Chapter 954: Excessive Disputes

And now I've thought about how I could have had this happen, how did Zhu Li know about it, probably my group of unscrupulous roommates last night, but I don't know much about it, or did I forget?

Go back and continue to watch the movie, they are really troublesome, in fact, I think of one thing now, if this can be equipped with a Bluetooth headset, then I don't have to worry about their noise I can't hear.

And as far as their way of drinking, I am very skeptical about one thing, that is, whether Zhuli and I will be able to go out tomorrow, this matter is very suspicious and very suspicious.

Soon the waiter brought two boxes of wine over, and opened them all, one bottle at a time, and helped us take away the bottle, to be honest, the service was pretty good.

But I know this routine, taking the bottle away is actually another routine for them to be able to sell the wine, and taking the bottle away can make our side look more empty, especially for some people who want to save face, and feel that there is not much on the table.

I will definitely ask for a little more, whether it is wine or food, as long as I buy it, KTV will make money, and I don't need to say more about how violent it is.

But I found that every place where this kind of singing is a very high-end hotel, just now when I passed by the bar, I saw a bottle of XO, although I don't know where it is made, I don't know what the specific type is, but the price on it, it is indeed quite expensive.

But it looks like no one is buying it, because this one has been sitting for a long time, and although it can be seen that it is often cleaned up, I know that this one has definitely not been touched.

In the room, they drank in the dark, and they couldn't go back to school like that, and going back to school like this was simply looking for death, I started booking a hotel directly on my mobile phone, and two rooms for so many of us were enough.

If you set too many rooms feel a bit wasteful, this time the money spent is quite a lot, anyway, I am a little distressed, the previous words may not be too distressed, since my father and my mother, no, it should be my father and my mother, every month to me when I pay for living expenses, I feel that sometimes spending money is distressing.

They knew I was still drinking after watching the movie, but people were already going to fall, and I wondered what would happen if they all fell.

Who will be able to stand up? Can I drop them off at the hotel?

It's the middle of the night, which means we've been singing for five or six hours, no, no, it's been five or six hours.

This group of people is really powerful, they don't show their beauty at ordinary times, but at this time, they can see the little Jiujiu hidden in their hearts, one is more violent than the other, and one is more powerful than the other.

Seeing them like this, my head suddenly hurt a little, I don't have to help two or three people alone, I can't do this, plus I don't know anyone here, and the people I don't know are all in school, so I don't have much help for me.

In the middle of the night I said to one of my roommates, "Why don't we go, I've booked a hotel and you can go and get some rest." ”

But one of the good things is that you don't have to go to class tomorrow, at least you don't have to worry too much about skipping class.

In the past, I thought it was all false, and they all said that college was better to skip classes, but in fact, it was only relative, relative to high school, because in high school, you could skip class if you wanted to, it depends on whether you use it or not, and what kind of method you use.

Skipping classes in college is not as easy as we think, and it also requires certain skills.

But at least tomorrow you don't need to worry about that.

Two or three of them had already drunk a lot of meat and vegetables, and it looked like they were about to fall unconscious, so I said this, and I felt that if I didn't say this, I had no choice.

Zhuli is relatively good, I know Zhuli better, and her amount of alcohol is okay.

One of the things that made me feel lucky was that they decided to go to the hotel.

But the road is also very difficult, although we got into the taxi, but the taxi driver is obviously disgusted, looking at us like looking at the little sister, it is estimated that he is thinking about one thing: I want to have a daughter in the future will not let her do this.

To be honest, our image is a little bit not very good, really like a little sister, although the dress is normal, but this behavior looks very abnormal.

We arrived at a hotel and several people were holding each other.

It seems that it is okay, because these people have brought ID cards, and it is a very good habit to carry ID cards with them, in case of any situation to live in a hotel without ID cards, it will be a big loss, and it is not a very comfortable thing outside, especially in this case.

It's not that cold, but I'm sure no one wants to spend the night outside.

Divided into two rooms, I booked a double bed, although it is a double bed, but each bed can accommodate two people, not to mention that these people can sleep as long as they have a bed, and they don't care who it is.

I also live with Zhu Li, although Zhu Li's speech is a little unclear, but it seems that her head is quite bright.

