Chapter 1032: I don't care

I remember saying that I couldn't stick to a certain thing, how did I get to the classmates.

Returning to the original theme, I actually think that if you do something, you still have to set your own goals a little smaller.

Especially for a child who has little concentration, if you set a very big goal at the beginning, it may become smaller and smaller after a few days.

In the end, this goal was not achieved directly, which is very normal, and it is a common thing for me.

So as far as other things are concerned, such as that word, I think it's very good to memorize one word a day when I first started learning English.

In fact, there are some feelings that have been instilled too badly.

As a result, I don't want to try anything else now, or maybe it's because of myself, and I put the blame on others.

It does seem to be a little bit not good.

For example, the original diary, I remember just trying to talk about the diary.

In fact, there is no need to write a diary every day, I remember more than once I asked myself to write a diary, and every time I bought a new notebook and prepared to write a diary.

As a result, I couldn't do my best every time, and I remember that several diaries were thrown away after a few pages, and I didn't know where I threw them.

From time to time, when I have to go to the house to see if there is anything interesting, I may find this diary, open it to see what kind of things are written, and I feel a little funny.

Because I don't remember what I wrote, I don't have any impression at all.

The main reason is that the writing is not particularly clear.

I think that when I first started working on a diary, I could turn it into a weekly diary, which means I wrote one or two articles a week, so I didn't feel a lot of pressure.

In fact, for students like us, the pressure is really very high, and it is not particularly easy to squeeze out a little time to write a diary every day.

So it might be a little better to turn it into a weekly diary, and it's a bit better to remember the most fun things that happen each week.

In fact, it is impossible to feel that you are more memorable every day, so there is no need to write down inconsequential things every day.

I remember a time when there was a particularly funny thing that happened.

At that time, the teacher asked the teacher to write a diary, and it had to be turned in every day, and it would be corrected after it was handed in.

As a result, a classmate wrote like this, on a certain day, in a certain year, month, and on a certain day, the weather was fine.

Then the first sentence said, it was raining today, and the sky was full of dark clouds, so I was in a very bad mood.

At that time, the teacher also read such a diary to us, of course, this practice may be a little insignificant, but this student should have made it up randomly.

I don't think there's much privacy, he says almost the same thing every day, and uses the same tone.

I also went to look at this diary, and the most common sentence in the diary is that I am in a very good mood today, and I am in a very bad mood today.

And then write about some things, which basically happen every day, and I don't think the probability of such things affecting the mood is particularly large.

So it's basically just a random fabrication, when I used to write a diary, I started to write some real things, and when I looked back, I found that my life was the same every day, and there was nothing new about it.

So when I wrote a diary, I couldn't find anything to choose, so I began to make it up randomly, and I originally wrote a diary to record my life.

It's just a pity that it becomes a homework, and I think that no matter what kind of thing it is, how interesting it is, if it becomes a job or an assignment, we will not be so interested in this thing.

So the diary gradually began to be given up by the teacher, and it is estimated that the teacher was also annoyed by this matter, because there was no truth in it at all.

But I do want to record my daily life, but I find that daily life is really boring, and for most people, life is like this.

At a certain stage, day after day, year after year, like when I was in school, every day was basically the same way.

Of course, I think that this way can improve people's work efficiency and learning efficiency, but if you let your own ideas do it, you will not be able to improve this efficiency.

I'm just talking about a repetitive life at some stage, day after day, year after year.

This is a stage of school, and if it comes to the stage of work, I guess most people are like this, so our life is a very boring life.

Since it's such a boring and uninteresting life, it wouldn't be too complicated to write a diary, so I just said that it might be enough to write a weekly diary.

This week's diary is to record if there is anything new happening during the week, and of course, I don't think it needs to be fixed to a certain day of the week.

Just write it out when something happens.

Actually, I think it's a blessing for people nowadays to have a job that can be repeated over and over again, because some people can't do such a situation.

If there is a relatively new life, I think it may also mean a more upheaval life, which should not be what everyone wants.

So sometimes, day after day, year after year, I think it should be considered a happy thing, and now I can understand why my parents want me to go to college and do something they want to do.

This kind of life is not necessarily a bad life for me.

But there is a certain gap between me and my mother. The difference lies in the ideological gap.

In the past, I knew that going to college now does not mean that I will be able to find a good job, but my parents now think that if I can go to university, I will definitely be able to find a job in the public in the future.

Actually, it seems that there should be something to be tested, but as far as this matter is concerned, I think my parents are too lenient, and this matter is not something they can imagine.

Of course, if I can get into a good university, it will be much easier to find a job than I am now.

