Chapter 1024: The goal is not clear

Actually, I still want to say that I sometimes overestimate myself.

But there is one thing that I think is relatively lucky, and of course, this luck was a very bad thing in the past.

It's just that I didn't have any learning goals since I was in school, and my mother was able to arrange these things for me, and I always heard about such things in the past.

At the beginning of the school year, each student may set a learning goal for themselves, and it should be said that most students will set a learning goal for themselves.

The goals for this semester are similar to memorizing two words a day or doing a math problem every day, and this kind of learning goal can be fully achieved at the beginning.

But as things get more and more progressive, you will find that things are not so simple, and I think it is a very good thing to be able to last for a month.

Then I should not have any learning goals, all my learning goals have been given to my parents, and my parents will complete my learning goals for me every day and then supervise me.

So I'm kind of a lucky person, and at that time I felt like they were persecuting something I didn't want to do, and I didn't know if it was the right thing to do.

But now I also know that as a child, the establishment of three views or worldview is not so correct, and I don't know what I really want, so my parents can be regarded as a great help to me.

At least when I was in junior high school and high school, I was able to get a relatively good grade, whether I was admitted to university or whether I could be admitted to university or not, which has nothing to do with the matter itself, and the relationship lies in the appearance of that thing.

Now I understand why those students, or my classmates, can't achieve their goals or don't stick to them for a long time after setting a learning goal.

Because I am such a person myself, then my understanding of this matter is of course very high, in fact, to be honest, I really feel that a person has a very big defect in the degree of completion of his goals.

I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that if a person can accomplish his goal, he will already surpass 90% of the people

If a person can really achieve such a point, it is definitely a dragon and phoenix among people.

It's just a pity that I can't do it at all, I have already assigned a lot of tasks to myself when I was in college, but now I can accomplish almost very few.

To be honest, I still feel a little sorry for my previous efforts, and this sorry for my previous efforts means that I feel that my previous efforts seem to have been in vain.

But it's really not like this, I still learned a lot of knowledge from my previous efforts, and of course, I can't keep all the knowledge.

Even if they are very great, they can't memorize everything they have learned, and I think the biggest benefit of going to school or reading books is that it comes from some specific ideas contained in it.

Bringing people some strong rules of conduct, I think this is the most important meaning of reading books.

When I said this, I actually remembered the martial arts biography again, and I don't know why I can always contact this TV series when I say something.

This also shows how much I love this TV series, linked to an episode, in fact, I believe that if I really love this TV series, I should be able to feel it.

That's the episode of Li Dazui, he also wants to read, of course, he doesn't really want to read, he just says he wants to win back face.

In the end, I was angry with the other two people, but Guo Furong said a sentence that I think is very appropriate, reading is actually for reason, if a person can be reasonable, it means that he doesn't need to read.

Of course, this matter is actually a bit mysterious, and the meaning of reading books now is not only in this aspect, not to mention that if a person wants to understand quickly, it seems that reading is a very good choice.

The plot in that TV series is actually that it seems to be to persuade Li Dazui, so there is such a statement.

But we have to put a question mark on whether this is the case, and I think this statement is a very important statement in some way, and it is difficult to determine in what way.

But if you can really be reasonable, I think it's a very important thing, and I think that in some cases, it can be equated with emotional intelligence.

Always have some fear and kindness in dealing with people and things.

In fact, what I mean is that I have read books for so many years and studied for so many years must have a great meaning.

It's just that my father and my mother want it to exist has no meaning now, and other meanings may not be so meaningful in my father and my mother's view.

In retrospect, I think this meaning may indeed be an extraordinary help for me later in life.

Some of the ideas that are represented to me in it also make me feel very beneficial, just like Qi Yang said, if a person reads more and more, then it will be more difficult to assimilate.

That is, we used to say why it is not easy for a highly educated person to find a partner, and why many young people now feel that it is very difficult to get married or find a partner.