The advantage of not drinking alcohol is this, because I can have enough mind to take a shower, living in a hotel without taking a shower is simply a waste of hotel money, although our school also has a bathhouse, although our school also has a single room, but the feeling of taking a bath in the hotel is different.

I didn't have much of a feeling in the past, but since I lived in the dormitory, this feeling has become stronger and stronger, so this time I definitely can't spend money in vain.

What's more, all their money was spent by me, and I spent the money tonight, and it was already three numbers, and I didn't mean three hundred, and I didn't mean thirty thousand, but in the middle, but I still felt a little distressed.

Our school is not in a first-tier city, not a second-tier city, but in a third-tier city, and if you spend this money for fun, it is definitely a lot of money, and there is no doubt about it.

I didn't have that much fun, I didn't feel that 3,000 yuan sounded, it seemed like 3,000 yuan to watch a movie, I have to say that this is still relatively expensive.

After tidying myself up, I saw that they were all safe and sound, and I was more relieved, lying on the bed and finding that Zhuli next to me was not asleep, so I asked Zhuli: "How is it?" Can't get enough of it? It looks like you have a better relationship with my classmates than I do with my classmates. ”

Zhu Li smiled: "How... Huh? You eat... Vinegar? You're just... I'm jealous, if I... And the rise of the off... Tie a little better, estimated you eat. Vinegar eats more. ”

I don't bother to pay attention to this little girl's ridicule, this little girl's most typical is the knife mouth tofu heart, his criteria for choosing a mate will definitely not be the way Yang looks, I'm not talking about Yang is bad, but in Zhuli's mind, Yang will definitely not be a very good boyfriend.

I'm pretty self-aware, and I've said it countless times.

Zhuli looked at me and didn't speak: "What's wrong?" By me... That's right. ”

"Then I must... And this home... Guys make a good relationship, say no... Set people's will... Like me... This... type, when the time comes to abandon you ... Don't... Crying. ”

Zhuli still joked with me, although she said that I didn't want to discuss this topic, but she kept talking about this topic, and I had to explore it further: "Okay, don't talk about it, okay?" Or I'll just give it to you? ”

"Look at it, look at it, I said it, and I know... The Tao will be this... Look, rest assured... Friend, don't be bullied, I'll wait for you... Hook up again after a breakup. ”

This little woman is becoming more and more shameless, and she can even say this kind of thing!

"I don't think Qiyang is particularly suitable for you, I think Xiang Yi is quite suitable for you, the right family, the education is similar, and the direction of struggle is similar, when the time comes, if you can't find a good direction, it's good to find this young man."

However, Zhu Li immediately refused, and this time the refusal was quite simple, to be precise, she didn't stutter: "Let's talk about this later, I don't think about it now, my father's attitude, I think I have to graduate school or a doctorate before I can think about marriage." ”

I smiled: "Do you want you to have a big fat boy immediately after graduation?" Then when I went to school, I wasn't allowed to find a partner. ”

Zhu Li laughed out loud after hearing my theory: "Yes, yes, that's what you said, my father probably thought like this, wanting me not to upgrade at the original time, and to be promoted to the top at the end." ”

I looked at Zhu Li with a suspicious gaze: "Your old man won't want you to marry, right?" What age is this, and this is still the case. ”

Zhuli shook her head: "Although it is not necessarily connected, but a set that has been in place this year, to be precise, after there is a class gap, it seems that this set has not been broken, that is, it has been popular, your father may not like to engage in that set, but I heard my father say that this set is really popular." ”

In fact, I also know a little bit about it, this kind of thing is not divided into industries, only classes, and this situation is still very common, but there are really not many people who have this situation and can be happy.

It's important to me, it's a very important element, but it's definitely not a must.

But it seems that Zhuli thinks a little too much, and smiled and said to her: "How do I feel that your thoughts are a little complicated, I'll talk about it later, in case it's a rich second generation, and it's a very handsome person, then won't you make money?" ”

Zhu Li laughed out loud, chatting with me this time, her spirit became very sufficient, and she didn't stutter anymore.