But there is one thing that I actually overlooked, that is, if I didn't have my current life, I wouldn't know that the lifestyle that my parents said was actually a happier lifestyle.

So it's a relatively good process, and if I don't have a comparison, I'll never feel what a happy country I live in.

I can feel it now, but it's not too late, and I can go back if I go back now, but I don't want to go back because of some circumstances.

It feels like it's gone far again.

Since I was a child, I was not a quiet child, and the main reason was because of my parents.

My mother once said that if I got into a good university, she would let me go to graduate school, and she was going to live with me near the university.

When I heard something like this, I immediately felt a sense of fear, and I didn't know why it happened.

But this fear is quite a feeling of fear.

The thought of my mom being with me for a few more years was like being in prison.

Because since I was in high school, I've been thinking about my life after college, that kind of free life, without the nagging of my parents around me.

But when my mom said that when I go to college in the future, she will rent a house next to the university and live with me and cook for me, and my heart goes numb when I hear this.

So I rushed to say no, and there was a joking tone that said, "If you do it like this, then I'd rather not go to college." ”

At that time, I was joking in a tone that was a real thought in my heart, and I felt that this was indeed the case, and if I really wanted to go to college with me, I would rather not go to college because this kind of life is too depressing.

I don't know why my mom had such an idea, whether it was because she wanted me to continue studying, or because she was afraid that I would be bullied or fall in love.

Anyway, I feel like it's going to be a big deal in my life if it happens again.

In fact, falling in love in college I think it's a false proposition, my parents don't allow their children to fall in love in college, in fact, as a girl.

Afraid of being deceived, afraid of meeting some scumbag men, he just graduated from college, and immediately wanted his daughter to find a golden beetle son-in-law.

And then I want to get married and hold my grandson right away, if I have to have a metaphor, I think this is like in League of Legends you want to go straight from bronze to master in one go.

It may not be a difficult task for some pros, but for a newbie like me, it's like climbing to the top.

I think that's the same for most people.

That's why I think the best time to fall in love is when you're in college.

It's really not suitable for high school, and when I'm free, I feel like I haven't had a youthful relationship if I don't talk about a vigorous love in high school, but now I do have such a feeling, and it's really not a time to fall in love in high school.

But college is a very suitable time, and when you fall in love, you actually have a very biggest advantage, which is to be able to see your own shortcomings clearly.

And you can also feel what kind of person you are suitable for, and you can also feel the mood of some boys in the process of falling in love, so you need to know some people more accurately.

You can also adjust your temper, and if you can do the most important thing well, you will not be far from getting married.

If I wait until I get married to reconcile the conflict between these two people, then I think it's a little late.

Some people say that they went on a blind date in the past, and even said that they didn't meet before they got married, didn't this kind of marriage also persist?

I don't think this can be compared with such a statement, because the times are different from the times.

Such a marriage will definitely produce contradictions, but this contradiction is suppressed by a thought, so the embodiment of this contradiction is not in the matter of divorce.

But now, if such a contradiction really occurs, it means that there is a high probability that there will be a divorce.

This is one of the main reasons why I agree with premarital cohabitation, and to put it mildly, if you live together before marriage, you can experiment with whether the man has such a disease.

And the length of that time.

In the past, I thought I couldn't talk about such a topic, but now I think it's a relatively normal thing, shouldn't this matter be experimented?

Another thing, according to my communication with Qi Yang Mo Xiang, is that young people of our age don't particularly care about the so-called first and second times.

Of course, I don't care, but maybe they say something more fake, say something more high-sounding, but they do say it like this, and I'm not particularly sure if they will do it.

In addition, cohabitation is not much different from marriage.

If it was before, there were some differences, that is, the treatment of one's own relatives, such as the parents of each party, such as the seven aunts and eight aunts of each party.

If it was before, it might be different, but I mean that if you had lived together in the past, there would have been a gap between you and your marriage, but now it's basically getting smaller and smaller.

Because many young people do not choose to live with their parents, this means that the gap between cohabitation and marriage will become smaller and smaller.

Sometimes this benefit has already been reflected, cohabitation can temper the temper between two people, and finally determine whether two people are suitable for being together.

If it is suitable to be together, then get a marriage certificate and other things, and if it is not suitable to be together, then the process of divorce is omitted.

In fact, people are a very complex animal, if it is a second marriage, I mean a divorced man or woman, they may not be very popular, but a cohabitation, that is, after the breakup, there is not much difference between a man and a woman.

In fact, in the final analysis, it is the reason for the system, and this matter is actually relatively not so complicated, but because of people's thoughts.

