thing that I am quite confident in myself, and getting along with those children is really very good, really, really very useful.
No matter what age the child is, as long as they are younger than me, I can spend a lot of time with them.
Maybe you will understand what I say, this period is just a pleasant time, if a certain time passes, this certain time is not an exact time, sometimes it may be three hours, sometimes it may be a day.
I would be very, very annoyed with these children, and I was thinking that if I were to get married, I would definitely not have children, and this is actually the reason for my phobia of children.
In fact, when a child is very cute at the beginning, sometimes he will be very cute, and sometimes he will feel very cute, because when you don't want him to do something, he thinks that it can be done and makes you laugh, that is, they may be in a good mood, but they are not sure of that degree.
Without this certainty, even if you want to get angry, they will think that you may be pretending to be angry, so they will continue to tease you in the same naughty way, of course, but they think, they think it is fun, and they don't feel that you don't want to do it or are about to get angry.
You won't be angry, after all, it's a relative's child, and you don't do it so excessively, and since it's not so excessive, it's as if you don't have the grace to be angry.
And I won't stay with them for too long, and even if they prefer to spend time with you, it may only be a few days, I think at most a few days.
But I think these days are very difficult days, so this fear of children may come from this.
But one thing is for sure, and for the most part I like them very much, and I'm willing to buy them some gifts, if I have the money.
And for a long time I was willing to play with them, after all, their toys were much better than mine, I just had some cards and yo-yos, and those kids were already playing with drones and boats that could be remotely controlled in the park.
Of course, this is a relatively good family condition, and I can even see some amphibious toys, such as the kind of car that can run and fly on the ground.
That kind of thing is really fun, and it has that kind of camera, which makes people feel very refreshing.
So one of the reasons why I hate those children is that there is no spirit of contract, as for what it means to say that there is no spirit of contract, that is, I have already agreed with those children that we will play alone for how long.
When that time comes, the kids will choose to make you give up a chance in all sorts of ways, and I hate them so much, which means that if they let me play with the toy, maybe I can really play with them for a long time.
There is also a fact that I believe many people have this feeling, that is, children seem to be very energetic all the time, and children seem to be not tired.
I've read this scientific talk in a book, it seems to be some kind of messy hormones and whatever, and the nervous system and so on, anyway, in general, this delusion of yours is not an illusion, you think this thing is true, he is really true.
Children are very energetic, and they are very energetic all day long, as if they don't know what it means to be tired, of course, I think on the one hand because this spirit is not under too much pressure, and on the other hand, it may be because of the science.
Anyway, I have to do my best when I play with them, and distribute my spirit reasonably, otherwise they will be making trouble all day long, and I would have chosen to go to sleep a long time ago.
I once helped my relative watch a child and liked to play with me, and the main reason is, of course, that I also liked the game he played, so we both played it all day and night, so he liked me.
If I am a very strict brother or uncle, and I have to let him do his homework, or let him play with his time while doing his homework, I believe he may not like him as an older brother or uncle.
Plus I'm not going to be angry with him.
But there is one thing, if my sincere dad is either or his dad, forget it or his dad, I will definitely beat him up, because it is so annoying to have a child.
In fact, this kind of talk about bear children seems to be only now, and now it is indeed a little pampered, but the previous things can basically appear, or that sentence, that is to say, those bear children will actually have it before, if they may do different things because of different times.
In addition, the information on the Internet is not particularly developed, which leads us to think that this kind of thing will not happen, but in fact, we think that some new things in the current society have been available before, and we think that there have been things that are more corrupt in the past.
It's just that the degree of information communication in the past was not particularly large, and I still remember a historical event, that is, from the 80s to the 00s, not a single county-level unit had a phone call, that is, there was no telephone conversation between them, which led to the increase of this kind of contradiction and even produced some such things, that is, some violent incidents.
It sounds unlikely, but that's exactly what happened, so for this matter, you can see the importance of messaging.
In fact, I can also think of the situation that the transmission of information in ancient times was even more incomprehensible, and how difficult it was for their court to control the locality, even if the mutual supervision system was very powerful, it was impossible to be perfect.
So now information is actually relatively important, of course, if you get it, it may not be so important, just like everyone has money and feels that this life doesn't matter, but if I go back to the era of eating chaff, I will feel that my original life is too comfortable.
What do I want to say?
That's right, the question of bear children, anyway, I think almost all of them around me are bear children, and bear children actually have a limit, and this limit is what kind of thing they can do, and some may be a little naughty and prank.
Some of them are more bad, that is, for example, rowing other people's cars and doing some more powerful pranks, as far as this kind of thing is concerned, this is called a real bear child.
Anyway, I have met a lot of such bear children, the main reason is, of course, from the habit of parents, I don't know what a really qualified parent should be, anyway, it seems to be very difficult, I think it is really difficult for a parent.
It's much more difficult than doing other things, you said that if you have a dog and a cat, you don't need to stir their minds, you just need to let them eat and drink, it's a very easy thing, this is the understanding of life.
Let their minds be corrected to a reasonable range, who can do it so appropriately, within this reasonable range, there are different boundaries in everyone's heart.
This kind of boundary is simply much more difficult than doing other things, if the management is too dead, the child can not show the most real appearance in front of the child, or a relatively real appearance, do not tell you any truth, it also feels very uncomfortable, and it is easy to hold back the disease, this disease, not necessarily a physical disease, may be a mental disease.
I remember that there are many people who say some ridiculous things, such as criticizing modern life, saying that modern people are prone to some mental illness and are more stressful, and look at how good people are in ancient times, there is no mental illness at all.
After hearing this, I felt very, very puzzled, as if the person who said this really traveled back and saw that the ancient people did not have any mental illness, and there is another thing that I am not very clear, even if the ancient people had mental illness, as if they really knew.
There seems to be no record of this disease other than this neurosis and madmen, and who told them that the life of the ancient people was less stressful?
I still believe in a sentence, and I really blame that person, let these people eat too much, after they are full, it is easy to think of more boring things, and writing these boring things is easy to hurt others, and even easy to hurt the whole era.
I just said it casually without doing anything to prove it, and I just promoted it to others as a truth, and I felt that I was a very knowledgeable person, so I casually read an article, an advertising article, an advertorial, and believed in what was said.
I've never checked the information, I haven't checked the data, turning over the phone is the truth, how do I feel like it's a bit extreme, okay, okay, don't talk about it.
I'm saying that it's really a difficult thing to be a parent, and the degree of difficulty is a matter of grasping the degree, in fact, if a child has any problems in society, I believe that many people have begun to spray their parents, and I also know that some parents do not do it properly, but I think no one is easy, except for a small number of people who are indeed more animalistic, most people are still more eager to do better.
Even if there is no reference to this situation, the things that others say are all out of the blue, it seems that there are many reasons, and it seems to be very reasonable, but when it comes to doing it yourself, you find that it is not so easy, but you have to follow the advice of others.
In fact, most people may highlight their abilities when giving advice, and if you say something unpleasant, you may be a little pretending, and this time it has left a brand in the hearts of others.
For example, have you ever heard such a saying?
"Look at the 2 fools in the house next door, they all went abroad to study, and they came back and found a job with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan."
This kind of thing can easily leave a mark on the children, that is, it may not be so good to ask your children to do so well.
This turtle may just be a so-called pheasant turtle, and another point is that his annual salary may be 80,000 or 60,000, but she is afraid of being embarrassed by it, so she says 1230,000.
But when it comes to your parents' mouths, it may become 200,000, so when facing some boasting or parents' salaries, it is basically a discount and multiplied by 7% off, and that's it.