"You can pull it down, how can such a rare character be owned by us, it has been booked since childhood, don't think that any doll is talking about fun, those who have been very handsome since childhood and are still a rich second generation, have long been booked, okay, do you really believe that the president has a crush on the kind of routine of a civilian girl? I'm not a civilian woman, though. ”

Actually, Zhuli is quite funny to say, but I really don't believe that one statement, this kind of thing may have happened, but I always feel that this kind of thing is definitely not common, and if such things are common like this, it means that this class does not have much effect.

Or when people don't feel much about money, as if they don't see that at least until I die.

What Zhu Li said is also quite right, the kind of diamond king Xiaowu rarely appears in the public eye, generally speaking, many times in the public eye, are some more ostentatious characters, we can hardly see some more powerful characters frequently appear in the public eye.

The more powerful people are, the more they know that low-key and low-key is the best way to show off.

Of course, this is what I think, anyway, my old man is more low-key, and the old man is even more low-key, I don't mean that my old man or the old man is more powerful, I'm just talking about this thing.

I decided to say a few heart-wrenching words to Zhuli: "Are you really going to school there without a boyfriend?" Why don't I believe it, no one is chasing you? ”

Zhu Li immediately said: "You are too naΓ―ve, if there is no one chasing me in college, then I am too late, I have been holding back for several years, of course, I want to go to the university to vent, as long as the appearance is not too inferior, I think there must be someone chasing." ”

Zhu Li said something about the same, how to say that sentence, the words are not coarse.

I smiled, "And how many do you have?" ”

But Zhuli didn't answer this question, but asked me: "I think I should ask you about this matter first, how many are chasing you?" And what's going on with that money? ”

I hate Zhuli the most, that is, she can't suffer, especially on the issue of gossip, she just wants to know other people's secrets first.

But since the relationship between the two of us is relatively good, I decided to say it, how to say that sentence, the body is not afraid of shadows, and is not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night, that is, not doing bad things and not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.

"That's really nothing, it's just that one of my seniors, who taught me dance, didn't even have physical contact, maybe it's a little interesting to me, but I don't like that, it's better to be uplifted." Although I often commit atrocities against Qi Yang, I still think that Qi Yang is very good, not in the eyes of lovers, but through many comparisons.

I've found that Ki Yang is already a very good boyfriend, at least from a boyfriend's point of view, I've said this more than once.

Zhu Li laughed: "I haven't seen such a self-selling and boasting person, okay, okay, don't you boast, praise makes my ears calloused, except for him?" I really don't believe you have no one chasing you at school. ”

In fact, of course, there are, from writing letters to adding WeChat and QQ to call and send text messages, there are indeed a few people, although I don't know whether to chase or not, but there is indeed a little bit of intention, which I am still more sure.

If I didn't have a boyfriend before, I might have been in touch, but now that I have a boyfriend, Qiyang and I are almost engaged, and I've been to his house, and he's been to mine.

If it's a little bit bad if you're chatting, not to mention that I don't want to do it, just chasing Yang has been said countless times by Qi Yang, if you take the initiative again, I guess I have no way to be a person.

I also told the truth, after all, I didn't do anything, so I said to Zhuli: "There are a few, I do admit this, but I also want to be honest with you, I don't pay attention to any of them, if it's a normal relationship, forget it, but if I express that kind of intention, I directly refuse." ”

Zhuli looks very bad, obviously she didn't get a gossip news, or the news she got was very unconvinced by her inner expectations, if it was like this, there was no way.

I think the only way to make her feel better is to make up stories, but I'm not particularly good at it, and I don't even want to write an 800-word essay.

If you want to hear a more perfect story, I think Zhuli should go to Qi Yang, Qi Yang is said to be able to write an argumentative essay of several thousand words now, and it is very fast.

There's a fictional story over there, so it shouldn't be a problem, right?

Recently, I've also been obsessed with novels, but I don't think I can write this novel either, and the homework we assigned, I wrote less than a thousand words in an hour, and finally I had to write this homework for three days.

So I don't think that's one of my strengths.

I asked Zhuli, "Do you have such a situation?" I'm not your mother, just tell me directly. ”

Zhuli pointed to my nose: "You take advantage of me again." ”

I felt a little funny: "Okay, okay, I'm not your sister, do you think I want to be your mother?" ”

No, I feel like this sentence is a bit swearing, and I'm talking about the last sentence.

