I belong to the kind of person who has no material, which means that I actually wear relatively small clothes, and for a long time I wondered if I would be disliked after I got married.

The main reason is that my roommates and others are used to talking about this topic, but I am mainly the one who listens, and I have always thought that my body has little to do with the happiness of my marriage.

But since my roommate instilled in me some of the more frustrating notions that if a woman is not in good shape, then she may not be able to win the hearts of men.

This statement actually makes me feel that something is wrong, and the idea that I used to insist on has always been that the relationship between two people is still the most important, after all, how can the body be out of shape, because people will always get old.

It's okay to stress about it, I think it's okay, but you can't stress it too much.

Then I read a sentence and I feel that this sentence is very funny, this sentence is that no one will always be young, but always a little young.

To be honest, I agree with this sentence.,It's not realistic for you to really tie up a man by the body.,I think it's easy for him to have some evil thoughts about other people who are more powerful than himself after getting used to this thing.。

So I think that ah or emotion is the most important, if a man is still interested in such things after reaching that age, it means that this man is really a scumbag.

But now I'm a little shaken by this idea, although I didn't say it, but I do have a little shaken idea, because it seems that Zhuli can be so popular now, on the one hand, because of her figure.

As a girl, I didn't pay much attention to this thing at the beginning, so I didn't pay so much attention to Zhuli, and I didn't think that Zhuli was popular because of this figure.

But now I finally feel it.,This thing doesn't seem to be as simple as I thought.,This question for men is really a little unclear.,Because men seem to be really good.。

According to what Qi Yang told me, this thing is because of genes, not because people nowadays have thoughts, so some people can restrain this gene.

I don't know if I thought that there would be such a problem when genes upgraded themselves, it was simply self-extermination.

In fact, it's also quite interesting to think about such a question, because Qi Yang has said a lot of funny questions similar to me, for example, nothing is absolute, and the sentence itself is not an absolute question.

There is also the question of whether the most famous assassin in the world is the most unqualified assassin.

Because the Assassins' job is to assassinate others, if they become famous, it means that they have turned their backs on this essence.

But in fact, this kind of problem is a kind of self-contradiction, and the second problem I think is quite easy to solve, an assassin depends on who he assassinated, if he assassinated some more powerful characters, then he is famous but not necessarily knows his name.

So there should be no inconsistencies in this matter, but when this question is raised, it seems to be inconsistent.

Continuing to talk about the problem of this figure, I wanted to change it just now to try it, but I found that I couldn't control this number at all.

So I opened Zhuli's beizi and took a good look.,As for what to see, there's no need to say more.,I'm just looking at the situation of this figure.。

After looking at it, I felt a little inferior.,I didn't expect this fullness to be really high.,I won't say anything else.,Sitting on a fullness of words, I'm sure many people have understood.,Anyway, I feel like one of her can catch up with my two.。

Originally, I thought I was in a very normal situation, but now it seems that I am not normal at all, and I even have a little pain.

Heaven and earth, why do I encounter such a situation, I know that women will pay attention to this matter when they reach a certain age, and they will pay attention to this matter very much, and even compare with others.

I think if it weren't for my roommates, the attention to this issue would have been delayed for a while, but it's a pity that my roommates are babbling in my ears all day long, what kind of feel and what can be mastered by a hand, after such things are said, basically I don't pay much attention to this matter now.

And it does produce an inferiority complex.,I used to think that I was okay.,This makeshift means that you can still make do with it.。

As for how to use it, I definitely didn't know how to use it before, so I probably know how to use it, so as far as this matter is concerned, it was with this group of filthy roommates that I only knew how to use this thing.

In the past, I thought that this effect was the most basic function, that is, it was used by children, but now there is such an effect, which is really unimaginable.

Of course, I can actually see it on TV, and if I can't see it, then I don't have to be a student, but at that time, I still felt that it was just a show off or an attraction.

Other effects may not be so much.

I remember reading a sentence on a video, this sentence is like this, what man has such a big obsession with two lumps of rou.