The reason for this idea is the thought brought about by a system, which means that it doesn't matter if there is no system or without this thought.

But what I'm going to mention now is the benefits of cohabitation.

But some people say that marriage and cohabitation are completely different, marriage is marriage with the other party's family, that is to say, falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families.

How to say this, you can do whatever you want, if it's a boy with a mentality that is not such a mentality, I think it's good to break up directly.

It's the same with guys, if you really want to marry each other, you don't need to care about it at all.

I think what we need to do is to make money and make money, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as there is no financial involvement, then everything that others say can be ignored.

As long as there is no economic involvement, that is to say, there is no oppression.

So money can still solve a good problem.

Of course, this may seem a bit bad, but I'll give you an example if the two of you can afford a house, can afford a down payment and then be able to pay it back.

Both men and women agree more, which means that the two of you have tempered their tempers and are sure that they can come together in the future.

You can do what your parents ask you to do, if you have filial piety, you can drag it first, and if you don't care at all, just say no.

For example, if you are asked to have a child, you can just say that you don't want to give it away.

If the woman's parents want a bride price before marriage, the girl can do not want it at this time, and quickly give me the household registration book.

If you don't give it, you can go directly to the local community, or even say that you can reconcile it directly.

So money can still solve most of the problems, but if this matter is solved in this way, it does seem a little embarrassing.

For example, if you don't want to get a marriage license, etc., you don't need to care about these messy things, if you can be financially independent, you don't need to care at all.

In fact, the matter is still a matter of two people, if two people can live better, it is not a problem of two families at all.

It's just that the current prices and housing prices are not affordable for everyone, that is, not everyone can achieve such a situation.

Therefore, you have to bear some economic pressure, and the families of both sides have an economic involvement, and once you have this economic involvement, then both parties are prone to some control.

What I mean by this is that both parents have to their children, so there is no such good way to do it, and it should not be so easy to coordinate.

I remember that Qi Yang once said that it doesn't matter what his child's surname is, and now he has reached such a point, and I believe that if he develops in the future, he should develop even more.

Qi Yang joked like this at the time: "Yes, it doesn't matter at all, I don't care what the child's surname is, it would be nice if I could get a little less bride price." ”

Of course, this matter is a joke, and it is estimated that Yun Ci will not let Qi Yang take much money.

I remember saying that I couldn't stick to a certain thing, how did I get to the classmates.

Returning to the original theme, I actually think that if you do something, you still have to set your own goals a little smaller.

Especially for a child who has little concentration, if you set a very big goal at the beginning, it may become smaller and smaller after a few days.

In the end, this goal was not achieved directly, which is very normal, and it is a common thing for me.

So as far as other things are concerned, such as that word, I think it's very good to memorize one word a day when I first started learning English.

In fact, there are some feelings that have been instilled too badly.

As a result, I don't want to try anything else now, or maybe it's because of myself, and I put the blame on others.

It does seem to be a little bit not good.

For example, the original diary, I remember just trying to talk about the diary.

In fact, there is no need to write a diary every day, I remember more than once I asked myself to write a diary, and every time I bought a new notebook and prepared to write a diary.

As a result, I couldn't do my best every time, and I remember that several diaries were thrown away after a few pages, and I didn't know where I threw them.

From time to time, when I have to go to the house to see if there is anything interesting, I may find this diary, open it to see what kind of things are written, and I feel a little funny.

Because I don't remember what I wrote, I don't have any impression at all.

The main reason is that the writing is not particularly clear.

I think that when I first started working on a diary, I could turn it into a weekly diary, which means I wrote one or two articles a week, so I didn't feel a lot of pressure.

In fact, for students like us, the pressure is really very high, and it is not particularly easy to squeeze out a little time to write a diary every day.

So it might be a little better to turn it into a weekly diary, and it's a bit better to remember the most fun things that happen each week.

In fact, it is impossible to feel that you are more memorable every day, so there is no need to write down inconsequential things every day.

I remember a time when there was a particularly funny thing that happened.

At that time, the teacher asked the teacher to write a diary, and it had to be turned in every day, and it would be corrected after it was handed in.

As a result, a classmate wrote like this, on a certain day, in a certain year, month, and on a certain day, the weather was fine.

Then the first sentence said, it was raining today, and the sky was full of dark clouds, so I was in a very bad mood.

At that time, the teacher also read such a diary to us, of course, this practice may be a little insignificant, but this student should have made it up randomly.

I don't think there's much privacy, he says almost the same thing every day, and uses the same tone.