Zhu Li also said the truth after drinking: "Although my dad spies on me very closely, there are still a lot of boys chasing me, and I really like one, I can't say that I like it, it just looks okay, but the family is a little poor." ”

I think this evaluation is debatable, many people think that Zhuli's family is quite poor.

For example, what I eat and what I use at the moment, for Zhuli, I am a poor household, and I may be able to apply for student funds.

Maybe you can apply for a student loan for me, but of course, I can't get it approved after checking my family's property.

I remembered that when Qi Yang was in high school, he had applied for a bursary, which was a school in a country funded by overseas Chinese.

Originally, Qiyang entered a choice, but after checking the family background, he brushed it down directly, and the reason for brushing it down doesn't need to be said.

However, Qi Yang was still vibrating at the time: "I'm a poor student, why don't they check my monthly living expenses, does my old man's money have anything to do with me?" ”

Although Yang's statement is quite correct to some extent, this matter does not seem to be so simple, and people will definitely not check how much living expenses there are every month, which is a big misunderstanding, and it can be less or more.

I actually laughed for a while.

But to be honest, there are some things that are not normal in college, that is, the people who really need the money do not get it, and the people who don't need the money use it to spend their days.

It's a bit of a bad idea to say that the money isn't being spent in the right place, and that's not what we're talking about at the moment.

I continued to talk about Zhu Li: "Can you give me a specific explanation? ”

Zhuli shook her head: "It's useless to say it, according to my understanding of my father, my father will never look down on him, so there is no future in the future, the two of us have no future to be precise, and besides, it's just eye-catching, and it doesn't necessarily mean that I really like it, so I gave up, and the boy gave up, since I gave up so early, I don't have to insist anymore." ”

I don't know a little about Zhuli's theory, in fact, I think this theory is quite wrong, when a boy chases you, you may give a reaction, or you may not give a reaction.

Next time, you may also give a reaction or not give a reaction, but if you don't give a reaction for a long time, then there is really no need for this person to insist, and it doesn't mean that you can't find a daughter-in-law, you have to stick it up.

So I think if a girl wants to be more valuable like herself, it doesn't necessarily mean that she should not give a boy a progress bar, of course, it is a bit inappropriate to describe it as a progress bar.

But I think the only thing that can describe this at the moment is a progress bar.

It is to make the boy feel that he is doing something useful, otherwise, in fact, very few people can do something that has not been given feedback for a long time, and this feedback can be said to be a positive motivation.

If you don't get a positive feedback for a long time, few people can continue to do this, love is also like this, not to say that it is a particularly mysterious thing, at least to give a response, this time not to give the next time, but also to make people feel their existence.

I guess Zhu Li should have hung people's appetite for a long time, Zhu Li's statement is that since he can't insist, why should I insist, which means that I have to persist for a long time to be able to show the importance of this girl.

How does this theory feel a little awkward, especially like the kind of chicken soup text that my mother sent me, and the chicken soup text that my mother sent me is only one that I am more interested in.

That's a joke when confronted with a missionary.

Here's how the joke goes.

"You mean that if I don't believe in your teachings, I'll have to go to hell, right?"

"Yes, yes, yes, so you should join the religion, so that you will go to heaven when you die."

So you mean that you religious people will all go to heaven in the future, right?"

"Yes, if you are religious, you will go to heaven with us."

"That's great, then I'll go to hell and never have to face you."

Except for the joke, I am really not particularly interested, and there are some chicken soup texts such as this expression: how can a woman make herself more valuable.

How can a woman make herself like a fish in water in the workplace?

You have to do something like this, or you'll be 40 years old and you'll be finished.

Well, don't these titles look stupid, to be honest, I look pretty stupid, I might have believed these things in the past, for example, in elementary school, why did I believe it at that time, because at that time I often listened to my elementary school teacher tell me some chicken soup texts and I really believed it.

There are even some fatal mistakes in some textbooks, for example: what time is Beijing time, there is an earthquake in London, the earthquake caused all the students in a class to smash underneath, and a father came to the scene, not to save his son first, but to save the other students in the class.

It's a very touching story, and the teacher also asked us to analyze each paragraph, and then when I was in junior high school, I saw an article that said what time is Beijing time, it happened to be the evening in London, why are there so many students in the classroom at night in London?

