Chapter 958: Mate Selection Criteria
Everyone has their own way of living, and I definitely can't force others, in fact, I really hope that Zhuli can be like Qiyang, although it is a little bad to say that it is not good to be separated from her parents, I always feel that what Zhuli gets is too illusory.
A lot of things feel very simple, and very simple means that these things are not cherished, and even after saying these things, there is no way to adapt to other things.
I feel very bad about this, if Zhuli can really have the best ideas on this platform, I think it is the most important choice.
Actually, I said that others can't do it themselves, and I feel a little bit like a crow standing on the coal pile, just seeing others dark.
The two of us fell asleep while talking, and as I expected, there was no alarm the next day, and when I woke up, it was already 12 noon.
Although it is said that the sleep is very comfortable, but there is not much time left for us, only an afternoon to play and not play too much, the day after tomorrow in the afternoon will be set off, and there is no time to clean up in the morning.
The time it takes for us girls to clean up is indeed very long, and I used to think that this time was a normal time, but now it seems that this time is a little abnormal.
I think the reason for the abnormality is the contrast, compared to this guy Yang, I got a lot of things from Yang, that is, different living habits from me.
I feel that Yang and I are two extremes.
I need to pack my things in a small notebook a few days in advance, and then I need to organize them two hours in advance for the day.
After two hours of tidying up, I had to take a special look at my little notebook to see if there was anything wrong
But Qiyang is completely different, it is impossible to do this, basically wait until the time of leaving, about half an hour, quickly pack everything up.
Actually, what I'm saying is not exaggerating at all, to be precise, I'm taking this time a little longer, why is it long? Although it is said that it is half an hour in advance, it is estimated that it will be five minutes, and everything has been packed and put in the backpack.
The rest of the time is to play with my phone and read novels, it's just enjoyable, don't want to, I never thought I could pack things so quickly, it was just beyond my expectations.
Every time I checked Qiyang's backpack to see if anything he was carrying was missing, but one thing was very obvious, that is, no, I should say almost none, almost never missing.
Most of the time, it was packed very accurately, and there was nothing left behind, which I really felt very shocked!
I don't know if Qiyang has a small book, but it's true that it hasn't fallen once, and I've discussed this with Qiyang, but Qiyang didn't say too much about it, as if this kind of thing was a talent.
He said he was cleaning up in advance.
Well, maybe we packed a little too much, but I'm still a little unwilling, so try to shorten the time it takes to pack my things.
So far, it's been doing well, and I can basically clean up in the morning if I leave in the afternoon, and clean up the night before the night before if I leave in the morning.
It's basically like this, but they're still like this, half an hour to clean up when they leave early, if it's morning, it seems that most of the boys don't want to clean up last night, basically get up half an hour early.
I have to say that this is really a matter of talent, anyway, I can't do it like this at the moment.
In other words, when we go the day after tomorrow and Sunday, I think we can clean up the morning after tomorrow and spend an hour or two, so there is not much time to go out in the morning.
Although there are no interesting places in my city, I should go shopping more or less, such as large shopping malls, such as parks, such as local buildings.
This kind of thing should still be a good visit.
When I woke up, I saw something that made me feel particularly incredible, and that was that Zhuli was reading a book, listening to music and reading a book right next to me.
It felt very pleasant, and it also gave me the illusion that she was my girlfriend.
When she found out that I was awake, she took off her headphones and said to me with a smile, "What are you, I thought you were going to sleep until the afternoon." ”
I said, "Why don't you wake me up, it's almost time to check out, right?" And we're going to have fun in the afternoon. ”
Zhuli waved her hand: "Oh, don't worry, don't worry, how can this kind of thing be in a hurry, besides, it's the same wherever you go to play, why don't you sleep for a while?" ”
I immediately got up: "Forget it, I won't sleep anymore, and I guess it'll be night when I sleep for a while." ”
Looking at the bed next to him, he really didn't wake up, but I wondered why Zhuli could wake up so early, as if he had also drunk a lot of wine.
The reason why I woke up was actually a little embarrassed to say, I completely let the urine wake up.
But it's beyond my expectations, usually I wake up this thing in the morning, plus because of the physiological structure, women are generally not able to hold it, so I'm proud now.
