It seems like I'm talking nonsense, why don't you just say 3.5% off, everyone wants to save face, which is understandable, but if you take this face-saving thing as one of your goals, I mean that when others are bragging to you, you think it's really come to this moment, but things are not like this.

If you take this thing as a goal, it is obviously a not good thing, and it does not necessarily mean that this goal cannot be achieved, which means that if you always take this matter to heart, it is easy to have your own inferiority complex.

In other words, it's too easy to believe what others say, and when I was younger, I used to believe my parents a lot, such as some of the more exaggerated things they said.

There may be some children who take the first test once, and the rest are third or fifth, etc., but if they communicate with their parents, it may quickly become their frequent first place.

Then when it comes to your parents' mouths, you will find that they are all ranked first, but at this time, take them as one of your goals, that is, if you want to be the first in every exam in the future, obviously this goal is not too practical, that is, it is easy to have an inferiority complex.

When I can't do it, it's easy to make people feel a kind of self-doubt, whether I'm too stupid, whether I'm too stupid, whether I'm not as talented as others, and whether I'm working less hard than others.

As soon as all kinds of words appear in the mind of that can, then it is likely that he will give up on himself, after all, as a child, he can't think about so many things, and in the end he may think about it, forget it, I will never be able to catch up with others, anyway, I can't catch up with it for the rest of my life, this kind of psychology is already a normal thing with him.

But as a parent, it is very likely that I will not understand the reason for this kind of psychology, so I may choose to continue to motivate, that is, choose to use a motivating method, which at this time may still be the same old-fashioned, such as how other people's children are, and even may say very, very exaggerated.

But it's clear that this kind of discourse is not correct, and it's clear that this kind of discourse is likely to make it worse, and so it becomes more and more difficult.

So if I become a parent in the future, I think I should try not to exaggerate my speech, because it is easy to have some opposite effects.

If you take the level as an example, compare it, it was originally level 5, maybe at this time if you work hard, you can reach level 4, but your parents have to let him reach level 1 in an instant, it is definitely impossible.

It could have reached level 4, but it turned out to drop directly to level six or seven, or even to the end, I believe that no one wants to see such a thing, to be honest, everyone has their own ladder.

If you are a little more powerful, you may have a bigger staircase, and if I am a little less powerful, there will be fewer stairs, but in any case, you always have to go up step by step, and you have to turn a book into a house, and I am talking about this height.

Of course, there is a certain possibility, which is not possible for most people, so it is easy for this matter to evolve into a situation that makes people feel very sad.

Of course, as a young man who has grown up a little bit, you have to have some ability, especially the ability to judge, that is, whether you are telling the truth or not.

I believe that in the future, when the class reunion is held, the following scene will definitely occur.

That's the scene of their own bragging, in fact, to be honest, not everyone can tolerate others when they brag but they are indifferent.

Not all people are able to do it so calmly, in fact, as far as most people are concerned, most of them are a little bit of a brag, that is, the legendary elementary school question, rounded.

If the salary is six or seven thousand, then at this time you have to say about ten thousand, if you talk about the provident fund, it is basically rounded.

No, no, I said it wrong, it should be three into five.

What does this sentence mean, for example, if the salary is 3000, then at this time it is generally said that the salary is about 5000, and I feel that if I lose face, I will say that other benefits are very good.

For example, there are benefits during holidays, there will be some small gifts when the salary is doubled, it is very easy to ask for leave, and so on and so on and so on, you have to say that your status is actually very high, and this kind of thing always has to be shown for yourself.

This is also the legendary three-in-five, a little more than 5,000, in fact, it may not be so exaggerated, I mean that if five thousand is a little more, it may not say about 10,000.

Because this gap is too big, others have also experienced it, that is to say, there will always be classmates in the same industry as you, and if you say too much about your salary, you are likely to be slapped in the face.

Compared with the slap in the face, a lower salary may not be so uncomfortable, and the most uncomfortable thing at the class reunion is this face slapping activity.

So if it's 5000, I believe that I will generally choose to say about 7000, and at this time I will also increase my welfare a little.

So at this time, I understood that when it came to the class reunion in the future, I didn't believe anyone, what I meant was their salary, their living situation, everyone wanted their life to be better, even if it seemed fake, even if it sounded very fake to others, but if they said it, they might believe it.

This is also the legend that he has deceived himself.

It didn't take long for Dieyan and the blind boy to come together, and now it's afternoon time, and it takes a lot of time to watch TV, of course, most of the time it's just chatting.

We chatted very extensively, in fact, how many young people, educational backgrounds are similar, and the common topics are also very wide, not to mention two couples, so this kind of thing is too easy for us.

After Dieyan and the blind boy came, Mo Xiang hadn't come out yet, I first asked them what they were willing to eat, anyway, Mo Xiang paid for it, because Mo Xiang had already promised me about this matter, and the plan was to set off today, which means that today is already a tour.

