From this point of view, it is not the fault of the majority, most people are passively deciding this process, but there is a little initiative in the process of passive decision, so this initiative is the source of contradictions.

That is to say, in the past, it was a long time ago, and at that time it was the words of the parents who ordered the matchmaker, and I heard them say that they entered that door directly from this door, and I can't know exactly what the situation is.

But if we think about it in this way, it is completely the parents' decision, and the mobility of the population is too small, so there are not many opportunities for independent choice, so everything has to be endured, of course, it does not mean that it is necessarily right to endure.

If you endure it, there will be a lot of mistakes, but this kind of demand will definitely become very rare, and some people say that the divorce rate in that era was very small, but in fact, if it is purely based on divorce, it seems a little unfair to us modern people.

Because at that time, the conditions for being able to resist were indeed very few, that is to say, many situations had to be endured, and it was really not good to determine the problem of modern people's infidelity if it was not based on historical conditions or the environment at the time.

On the one hand, being able to resist actually means being able to give a blow to some bad things and stay away, but if according to them, this kind of pain needs to be endured all the time, then I think it should be about the suicide rate.

If according to the suicide rate, then our current life is very happy and happy, do you think that if this kind of problem is only used to demonstrate a result through a data and write some advertorials, then this person is actually purely for profit.

It is not worth arguing to write this thing for the sake of profit, that is to say, the error itself is already very big, and it is obviously not quite correct to believe in this thing, and not to resist in order not to resist.

Of course, if the overkill develops to another level, it may be nitpicking, that is, we often say that picking bones in eggs is obviously not a particularly correct thing.

In this point of view, it is still the pursuit of making money rather than the pursuit of an extreme, so the current words are also a little sick, but if this kind of problem asks me to say how to solve it, then I definitely have no way to say a reason.

This kind of thing is promoted in many ways, so I think that this problem cannot be solved overnight, and it is likely that it will take a long time to solve, whether it is from the ideology, or from the economic conditions, the interaction between people, and even from the literal sense of the law, this will require a lot of effort.

But for the original thing, that is, the kind of marriage from this door to that door, this way of marriage is obviously not advisable, and the way his parents judge is not necessarily correct, but an incorrect judgment affects the result of a lifetime.

Maybe if you are lucky, you can indeed reach a very good point, we often read some novels about that era, and indeed there are novels that can reach a very good point, and it seems that the words are in love with each other, and the word "two little guesses" seems to be used incorrectly.

But that's basically what it's like, but what we don't see is that most of the people, most of the things are likely, whether it's a man or a woman, they're going to be under a lot of pressure.

It's not that the people on both sides are bad, just that they are not particularly suitable.

In fact, I think that if you really want to be able to find a very good life partner in modern times, in fact, the most important thing is to get along, and getting along now is a very complicated one, don't look at it in college, when you are in high school, this kind of getting along is very easy.

I think this kind of relationship should be moved to work, when you meet a gap in your teens at work, there is definitely no way to find a favorite person.

It's a bit troublesome to use other methods, which is why this situation has arisen.

I think that optimizing the structure of work, this is probably a very important aspect, and it is also a way to increase the marriage rate or the fertility rate, as mentioned earlier, this kind of thing is obviously not achieved overnight.

That is to say, as far as this method is concerned, it takes a long time to run-in, and there is also a problem that there is no amateur life, and there is no amateur life that can bring communication between people.

Then it's all used in one time, the processing of feelings is no time, feelings are also an object, he also needs a time to take care of, if there is no time to invest, then the return will be very small.

That's why on the Internet, we can always feel that both men and women are complaining about this difficult problem of finding a partner.

It also occurred to me that another way to say that a piece of software can take everyone's information and pair up with all the people who can be interested in it without any profit.

In this way, it may really be able to increase the marriage rate, and it is not purely dependent on blind dates to cause some conflicts, so I think this method seems to be good.

But there is a premise for this, the day before yesterday is deliberately for the purpose of making money, once this thing is for the purpose of making money, then it is easy to cause some difficulties, and the source of this dilemma is the difference between some paying players and some non-paying players.