Anyway, is this a point I should be proud of? How do you feel that something is not right, as if this shouldn't be a place of pride?
I went to the bathroom and turned on the faucet first, although they were all girls, but the sound of the water was too loud, and I was still a little embarrassed.
Covering up my voice with water from the tap is something I do regularly.
After a while, I woke them up one by one, and if they didn't wake up, it would be time to check out, and if I didn't check out, I guess it would cost a little more, and it was not worth spending a little more for a few hours.
In the past, I may have thought it didn't matter, but now I really think it doesn't matter, after all, it's my own money that is spent.
In the past, when I was next to my parents, I felt that I didn't spend my own money when I spent money, but now it's not next to my parents, and there is a sense of self-reliance, and I must think about it more or less when I spend money.
Although the source of money is the same, there is always a different feeling, which I believe many college students do.
After waking them up, we all went out to check out, and the first thing I did was to go back to the dormitory first, and the reason for going back to the dormitory was to make up for it first.
I don't feel like I can go out without makeup, my makeup is very simple, but I have to comb my hair, otherwise I feel very uncomfortable.
So a few of us went back to the dormitory first, after eating, I took Zhuli to play in the afternoon, and the lunch was very simple, one person and a plate of rice bowls.
The amount of food on Zhuli's side is still not so big.,I only ate half a plate.,And I wiped out that half of the plate.,Anyway, I'm very hungry.,It's nothing to eat.,It's nothing if you don't eat.,It's just a waste if you don't eat.。
So I wiped out the half of Zhuli's plate, and the food near our school was very delicious, otherwise how would we survive? If the amount is not much, it must depend on this taste.
Back in the dormitory, Zhu Li was more exaggerated than me, just like she said, now I started to change my underwear, and I also deliberately ran to the bathroom, I wondered, it's all girls who are afraid of hair, and besides, I haven't seen it.
But I don't know why, I feel like I'm a little perverted when I say this.
Of course, the top and bottom have changed, helpless, quite helpless.
And I'm not that complicated, what I have to do is to get my hair done first, how difficult it is for girls to get their hair is only known to us girls.
This comb can't be combed down at once, you need to press it down gently, and then slowly comb it down, not twice, not twice, not three times.
Until all the hair is smooth, so it's a little better.
When I said this, I still remember the first time Qi Yang combed my hair, it almost didn't hurt me, this guy was like killing a pig, holding the comb and going down!
It felt like all the hair was coming off my head, and I kicked him right away!
It's really not an exaggeration at all, I felt much less pain than kicking him, and in an instant this guy yelled as if he had been abused by me.
Even if he had a temper, he asked me on the spot: "Why do you hurt so much!" Can you light it up! ”
Since that incident, I have never asked Yang to comb my hair, although Yang has improved his skills a little bit, but the saying is really good, men are big pigs' trotters.
Although the technique has improved, of course it is not that technique has improved, I am talking about the technique of combing my hair, but it still sometimes makes me very painful, and he doesn't know that he dragged it a little, so he knew that he held my head down, as if plucking.
Actually, it's still a bit funny, and if you can imagine that kind of scene, it would be self-evident how funny it is, but I'm really, really fed up!
Every time I asked him to comb my hair, I was terrified, otherwise my little heart would be damaged again, so I chose to do it myself, I thought it was a very beautiful scene for a boy to comb a girl's hair.
I've seen this kind of scene from movies and TV series, and I've always longed for this situation, and I've always felt that this situation is a very romantic thing.
But one thing that is a pity is that movies are movies after all, and the screen is a screen after all.
That sentence is really good, art comes from life is higher than life, next time who will say that a boy combs a girl's hair is very romantic, and the old lady punched his little Ding Ding!
Romance your sister! I hurt my mother, you know?
Again, if a girl wants to ask me about it, I will only answer her with one sentence: Men are big pigs' trotters.
After tidying up your hair, wash the makeup on your face with makeup remover, and then make your face a little, after all, this is still a lot of people, I used to think that makeup was a very glamorous thing, and at the same time it was a very distant thing.
But now it seems that this thing is really not that far away, because I have come to this starting point.
I know that the next thing will definitely have to wait for Zhuli, and I'm not sure how long it will take to deal with it, anyway, I think this time should be too little.