I also deliberately flipped through the article, don't say it, it was really at that point in time, and suddenly I had fatal doubts about the textbook.

Not to mention that sometimes it was wrong, I think I was very stupid at that time, because I still really believe in that story.

Now I understand that some people make up stories that are not particularly complete, they are not logical, I won't say what the text is, I guess after I told this story, you already know which text, or has been changed or still exists, anyway, I dare to guarantee that this text is 1000% made up.

And all the mess of boiled frogs in warm water, all made up, blame me for being so innocent at the time, and even believing in this kind of thing.

I still think that Zhuli's theory is a bit confused by modern chicken soup texts, or that the life she is in has created such a character.

I didn't encourage Zhu Li, because I couldn't kill her old man, her old man was the main source of control over Zhu Li, can I get out of her old man's control?

To be honest, this matter is very simple and difficult, the simple place is to directly break away from the father-daughter relationship, or no longer rely on his father's any economy, you spend other people's money, listen to other people's words, and do things according to other people's methods is not only between the boss and employees, but also between rich fathers or mothers and children.

This is why there are so many contradictions between parents-in-law and daughter-in-law, and between father-in-law and mother-in-law and son-in-law.

It controls your economy to some extent, and it can have a certain say in some extent, that's a certainty.

As for why you control your finances, for example, if you buy a house, then when you marry your daughter-in-law, you give the bride price to the woman, and the woman's parents give you a dowry when you get married.

These are all economic disputes, and I am not saying that their economy seems to be a very simple economy, but that as long as there is something in this area, others must have some right to speak.

If you struggle to buy a small house, start a family on your own, do not live with either of your parents, and still maintain a very good relationship.

Then they don't have that much to say, and you can completely disobey either of them.

In this way, I think most young people nowadays are unable to do such a situation, so marriage becomes a matter between two families.

But I have always believed that marriage is a matter of two people, provided that these two people have a certain economic foundation, and it is still evil money.

After forming a new family, they actually broke away from the original family, but the current marriage model is to live in the man's house, that is, to take the population from one party to the other.

It may seem a little unauthentic or unnatural, but the current pattern seems to be this pattern.

However, I think the current marriage model has tended to the model I first mentioned, and most young people like this model because they don't have much to do with their older generation.

In the past, the economy was not particularly fast, the changes of the times were not particularly fast, and the ideological gap between the two generations was not so big, so there may not be so many contradictions when living together.

But I think it's completely different now, and the contradiction is so big that it can't be reconciled, so it must be a top priority to create a certain distance.

I even think that if you want to increase this marriage rate, you can adopt this strategy.

Going back to Zhuli's question, I don't think it's particularly easy for Zhuli to break away, it's easy to talk about it, out of the economic foundation.

Break away from the person who controls her own economic lifeline, but is this really easy for Zhuli to do?

Can Zhuli's current level of earning money support his living expenses? Obviously, she can't, and she deserves to be controlled by her parents, and I seem a little inauthentic to say it, because I wasn't controlled like this.

It's mainly from my parents' thoughts, in fact, I've always found my father's thinking to be quite avant-garde, but I also know that my father's protection of me is very serious, especially for me and Qiyang, I don't want that to happen to me and Qiyang too early.

I actually understand this very well, but compared to other parents, I think my parents' minds are already very enlightened, and they may be a little bit behind their parents.

The main reason why Qiyang's life today is envied by so many people is that it is out of control, not only out of control of the economy, but also out of the control of most other things.

This degree of freedom is already the envy of countless young people in modern times, and it is likely that there will be marriage in the future, which can be controlled by themselves.

Of course, it's definitely with me.

Why do I have so much self-confidence?

Continuing to talk about Zhuli, I don't think it's possible to cut through the mess quickly, after all, Zhuli is now used to this kind of rich life, and based on her short-term performance, it is impossible for her to earn this money.

Although a few days ago, I calculated with her what kind of situation she would be able to achieve in the future if she saved the money, but obviously I estimated that she would take these words as a deaf ear, and she may have felt quite deeply at the time, but it didn't take long for me to forget about it.

I have a lot of confidence in this matter, because in the past I had the same attitude towards things that I was dismissive of, and at some point I was impassioned for a short time because of some particular point of view, but it didn't take long for me to go back to the way I was.

