Chapter 1036: The Times Change

In fact, what I want to express is that young people nowadays care less and less about the traditions of the past, as if they were separated from the post-90s generation.

What I mean by this is that the post-90s and post-80s generations don't seem to be living in the same era entirely.

The degree of rapid development is very, very high, so the ideas generated are different, which is relatively normal.

At that time, the Internet was really not so developed, and most of the other messy things at that time needed to be purchased from real life, and there was still a gap between getting some knowledge or some news from the Internet compared to TV.

I remember someone saying that the post-90s generation is actually the most open generation, which means that compared with previous generations, their kind of behavior may not be easily accepted by some middle-aged or elderly people.

Even some post-80s also criticize the post-90s.

I remember Qi Yang told me an example, and one of the reasons for their criticism was that a little girl was Huaiyu

The age is relatively young, so let's talk about the post-90s and that.

In fact, I don't think the actual situation is like this, I think this is a certain exaggeration, although it is correct to say that this age or this thing is correct, but relatively speaking, some of the elements involved should actually have a certain relationship with the current media.

But some people have investigated this matter, that is, no matter what era there is a phenomenon of such a thing at this age, and even in terms of this number, there is not much difference.

Of course, the current number must be relatively large, but this also shows a problem, the original network is indeed not so developed, and when people get news about some things, they are relatively one-sided news.

Therefore, there is a general cognition, and the understanding of one's own country also produces a different understanding, that is, because of the place where I am located.

But now, in fact, some and a lot of differences have been shown, and they are shown in everyone's eyes, so it makes people feel that there is a somewhat open environment, and it also makes people feel that the post-90s generation does seem to have something about it.

But I think that every era, even like an era of ten years, always produces many, many different things.

In other words, it seems that every 10 years there will be a chain of contempt, for example, the post-50s despise the post-60s, for example, the post-60s are more than the post-70s, and when the post-80s are despised, they are despised by everyone.

I think the post-80s generation is actually relatively miserable, they finally went to college, but they found that they didn't have a job, they finally found a job, and they found that they didn't have a house.

Of course, I think compared to the post-90s, in fact, the post-80s are much better, and the post-90s are the worst generation.

As for why they are so miserable, it is because the post-80s generation can buy a house by themselves, and they can afford to pay the down payment and the monthly payment.

Of course, this matter is not absolute, what I mean is that there is a certain proportion of improvement, that is, the proportion of the post-80s generation is relatively more.

But the words of the post-90s generation seem to be more miserable, and when they reach the working age, they find that they have not eaten or drunk for thirty or forty years, and may only be able to buy one house.

The key problem is that none of them have experienced this era of package work, which means that they don't know that there is such a thing, and I believe that many post-90s generations don't know about it.

If the post-90s generation is an ordinary family, if you want to live in a first-tier city or a second-tier city, I mean a decent life, how can you empty several wallets.

Otherwise, there is no way at all, if a woman is a little better, I mean a little better, if I am a man, there is a high probability that there is no house in a first-tier city or a second-tier city can not find a local wife.

Of course, even if there is, it may not be able to be found, in other words, it is also a condition to find a wife somewhere else, and I don't think there is much wrong with this idea of a girl or this idea of a woman's family.

Many people are like this, choosing the good ones to follow, although my analogy is a little incorrect, and my use of this classical Chinese is also a little incorrect.

But that's what it means, and you can barely listen to it.

It's a very normal thing for people to want a better life, and I believe that most people are also such a desire, but for such things, I think there is still a certain degree.

I mean that if the economy is allowed in a certain way, that is, as long as it can reach a certain point, it is talking about one other aspect.

The previous idea was different, but the current idea is basically that money is indeed not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, and some things can be solved with practical money, so there is no need to bother.

Mental strength is actually limited, sometimes money can't buy it, so being able to solve the problem with money is basically some of the simplest problems, and sometimes don't spend your mental energy for some money.