Because after reading a lot of books, they have their own thinking patterns and thoughts, the more difficult it is to be assimilated, the more difficult it is to be understood by others, since the more difficult it is to be understood by others, it means that there will be some contradictions between them.

So as far as this matter is concerned, reading brings us a kind of thinking mode, and reading brings us high emotional intelligence, and I think this thing seems to be the most important thing.

Of course, I didn't say that other roles are not an important thing, but other roles are the most essential purpose or meaning that reading seems to have in this era.

This role is very necessary for most people, because it is related to a person's standard of living in the future.

From this data, it is already related.

Actually, we can't use some special cases to deal with the ordinary examples on the opposite side.

What I mean is that if a person who graduated from high school can earn 560,000 yuan a month because of entrepreneurship or some other reason, compared to a person from Tsinghua University and Peking University, he only has more than 10,000 yuan a month.

I came to the conclusion that reading books actually doesn't have much effect, and this conclusion is definitely not good.

Therefore, we can't use some special cases to compare ordinary examples, if all of them are compared with ordinary particle data, this is indeed a relatively big significance for ordinary people.

I don't judge people as a person, not to mention that I'm not a critic, I'm just talking about this matter, reading as a modern means to enter another class, I think it's a relatively beautiful phenomenon.

At least it can give us a fantasy, but again, I think there are still the most people at the bottom of life, that is, no matter when this pyramid arrives, whether it is all gold or all stone, at the bottom is still a little more.

This is why some people say that this degree is not worth much now, because of this main reason, that is, they are all changing, and if they are changing, they still need some people at the bottom.

This sentence may not sound good, but I think it may hurt the hearts of some people, that is, they have worked hard for so many years and the result is still at the bottom.

I think this kind of bottom is not the same as the bottom, and I remember that there used to be a saying that in ancient times, it took hundreds of people to be able to maintain a luxurious life for a person.

But now, it only takes about 10 people to maintain a luxurious life, which may not be accurate, and we may use another word to describe it.

Let's live a better life, for example.

That means that the proportion has risen a lot.

As I said earlier, even if it is a pyramid, there is a difference, some are stone and some are gold, although they are all at the bottom, I think this life is still turned upside down.

So we don't need to pay too much attention to this matter, not to mention that there is a big difference between the hundreds of people in the past and the ten people now.

Even if you can't be that person, these stars next to the moon are completely different, and if we really can't become that person, it can only be said to be destiny.

And if we really do our best, I believe it will still be very fulfilling, in the past, teachers often said that if you study hard every day, you will feel very fulfilled, and I always feel that this sentence is nonsense.

I was thinking about one thing, if you could let me watch TV and play on my phone every day, I would feel very fulfilled.

But to be honest, if I was asked to watch TV all afternoon, I felt very empty, and my whole body felt empty.

Sometimes I feel very fulfilled to be able to complete some homework by myself within a limited time, and I think the teacher is at least quite right in this regard.

Of course, it is impossible to enrich this thing all by learning, or all of it is filled with learning, and I think there is a high probability that I still have to do something that I feel is meaningful.

Some people say that I think it is very meaningful for me to play games and watch TV, but of course this is not like this, and it is definitely very fulfilling to be able to do meaningful things and enjoy things outside of work.

Some hobbies and hobbies may not feel very fulfilled if they really make it work, work and hobbies can sometimes be converted, once you convert this thing, you will find that there is indeed a very big difference, and there is indeed a very big difference.

Just like I play League of Legends now, I don't go to class and play League of Legends at home until noon and I haven't eaten, in fact, sometimes I feel very bored.

But if I wake up very early in the morning and memorize the words, of course I'll just give an example, and then wash my clothes, mop the floor and mop the house.

At this time, I will play League of Legends again, and even at noon, I will feel very fulfilling.

I played seven or eight of the former, but I only played 2~3 of the latter, but I can still feel that it is very fun, and I don't feel wasted in the morning.