And it is easy to fill in the wrong information, because some people just fill in their salary, height, appearance and other messy things in order to find better things.

She may not fill in these things correctly, so it may also produce such a result, so I think this kind of thing can only be done by the state.

First of all, the country has a large data system, and they have a certain guarantee for the individual's salary, height, age, and so on, I think people still have to be realistic, that is, in the process of software registration, people have to fill in their fixed salary, and there must be something like a salary slip to corroborate.

Although it may still be fake, the degree of fraud will definitely be greatly reduced, which means that it may be much easier to find a favorite object.

Of course, this is also my assumption, in fact, I don't know what kind of contradiction can occur, that is, what kind of contradiction can be created with this thing, what kind of dilemma is created, no one can figure out this matter.

But through this I imagined a little joke, a small joke or a small complaint, to be exact.

When someone reaches the legal age of marriage, they will send a sentence similar to this on their circle of friends or QQ space or Weibo: Today is my birthday, and after my birthday, I will reach the legal age of marriage. I was in a hurry at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau.

Of course, this sentence must be a sentence of complaining, which means why I haven't found a partner for so long, but it's really interesting.

I think if there is this software, it is really possible to form this sentence, when the time comes, search for automatic matching, and then see if it is suitable, if it is suitable, pay a little deposit and make a phone call to chat.

If it's not suitable, look for the next one.

It occurred to me that this is also a big disadvantage, and it is easy to cause this shortcoming that I am looking for a partner to think easily, and this shortcoming is likely to contribute to some people's psychology, of course, not to the point that no one can understand this situation to be honest.

I said that there is a certain reason why the country makes such a software, because I see that a lot of blind date software is really like a snake to add to it, and it looks like it is polluted by something, maybe the original intention of making this software is really good.

But because of lax supervision or because of some reasons, anyway, some software is getting more and more outrageous, and finally it has reached a point where it is not intended at all, since it cannot achieve the desired effect, so many people in it began to go out.

Then this software has no effect, so I think that if this kind of thing happens, it must be true information, and then it will be regulated, and there will be a certain punishment for some opportunistic people, otherwise the market will always be in a not very optimistic state.

Of course, I'm just talking about Zhu Li's problem now, Zhu Li, I still don't dare to introduce her to her rashly, in fact, the main problem in society is that I think her message or his request is definitely not what she thinks.

Even what she thinks in her heart now will definitely not be what she really thinks in her heart, so I still have many candidates for her statement, the simplest example is Mo Xiang, but if she really sees Mo Xiang, will she agree?

It's not that this becomes a boyfriend and girlfriend agrees or disagrees, it's just that let them communicate simply, I don't think Zhu Li necessarily agrees.

But again, I don't say this to criticize Zhu Li, I just mean that there is a certain flaw in this matter, and the defect itself does not come from Zhu Li, but from something that we have not noticed.

So I won't continue to put this thing on the line, but if I go online, it will make me feel a deep sense of disgust, so don't continue this thing.

"Forget it, forget it, there are a lot of people around you, all of them are rich and handsome, and all of them are short and poor on my side, what do you want to introduce to you?" I said to Zhuli with a smile.

Zhuli glanced at me after hearing what I said: "And eldest sister, aren't you sarcastic about me?" How do you feel that your family is also included, your family is poor and short? ”

When I heard this, I actually really admitted it, so I said to Zhuli: "Don't say it, you're right, our family is really a short and poor, you see that he is not tall, right?" His usual words and things are still quite frustrating, as for being poor, there is no need to say more, he hasn't bought me much throughout the year, even if it's Valentine's Day, he forgot about Valentine's Day, and once he finally remembered it, so he bought me a piece of chocolate, isn't this a mess? I was supposed to buy him chocolates. ”

Zhu Li's smile was even bigger: "If you talk about him like this, he won't be angry with you, I guess you should just say it to me face to face, and don't say it when you really talk to others." ”

I glanced at Zhuli: "Let me tell you, even if I say this to his face, he doesn't dare to say a word to believe it or not?" ”

I'm not bragging, if I talk about Yang like this, I dare to guarantee that Yang Lehe, because he agrees with my statement, once I say this, then he has more reason not to buy a gift for me, because he is a dwarf poor, what gift do you buy?