For example, on the issue of marriage, for men and women who have been in love for a long time, they want to get married, and the development of men at this time may not be so good.

But this woman's parents just want to ask for an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, and if they say 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, they may not be able to take it out, and they have no relatives or friends.

In addition, all the efforts have been exhausted by buying a house, decoration, and other problems, and there is no way to come up with an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, even if it is a loan.

That is to say, a penny is hard to beat a hero.

Let's not talk about the number or ideological issues of the woman's parents, but let's just say that if there is money at this time, it may not be so complicated, and it may not even hurt feelings or anything like that.

This question is actually one such problem, and I don't want to talk about other problems, that is, if you really have money, it is still slightly better.

Of course, my point of view is still that point of view, the first element when getting married must be the problem of three views and personality, if this question can be compatible, we can talk about other aspects, otherwise I feel that even if I have money, I can't get by.

Qi Yang actually said to me a very classic sentence, that is, the current middle class wants to be promoted to a larger class is the most difficult, if they want to be promoted, the easiest way is to marry.

On the contrary, it is not particularly difficult for ordinary people to reach a middle class, and there are many ways to rise.

The specific approach is to study hard, and after being admitted to the undergraduate program, you can directly take the postgraduate examination and then the doctoral examination, and basically there should be no big problem after finding a good choice direction.

In this way, you can become a middle class, of course, the gap between the upper and lower limits of this class is actually very large, and no one has a perfect definition.

And with the development of the times, this definition will become higher and higher, or it will also become lower and lower, basically according to the development of the times, or the development of the economy.

That is to say, at this point, if there is no requirement for promotion, in fact, you still have to look at the three views and character, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, or is it a half-life thing?

Because now there is less and less sense of ritual about this thing, especially the topic I just talked about, for many young people.

Qi Yang also once said that I never believed in one thing before, that is, in Japan, there is a lot of phenomenon, this phenomenon is that after men and women get married, they can play as they please, and they can find anything else if they want.

As for what it is, I believe that most people should understand it without explaining what it is.

In the past, I thought it was disrespectful to marriage, or disrespectful to the other half, but now I have discovered one thing, and I slowly agree with such an idea, although I don't know why this is the case.

To be precise, it shouldn't be agreed, I think it should be understood, that is, to understand other people's thoughts, as long as it doesn't violate the law or doesn't challenge their bottom line, other people's practices should be a tolerated practice.

We shouldn't say that someone else is doing something wrong, and the more popular saying is not diss.

After all, what people did not violate the law, and they did not disturb their own lives.

I also checked, and it seems that there is indeed such behavior, and it seems that there are really a lot of them.

is such a life, the divorce rate is very low, they are basically AA in their normal life, and it doesn't matter if they lose more than one money once in a while.

The main reason is that the two of them don't want children, which I think is such a premise of life, otherwise it is easy to get involved in some messy things.

After having such a life, I don't want to get divorced, I think the main reason is freedom, the degree of freedom is very high, and the cost of living in partnership will also be reduced.

If the cost is reduced and the degree of freedom is very high, then the divorce will naturally be reduced, I at least think so, the main point is that there is no contradiction.

I don't know why I suddenly had a strange idea, but I think it's likely that there will be more and more of this in China in the future.

Even if we say that there may be such a situation in China now, it is just that we don't know, or that this number is very small, and there are no wonders in the world, and some such situations are definitely not an abnormal thing.

Now I think this should be a kind of atavistic phenomenon, the essence of animals is to reproduce, if you reproduce, you must want to find more hosts, of course, this is relative to men, if they engage in that kind of work, if there are more objects, they can also increase the probability of their genes to reproduce.

That's why I think it's an atavistic phenomenon, of course, it's just my own opinion, it's not simply a correct decision, and it's not necessarily a correct point of view.

Going back to the original question, we will find that more and more young people nowadays are holding Western weddings, and I mean that this ceremony is used, to be precise, the combination of East and West, and the most complicated parts of both sides are abandoned.