It's just that I forgot about it for a long time, I just wanted to just play, and it turned out that time was getting faster and faster, and by noon I realized that I hadn't done anything.

Compared to the original one, it is simply much worse, so interests and hobbies are not the same.

In the teacher's opinion, if you can learn to solve problems, it will be very fulfilling, and of course, this kind of thing can really feel very fulfilling, I mean that you should do what you like to the end.

Li Qing had already said almost, and then Li Qing asked me with a smile: "Was it a little uncomfortable yesterday?" ”

I didn't understand what Li Qing meant, so I smiled at Li Qing and said, "What do you mean by this?" ”

The blind boy finally showed his true face at this time: "You can pull it down, yesterday he sent his girlfriend back, I think something will happen, how can I feel that you were a little sour yesterday." ”

In fact, when I first heard the second sentence, I knew what the blind boy wanted to say, what that sentence was about, the ivory that came out of the dog's mouth.

That's what the blind boy looks like now.

Of course, the blind boy has been teasing me for a long time, especially in this matter, it is simply countless times, so I am used to it now.

What about teasing?

When you first teased me, you would explain it a little, but now I won't explain anything if you tease me.

Because the more you explain, the more confusing it becomes, and this guy just wants to be like this, so there is nothing too good about other aspects.

But I shook my head: "You can say whatever you want, I don't have this idea anyway, is there anything wrong with people giving their girlfriends?" I don't think there's anything wrong with it, people can send it if they want to, and I don't know why you're so worried about it? ”

"Oh, I'm not worried, I'm just afraid that some people will be heartbroken."

I smiled: "Have you finished cleaning up?" If we're done, we'll go to their house and wait. ”

Li Qing shook his head: "I don't want to go to other people's houses, how good it is to wait here, I can do whatever I want, how casual, besides, you go there as if you want to eat that lunch, how good it is for us to eat at home." ”

Actually, it didn't matter, what the blind boy said was not necessarily wrong, and then I nodded and said, "Okay, okay, in that case, then let's wait." ”

I decided to turn on the computer and play the game for a while, playing League of Legends is the most time-consuming thing, because when you win, you still want to win, and when you lose, you still want to win, how it feels like gambling.

So I couldn't stop it all of a sudden, so I was able to play for a long time.

Of course, this game is actually much longer than League of Legends, especially the kind of battle game, and it is also a long-term battle game.

There's also a game with a very big worldview, but I've never played a game like this, and the first time I came into contact with a big one was League of Legends.

But this game led me to think about other games, and to understand other games.

Especially the game with a super large world view that Qi Yang said, I don't know why I feel very good

Actually, I still want to say that I sometimes overestimate myself.

But there is one thing that I think is relatively lucky, and of course, this luck was a very bad thing in the past.

It's just that I didn't have any learning goals since I was in school, and my mother was able to arrange these things for me, and I always heard about such things in the past.

At the beginning of the school year, each student may set a learning goal for themselves, and it should be said that most students will set a learning goal for themselves.

The goals for this semester are similar to memorizing two words a day or doing a math problem every day, and this kind of learning goal can be fully achieved at the beginning.

But as things get more and more progressive, you will find that things are not so simple, and I think it is a very good thing to be able to last for a month.

Then I should not have any learning goals, all my learning goals have been given to my parents, and my parents will complete my learning goals for me every day and then supervise me.

So I'm kind of a lucky person, and at that time I felt like they were persecuting something I didn't want to do, and I didn't know if it was the right thing to do.

But now I also know that as a child, the establishment of three views or worldview is not so correct, and I don't know what I really want, so my parents can be regarded as a great help to me.

At least when I was in junior high school and high school, I was able to get a relatively good grade, whether I was admitted to university or whether I could be admitted to university or not, which has nothing to do with the matter itself, and the relationship lies in the appearance of that thing.

Now I understand why those students, or my classmates, can't achieve their goals or don't stick to them for a long time after setting a learning goal.