Zhu Li didn't believe in this sentence very much: "Okay, okay, you just brag in front of me, can't I believe it?" Okay, okay, I'm not going to eat, I'm full, or go back, are there any other activities today? ”

Actually, I didn't have any activities scheduled today, and I will arrange some activities tomorrow, but I still have to consider Zhuli's opinion, whether it's today or tomorrow.

"Oh, you can go wherever you want today, you can do things you didn't do before or when you were in school, you can do it tonight, don't worry, there is no guide to monitor you at this time." It doesn't matter if she wants to play tonight, I'll be with her even if it's all night.

But only if you have to get up tomorrow, I have a lot of activities scheduled for tomorrow.

The two of us didn't leave first, although she had some leftover food, according to her, she had some leftover food within my expectations, and I really didn't understand if that half of the steamed bun could blow up the stomach.

Of course, people don't want to eat and I can't force people, I can't take the set of hoeing and sweating on the afternoon to arrange people, the final result is obvious, it is estimated that Zhuli will move out another set for me.

You know a fart who writes this poem in the end, so the end result is obvious, I can't say her, of course I know this matter is a long time later.

Maybe I didn't know it when I first started learning this poem.

And in my opinion, it doesn't matter much if it's wasted, after all, it's still going to be fed as swill, which means it's not a waste, right?

Of course, convincing myself doesn't mean that I really want to waste things, so this matter still has to be clarified, and there must be a priority relationship.

Otherwise, I always feel like I'm wasting things, but it's not, and I eat cleanly.

"What's going on with you today?"

Zhuli still didn't seem to be able to make up her mind, but I was a little funny when I saw her like that: "What do you want to play, you really think that we are a poor country, and we have everything we want to play here." "I don't think there is a shortage of this kind of thing in ordinary universities, and if this kind of thing is lacking, where will the entertainment culture of college students come from?

After all, college students are human beings, right? It's also a modern person, and you need modern entertainment facilities, right? You can't help but treat college students as human beings.

Zhuli tilted her head and thought, "Otherwise, let's go sing tonight?"

I knew she would talk about this thing, in fact, she didn't have anything else except this entertainment, and suddenly found that their entertainment culture was really rich, and it took so much time to play with the computer every day, which means that there is also a certain amount of entertainment time.

People like us can only play with mobile phones and sing songs, and now I think singing is becoming more and more boring, mainly because I have experienced this kind of thing a little too much in the past.

It seems that we can't finish some entertainment too early, otherwise there is really not much entertainment, and it is indeed a uncomfortable thing for us.

But since Zhuli said this: "Then you can't play for a night, how can you come back?" ”

When you get here, you can operate until five or six o'clock in the morning, but it's not ordinary, so you have to find some specific entertainment activities, I won't say much about what it is, I believe many people understand.

"Can't play, we'll come back at 12 o'clock, in fact, we don't have anything to play, tomorrow or go to the tourist area you said to have a good time, or the scenic spot can also be."

I smiled and nodded at Zhuli: "Okay, tomorrow is the main meal, and then you can write a travel experience, and then turn it in as a paper." ”

Zhu Li immediately took back her expression: "You can pull it down, I'm here to play, don't mention such uninteresting things to me, you don't know that I'm really hurt now, I have a headache for things like you now." ”

"Okay, okay, I'll order one in advance with my phone." Since it is not so demanding, there are many near our school, the environment is very good and very cheap, of course, for me, I think it is cheap, in fact, to be honest, those are really cheap compared to our hometown.

So the next thing is obvious, go back and pack your things, and then bring your things, and the next thing is to sing, but I still asked Zhuli: "Do you want to bring my classmates with you?" Or is it just the two of us? ”

Tomorrow there will be no classes, it's time to rest, which means that they may have a certain amount of time, of course, this also needs to escape, after all, it is not normal to go back to the dormitory so late, and there is no way to come back in a normal way.