It took about 20 minutes to change clothes, and I don't know if I would change clothes or do something unknown inside!
But don't think about it, I'm not talking about that, I'm really thinking about something!
After changing her clothes, Zhuli started to put on makeup on my little table, and she was supposed to have washed her face in the bathroom.
It is said that girls look like each other after makeup and after removing makeup, which should actually be the way it should be for someone, not that all people, most people are indeed very different, which is why makeup.
But if the difference isn't particularly big, who wants to put on makeup, what to do with that thing, and what to do with something that doesn't make any sense?
Zhuli actually has a very big gap, this time I didn't feel it, the most important thing is because I had a psychological preparation during the New Year, and the time to meet with Zhuli during the New Year was also quite long, basically going out to put on makeup, so the look I saw was basically what she looked like after the costume, and now there is no big gap.
At this time, I will praise Zhuli, as for why she did this, there must be a certain reason, and the reason for doing this is to save her a little time.
Because I praised her, she felt very good in her heart, and she felt very good in her heart, which will definitely reduce some of the time for makeup, although she may say that you don't praise me, you are lying.
But I still accepted this kind of thing psychologically, so I thought maybe this makeup was enough.
"Oh, look at the girl in our family is really out of the water hibiscus, so beautiful!"
Wouldn't that be a bit exaggerated? Doesn't it feel a little fake? But I don't particularly care.
There is a saying that it is really good, don't care if it is a black cat or a white cat, it is a good cat if you catch a mouse, I forget which great man said it, but it feels very familiar, and it is often used by me.
Zhu Li smiled: "Okay, okay, don't praise me, I'll really take it as a tonic when the time comes." ”
Sure enough, the little girl didn't praise it, and I felt a little funny when I saw her smile, and I really responded to that sentence, saying that I didn't want a body but was very honest.
A very, very typical behavior, saying don't praise me, but the smile on that face is about to open, like a chrysanthemum, I bah! It's like a peach blossom, and finally found a very good adjective.
Yes, yes, it's like a peach blossom.
This shows that she listened to this, and it also shows that this Zhuli really thinks I really have to praise her.
Well, I still admit that Zhuli is still relatively beautiful in some ways, generally speaking, like this rich second generation, as long as she doesn't look so good, she basically won't be particularly ugly, and her appearance is above the middle.
The main reason is that it is piled up by money, and as for what this fork means, I will take care of it myself.
In fact, it really depends on the accumulation of money, and the skin has been very good since I was a child, and to be honest, acne can be cured, and the day before yesterday it cost a lot of money.
And hair is also okay, anyway, the messy things on the body, in addition to not being able to give you a new youth, are basically allowed to get the highest and highest treatment when you are young.
So basically, after the foundation is laid, this kind of will not be particularly ugly, and there is generally no need for plastic surgery, and now children I think are particularly beautiful, and there is no need for too many things to pile up.
And many parents of the post-80s generation feel that their aesthetic is very normal, saying that the clothes worn by some children are also very eye-catching, and they feel that there is not much difference between them and a very handsome young man.
The clothes she wears, such as the girl's leggings and small boots, and the small shirt with a small tie on the upper body, is the kind of Japanese and Korean style school uniform, which is really handsome when worn on the little girl, and you can also feel the temperament and beauty of the girl.
Boys are basically like this, but this is some of the aesthetics of the post-80s, if you say it further, there may be a big gap, children, their aesthetic ability is originally solved by their parents, what clothes they wear, what clothes they wear.
Zhu Li's face shape is not bad.,According to my understanding, it shouldn't have been rectified.,I know Zhu Li very clearly.,It's a school from childhood to adulthood.,Although it's not a class.,But basically I know what activities she has.。
Not to mention this kind of large-scale activity, this kind of large-scale activity must take a long time, the two of us have never been separated for more than ten days, even if she goes out to play, basically she will come back in about ten days, and there will be occasional video calls after high school.
So as far as this matter is concerned, I don't think there should be any big problems, and my guess is that there should be no big problems.
Coupled with the fact that I am very familiar with Zhuli's face shape, I am basically sure that I have not had plastic surgery, and in fact there is no great need.
Although it is not a melon seed face, it is not a big round face, nor is it a national face, which is more in line with the aesthetic ability of the Chinese people.