That means that if Mo Xiang is fully responsible for my money, then if I treat a treat, it should be considered that Mo Xiang paid for it, I feel that I am really a logical ghost, and this sentence should not be too wrong.

They all generally say what they are willing to eat, oh Wu Yili is willing to eat Western food, I know this very well, several of us are more willing to eat Chinese food, that is, order a few dishes, and I found that we are actually very low, most of the dishes we eat are some common dishes, this point feels a gap, those who like to eat Chinese food, so we feel that we are fake fans of Chinese food.

Mo Xiang hasn't come out yet, if it was before, I wouldn't have cared about his feelings, but now I have to take care of other people's feelings, after all, people are the one who pays, and this point should be more or less respected, that sentence is really good, rich is the uncle.

I pushed open the door and saw that Mo Xiang was watching a TV series, this guy usually watches TV series, cough cough, I won't say more, but obviously watching this TV series is very familiar.

I watched it as a TV series that I had watched, although I don't know why Mo Xiang found this TV series, because according to my understanding, Mo Xiang doesn't like to watch American dramas, because he is even more afraid of trouble than me.

When he watches American dramas, he needs to first look at the expressions of the characters in the plot and also look at the translation, and at the same time, the most important point is that he may not get the laughter of the American drama.

Although some translations are very accurate, they welcome the things we don't understand at the top of the screen, such as the names of people and places involved, such as the jokes involved.

This is a very normal thing, and Americans may not get the laughter when watching Chinese comedies, and find that there is laughter in this TV series, but they don't know why this news appears.

But to be honest, most of them can still be obtained, but to be honest, it does feel very troublesome, because at this time the ears have almost no effect, and everything needs to rely on their own eyes, so in this case, the whole person needs to be very concentrated.

But if you can really get some of these laughs, to be honest, it looks more interesting, watching Mo Xiang concentrate on wearing a headset, although I don't know what the effect of him wearing a headset is, but it looks very serious, which also makes me feel a little funny.

I took off his headset.

He looked me in the eye: "What's wrong, is there something wrong?" ”

"It's nothing, it's just whether you have any money in your phone, I'm going to buy food later, and what kind of food do you want to eat."

Mo Yu quickly put her hair back, smiled and said to me, "I can eat anything, I can eat whatever you eat." ”

In fact, I hate this sentence the most, that is, I will eat whatever you eat, in fact, if it is Mo Xiang, it is fine, if it is Yun Ci, this matter will be much more complicated, listen to Yun Ci said this, but the actual situation is very bad, this matter most likely needs to be thought about, otherwise it is easy to make Yun Ci angry.

It seems like I'm talking nonsense, why don't you just say 3.5% off, everyone wants to save face, which is understandable, but if you take this face-saving thing as one of your goals, I mean that when others are bragging to you, you think it's really come to this moment, but things are not like this.

If you take this thing as a goal, it is obviously a not good thing, and it does not necessarily mean that this goal cannot be achieved, which means that if you always take this matter to heart, it is easy to have your own inferiority complex.

In other words, it's too easy to believe what others say, and when I was younger, I used to believe my parents a lot, such as some of the more exaggerated things they said.

There may be some children who take the first test once, and the rest are third or fifth, etc., but if they communicate with their parents, it may quickly become their frequent first place.

Then when it comes to your parents' mouths, you will find that they are all ranked first, but at this time, take them as one of your goals, that is, if you want to be the first in every exam in the future, obviously this goal is not too practical, that is, it is easy to have an inferiority complex.

When I can't do it, it's easy to make people feel a kind of self-doubt, whether I'm too stupid, whether I'm too stupid, whether I'm not as talented as others, and whether I'm working less hard than others.

As soon as all kinds of words appear in the mind of that can, then it is likely that he will give up on himself, after all, as a child, he can't think about so many things, and in the end he may think about it, forget it, I will never be able to catch up with others, anyway, I can't catch up with it for the rest of my life, this kind of psychology is already a normal thing with him.

But as a parent, it is very likely that I will not understand the reason for this kind of psychology, so I may choose to continue to motivate, that is, choose to use a motivating method, which at this time may still be the same old-fashioned, such as how other people's children are, and even may say very, very exaggerated.

But it's clear that this kind of discourse is not correct, and it's clear that this kind of discourse is likely to make it worse, and so it becomes more and more difficult.

So if I become a parent in the future, I think I should try not to exaggerate my speech, because it is easy to have some opposite effects.

If you take the level as an example, compare it, it was originally level 5, maybe at this time if you work hard, you can reach level 4, but your parents have to let him reach level 1 in an instant, it is definitely impossible.

It could have reached level 4, but it turned out to drop directly to level six or seven, or even to the end, I believe that no one wants to see such a thing, to be honest, everyone has their own ladder.

If you are a little more powerful, you may have a bigger staircase, and if I am a little less powerful, there will be fewer stairs, but in any case, you always have to go up step by step, and you have to turn a book into a house, and I am talking about this height.

Of course, there is a certain possibility, which is not possible for most people, so it is easy for this matter to evolve into a situation that makes people feel very sad.