But when they heard about someone's treat, they couldn't wait.

Actually, it doesn't matter what I say, it doesn't matter if they go or not, and I don't think they will have some other thoughts, such as oops, you don't take me to sing, or if your friend comes, you see us and leave us behind.

If it's really such a plastic sister, I don't think there's any need to continue to communicate in depth, so I don't think or I trust them to think like this, which means that whether they go or not is completely based on Zhuli and not at myself.

Zhuli was quite calm: "Why don't you bring your roommates with you, I'm going to live here for a few days, it's not good if you don't have a good relationship, and it doesn't seem to be a little bad if you don't bring them." ”

But now I have another problem, if they are all taken away, what if there is really a dormitory check tonight, what if there is no one in the dormitory.

Except for leaving, there are six of us in total, which means that there is no one in the dormitory, so what can we do then?

It's not really easy to get people from other dormitories to come over, of course, it's not that people don't help, I think the main reason is that there may not be a lot of people in people's dormitories.

Because people may also have to go out to play together, after all, it has reached this critical moment, and if you don't go out to play again, it seems that there is no good opportunity.

So I still have to discuss this matter, but I first have to ask if this Zhuli is sincere: "I'll tell you, you can play how you want to play here, you have to follow your own essential opinion, my roommates have nothing to do with each other, take them with you, it's the same with them or not, so you don't have any worries, you can do what you want, you can do it now." I didn't joke with you, and I didn't carve it for you. ”

I made this very clear, if Zhuli continued to ask to go together, of course I was very happy, because our group of people hadn't gotten together for a long time, and the main reason was that they had a partner, and their spare time was very rich, so they didn't have time to get together.

So I guess even if I go tonight, I may not have time, because I don't know where to go to produce hormones.

Ahem, it's still a bit dirty to talk about, but this kind of thing is still relatively certain, that is, it's likely that people won't be able to gather tonight, I mean that the one is gone.

Zhu Li smiled after listening to what I said: "Oh, you really think I'll give you a polite treat, what does your friendship have to do with me?" Anyway, I patted my ass and left, and I didn't have anything to do with it, I really just thought it was hilarious. ”

I nodded, and I didn't continue to be polite, if the two of us were polite again, it would be fake politeness, which means that it didn't make much sense.

So at this time I made a phone call: "Hey, are you out of school?" ”

"It's out of school, what's wrong? Did you get your friend? ”

"Got my friend, got it, and now I have something to tell you, that is, we may be going to sing today, can you go?"

Actually, a few of us have a group chat, but I don't particularly like to send messages in that group, because it feels like the relationship is not particularly familiar, I still prefer to call, and the feeling of calling is more sufficient.

"Oh singing, I can go but I don't know if they can go, is this AA or a treat?"

I knew I was going to ask this question, and now that I'm talking about it, they immediately feel excited: "I'll have a treat and drink and play as much as I want, we can be as high as we want!" ”

Sure enough, my statement made her feel excited: "Oh, I said this thing earlier, I still look at how much money I have in my wallet, really, you are not authentic at all, since you say so, rest assured, those who are free and not free are free, and you can rest assured that one thing, this matter of checking the dormitory is wrapped up in me, I know who the student union is, I forgot what the name is, you don't know, then you don't need to be afraid of this matter." ”

I just want to vomit blood, why don't I know about this, why did I just tell me now that someone knows someone from the student union, just that group of SB, eh! I've had enough of those law enforcement people.

Then she immediately hung up the phone, it seemed that she was going to contact them, and I thought that a person was so motivated to invite guests that he could abandon his object and temporarily suppress the hormones in his body, which showed that they were very loyal to the singing itself.

I wondered if it would cost a lot of money today, because there is a big factor, that is, singing may not cost a lot of money, but it will cost a lot of money to eat and drink.

After hanging up the phone, I spent about a minute to check the balance in my bank card and found that it was enough, of course, I didn't mean that it might be enough to sing today, there were many, many expenses, such as taking the high-speed train, such as going to the city, and messy accommodation fees and meals.