In fact, what I want to express is that young people nowadays care less and less about the traditions of the past, as if they were separated from the post-90s generation.

What I mean by this is that the post-90s and post-80s generations don't seem to be living in the same era entirely.

The degree of rapid development is very, very high, so the ideas generated are different, which is relatively normal.

At that time, the Internet was really not so developed, and most of the other messy things at that time needed to be purchased from real life, and there was still a gap between getting some knowledge or some news from the Internet compared to TV.

I remember someone saying that the post-90s generation is actually the most open generation, which means that compared with previous generations, their kind of behavior may not be easily accepted by some middle-aged or elderly people.

Even some post-80s also criticize the post-90s.

I remember Qi Yang told me an example, and one of the reasons for their criticism was that a little girl was Huaiyu

The age is relatively young, so let's talk about the post-90s and that.

In fact, I don't think the actual situation is like this, I think this is a certain exaggeration, although it is correct to say that this age or this thing is correct, but relatively speaking, some of the elements involved should actually have a certain relationship with the current media.

But some people have investigated this matter, that is, no matter what era there is a phenomenon of such a thing at this age, and even in terms of this number, there is not much difference.

Of course, the current number must be relatively large, but this also shows a problem, the original network is indeed not so developed, and when people get news about some things, they are relatively one-sided news.

Therefore, there is a general cognition, and the understanding of one's own country also produces a different understanding, that is, because of the place where I am located.

But now, in fact, some and a lot of differences have been shown, and they are shown in everyone's eyes, so it makes people feel that there is a somewhat open environment, and it also makes people feel that the post-90s generation does seem to have something about it.

But I think that every era, even like an era of ten years, always produces many, many different things.

In other words, it seems that every 10 years there will be a chain of contempt, for example, the post-50s despise the post-60s, for example, the post-60s are more than the post-70s, and when the post-80s are despised, they are despised by everyone.

I think the post-80s generation is actually relatively miserable, they finally went to college, but they found that they didn't have a job, they finally found a job, and they found that they didn't have a house.

Of course, I think compared to the post-90s, in fact, the post-80s are much better, and the post-90s are the worst generation.

As for why they are so miserable, it is because the post-80s generation can buy a house by themselves, and they can afford to pay the down payment and the monthly payment.

Of course, this matter is not absolute, what I mean is that there is a certain proportion of improvement, that is, the proportion of the post-80s generation is relatively more.

But the words of the post-90s generation seem to be more miserable, and when they reach the working age, they find that they have not eaten or drunk for thirty or forty years, and may only be able to buy one house.

The key problem is that none of them have experienced this era of package work, which means that they don't know that there is such a thing, and I believe that many post-90s generations don't know about it.

If the post-90s generation is an ordinary family, if you want to live in a first-tier city or a second-tier city, I mean a decent life, how can you empty several wallets.

Otherwise, there is no way at all, if a woman is a little better, I mean a little better, if I am a man, there is a high probability that there is no house in a first-tier city or a second-tier city can not find a local wife.

Of course, even if there is, it may not be able to be found, in other words, it is also a condition to find a wife somewhere else, and I don't think there is much wrong with this idea of a girl or this idea of a woman's family.

Many people are like this, choosing the good ones to follow, although my analogy is a little incorrect, and my use of this classical Chinese is also a little incorrect.

But that's what it means, and you can barely listen to it.

It's a very normal thing for people to want a better life, and I believe that most people are also such a desire, but for such things, I think there is still a certain degree.

I mean that if the economy is allowed in a certain way, that is, as long as it can reach a certain point, it is talking about one other aspect.

The previous idea was different, but the current idea is basically that money is indeed not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, and some things can be solved with practical money, so there is no need to bother.

Mental strength is actually limited, sometimes money can't buy it, so being able to solve the problem with money is basically some of the simplest problems, and sometimes don't spend your mental energy for some money.

