【1107】I'm the only woman with you
Thinking of this, Xiao Yiyi explained bitterly: "Lisa, this is not a matter of a few years or a few years, but a matter of responsibility as a parent. Think about it, you gave him life, then you have to be responsible for this life! His future education, as well as his future life, as well as his marriage, childbirth, where he lived, food, and even work more than 20 years later, we always had to think more about him. Otherwise, once he comes to a detour, and no one tells him to correct it, wouldn't it be sorry for our sacred duty as parents? ”
Although in the Xiao family, Xiao Guocheng and Gu Guizhi never said that they particularly cared about Xiao Yiyi's academic problems, but Xiao Yiyi understood that it was because the path she was taking was quite right, and if she went wrong and went astray, her parents would definitely not care.
Moreover, this kind of education existed among other peers around her for more than ten years before her.
Especially this time, when I got a boyfriend and got engaged, my parents didn't say that they were completely laissez-faire, on the contrary, their parents paid more attention to their choice of dating partners than she did.
The subtle and deep-rooted influence made Xiao Yiyi feel that her thoughts were not wrong.
However, to Lisa, such a statement is almost like seeing some kind of alien creature.
"Oh my God, Yiyi, how can you have such a terrible thought? Although parents give life to their children, their children's lives are their own, and they are completely independent individuals, even if they are parents who give him life, they have no right to manage his life! Everyone is living alone and is free. As long as you don't break the law, even if it's a country, even if it's a law, you can't control everyone's life at all! ”
Looking at Lisa's equally straightforward appearance, Xiao Yiyi suddenly felt as if she couldn't make sense with Lisa at all.
But Lisa's words were not finished, "Not only children, even parents, are also free individuals, even if they are husband and wife, they are also free individuals, as long as they don't do things out of line, they shouldn't care about each other's so many things." After all, everyone needs their own privacy, don't they? Just like between you and Si Yan, many things about Si Yan, even if you know it, it's useless, and Si Yan doesn't necessarily want you to know. And according to you, if you don't say anything else, just say that you teach students in class, didn't you tell Si Yan? ”
"I ......"
Xiao Yiyi wanted to defend something, but was interrupted by Lisa, "Maybe you want to say it, but what can you do?" Do you want Si Yan to help you, or give you ideas? Teaching in class is completely different from opening a company and managing a company, even if you tell Si Yan about your work, Si Yan can't help you with anything. For another example, Si Yan is talking about cooperation, when he is thinking about the development of the company, if you are around, can he still concentrate on it? When you are preparing for the next day's lesson, do you want Si Yan or your parents to be by your side to ask this, that, and that? ”
Xiao Yiyi was stunned by Lisa's words, but she understood that what Lisa said was the truth.
If you don't say anything else, you just say that when you are preparing for class, you absolutely don't want anyone to disturb you, and even tell yourself that you can't talk about this and that.
In this way, the so-called human being is individual and free, which is not so difficult to understand.
It's just about what Lisa said, the child's business, when the child grows up, there will naturally be a way to deal with it, such a statement, Xiao Yiyi is really difficult to accept.
Lisa saw that Xiao Yiyi couldn't accept her opinion, but she didn't mind much, "Forget it, Yiyi, the two of us are also relatively independent individuals, everyone's thoughts are free, you don't understand my thoughts, just like I don't understand your thoughts." In that case, let's not continue on this topic. Anyway, the child's problem, as long as I and the child's father have the same point of view! ”
was said by Lisa, Xiao Yiyi also felt that it was not interesting to argue like this.
The time difference made Xiao Yiyi feel sleepy after just sitting for a while.
And Lisa is also very tired because of her pregnancy, so the two of them went directly back to their respective rooms to prepare for rest.
When lying in bed, Xiao Yiyi calculated the jet lag and made sure that the family had not slept at this time, so she turned on the phone and prepared to call the family.
As soon as the phone was turned on, the prompt tone of the message seemed to become a phone ringtone, and it rang endlessly.
clicked on the information, but Xiao Yiyi's heart couldn't help but tighten.
From beginning to end, there was almost only one name for the message, Si Yan.
Looking at the time again, the time of the message was actually sent after the plane I was on landed.
The content of the message from "Did you get to the place?" "To" why not turn it on? And then to the words full of begging apologies, worries, and the like.
From beginning to end, only Si Yan asked why he didn't say goodbye.
The topic that I had just discussed with Lisa came to mind again, but not about children, but about getting married, and if two people get along.
Originally, Xiao Yiyi didn't understand why Si Yan held an engagement ceremony, and she also looked like she wanted to marry herself, but she didn't decide on the date of marriage.
Now, Xiao Yiyi seems to understand a little.
Cultural differences, the biggest difference between two people is not in social status, but in culture.