It's not easy to change a mind in a short period of time, especially if it's been going on for more than ten years.

So I said to Zhuli: "Then how much do you think the other party has to pay to be serious to you?" ”

Zhuli also thought about it and said with a smile: "Why do you have to abandon him for me and have a lot of things." ”

In fact, what she said reminded me of a plot of Wulin Gaiden, that is, in the last few episodes, Li Dazui said a sentence: "He has money and he gave up everything for you, so you think he is sincere to you, but I have nothing but I also abandoned, you may think that I am not so sincere." ”

I don't know what it is, but that's what it means.

So I said to Zhuli: "What do you mean that people can't throw away if they don't have money, you mean that there must be money?" ”

Zhu Li refuted my point of view before I could finish speaking: "I didn't say that there is money or not, I just said that he can pay a certain price, otherwise how can he see his sincerity." ”

I continued, "What if people don't have anything to throw away? ”

I've never liked to argue with others, but I don't know why today, I started to theorize with Zhuli, which is not in line with my character.

I don't like to argue with others, which means I don't like to argue with other people, not that I don't like to argue with others, if I didn't like to argue, I wouldn't have committed so many atrocities against Qiyang.

What am I talking about? No, no, I'm wrong, I'm actually very good at Qiyang, don't get me wrong.

But today I refuted with Zhuli, especially when discussing such a deep issue, it was indeed unexpected, and I don't know why I thought about it in this way, sometimes I can't think of this problem, and sometimes I don't bother to discuss it with others when I think of it.

But today's words are to think of this issue and discuss it with others, and to discuss it with a person who has a contrary point of view.

Zhuli was also choked by me all of a sudden: "That one, that one, how can you have nothing, what do you mean?" ”

I thought about it for a while: "I mean that the family is not rich, the boy has no money, no house and no car, and maybe he didn't have a diamond ring when he got married, would you like to marry you like this?" But the price he paid was his whole life, do you think this life is reliable? ”

Zhu Li laughed all of a sudden: "How can there be such a person?" More or less when you get married, you should have a diamond ring. ”

I also smiled after hearing Zhuli's words: "If not, whether you marry him or not, I just asked you this question, and you answered me positively." ”

Zhu Li still thought deeply about it: "I'm not sure about this, if that man is more promising, I will still consider it." ”

"Even if your dad doesn't agree? Even if your dad doesn't agree with that so-called future, or genius, or ability? ”

Actually, I think the topic should have come to an abrupt end here, and there should be no more discussion on some of the more profound topics, which seem to be heavier.

Zhuli thought for a while: "I understand, you mean that even if I meet a man I like very much in the future, I won't be able to be the master, right?" ”

I really have this meaning, in fact, I still have a relatively large expectation for Zhuli's life, that is, I hope that all the people I know can live a happier life, instead of needing to use other people's experience to verify their own life as before, sometimes this experience is right, but many times this experience is wrong.

When some old creeds are used in a new modern era, there will always be some friction, and I think there is a high probability that these frictions will be the failure of the old creed.

The degree of change in thinking determines the degree of this contradiction, and the degree of change in this kind of thinking seems to be very large, so I think the degree of contradiction is also very large, do you really need to use some experience? I mean, at this point, it may be used, but not all of it.

I nodded and said, "I mean that, but I'm not saying to belittle you, I'm just saying that if you really have a boy you like right now, you can try it, and the things you can try are not just with this boy, I want you to try to have a split with your parents and see how far you can go." ”

How do I feel like I'm a little provocative.,If I let Zhuli's father and mother know about this in the future.,I don't think I'll let Zhuli play with me at all.,I feel like I'm a little dismantling*.,It's like I'm guessing if I'm guessing if it's going to explode*.。

But in a certain situation, it also feels very funny, if Zhu Li really had some breaks with his parents, those breaks that did not affect the relationship, maybe I can see some interesting things in the process of struggling, of course, to be honest, I didn't say these provocative words just to watch these fun things.

I still really want Zhuli to express an attitude.

Zhu Li smiled after hearing what I said: "You're right, I may indeed not be able to resist, forget it, people don't need to be so tired in life, I think it's good to listen to them." ”