For example, on the issue of marriage, for men and women who have been in love for a long time, they want to get married, and the development of men at this time may not be so good.

But this woman's parents just want to ask for an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, and if they say 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, they may not be able to take it out, and they have no relatives or friends.

In addition, all the efforts have been exhausted by buying a house, decoration, and other problems, and there is no way to come up with an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, even if it is a loan.

That is to say, a penny is hard to beat a hero.

Let's not talk about the number or ideological issues of the woman's parents, but let's just say that if there is money at this time, it may not be so complicated, and it may not even hurt feelings or anything like that.

This question is actually one such problem, and I don't want to talk about other problems, that is, if you really have money, it is still slightly better.

Of course, my point of view is still that point of view, the first element when getting married must be the problem of three views and personality, if this question can be compatible, we can talk about other aspects, otherwise I feel that even if I have money, I can't get by.

Qi Yang actually said to me a very classic sentence, that is, the current middle class wants to be promoted to a larger class is the most difficult, if they want to be promoted, the easiest way is to marry.

On the contrary, it is not particularly difficult for ordinary people to reach a middle class, and there are many ways to rise.

The specific approach is to study hard, and after being admitted to the undergraduate program, you can directly take the postgraduate examination and then the doctoral examination, and basically there should be no big problem after finding a good choice direction.

In this way, you can become a middle class, of course, the gap between the upper and lower limits of this class is actually very large, and no one has a perfect definition.

And with the development of the times, this definition will become higher and higher, or it will also become lower and lower, basically according to the development of the times, or the development of the economy.

That is to say, at this point, if there is no requirement for promotion, in fact, you still have to look at the three views and character, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, or is it a half-life thing?

Because now there is less and less sense of ritual about this thing, especially the topic I just talked about, for many young people.

Qi Yang also once said that I never believed in one thing before, that is, in Japan, there is a lot of phenomenon, this phenomenon is that after men and women get married, they can play as they please, and they can find anything else if they want.

As for what it is, I believe that most people should understand it without explaining what it is.

In the past, I thought it was disrespectful to marriage, or disrespectful to the other half, but now I have discovered one thing, and I slowly agree with such an idea, although I don't know why this is the case.

To be precise, it shouldn't be agreed, I think it should be understood, that is, to understand other people's thoughts, as long as it doesn't violate the law or doesn't challenge their bottom line, other people's practices should be a tolerated practice.

We shouldn't say that someone else is doing something wrong, and the more popular saying is not diss.

After all, what people did not violate the law, and they did not disturb their own lives.

I also checked, and it seems that there is indeed such behavior, and it seems that there are really a lot of them.

is such a life, the divorce rate is very low, they are basically AA in their normal life, and it doesn't matter if they lose more than one money once in a while.

The main reason is that the two of them don't want children, which I think is such a premise of life, otherwise it is easy to get involved in some messy things.

After having such a life, I don't want to get divorced, I think the main reason is freedom, the degree of freedom is very high, and the cost of living in partnership will also be reduced.

If the cost is reduced and the degree of freedom is very high, then the divorce will naturally be reduced, I at least think so, the main point is that there is no contradiction.

I don't know why I suddenly had a strange idea, but I think it's likely that there will be more and more of this in China in the future.

Even if we say that there may be such a situation in China now, it is just that we don't know, or that this number is very small, and there are no wonders in the world, and some such situations are definitely not an abnormal thing.

Now I think this should be a kind of atavistic phenomenon, the essence of animals is to reproduce, if you reproduce, you must want to find more hosts, of course, this is relative to men, if they engage in that kind of work, if there are more objects, they can also increase the probability of their genes to reproduce.

That's why I think it's an atavistic phenomenon, of course, it's just my own opinion, it's not simply a correct decision, and it's not necessarily a correct point of view.

Going back to the original question, we will find that more and more young people nowadays are holding Western weddings, and I mean that this ceremony is used, to be precise, the combination of East and West, and the most complicated parts of both sides are abandoned.