The West's ideas of freedom, equality, and independence are in stark contrast to the country's attitude of stability and responsibility.
Thinking of this, Xiao Yiyi's dissatisfaction with Si Yan finally dissipated, she just turned out Si Yan's number, and was about to dial it, but who knew that a call suddenly came, and what was displayed on the screen was Si Yan's name.
The little heart fluttered and sped up, beating as if it was about to pop out.
Just hesitated slightly, Xiao Yiyi finally connected the phone.
On the other side of the phone, at the moment of connection, Si Yan was suddenly stunned, blinked his eyes twice, and then asked cautiously: "Yiyi, is it you?" ”
So cautious, so soft, as if the voice was loud, it would scare herself, so that Xiao Yiyi's nose instantly soured, and tears fell as she spoke.
However, Xiao Yiyi resisted the urge to cry loudly, but hummed softly, and said, "Si Yan, it's me." ”
As soon as he heard that it was really Xiao Yiyi who picked up the phone, Si Yan immediately breathed a long sigh of relief, and then said, "Yiyi, you finally answered the phone!" If you don't answer the phone again, I'll go to you even if I'm crawling. ”
This tone made Xiao Yiyi couldn't help but burst out laughing, she really couldn't imagine Si Yan finding herself on her stomach.
And Si Yan heard Xiao Yiyi laugh, and the big stone in his heart also fell.
It's a good thing to be able to laugh, and being able to laugh shows that there is still no problem between the two of them.
As for why this little woman didn't tell herself to go abroad secretly, this can be asked slowly in the future, as long as there is not something unhappy between the two people.
Xiao Yiyi asked about her parents' situation, Si Yan answered them one by one, and the two of them mentioned Lisa's situation again, Xiao Yiyi especially reminded Si Yan and asked him to tell Yi Chenhao that Xiao Yiyi would take good care of Lisa for a while.
Si Yan responded to these things one by one.
After finishing talking about other people's affairs, the two of them instantly quieted down tacitly, and they didn't know what to say for a while.
Just when Xiao Yiyi wanted to hang up the phone, she heard Si Yan ask faintly on the other end of the phone: "Yiyi, are you angry because I didn't determine the wedding date?" ”
Xiao Yiyi was stunned for a moment, probably not expecting Si Yan to think of this, but soon she smiled slightly and said easily: "Si Yan, do you know? If you had asked me this question half an hour ago, I would have told you, yes. But now, I'm not angry. ”
Angry, it means that he cares, although Si Yan will also be nervous, he will definitely not be too nervous.
But now when I heard Xiao Yiyi say that she was not angry, it made Si Yan nervous, and hurriedly asked: "Yiyi, you won't be so angry that you don't want to be with me because I haven't set a wedding date, right?" ”
Hearing a powerful business emperor say such a thing, Xiao Yiyi was really moved.
Because I care, I will let go of all my self-esteem and be high.
Xiao Yiyi didn't feel that Si Yan cared about her, so she became an obedient junior in the family, so she turned into a villain like a gangster to tease herself.
But suddenly hearing Si Yan say this, Xiao Yiyi was not only moved, but also inexplicably distressed.
"Si Yan, what nonsense are you talking about? Who said I wanted to be with you anymore? ”
Xiao Yiyi snorted angrily, pretending to be very dissatisfied, "Tell you, in this life, your Si Yan is my Xiao Yiyi's alone, if I knew that you still have a messy relationship with other women outside, I will definitely make you look good!" It's beautiful! ”
A tone full of threats made Si Yan grin and lie on the bed and smile.
"My Yiyi, in this life, I have only one woman in my company, and I will not swerve until death."
"Sweet words, who believes it!"
Xiao Yiyi still had an angry tone, but at this time, her face was full of happy smiles.
What Lisa said just now, the relationship between two people and a piece of paper, at this moment, Xiao Yiyi suddenly understood.
When two people are together, as long as the relationship has not changed, that piece of paper is not important at all. But on the contrary, once the relationship changes, or is gone, that piece of paper is a bond.
Especially when the social status difference between the two of them is so high, if it really comes to the time to maintain the relationship by that piece of paper, at that time, I will no longer marry for love, but be together for wealth.
Xiao Yiyi is not without a hard life, nor can she not live a hard life, even if she does not have the halo of the principal of Yiyi School now, even if she does not have a villa mansion in her life, she is still the Xiao Yiyi who looks at the sun with a smile and faces the wind and rain with a smile.
As long as you are alive, as long as you are willing to work hard and live, you will not be completely unable to live.
This is the most simple truth that her parents taught Xiao Yiyi, and it is also the criterion that Xiao Yiyi has been striving for.
Therefore, she is a person who will never give up her true feelings for the sake of money and status.