However, sometimes I don't quite understand the aesthetics of foreigners, and after a while, I gradually understand that the most important thing is that it happens to a movie.
There's a movie called Death Express, but I forgot how many of them were, but anyway, I remember a movie like this.
That heroine is a pockmarked heroine.,If you remove these pockmarks.,I can still barely admit that this woman is pretty good.,But that pockmarked face made me very uncomfortable.。
And it's also some close-ups, which I can't understand.
Supposedly, if their aesthetic ability is not like this, or if this is an actor who comes in by relationship, wouldn't it be over if they were directly removed with super technology, I don't think it's a difficult thing for them, right?
But since they don't do it, I think it's probably just trying to show an image like that, which means that they probably think it's a very beautiful state.
I didn't understand this for a while, but after getting to know them, it seems that some people just like that little bit of a girl's face, and it feels very beautiful.
Well, in that case, I don't want to say anything more, we can't say what other people's three views are, to be precise, we can't despise them, the main thing is that the principle is basically the same, basically the rest of the things, we can't laugh at this kind of thing.
This is a truth that I have obtained, laughing at others actually means giving others the opportunity to laugh at you, not laughing at others, and waiting until one day you can use this thing to refute, I have never laughed at your thinking mode, but why should you laugh at my thinking mode?
However, most Chinese girls will definitely find a way to get rid of this kind of thing if they have it, this is a very normal thing, if I have it, I will definitely find a way to get rid of it, but my skin is still relatively good since I was a child, and the things I can eat are relatively healthy, and there is not too much spicy food.
There are not so many things on Zhuli's face, as I said just now, there are no pimples, and pimples can definitely be removed by current medical means, and there is no need for any suspicion.
Generally speaking, people's teeth are pale yellow, and I don't bother to do some dental care, basically just normal brushing, so my teeth are not so white.
But Zhu Li's teeth are maintained at a glance, and she often uses maintenance equipment or maintenance techniques, because the teeth are so white that they are shining, which is not exaggerated at all, it is really a white reflection.
Whether it is from the inside out, this is definitely not something that can be produced by brushing teeth, people's teeth are originally pale yellow, and it is estimated that they have gone through some special means.
If people want to like and can afford enough, there is nothing, I am not saying how Zhu Li is, this is an analysis of Zhu Li from top to bottom from the inside to the outside.
After the face analysis is completed, it is actually time to analyze the body shape and height.
Zhuli is slightly taller than me, but the gap is not particularly big, and when the gap is large, it is basically when she wears high heels, which makes me very angry!
Taller than me, I had to wear a pair of heels that were nearly 20 centimeters, especially on formal occasions.
I can't wear that stuff anyway, and I won't wear it when I get married! I'm sure I'll be sure of that at the moment.
Whenever she wears high heels, she feels like she's almost a head taller than me, and it feels very uncomfortable, but I've gotten used to it over the years.
Especially during the Chinese New Year, it is estimated that she is now on the scene after practicing? is the only thing that can be explained, it seems that she will be a celebrity in the future.
In fact, this word has a positive part and a derogatory part, but the word I am talking about should be a positive part, if you go to Baidu on the Internet, in fact, this word is to modify some very powerful women.
Now it's more or less derogatory.,It's even a little bit similar to the periphery.,As for what the periphery is.,I won't say much.,Search for it yourself.。
There is no need to say much about the taste of the clothes, in fact, it is generally so expensive, this taste does not need to be considered too much, it must be very fresh and bright when worn out, and it can also give people a feeling of being rich and second-generation.
I think the figure is okay, her clothes should have given a certain plus, I'm talking about the clothes inside to set off her figure, it's still better to set off her figure, as far as that kind of underwear is concerned.
The body that is propped up is simply perfect, and it doesn't feel abrupt at all, which is the value of this thing, although it may not be so cost-effective.
In fact, I think many high-end things on the market are not so cost-effective, such as mobile phones, such as computers, and I still remember the slogan of a mobile phone, 10,000 yuan machine, identity machine.
This mobile phone has been criticized by the majority of netizens, but except for the glittering parts on the surface, there is really nothing too much worth this 10,000 yuan, as far as this configuration is concerned, I think it can only be medium on the market.