It's not like a cafeteria outside, and I feel very real about that.

In my hometown, if you follow my food volume, my food volume is not a large amount of food, and I eat no less than 2,000 yuan a month.

But if I'm in the cafeteria, I can guarantee that if I eat normally, I don't eat those messy snacks and drink those messy drinks, and I can guarantee that my money will be spent about 1,000 yuan, or even within 1,000 yuan.

I thought about it carefully, if I can save 1,000 yuan a month, it means that I can make more than 10,000 yuan a year.

Although I didn't earn this money, and I seem to be a little weak when I save money, it is indeed the money I saved.

That's why I was able to feel the huge difference, so I realized that I would still have to spend more money if I went out to eat, so I thought about whether the balance of this bank card was enough, and if I continued to ask for money with my old man.

I'm feeling a little embarrassed.

So after looking at this balance, I felt that I could still hold on, and it was a big deal to let them have dinner when the time came, and then I became like this, which is not like me before.

Why did he suddenly become a guy who searched for buckles, and he was developing more and more in the direction of rising, no wonder the two of us were able to come together, it seems that the two of us are essentially the same.

They are the kind of people who can't live a rich life, and it seems that the two of us are the most suitable for living a hard life.

After making the call, I had already confirmed the matter: "Okay, the excitement you want is coming, we have a total of six people in the dormitory, and all of them are not bad, and you have to express yourself at that time, such as buying something for me and so on." ”

I don't think there is any problem with this matter for Zhuli, it should be said that it feels very simple, and I understand now that Zhuli's property situation is concerned.

Needless to say, it's OK for Zhuli to buy one less underwear, and today I have all the money, which means that I don't have to pay for it anymore.

Of course, this thing is a joke, and I will bear it a little, after all, I have a treat today.

The two of us left the cafeteria, and as soon as we left the cafeteria, we saw a large number of students rushing towards us, and it sounded like Resident Evil.

Especially at first they didn't want the students in line to be in line, a few boys were running fast, as if they were running towards us, saying that it was Resident Evil or that they were zombies were actually not bad at all.

But one of the good things I'm doing right now is that we're done eating, and that's what I feel most comfortable about, especially when I see them running so fast.

If they could give me another jealous look, it would have tasted like they were begging me to give him money.

How do I feel that my idea is a bit vulgar, not to me this idea is not right.

The next thing to say is to go to the dormitory.,Now it should be a little ready.,I've already booked it on my mobile phone.,It's set for an unlimited time.。

We should be able to go now, but we should go back to the dorm and wait for them to finish eating, and they will have to clean up, after all, they still have to take care of my roommate's opinion.

After returning to the dormitory, my roommates began to come back one after another, so this is the last time I want to go through the introduction stage.

I introduced Zhuli to my roommates one by one, and then introduced Zhuli to my roommates one by one, which was undoubtedly an uncomfortable process.

But one of the good things is that this thing is finally done, and it is a very good thing to be able to complete this thing.

When I saw them being able to speak, I also had a burning sense of accomplishment, in fact, it is indeed very easy for girls to establish a relationship, and there is no lying on the Internet, which is actually very easy to lie on the Internet.

This is the same as people, some are very embarrassed to contact strangers, and some are very embarrassed to contact strangers.

But what opened my eyes was that Zhuli actually gave an unopened underwear to my roommate!

To be honest, I want one, and I also want to try the difference between the good one and the bad one, and I should say that I want to try the difference between the good one and the cheap one.

And I haven't worn it, which means that there is no discrimination, and the most critical point is why you don't give it to me.

And what I didn't expect was that my roommate also knew a lot, and although he didn't wear this sign, he knew it.

Anyway, why I don't know much about it.

And this act is very successful, that is, my roommate has now been completely bought, and now he has completely fallen at the feet of Zhuli.

What I didn't expect was that Zhuli was so generous, and all my roommates were happily starting to experiment with new things.