Because I am such a person myself, then my understanding of this matter is of course very high, in fact, to be honest, I really feel that a person has a very big defect in the degree of completion of his goals.

I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that if a person can accomplish his goal, he will already surpass 90% of the people

If a person can really achieve such a point, it is definitely a dragon and phoenix among people.

It's just a pity that I can't do it at all, I have already assigned a lot of tasks to myself when I was in college, but now I can accomplish almost very few.

To be honest, I still feel a little sorry for my previous efforts, and this sorry for my previous efforts means that I feel that my previous efforts seem to have been in vain.

But it's really not like this, I still learned a lot of knowledge from my previous efforts, and of course, I can't keep all the knowledge.

Even if they are very great, they can't memorize everything they have learned, and I think the biggest benefit of going to school or reading books is that it comes from some specific ideas contained in it.

Bringing people some strong rules of conduct, I think this is the most important meaning of reading books.

When I said this, I actually remembered the martial arts biography again, and I don't know why I can always contact this TV series when I say something.

This also shows how much I love this TV series, linked to an episode, in fact, I believe that if I really love this TV series, I should be able to feel it.

That's the episode of Li Dazui, he also wants to read, of course, he doesn't really want to read, he just says he wants to win back face.

In the end, I was angry with the other two people, but Guo Furong said a sentence that I think is very appropriate, reading is actually for reason, if a person can be reasonable, it means that he doesn't need to read.

Of course, this matter is actually a bit mysterious, and the meaning of reading books now is not only in this aspect, not to mention that if a person wants to understand quickly, it seems that reading is a very good choice.

The plot in that TV series is actually that it seems to be to persuade Li Dazui, so there is such a statement.

But we have to put a question mark on whether this is the case, and I think this statement is a very important statement in some way, and it is difficult to determine in what way.

But if you can really be reasonable, I think it's a very important thing, and I think that in some cases, it can be equated with emotional intelligence.

Always have some fear and kindness in dealing with people and things.

In fact, what I mean is that I have read books for so many years and studied for so many years must have a great meaning.

It's just that my father and my mother want it to exist has no meaning now, and other meanings may not be so meaningful in my father and my mother's view.

In retrospect, I think this meaning may indeed be an extraordinary help for me later in life.

Some of the ideas that are represented to me in it also make me feel very beneficial, just like Qi Yang said, if a person reads more and more, then it will be more difficult to assimilate.

That is, we used to say why it is not easy for a highly educated person to find a partner, and why many young people now feel that it is very difficult to get married or find a partner.

Because after reading a lot of books, they have their own thinking patterns and thoughts, the more difficult it is to be assimilated, the more difficult it is to be understood by others, since the more difficult it is to be understood by others, it means that there will be some contradictions between them.

So as far as this matter is concerned, reading brings us a kind of thinking mode, and reading brings us high emotional intelligence, and I think this thing seems to be the most important thing.

Of course, I didn't say that other roles are not an important thing, but other roles are the most essential purpose or meaning that reading seems to have in this era.

This role is very necessary for most people, because it is related to a person's standard of living in the future.

From this data, it is already related.

Actually, we can't use some special cases to deal with the ordinary examples on the opposite side.

What I mean is that if a person who graduated from high school can earn 560,000 yuan a month because of entrepreneurship or some other reason, compared to a person from Tsinghua University and Peking University, he only has more than 10,000 yuan a month.

I came to the conclusion that reading books actually doesn't have much effect, and this conclusion is definitely not good.

Therefore, we can't use some special cases to compare ordinary examples, if all of them are compared with ordinary particle data, this is indeed a relatively big significance for ordinary people.

I don't judge people as a person, not to mention that I'm not a critic, I'm just talking about this matter, reading as a modern means to enter another class, I think it's a relatively beautiful phenomenon.