Now I'm a little bit unexpected, and I don't know why I have such a big obsession with this thing, I watched this video made by a woman, and it was definitely not a video made by a man, and this thing is still very normal.

In fact, most women who have not experienced it will feel that this thing is indeed a bit unbelievable, that is, after experiencing it, they know that this matter is a relatively normal thing.

I laughed when I heard that, and there was a little girl like this who said that such a thing didn't feel a little obscene, so I felt like there was a little bit of a problem.

Since there's no way to experiment, I think forget it, I can't wear it anyway, and it's also virtual when I wear it, so I thought Zhuli was also virtual, but I didn't expect people to be completely solid.

I just wanted to ask a question, does Zhuli feel very tired when running, I think it takes about 10 pounds to carry such a thing.

It seems that such girls are still more tired, and they used to be a little envious, but now they don't have any envy at all, and I think this kind of thing still has a certain degree.

On the one hand, it is to prevent some people's eyes, and on the other hand, it is indeed very tiring, and it is very bad, especially in summer.

In fact, when I was in high school, I saw some girls put band-aids, and as for why they put band-aids, it was to save trouble, especially in the summer, which is really very trouble-free.

But there is still a condition that needs to be fulfilled at this point, and it is very small in that place, otherwise the thing will not be successful.

I didn't feel anything before, but now I suddenly feel so funny that I want to put on a band-aid.

After the two of us got up, it was almost noon, and now I felt very hungry, I wanted to call and ask if Qi Yang could bring me food, anyway, it was already daylight, and Zhuli had already woken up.

I woke up when I lifted the quilt just now, and after waking up, I teased Zhu Li: "It seems that your future boyfriend is very happy, just look at your thing." ”

Zhuli didn't feel shy, and both of us were girls, so there shouldn't be anything shy, so she smiled and said to me, "What do you care about this matter, it doesn't have anything to do with you." ”

I continued to tease: "You don't understand this, I mean that you will be very happy in the future, and your boyfriend must be sticking to you every day." ”

Zhuli shook her head: "This thing will also have a certain degree of boredom, do you know what is the best?" ”

I didn't know what kind of thoughts and feelings Zhu Li wanted to express, so I shook my head and said to Zhu Li, "Why don't you talk to me?" I don't really understand. ”

"This thing doesn't care about itself, but about the other party, what you don't get is always the best thing, which is applicable to both men and women, so don't do it too early."

It seems that Zhuli is also very profound, otherwise I wouldn't know such a truth.

Zhuli continued while getting dressed: "So I advise you, but after you really want to talk to Qiyang in the future, the time you must do is the specified number of times." ”

I don't know why it came to me just like that, but it really seems to have something to do with me, and to be honest, I really want to ask for advice, but it doesn't seem appropriate to ask directly.

I didn't speak, I wanted Zhuli to continue, it depends on whether Zhuli says it or not, if it really says, it doesn't hurt to listen to it, but if I don't say it, I seem to really ask.

Zhu Li really continued: "Especially when you are in a long-distance relationship, if you really start this thing, in fact, you will feel that you are comparative, but men should be a little more powerful than you, so even if you can, you have to hang a little more." ”

"You will feel that this guy is so close to you, whether he is outside or at that time, he is sticking to you, but the ultimate goal is that purpose."

Hearing this, my face was actually hot, and I didn't understand the importance of this matter, so I listened to what others told me, and Zhuli has told me a lot in the past few days, whether it is to tease me, or to say that she sincerely wants to talk to me about this matter.

Anyway, I've received a lot of knowledge, but this thing really doesn't really reach the level I want.

Zhuli continued: "But let me tell you, there is one thing you don't want to be angry, that is, if they are very indifferent to you after the matter is over, or they are sleeping directly next to you, this is a very normal thing, if there is a boy who can take care of you, it is basically that this boy is a peerless good man." ”

"But if there's really no way to take care of it, that's normal, basically after you get angry once or twice, he understands the importance of this matter."

Something is wrong.

Is it really that tired? Otherwise, how to fall asleep, even I have heard a saying, that is, in that country, in fact, the gap between that woman's occupation and that man's occupation is very large.