They all closed the curtain and ran inside to start changing their clothes, although they were all girls, everyone was still shy, but if you changed this dress outside, I would give it to you.

I guess they will still flock to it.

Another thing that surprised me was that I noticed that they didn't get up that fast, but the speed at which they changed clothes was a blink of an eye.

To be honest, although there is heating in the house, it is still a little cold when you wear just one or that dress, but without exception, all of them come out wearing this dress.

All five of us came out dressed in colorful clothes, and those who didn't know thought we were walking the catwalk.

Then they started talking to each other.

I did want one, but I was too embarrassed to say at this point.

I was a little appetized when I saw them wearing this dress, and I finally knew why luxury goods were popular, not only because of the quality, but also because of the culture.

It's like diamond culture, but I'm really embarrassed, I think I'll talk about this later, and I'm not picky, and I don't care if you go through it.

It is estimated that Zhu Li had thought of this a long time ago, and she took out these clothes from another place, which means that in addition to what she was wearing, she also took some other clothes to use as her own bribe for my roommate.

It's just a scheming girl.,Didn't talk to me about it.,Now I feel like I'm an outsider.,I think it's as if I'm here to find Zhuli to have fun.,But Zhuli has already mingled with them.。

Of course, I don't mean to be jealous, I'm just talking about this matter briefly, these people seem to have put singing in the back of their minds for a long time.

But in fact, I was a little scared, not because of jealousy, but because they were afraid that they would get used to wearing this dress, and if they really wanted to buy one, it would be too bad, and it would not be a particularly good thing for them.

Of course, my worries may not arise, and I think this kind of thing would be fine if it was carried out, but it can't really become some people who like this luxury, after all, most of my roommates can't provide for these luxuries.

But I can't bear to disturb them when I see their happy looks now, but there is not much difference between their prices, because the price card is still on it.

But according to what I know about Zhuli, it is estimated that her mother sent this thing to her, and then Zhuli picked a few things that she didn't like and brought them over, of course, I didn't mean to criticize Zhuli.

It's very good to be able to do this, in terms of the total value of these things, it's more than a big number, and I say a big number means more than 10,000 yuan.

So it's more careful, but again, I don't want these luxuries to change my roommate.

I watched from the side that they had forgotten about it, so I specially reminded me: "As your classmate, I should tell you, your classmate is not her, me, and you hurry up and prepare to sing tonight, by the way, the student union has coped with it?" ”

Although there were people who talked to me, none of the people who talked to me saw what I said, which made me feel very angry, you people who hate the poor and love the rich!

"Oh, I've already dealt with this thing, and I'm still asking."

"Even if you know how to sing and dance every day, we don't care that these things are handled by us."

"Look at the people, look at the old man next door, you don't say that you gave us one of these clothes."

I almost want to vomit blood when I hear their condemnation like this, big sisters, are you reasonable?

If I can give you something like this, won't I just send it?

Besides, you gave me something!

I felt like I had to go crazy: "Hurry up and get dressed for me, I'm going to sing tonight, if you don't go, I won't be treated, I'll give you five minutes to get dressed." ”

I feel like I'm going to play with the majesty of my room bully.,Didn't ask what that word means?

Isn't the meaning of the word oops? I think it's still relatively easy to understand.,Room tyrant room bully.,One-room tyrant.,Isn't this easy to understand?

Good night, when I finished saying this, they hurried to get dressed, of course, they were reluctant to take off the clothes on their bodies, and those who could have been taken off when they could have gone to sleep could not take off.

Now Zhuli has become the most attractive person in the crowd, Zhuli's caution is really there, I said how a person who was so smart before didn't show it now, it seems that the words are now hidden.

I think they should all thank me a little, first of all, I brought back this stupid and rich second generation, and secondly, I did a lot of work when I moved these things, I found a group of white-eyed wolves last time.

They get dressed very quickly, many times faster than they get up, and if they can really get up at this speed, it is estimated that none of them will be late.

Of course, this matter is not discussed now, the main thing to discuss is when to play today, and then whether you can still come back to the dormitory?

If you can't come back, where will you go?