At least it can give us a fantasy, but again, I think there are still the most people at the bottom of life, that is, no matter when this pyramid arrives, whether it is all gold or all stone, at the bottom is still a little more.

This is why some people say that this degree is not worth much now, because of this main reason, that is, they are all changing, and if they are changing, they still need some people at the bottom.

This sentence may not sound good, but I think it may hurt the hearts of some people, that is, they have worked hard for so many years and the result is still at the bottom.

I think this kind of bottom is not the same as the bottom, and I remember that there used to be a saying that in ancient times, it took hundreds of people to be able to maintain a luxurious life for a person.

But now, it only takes about 10 people to maintain a luxurious life, which may not be accurate, and we may use another word to describe it.

Let's live a better life, for example.

That means that the proportion has risen a lot.

As I said earlier, even if it is a pyramid, there is a difference, some are stone and some are gold, although they are all at the bottom, I think this life is still turned upside down.

So we don't need to pay too much attention to this matter, not to mention that there is a big difference between the hundreds of people in the past and the ten people now.

Even if you can't be that person, these stars next to the moon are completely different, and if we really can't become that person, it can only be said to be destiny.

And if we really do our best, I believe it will still be very fulfilling, in the past, teachers often said that if you study hard every day, you will feel very fulfilled, and I always feel that this sentence is nonsense.

I was thinking about one thing, if you could let me watch TV and play on my phone every day, I would feel very fulfilled.

But to be honest, if I was asked to watch TV all afternoon, I felt very empty, and my whole body felt empty.

Sometimes I feel very fulfilled to be able to complete some homework by myself within a limited time, and I think the teacher is at least quite right in this regard.

Of course, it is impossible to enrich this thing all by learning, or all of it is filled with learning, and I think there is a high probability that I still have to do something that I feel is meaningful.

Some people say that I think it is very meaningful for me to play games and watch TV, but of course this is not like this, and it is definitely very fulfilling to be able to do meaningful things and enjoy things outside of work.

Some hobbies and hobbies may not feel very fulfilled if they really make it work, work and hobbies can sometimes be converted, once you convert this thing, you will find that there is indeed a very big difference, and there is indeed a very big difference.

Just like I play League of Legends now, I don't go to class and play League of Legends at home until noon and I haven't eaten, in fact, sometimes I feel very bored.

But if I wake up very early in the morning and memorize the words, of course I'll just give an example, and then wash my clothes, mop the floor and mop the house.

At this time, I will play League of Legends again, and even at noon, I will feel very fulfilling.

I played seven or eight of the former, but I only played 2~3 of the latter, but I can still feel that it is very fun, and I don't feel wasted in the morning.

It's just that I forgot about it for a long time, I just wanted to just play, and it turned out that time was getting faster and faster, and by noon I realized that I hadn't done anything.

Compared to the original one, it is simply much worse, so interests and hobbies are not the same.

In the teacher's opinion, if you can learn to solve problems, it will be very fulfilling, and of course, this kind of thing can really feel very fulfilling, I mean that you should do what you like to the end.

Li Qing had already said almost, and then Li Qing asked me with a smile: "Was it a little uncomfortable yesterday?" ”

I didn't understand what Li Qing meant, so I smiled at Li Qing and said, "What do you mean by this?" ”

The blind boy finally showed his true face at this time: "You can pull it down, yesterday he sent his girlfriend back, I think something will happen, how can I feel that you were a little sour yesterday." ”

In fact, when I first heard the second sentence, I knew what the blind boy wanted to say, what that sentence was about, the ivory that came out of the dog's mouth.

That's what the blind boy looks like now.

Of course, the blind boy has been teasing me for a long time, especially in this matter, it is simply countless times, so I am used to it now.

What about teasing?

When you first teased me, you would explain it a little, but now I won't explain anything if you tease me.

Because the more you explain, the more confusing it becomes, and this guy just wants to be like this, so there is nothing too good about other aspects.