I also went to look at this diary, and the most common sentence in the diary is that I am in a very good mood today, and I am in a very bad mood today.

And then write about some things, which basically happen every day, and I don't think the probability of such things affecting the mood is particularly large.

So it's basically just a random fabrication, when I used to write a diary, I started to write some real things, and when I looked back, I found that my life was the same every day, and there was nothing new about it.

So when I wrote a diary, I couldn't find anything to choose, so I began to make it up randomly, and I originally wrote a diary to record my life.

It's just a pity that it becomes a homework, and I think that no matter what kind of thing it is, how interesting it is, if it becomes a job or an assignment, we will not be so interested in this thing.

So the diary gradually began to be given up by the teacher, and it is estimated that the teacher was also annoyed by this matter, because there was no truth in it at all.

But I do want to record my daily life, but I find that daily life is really boring, and for most people, life is like this.

At a certain stage, day after day, year after year, like when I was in school, every day was basically the same way.

Of course, I think that this way can improve people's work efficiency and learning efficiency, but if you let your own ideas do it, you will not be able to improve this efficiency.

I'm just talking about a repetitive life at some stage, day after day, year after year.

This is a stage of school, and if it comes to the stage of work, I guess most people are like this, so our life is a very boring life.

Since it's such a boring and uninteresting life, it wouldn't be too complicated to write a diary, so I just said that it might be enough to write a weekly diary.

This week's diary is to record if there is anything new happening during the week, and of course, I don't think it needs to be fixed to a certain day of the week.

Just write it out when something happens.

Actually, I think it's a blessing for people nowadays to have a job that can be repeated over and over again, because some people can't do such a situation.

If there is a relatively new life, I think it may also mean a more upheaval life, which should not be what everyone wants.

So sometimes, day after day, year after year, I think it should be considered a happy thing, and now I can understand why my parents want me to go to college and do something they want to do.

This kind of life is not necessarily a bad life for me.

But there is a certain gap between me and my mother. The difference lies in the ideological gap.

In the past, I knew that going to college now does not mean that I will be able to find a good job, but my parents now think that if I can go to university, I will definitely be able to find a job in the public in the future.

Actually, it seems that there should be something to be tested, but as far as this matter is concerned, I think my parents are too lenient, and this matter is not something they can imagine.

Of course, if I can get into a good university, it will be much easier to find a job than I am now.

But there is one thing that I actually overlooked, that is, if I didn't have my current life, I wouldn't know that the lifestyle that my parents said was actually a happier lifestyle.

So it's a relatively good process, and if I don't have a comparison, I'll never feel what a happy country I live in.

I can feel it now, but it's not too late, and I can go back if I go back now, but I don't want to go back because of some circumstances.

It feels like it's gone far again.

Since I was a child, I was not a quiet child, and the main reason was because of my parents.

My mother once said that if I got into a good university, she would let me go to graduate school, and she was going to live with me near the university.

When I heard something like this, I immediately felt a sense of fear, and I didn't know why it happened.

But this fear is quite a feeling of fear.

The thought of my mom being with me for a few more years was like being in prison.

Because since I was in high school, I've been thinking about my life after college, that kind of free life, without the nagging of my parents around me.

But when my mom said that when I go to college in the future, she will rent a house next to the university and live with me and cook for me, and my heart goes numb when I hear this.

So I rushed to say no, and there was a joking tone that said, "If you do it like this, then I'd rather not go to college." ”

At that time, I was joking in a tone that was a real thought in my heart, and I felt that this was indeed the case, and if I really wanted to go to college with me, I would rather not go to college because this kind of life is too depressing.

I don't know why my mom had such an idea, whether it was because she wanted me to continue studying, or because she was afraid that I would be bullied or fall in love.

Anyway, I feel like it's going to be a big deal in my life if it happens again.

In fact, falling in love in college I think it's a false proposition, my parents don't allow their children to fall in love in college, in fact, as a girl.

Afraid of being deceived, afraid of meeting some scumbag men, he just graduated from college, and immediately wanted his daughter to find a golden beetle son-in-law.

And then I want to get married and hold my grandson right away, if I have to have a metaphor, I think this is like in League of Legends you want to go straight from bronze to master in one go.

It may not be a difficult task for some pros, but for a newbie like me, it's like climbing to the top.

I think that's the same for most people.

That's why I think the best time to fall in love is when you're in college.

It's really not suitable for high school, and when I'm free, I feel like I haven't had a youthful relationship if I don't talk about a vigorous love in high school, but now I do have such a feeling, and it's really not a time to fall in love in high school.

But college is a very suitable time, and when you fall in love, you actually have a very biggest advantage, which is to be able to see your own shortcomings clearly.