As for what country and what profession I believe there is no need to say more, because it is very tiring for men to do such an industry, okay, okay, don't talk about it, I feel that if I say a few more words, I may be banned.

I immediately smiled and said, "Forget it, don't tell me, what are you doing when you tell me about this, I'm not interested in this matter." ”

Zhu Li obviously didn't see that I was trying to get caught, to be precise, she didn't feel that I was trying to get caught, so she nodded her finger and said to me: "You guy told you that you don't want to, you haven't experienced it, I'm mainly telling you about my experience, if you have experienced it, you will understand the importance of this kind of thing, and you will be a lot less angry." ”

This guy does seem to have a little more experience, in fact, I want to listen to it more at this time, but one thing that is a pity is that Zhuli thought I didn't want to listen, so he didn't continue to talk to me about it.

It's a big deal now, and it's just overused with strategy, but to be honest, this thing should also have some benefits.

At least as Zhu Li said, how can there be less conflict, how can it also reduce some of the reasons for anger.

In fact, it is easy to have some sources of anger between boys and girls, sometimes anger is inexplicable, but boys and boys are together, and girls are together, and the degree of anger will be very small, very little.

On the one hand, there is not much conflict of interest, and on the other hand, it may be that you know each other better, mainly because of the same surname, so this understanding will be very much, and since it is very much, it is possible to understand the other party without causing some big contradictions.

But to be honest, I still have to get married after all, so now I think what Zhu Li said is actually a bit like that, but it can also be used as an experience.

Of course, this kind of experience is not necessarily useful at critical moments, for example, when I should be angry, maybe I will forget about this kind of thing, and I will make me angry and angry.

I especially understand the existence of this situation, because the two of us are often angry.

For example, after I get angry once, I don't think it's necessary to get angry this time, so I mentally remind myself what I'm going to do the next time I'm angry.

But the next time I'm angry, I find that I can't remember these things at all, what messy thoughts, what don't be angry, what places are just joking, all of them are forgotten, and the result won't be much after forgetting, basically just continue to be angry, and then remember this idea.

It feels very, very uncomfortable, so it's an infinite loop, but it's really something that shouldn't be done, both for me and for sheep.

That's why I said that this kind of experience is not necessarily useful, the main thing is that we really can't remember anything when we are angry.

However, I still listened to Zhuli's advice, but now that Zhuli is not talking, I don't know what to do.

After a while, I had already cleaned up, but Zhu Li, I guess it would be a long time, and asked Zhu Li, "Are you hungry now?" ”

Zhuli yelled: "Aren't you talking nonsense? Can I not be hungry, hurry up, call the front desk and ask the front desk to bring some food. ”

In fact, I haven't stayed in a hotel for a long time and I forgot such a thing, I remember that it seemed to be delivered breakfast, so I called the front desk and told me a little bit about it.

And let Zhuli plan to tip people a little, otherwise it would be impossible for people to come up for this kind of thing, and more or less to give a little service fee.

Because we also need to go to their dining place to eat this breakfast, we have solved this matter.

Waiting in the room, I started playing with my phone, and then started chatting with Qi Yang.

According to the chat, I know that now Qiyang is going to drive, to be precise, to go driving with Xiaofeng, to be precise, to borrow a car.

Since this is the case, it is estimated that they also have a certain amount of psychological preparation in their hearts, so the fact that they are only going to borrow the car now means that they may know that it will take us a long time to get up.

I also sent the message and the butterfly smoke.

Suddenly found a very funny thing, this is the relationship between me and Zhuli is like the relationship between Dieyan and Li Qing, one is lazy and the other is not too lazy, I can't say hardworking, if I say hardworking, it seems that I feel that I have insulted the word diligence.

I can only say that one is lazy and the other is not too lazy, and the others have nothing to say, and then one of them is not deeply involved in the world and the other is very deep.

There is also the fact that one of them has a boyfriend, and the other seems to be ...... As if this is not quite true because I have boyfriends and all three of them are single dogs.