But I shook my head: "You can say whatever you want, I don't have this idea anyway, is there anything wrong with people giving their girlfriends?" I don't think there's anything wrong with it, people can send it if they want to, and I don't know why you're so worried about it? ”

"Oh, I'm not worried, I'm just afraid that some people will be heartbroken."

I smiled: "Have you finished cleaning up?" If we're done, we'll go to their house and wait. ”

Li Qing shook his head: "I don't want to go to other people's houses, how good it is to wait here, I can do whatever I want, how casual, besides, you go there as if you want to eat that lunch, how good it is for us to eat at home." ”

Actually, it didn't matter, what the blind boy said was not necessarily wrong, and then I nodded and said, "Okay, okay, in that case, then let's wait." ”

I decided to turn on the computer and play the game for a while, playing League of Legends is the most time-consuming thing, because when you win, you still want to win, and when you lose, you still want to win, how it feels like gambling.

So I couldn't stop it all of a sudden, so I was able to play for a long time.

Of course, this game is actually much longer than League of Legends, especially the kind of battle game, and it is also a long-term battle game.

There's also a game with a very big worldview, but I've never played a game like this, and the first time I came into contact with a big one was League of Legends.

But this game led me to think about other games, and to understand other games.

Especially the game with a super large world view that Ki Yang said, I don't know why I feel very interested, but I need to buy such a game.

But I feel a little unworthy of buying a game like this, and I don't know why it feels so worthwhile to buy a skin.

But the main reason why that kind of game should be very fun is that it has a super large world view

I also like mobile games, which are games with a story, and I think I'm reading a novel rather than playing a game.

I didn't understand the charm of this game when I talked about it, but now I understand the charm of this game, such as this level game.

You know what level you can reach at what point in time, and you also know what kind of combat power you can achieve after buying what equipment.

But there is a high probability that this situation will not be achieved in life, and I mean that in a big case, you don't know what level you will reach next, and you don't know if you will get one of these equipment after this exam.

In other words, without a very clear goal, and without a very clear and perfect reward mechanism, it is easy to have such a situation.

So many people don't have a way to know where the apex of their lives is, but games can bring us these things, although these things are just some of the more illusory things.

But let's be honest, that's the beauty of the game,

Of course, there are advantages and disadvantages, the advantage is that it can bring us some spiritual enjoyment, so there is no need to say more about this disadvantage, the disadvantage and the benefit are corresponding.

The disadvantage is that you only care about achieving one level of yourself in the game, and you don't care about improving your level in real life.

In fact, in real life, if you can really have a goal to improve your city, it will get some results and benefits, and it will often get more results and benefits than in the game.

But such a game needs to be bought.

But I feel a little unworthy of buying a game like this, and I don't know why it feels so worthwhile to buy a skin.

But the main reason why that kind of game should be very fun is that it has a super large world view

I also like mobile games, which are games with a story, and I think I'm reading a novel rather than playing a game.

I didn't understand the charm of this game when I talked about it, but now I understand the charm of this game, such as this level game.

You know what level you can reach at what point in time, and you also know what kind of combat power you can achieve after buying what equipment.

But there is a high probability that this situation will not be achieved in life, and I mean that in a big case, you don't know what level you will reach next, and you don't know if you will get one of these equipment after this exam.

In other words, without a very clear goal, and without a very clear and perfect reward mechanism, it is easy to have such a situation.

So many people don't have a way to know where the apex of their lives is, but games can bring us these things, although these things are just some of the more illusory things.

But let's be honest, that's the beauty of the game,

Of course, there are advantages and disadvantages, the advantage is that it can bring us some spiritual enjoyment, so there is no need to say more about this disadvantage, the disadvantage and the benefit are corresponding.

The disadvantage is that you only care about achieving one level of yourself in the game, and you don't care about improving your level in real life.

In fact, in real life, if you can really have a goal to improve your city, it will get some results and benefits, and it will often get more results and benefits than in the game.