In fact, what I want to express is that young people nowadays care less and less about the traditions of the past, as if they were separated from the post-90s generation.

What I mean by this is that the post-90s and post-80s generations don't seem to be living in the same era entirely.

The degree of rapid development is very, very high, so the ideas generated are different, which is relatively normal.

At that time, the Internet was really not so developed, and most of the other messy things at that time needed to be purchased from real life, and there was still a gap between getting some knowledge or some news from the Internet compared to TV.

I remember someone saying that the post-90s generation is actually the most open generation, which means that compared with previous generations, their kind of behavior may not be easily accepted by some middle-aged or elderly people.

Even some post-80s also criticize the post-90s.

I remember Qi Yang told me an example, and one of the reasons for their criticism was that a little girl was Huaiyu

The age is relatively young, so let's talk about the post-90s and that.

In fact, I don't think the actual situation is like this, I think this is a certain exaggeration, although it is correct to say that this age or this thing is correct, but relatively speaking, some of the elements involved should actually have a certain relationship with the current media.

But some people have investigated this matter, that is, no matter what era there is a phenomenon of such a thing at this age, and even in terms of this number, there is not much difference.

Of course, the current number must be relatively large, but this also shows a problem, the original network is indeed not so developed, and when people get news about some things, they are relatively one-sided news.

Therefore, there is a general cognition, and the understanding of one's own country also produces a different understanding, that is, because of the place where I am located.

But now, in fact, some and a lot of differences have been shown, and they are shown in everyone's eyes, so it makes people feel that there is a somewhat open environment, and it also makes people feel that the post-90s generation does seem to have something about it.

But I think that every era, even like an era of ten years, always produces many, many different things.

In other words, it seems that every 10 years there will be a chain of contempt, for example, the post-50s despise the post-60s, for example, the post-60s are more than the post-70s, and when the post-80s are despised, they are despised by everyone.

I think the post-80s generation is actually relatively miserable, they finally went to college, but they found that they didn't have a job, they finally found a job, and they found that they didn't have a house.

Of course, I think compared to the post-90s, in fact, the post-80s are much better, and the post-90s are the worst generation.

As for why they are so miserable, it is because the post-80s generation can buy a house by themselves, and they can afford to pay the down payment and the monthly payment.

Of course, this matter is not absolute, what I mean is that there is a certain proportion of improvement, that is, the proportion of the post-80s generation is relatively more.

But the words of the post-90s generation seem to be more miserable, and when they reach the working age, they find that they have not eaten or drunk for thirty or forty years, and may only be able to buy one house.

The key problem is that none of them have experienced this era of package work, which means that they don't know that there is such a thing, and I believe that many post-90s generations don't know about it.

If the post-90s generation is an ordinary family, if you want to live in a first-tier city or a second-tier city, I mean a decent life, how can you empty several wallets.

Otherwise, there is no way at all, if a woman is a little better, I mean a little better, if I am a man, there is a high probability that there is no house in a first-tier city or a second-tier city can not find a local wife.

Of course, even if there is, it may not be able to be found, in other words, it is also a condition to find a wife somewhere else, and I don't think there is much wrong with this idea of a girl or this idea of a woman's family.

Many people are like this, choosing the good ones to follow, although my analogy is a little incorrect, and my use of this classical Chinese is also a little incorrect.

But that's what it means, and you can barely listen to it.

It's a very normal thing for people to want a better life, and I believe that most people are also such a desire, but for such things, I think there is still a certain degree.

I mean that if the economy is allowed in a certain way, that is, as long as it can reach a certain point, it is talking about one other aspect.

The previous idea was different, but the current idea is basically that money is indeed not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible, and some things can be solved with practical money, so there is no need to bother.

Mental strength is actually limited, sometimes money can't buy it, so being able to solve the problem with money is basically some of the simplest problems, and sometimes don't spend your mental energy for some money.