And you can also feel what kind of person you are suitable for, and you can also feel the mood of some boys in the process of falling in love, so you need to know some people more accurately.

You can also adjust your temper, and if you can do the most important thing well, you will not be far from getting married.

If I wait until I get married to reconcile the conflict between these two people, then I think it's a little late.

Some people say that they went on a blind date in the past, and even said that they didn't meet before they got married, didn't this kind of marriage also persist?

I don't think this can be compared with such a statement, because the times are different from the times.

Such a marriage will definitely produce contradictions, but this contradiction is suppressed by a thought, so the embodiment of this contradiction is not in the matter of divorce.

But now, if such a contradiction really occurs, it means that there is a high probability that there will be a divorce.

This is one of the main reasons why I agree with premarital cohabitation, and to put it mildly, if you live together before marriage, you can experiment with whether the man has such a disease.

And the length of that time.

In the past, I thought I couldn't talk about such a topic, but now I think it's a relatively normal thing, shouldn't this matter be experimented?

Another thing, according to my communication with Qi Yang Mo Xiang, is that young people of our age don't particularly care about the so-called first and second times.

Of course, I don't care, but maybe they say something more fake, say something more high-sounding, but they do say it like this, and I'm not particularly sure if they will do it.

In addition, cohabitation is not much different from marriage.

If it was before, there were some differences, that is, the treatment of one's own relatives, such as the parents of each party, such as the seven aunts and eight aunts of each party.

If it was before, it might be different, but I mean that if you had lived together in the past, there would have been a gap between you and your marriage, but now it's basically getting smaller and smaller.

Because many young people do not choose to live with their parents, this means that the gap between cohabitation and marriage will become smaller and smaller.

Sometimes this benefit has already been reflected, cohabitation can temper the temper between two people, and finally determine whether two people are suitable for being together.

If it is suitable to be together, then get a marriage certificate and other things, and if it is not suitable to be together, then the process of divorce is omitted.

In fact, people are a very complex animal, if it is a second marriage, I mean a divorced man or woman, they may not be very popular, but a cohabitation, that is, after the breakup, there is not much difference between a man and a woman.

In fact, in the final analysis, it is the reason for the system, and this matter is actually relatively not so complicated, but because of people's thoughts.

The reason for this idea is the thought brought about by a system, which means that it doesn't matter if there is no system or without this thought.

But what I'm going to mention now is the benefits of cohabitation.

But some people say that marriage and cohabitation are completely different, marriage is marriage with the other party's family, that is to say, falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families.

How to say this, you can do whatever you want, if it's a boy with a mentality that is not such a mentality, I think it's good to break up directly.

It's the same with guys, if you really want to marry each other, you don't need to care about it at all.

I think what we need to do is to make money and make money, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as there is no financial involvement, then everything that others say can be ignored.

As long as there is no economic involvement, that is to say, there is no oppression.

So money can still solve a good problem.

Of course, this may seem a bit bad, but I'll give you an example if the two of you can afford a house, can afford a down payment and then be able to pay it back.

Both men and women agree more, which means that the two of you have tempered their tempers and are sure that they can come together in the future.

You can do what your parents ask you to do, if you have filial piety, you can drag it first, and if you don't care at all, just say no.

For example, if you are asked to have a child, you can just say that you don't want to give it away.

If the woman's parents want a bride price before marriage, the girl can do not want it at this time, and quickly give me the household registration book.

If you don't give it, you can go directly to the local community, or even say that you can reconcile it directly.

So money can still solve most of the problems, but if this matter is solved in this way, it does seem a little embarrassing.

For example, if you don't want to get a marriage license, etc., you don't need to care about these messy things, if you can be financially independent, you don't need to care at all.

In fact, the matter is still a matter of two people, if two people can live better, it is not a problem of two families at all.

It's just that the current prices and housing prices are not affordable for everyone, that is, not everyone can achieve such a situation.

Therefore, you have to bear some economic pressure, and the families of both sides have an economic involvement, and once you have this economic involvement, then both parties are prone to some control.

What I mean by this is that both parents have to their children, so there is no such good way to do it, and it should not be so easy to coordinate.

I remember that Qi Yang once said that it doesn't matter what his child's surname is, and now he has reached such a point, and I believe that if he develops in the future, he should develop even more.

Qi Yang joked like this at the time: "Yes, it doesn't matter at all, I don't care what the child's surname is, it would be nice if I could get a little less bride price." ”

Of course, this matter is a joke, and it is estimated that Yun Ci will not let Qi Yang take much money.