I suddenly found out that I still have a certain chain of contempt, and I mean that I seem to be at the top of the chain of contempt now.

Oh, in fact, there are still chains of contempt now, for example, those who are admitted to Tsinghua University are despised and admitted to 211, those who are admitted to 211 are admitted to ordinary undergraduates, and those who are admitted to junior college are admitted to ordinary undergraduates.

Those who were admitted to junior college were more likely to graduate from high school, and of course I was just joking, because I put the rise at the bottom of the chain of contempt.

Maybe Qi Yang can despise the junior high school of others, of course, I don't feel that it doesn't matter if this guy Qi Yang doesn't go to college, it really doesn't matter to him, it must be a very important thing for ordinary people.

So as far as this matter is concerned, there is also a chain of contempt in this aspect of marriage, the contempt of divorce is getting married, the contempt of marriage is cohabiting, and the contempt of cohabitation is still in love in a different place, I mean that if you don't live together, you live together again, which should be considered a long distance.

There is also the fact that this person who is in love is not in love, of course, this chain of contempt can also be established, as for what does it mean?

It's very simple, and those who are not in love feel that they are living very comfortably, so they despise those who are in love, and those who are in love feel that they are very relaxed and will not delay other things, that is to say, they feel that they are very free.

Sometimes they despise marriage or cohabitation.

And then it's to go on, living together and feeling that it's really too free to get married, and having children has to take into account things like the other party's parents, how comfortable it is to live now, and you don't need to think about other messy things.

In marriage, I am very affectionate and naturally despise those who are divorced, and I think that if you want to get married after you divorce, it will be difficult to get married, of course, I don't mean to despise it at all, just talking about this matter.

The existence of this chain of contempt has led to the fact that I am now at the top of the three of them, and of course it is possible that the three of them are standing on me.

In fact, I have talked a lot about Dieyan, and Dieyan, a little girl, doesn't want to fall in love, but she just hasn't had time.

Whether it is work or school, she only has so much time to lose now, and it is also revealed from her words that she wants to fall in love.

But I'm not a matchmaker, and I can't introduce a better person to others, in fact, the people I know are not very suitable for Dieyan.

I mean, those people in school are definitely not suitable, because they are so far away that there is no such thing as a long-distance relationship, and besides, I don't know those people very well.

So this one definitely won't work.

And I also have some small hair that I know more clearly.,But these small words feel a little wrong.,Because of this family relationship, it's not very appropriate.,

Some people say that it can't be emphasized at all that this beautiful relationship is over as long as it is true love? The key is that this is the object of introduction, and the first thing to decide about is that this is almost appropriate.

Because since it's the object of introduction, it means that you have to pass the parents' level, which means that this thing is not true love in the first place, and if it is really true love, it doesn't matter if you can make this gap a little bigger.

But a very key problem is,This is either true love or the object of introduction.,How can this strength be a little closer.,It's a shame.,It's really not good if the strength isn't particularly close.。

Some people say that this is not right, but in a way, it protects some people from bullying.

But if you really want to raise your own class in this way, then if I haven't said this, most people will have to suffer from this again, whether they really want to improve their class through this thing, or they don't want to improve their class through this thing.

Anyway, this characterization is here, which means that it doesn't matter what you think, to be precise, it doesn't matter a little, so this thing always has to suffer a little, this is how you think.

The gap between this will cause them to suffer a very big ordeal, some people say that good things are more grinding, this good thing should indeed be grinded more, if it is too powerful, it may be grinded, this thing has not been considered.

Besides, the living environment is different, and I finally understand that the probability of the difference between the three views is very large, and the probability of being different from the concept is very large.

Now the tribulation between the two is the problem of the three views, and there are some other concepts, and if so many concepts are put together, it is easy to show that the first tribulation that these two people have to go through is their own tribulation.

And this ordeal is the problem caused by the wrong door, in fact, this problem is some small problems, if you are really willing to change, this problem is not difficult, but the premise of this character problem, is whether the character is suitable or not suitable for change.

I think I belong to the kind of person who is very suitable for change, and I should not brag about this, although I only went to college for one year, but I think that I should start from understanding my three views if I change my own three views.