For example, on the issue of marriage, for men and women who have been in love for a long time, they want to get married, and the development of men at this time may not be so good.

But this woman's parents just want to ask for an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, and if they say 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, they may not be able to take it out, and they have no relatives or friends.

In addition, all the efforts have been exhausted by buying a house, decoration, and other problems, and there is no way to come up with an extra 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, even if it is a loan.

That is to say, a penny is hard to beat a hero.

Let's not talk about the number or ideological issues of the woman's parents, but let's just say that if there is money at this time, it may not be so complicated, and it may not even hurt feelings or anything like that.

This question is actually one such problem, and I don't want to talk about other problems, that is, if you really have money, it is still slightly better.

Of course, my point of view is still that point of view, the first element when getting married must be the problem of three views and personality, if this question can be compatible, we can talk about other aspects, otherwise I feel that even if I have money, I can't get by.

Qi Yang actually said to me a very classic sentence, that is, the current middle class wants to be promoted to a larger class is the most difficult, if they want to be promoted, the easiest way is to marry.

On the contrary, it is not particularly difficult for ordinary people to reach a middle class, and there are many ways to rise.

The specific approach is to study hard, and after being admitted to the undergraduate program, you can directly take the postgraduate examination and then the doctoral examination, and basically there should be no big problem after finding a good choice direction.

In this way, you can become a middle class, of course, the gap between the upper and lower limits of this class is actually very large, and no one has a perfect definition.

And with the development of the times, this definition will become higher and higher, or it will also become lower and lower, basically according to the development of the times, or the development of the economy.

That is to say, at this point, if there is no requirement for promotion, in fact, you still have to look at the three views and character, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, or is it a half-life thing?

Because now there is less and less sense of ritual about this thing, especially the topic I just talked about, for many young people.

Qi Yang also once said that I never believed in one thing before, that is, in Japan, there is a lot of phenomenon, this phenomenon is that after men and women get married, they can play as they please, and they can find anything else if they want.

As for what it is, I believe that most people should understand it without explaining what it is.

In the past, I thought it was disrespectful to marriage, or disrespectful to the other half, but now I have discovered one thing, and I slowly agree with such an idea, although I don't know why this is the case.

To be precise, it shouldn't be agreed, I think it should be understood, that is, to understand other people's thoughts, as long as it doesn't violate the law or doesn't challenge their bottom line, other people's practices should be a tolerated practice.

We shouldn't say that someone else is doing something wrong, and the more popular saying is not diss.

After all, what people did not violate the law, and they did not disturb their own lives.

I also checked, and it seems that there is indeed such behavior, and it seems that there are really a lot of them.

is such a life, the divorce rate is very low, they are basically AA in their normal life, and it doesn't matter if they lose more than one money once in a while.

The main reason is that the two of them don't want children, which I think is such a premise of life, otherwise it is easy to get involved in some messy things.

After having such a life, I don't want to get divorced, I think the main reason is freedom, the degree of freedom is very high, and the cost of living in partnership will also be reduced.

If the cost is reduced and the degree of freedom is very high, then the divorce will naturally be reduced, I at least think so, the main point is that there is no contradiction.

I don't know why I suddenly had a strange idea, but I think it's likely that there will be more and more of this in China in the future.

Even if we say that there may be such a situation in China now, it is just that we don't know, or that this number is very small, and there are no wonders in the world, and some such situations are definitely not an abnormal thing.

Now I think this should be a kind of atavistic phenomenon, the essence of animals is to reproduce, if you reproduce, you must want to find more hosts, of course, this is relative to men, if they engage in that kind of work, if there are more objects, they can also increase the probability of their genes to reproduce.

That's why I think it's an atavistic phenomenon, of course, it's just my own opinion, it's not simply a correct decision, and it's not necessarily a correct point of view.

Going back to the original question, we will find that more and more young people nowadays are holding Western weddings, and I mean that this ceremony is used, to be precise, the combination of East and West, and the most complicated parts of both sides are abandoned.