In other words, for a price of about 3,000, you can buy a mobile phone with a similar configuration to it, which I am sure will be similar even if it is a running score.
There are some other hardware devices, and he will definitely not promote this cost-effective issue when he promotes, and when I look at the general situation, he is promoting some unique functions.
I was shocked by a thing that this mobile phone comes with a writing pen, and it also publicizes this in place, I wonder how many years ago, and now it is still promoted, is it bullying us I don't know? Although I'm a girl, I seem to be quite familiar with this kind of thing, after all, it's something around me, and it's too serious to bully people and bully you.
There is also a Bluetooth headset, this Bluetooth headset is built-in, that is, once it exceeds how many meters there is a built-in alarm function, this can become a propaganda point, that is, it is okay, but it is only improvised.
I don't think it's particularly difficult for any manufacturer to make this thing, and it's basically a normal thing to do as a gimmick, because I don't think they really have anything to advertise other than the shiny phone case.
Originally, I thought that this mobile phone would not sell much, but it is obvious that there are really people who think that this mobile phone is a mobile phone that represents identity.
Typical IQ tax, it seems, people don't seem to care, although it is said that it is an IQ tax, but there is really no need to care, for those who have money.
Because 3,000 and 10,000 seem to be just a concept, unlike us, there are seventy old man's heads here!
We still have a very clear concept of this kind of thing, but it is indeed an IQ tax, but most people know that this is a trap, and this is the best place to sell.
Of course, in addition to these electronic products, there are computers, but the more high-end the computer, the more cost-effective it is, but for most people, this is not too cost-effective, and it is good to be able to use 70% of it.
How many people can use some of the more professional software? Music software? I'm not talking about the software that plays songs, but the software that specializes in tuning musicians.
There are also some cutting software, such software is considered to be some more high-end professional, of course, there are some programmers, in fact, I think that if you have a computer of 10,000 yuan, even these people can't use it too much.
I don't need too much because the cost performance is not particularly high, and I can't think of any better concept other than the game is particularly smooth.
But let's be honest, who wouldn't want to buy something good?
Let's go back to Zhuli's underwear, the cost performance of this underwear is actually the same as that of the computer, high-end is really high-end, useful is really useful, but most of the things are not used.
Zhu Li I think if you want to find a boyfriend, you really need to choose, and you need to go to the high-end, which is why I joked with Zhu Li that if you don't chase Yang, the things in my heart are the same.
Although I think that Qiyang can be worthy of Zhuli, it is also because I think that Qiyang is okay, but if Zhuli is really honest.
Zhuli must be a hundred unwilling, I don't think it's that big to get married, at least now I don't think it's that big, maybe it's because I'm still a child.
However, I think that with the development of the times, there will be more and more disadvantages of such a thing as marriage, and the benefits will become less and less, and even when it develops to a certain era, it will be abandoned.
It may seem like what I'm saying is a bit unbelievable, but I think it's a very normal thing for me to say that I didn't get married or got married at the beginning.
Why can something be created but not destroyed? Some people say that this is a traditional thing that will definitely not be destroyed, but it is precisely because it is a traditional thing that I think it should be discarded.
Well, I'm going a little too far, maybe it won't be abandoned in a short time, but I think it may really be abandoned with the development of the times, maybe 200 years, maybe 300 years, maybe 50 years?
I mean, maybe I'll be able to see it.
Because of the disadvantages of marriage, there are more and more disadvantages, and it is easy to quarrel, this kind of quarrel is an economic quarrel, not that people are too realistic now, it is easy to quarrel, especially when it comes to this kind of interests.
To a certain extent, the matter of interests is actually your own labor, if your labor is arbitrarily shelved or violated, will you resist?
If it is a rebellion, there will definitely be contradictions.
The increasing divorce rate is actually this reason, and modern people see farther and can choose more directions, so this kind of lifelong marriage has long ceased to exist.
Of course, it's not necessarily a good thing, and there are more directions to make this choice, which may not be a good thing to some extent, because things must be overkill, and I have always felt that these words are very correct words.
Perhaps the word overkill is evident in our national policy.
Okay, okay, okay, don't talk about state affairs, don't talk about state affairs.
Let Zhuli get married, I think there is at least a hard requirement in terms of academic qualifications, such as having a doctorate or above? I don't know much about the fact that I don't know much about postdoctoral work, but I also think it's an academic qualification.