When I mix with them, my concept of the world has changed drastically, and that concept is a little extreme now, which is absolutely not ridiculous because of my previous concept, in other words, my previous concept is also a normal concept.

It's just that this normal concept is a little extreme, and now I have changed this extreme a little, and I am very grateful that I have a second world.

What I thank my dad for is that my dad gave me the first world, and if I belong to the second world, that is, if I was the second world from the beginning, it means that there is a high probability that I will not be able to survive in the first world.

So I'm most grateful to my dad, followed by my uplifting.

The most refreshing thing about this is that I have lived in both worlds, and I know what their patterns are like in these two worlds, and if I make a friend in the first world, I can have something to talk to about him.

Let's put it this way, if I have two friends going out together, I can talk to my friends in the first world on the left, and I can talk to my friends in the second world on the back, and the two are completely seamless.

It's a feeling that few people can experience, but to be honest, I still feel very happy.

But I don't think I'm bragging, and the rest of us may not be able to talk to each other.

This is the first tribulation, and the second tribulation comes from the family.

We think those TV dramas are very, which means that the parents suspect that this girl may be because their family has money or something.

But if we really substitute ourselves as ourselves, that is, we don't look at this matter from the perspective of a god, and we may find some of our own shadows in them.

But sometimes we may suspect that others have certain thoughts about us, and this kind of thing is reasonable.

Because of this understanding of men or women, only this own son or daughter has a certain understanding of this matter, and parents do not know much about it.

Then he has every reason to believe that this person is for his family or something, this idea is absolutely understandable, I think at least on my side is understandable, there should be no big problem.

I mean, if I were one of those parents, I would probably have the same idea, after all, many people have a certain desire to protect their property or other types of property.

Then this kind of thinking about young people will make young people feel very disappointed, and there will definitely be some contradictions in the process of contact.

So I think it's completely understandable, and it's a very, very normal thing.

But these very normal things will bring some trouble to some young people, and I really don't want to bring a lot of mental distress and ideological pressure because of this thing.

Of course, if you really have that strength, in fact, to be honest, the economic pressure should not be small.

This is the second tribulation, and the third tribulation is the sense of identification with the people around the other person, for example, if you really want to be the kind of person who the other person is, you need to adapt to the other person's environment, and what kind of environment the other person's environment is is actually difficult for us to consider in the first place.

Just like I didn't know what kind of environment he was in the beginning, just the two of us were basically joking, but now it's serious, the two of us are completely different, those two people are really right, otherwise my father wouldn't have agreed so happily.

Actually, when I talked to my mom about it, it was hard to talk about it, to be honest, who would have thought of such a thing, Qian didn't think that I would talk to my mom about such a thing in high school.

But when I really said it, I felt very happy, and I also felt a lot of pride.

If I give an example, you may know that when I first met Qi Yang, I had a huge conflict with Qi Yang, to be precise, my little sisters.

At that time, there was a huge conflict, and I also knew the temper of my little sister, which was very in line with my temper at the time, and there was already such a conflict when Qiyang and they didn't know each other, so don't say what kind of things will happen after you want to communicate with each other after you get to know each other.

I think it's unimaginable.

So this three-view problem, in fact, I am the same as Qi Yang, that is, this matter actually seems to be related to future health, I mean physical health and mental health, as if this matter is indeed a very important thing.

I don't think I need to say more about this three-view problem, the main thing I want to say is that I have nothing to introduce to Dieyan.

If there is really a friend who can be suitable for Dieyan, I will definitely introduce it to others, but this little girl is quite good if I want to evaluate it.

Among the girls I know, I don't think there are many who can catch up with Dieyan, and according to the contact between me and Dieyan, there are not many things that the two of us are in contact with now.

But I feel that this little girl has a very good temper, this temper is not bad, the time of contact between the two of us except for the beginning of a little unknown conflict, the rest of the feeling is very good, very good.

There is almost no contradictory incident, and there may be a reason for the way he contacts the two of us, that is, most of the way the two of us are in contact online rather than in real life.