Of course, as a young man who has grown up a little bit, you have to have some ability, especially the ability to judge, that is, whether you are telling the truth or not.

I believe that in the future, when the class reunion is held, the following scene will definitely occur.

That's the scene of their own bragging, in fact, to be honest, not everyone can tolerate others when they brag but they are indifferent.

Not all people are able to do it so calmly, in fact, as far as most people are concerned, most of them are a little bit of a brag, that is, the legendary elementary school question, rounded.

If the salary is six or seven thousand, then at this time you have to say about ten thousand, if you talk about the provident fund, it is basically rounded.

No, no, I said it wrong, it should be three into five.

What does this sentence mean, for example, if the salary is 3000, then at this time it is generally said that the salary is about 5000, and I feel that if I lose face, I will say that other benefits are very good.

For example, there are benefits during holidays, there will be some small gifts when the salary is doubled, it is very easy to ask for leave, and so on and so on and so on, you have to say that your status is actually very high, and this kind of thing always has to be shown for yourself.

This is also the legendary three-in-five, a little more than 5,000, in fact, it may not be so exaggerated, I mean that if five thousand is a little more, it may not say about 10,000.

Because this gap is too big, others have also experienced it, that is to say, there will always be classmates in the same industry as you, and if you say too much about your salary, you are likely to be slapped in the face.

Compared with the slap in the face, a lower salary may not be so uncomfortable, and the most uncomfortable thing at the class reunion is this face slapping activity.

So if it's 5000, I believe that I will generally choose to say about 7000, and at this time I will also increase my welfare a little.

So at this time, I understood that when it came to the class reunion in the future, I didn't believe anyone, what I meant was their salary, their living situation, everyone wanted their life to be better, even if it seemed fake, even if it sounded very fake to others, but if they said it, they might believe it.

This is also the legend that he has deceived himself.

It didn't take long for Dieyan and the blind boy to come together, and now it's afternoon time, and it takes a lot of time to watch TV, of course, most of the time it's just chatting.

We chatted very extensively, in fact, how many young people, educational backgrounds are similar, and the common topics are also very wide, not to mention two couples, so this kind of thing is too easy for us.

After Dieyan and the blind boy came, Mo Xiang hadn't come out yet, I first asked them what they were willing to eat, anyway, Mo Xiang paid for it, because Mo Xiang had already promised me about this matter, and the plan was to set off today, which means that today is already a tour.

That means that if Mo Xiang is fully responsible for my money, then if I treat a treat, it should be considered that Mo Xiang paid for it, I feel that I am really a logical ghost, and this sentence should not be too wrong.

They all generally say what they are willing to eat, oh Wu Yili is willing to eat Western food, I know this very well, several of us are more willing to eat Chinese food, that is, order a few dishes, and I found that we are actually very low, most of the dishes we eat are some common dishes, this point feels a gap, those who like to eat Chinese food, so we feel that we are fake fans of Chinese food.

Mo Xiang hasn't come out yet, if it was before, I wouldn't have cared about his feelings, but now I have to take care of other people's feelings, after all, people are the one who pays, and this point should be more or less respected, that sentence is really good, rich is the uncle.

I pushed open the door and saw that Mo Xiang was watching a TV series, this guy usually watches TV series, cough cough, I won't say more, but obviously watching this TV series is very familiar.

I watched it as a TV series that I had watched, although I don't know why Mo Xiang found this TV series, because according to my understanding, Mo Xiang doesn't like to watch American dramas, because he is even more afraid of trouble than me.

When he watches American dramas, he needs to first look at the expressions of the characters in the plot and also look at the translation, and at the same time, the most important point is that he may not get the laughter of the American drama.

Although some translations are very accurate, they welcome the things we don't understand at the top of the screen, such as the names of people and places involved, such as the jokes involved.

This is a very normal thing, and Americans may not get the laughter when watching Chinese comedies, and find that there is laughter in this TV series, but they don't know why this news appears.

But to be honest, most of them can still be obtained, but to be honest, it does feel very troublesome, because at this time the ears have almost no effect, and everything needs to rely on their own eyes, so in this case, the whole person needs to be very concentrated.

But if you can really get some of these laughs, to be honest, it looks more interesting, watching Mo Xiang concentrate on wearing a headset, although I don't know what the effect of him wearing a headset is, but it looks very serious, which also makes me feel a little funny.

I took off his headset.

He looked me in the eye: "What's wrong, is there something wrong?" ”

"It's nothing, it's just whether you have any money in your phone, I'm going to buy food later, and what kind of food do you want to eat."

Mo Yu quickly put her hair back, smiled and said to me, "I can eat anything, I can eat whatever you eat." ”

In fact, I hate this sentence the most, that is, I will eat whatever you eat, in fact, if it is Mo Xiang, it is fine, if it is Yun Ci, this matter will be much more complicated, listen to Yun Ci said this, but the actual situation is very bad, this matter most likely needs to be thought about, otherwise it is easy to make Yun Ci angry.