Okay, I'm a bit of a loner, but I think I can get the doctor's room, and the property, and all the other mess.
To be honest, after reaching this point, the bride price for those marriages is not a problem, and even that there is not so much mess when they get married.
I've seen some of my relatives get married, and the richer they are, the more low-key, or the richer they are, the more they pick up, and when they get married, they invite some friends to marry directly in a way that is not Chinese or Western, that is, in the hotel but without taking an oath? Nor in the church.
Suffice it to say that there was a witness and then exchanged rings back and forth, and those relatives and friends began to drink and toast.
In fact, I also know some Chinese-style weddings, Chinese-style weddings seem to be women waiting at home, two men carrying a sedan chair to pick them up, of course, now it may be a car.
Rent some better cars, and then lead your best man and some relatives and friends to the woman's house to pick up the woman, which may also be subject to some difficulties, such as not opening the door, such as giving out red envelopes and the like.
But I haven't experienced any of these things, I've just watched these videos when I'm online, and one thing I have to say is that it's still relatively cool as a bystander, so if I'm a party I feel a little uncomfortable, as if I'm being used as a toy to fiddle with.
So I definitely don't follow this method when I get married, but to be honest, we almost don't seem to have this way here, and it's basically half Chinese and half Western.
It's not that complicated, how much or how little you spend money basically depends on the mood.
I don't know exactly how much it would cost to do that.
I'm talking about this level of the problem, what kind of marriage partner of the man on Zhuli's side is a big company, and this big company should be listed, that is to say, it must be a joint-stock system.
Otherwise, I guess it's every play, although most people are talking about this thing, and the difference in this level is not so important.
But if you talk about it a little bit, you can almost understand that if a man is too strong to the woman's family, the woman's family will not behave, and if it is performed, it will definitely make the man's family and even the man himself have an inferiority complex.
It's tolerable for a short time, but if it's a long time, there will definitely be an outburst one day, unless this man is really weak.
But if you have your own career or your own family behind you also has your own career, this confidence will come out, and the voice that comes out when you are confident is also very loud.
This may be an element that causes fairness, but there is also a situation where a rich woman marries a poor man, and there is a situation where life is better, but as mentioned earlier, this is a very big premise, that is, although the man is poor, he has a certain ability.
The woman is not particularly strong, and not only the woman, even if it is the family behind, the family behind is not very strong.
I feel that if you screen it like this, the way this Zhuli selects the object is very limited, and the personnel is also very limited, basically 80% of the men do not meet this standard, which is the 28 theory.
In this two, you still need to remove some of the older ones, and you also need to do some three views that are not particularly good, if this is the case, then it is basically a handful.
Suddenly I feel a little worried about Zhuli's future in the future, and I have to remove some bad ones, there are almost not many candidates, I feel as if I can really count, about tens of thousands of people.
Zhuli took about half an hour to put on makeup, and this time was simply moving me to cry, which is already very little, okay.
After cleaning up, I actually wanted to ask my roommates if they were going, only to find out that my roommates had fallen asleep one by one, and the snoring was incessant.
They are like a band, you come and I come, you snore, I snore, very harmonious.
I also felt very funny, but I didn't feel too sleepy when I woke up.
Since they're asleep, then I won't call them to go together, so I'll go with Zhuli.
In fact, I have already thought about the location, there is a big mall here, go a little, maybe you can take advantage of Zhuli.
Of course, it's not that cheap, I mean he might be able to buy me something, according to her aesthetic standards, or her value standards, basically as long as you buy something, the price will not be particularly low, even if it is less than 10,000 yuan, how can you get five or six thousand, this cheap is not for nothing.
After a while, she packed up, and my side had already packed up, and the two of them went out of the school gate with small bags on their backs.
There are a lot of people in the school now.,Mainly one-on-one couples.,Some go out and come back.,It's estimated that I've enjoyed it when I'm back.,I'm talking about something!
I went out, and it looks like I'm going to have a play.
Those who have money to take a taxi, but those who don't have money to take the bus, and the taxi in front of the school is also endless, so there is no need to consider the situation of no taxi at all.
The two of them got into a taxi directly, then said the location, and soon the taxi sped away.