Of course, there should be nothing too ...... between the two Forget it, it seems that there is still a little difference.

I was playing with my phone on the bed, and I asked Zhuli next to me: "Sister, when will you be able to clean up?" ”

"It's coming, it's coming."

I felt as if I was very familiar with this sentence, and I felt as if I had heard it somewhere.

By the way, I remembered, whenever I go to those small restaurants or big restaurants to eat, I feel why the food has not been served, sometimes I will ask the waiter, when will you be able to serve the food.

The waiter's answer without exception is that it is fast, whether the waiter is the waiter who serves you or not, the waiter will say a few words.

In the past, it was really fast, but I found it to be too naïve, because the difference in time between you and whether you ask or not seems to be that big.

Also, when you buy some snacks at the stall, there are a lot of people there, there are a lot of people in line, you go and ask, "How many people are there in front of my aunt?" ”

At this time, most people will not say a few people, which will say that there are not many soon, soon.

Yes, that's basically what it looks like, so I don't believe in these 4 words anymore, so I said to Zhuli: "Don't tell me about words like fast, fast, fast, just ask you how long it will take now, whether it's an hour, or two hours, and tell me about this specific time." ”

Zhuli looked at me and smiled: "This serious appearance makes me feel so uncomfortable, I feel a little uncomfortable being so serious." ”

Actually, I don't mind waiting, I've already determined today that it's going to be late to leave, so now I just want an exact time so that I can arrange other things, and it's a big deal to let him pick up me and Qiyang out here for a while.

It's okay to go to the market and the supermarket, but I still prefer to go to the market and find some clothes I like, mainly to enjoy the process and not necessarily need to buy something.

So I just need the most accurate time now, but this Zhuli and I are playing haha.

Zhu Li smiled and said, "What about this time, I said that you don't want to be angry, it may not take an hour or two hours." ”

I didn't know why there was such a situation, so I nodded: "You mean it can be solved in half an hour?" ”

"No, isn't it that you're thinking too much, I mean how about three hours?"

I feel like I'm going to hit the street, what are you going to do for three hours and three hours?

Of course, Zhu Li already fully understood my feelings, which means that she had already answered me about this matter before I asked her what she needed to do in the past three hours.

"It may take less than an hour for me to take a shower, it may take about 20 minutes for my hair to blow, and it may take about an hour for me to put on makeup, which means that I need about three hours in total?"

I still don't understand a little, and when I haven't asked yet, Zhu Li blurted out again: "What do I still think about the rest of the time, forget it, I won't tell you, anyway, I need a long time now, so if you have anything to arrange now, then go and arrange it." ”

Now that this guy has told the truth, I'm sure I'll arrange my own affairs.

At this time, I immediately made a phone call with Qi Yang, who happened to be on the way back from borrowing a car, don't you really say that this time is really quite a coincidence.

Then I'll ask Qi Yang to pick me up, and the two of us will go out and have some fun, but I still want to see what this place has to offer.

Qi Yang said okay.

Then I packed up my things and went down, in fact, to be honest, I don't have anything to clean up, although I also wear makeup, but this time is definitely not as exaggerated as Zhuli said.

I especially want to ask Zhuli one thing, do I get up two hours earlier when I usually go to school? I think this thing is already very scary, it's okay to say when you go to school, but it's really scary when you go to work.

I have to get up two hours early, and I don't have a special cold about going to work, so I think it's better for me not to go to work.

I also know that some companies have to ask for makeup and must be dressed neatly, which is of course understandable, and it is estimated that meeting customers to make them feel very happy can also increase the success rate of this contract.

Of course, I don't understand this time, in fact, it is impossible to work 8 hours a day and 5 days a week, I am very clear about this matter, although I used to think that this phenomenon was very common, now I know that this phenomenon is definitely not very common.

Of course, it wasn't very difficult for me to get to such a situation, and it should be a very simple thing for me.

But thinking about other people, it is really a torture for women to go to work for so long every day, and to spend so long on makeup every day, so I feel very unworthy for women.

Because work is meant to be for life.