Chapter 198: Cover-up
But when someone else is right, then it is clear that their interpretation is actually a kind of kindness. That is to say, if there is a person who is willing to explain something, if there is a person who is willing to explain some problems, if there is a person who is willing to explain something to you, if there are some people who are willing to explain some problems to you, then obviously, in fact, this is someone else expressing their own good intentions.
That is to say, no one is really willing to explain something to you, no one is really willing to express their kindness, no one is really willing to explain something to you, and no one is really willing to express their kindness to you, because no matter how you express yourself, in fact, there are always people who don't understand, that is, as long as someone doesn't understand you, then obviously, you need to explain to others. You need to express it to others, but are you really willing to express it to others? Are you really willing to explain it to others? Obviously, not all people are willing, it may be that they don't have the time, it may be that they are not willing to explain to them at all, or it may be that they don't want to explain to you at all, because you are not one of them at all, because you can't involve their interests at all, because they can't ask you at all, so everyone is actually not very willing to explain to others, and some people are not very willing to express it to others.
Because this is a waste of time, because this is simply a thing that has no benefit, so if you meet a person who is willing to explain to you, if you meet a person who is willing to express to you, then obviously you should cherish this person, or that this person is actually a real kind person, this person is really a person who is good at expressing his kindness to others, so such a person is rare, so such a person is obviously precious, so you should cherish such a person. Just like this girl now, in fact, this girl has no malice at all, or this girl has no special purpose at all. But he still has to explain his personality to this person, and he still explains what caused his behavior, in fact, he is telling others a little bit of his own private things. Since we talk about our own private things, since we talk about our own private secrets, it is obvious that not everyone is willing to talk about them.
Yes, no one wants to talk about everyone's private things, and no one wants to reveal everyone's private things to others, because as long as you reveal your private things, then obviously you will lose some secrets, you will lose some privacy, and in the process, you will even lose some of your real treasures.
So at that time, he didn't let him think much about it, so he didn't want this man to really think about it at that time, because after all, he didn't have a real purpose, or after all, he didn't really have some words. Very bad purpose, so in the end he still wants this man to really understand him, or really forgive him, or say real. Don't think of him like that at first. In fact, everyone will think more, that is to say, when you see a thing, when you see a thing, and you have a judgment in your heart, of course you will think more, because after all, this action of others represents the meaning of others, and the words of others also represent the meaning of others, and the actions and words of others represent a meaning that is hidden by others and not expressed. Yes, no one really means what they mean from themselves.
All people will not really express what they want to do now, what they want to say now, they will always express their meaning very vaguely, they will always do some actions very vaguely, just like the woman's actions just now, so he will actually think more, that is, he has actually thought more just now, since he has thought more, then obviously this is not to blame him, because after all, his actions have such a meaning, because his words do not sound so appropriate after all, so he is really thinking more, or he feels that there is no problem with thinking more about it, if you think more nowThen you don't have to think about it more in the future, or even if you think about it now, but it doesn't cause really bad consequences, then it doesn't matter, because your so-called imagination, your so-called overthinking has not caused any really serious consequences at all.
But from this, it can be seen that some friends are not your real friends, or if you are really a good friend, then obviously you don't say that you don't really want your friends to do such things, yes, in fact, all friends should be a real friend, in fact, all friends should really think about themselves. The situation of a friend means that if your friend really wants to do something, then obviously, if you really know, you should give him a very correct answer.
Or you should give him a very reliable suggestion, but if you really don't understand, if you really don't know, if you really don't know how to do it, then you shouldn't really say your own way, you shouldn't really give some advice, or you shouldn't really say some constructive opinions at all, because all your opinions will affect others, because all your opinions will cause some harm to others. Yes, if the other party is really a person who is willing to listen to other people's opinions, then it is obvious that your opinion has really entered his heart, and your opinion has really entered his mind, so obviously, when he really makes a decision, when he finally makes a decision, he will obviously refer to your opinion. That is to say, in the end, he is likely to carry out this job according to your opinion, to deal with a certain thing, and to carry out his final completed behavior.
So, if you really don't know, please don't talk nonsense, if you really don't know, you don't really give some opinions that you seem to be sure of, yes, some of your friends seem to be confident and seem to know everything, but you should understand whether this person really knows or is fake, know that if he is not a very reliable person obviously you can't listen to his opinion Yes, if you have such a friend, if you are a person who asks for the opinion of a friend, then obviously you have to listen to the opinion of others according to the situation of your friend, that is to say, if you are a friend who is not a reliable personIf your friend is not usually a very outstanding person, then it is obvious that you are not able to really listen to his opinion, or even if there is a friend who is not very prominent, even if a friend is not very good.
But if he's strong in a certain field, he's very good in a certain field, then if you happen to ask him that question, and he gives his answer very carefully, then obviously, you should think about his answer very well, you should think about his question. Dear, you should think carefully about all the things he said, because he is an expert in this field, because usually he is not good at talking at all, yes, everyone who is not good at talking, in fact, has his own set of rules of conduct in his heart, every person who is not good at talking, in fact, they are very cautious, that is, when others ask them questions, when others ask them about their methods, when others ask them something that they are not very sure about, it is obvious that they remain silent, they are not talking nonsense, they feel that nonsense is irresponsible to others, yes, any person who talks nonsense is irresponsible to othersIf you want to be a responsible person for others, obviously you shouldn't say it, and you shouldn't say it, so when such a silent person tells you a way.
Obviously, you should believe in this way, or if you are also an assertive person, if you are also a thinking person, it is obvious that you should not really trust this person. You should really take his opinion seriously and think about it. Whether his opinion is right or wrong, whether his opinion is appropriate or inappropriate, but if you are not a good thinker, or if you really have no way to solve a certain problem, and you don't have any ideas, then it is obvious that you should listen to his opinion, and you should really implement it according to his opinion. Of course, in the real implementation process, you should not really not think a little, and you should not really have a little bit of your own methods, or in practice. In the process, of course, you should constantly correct your own methods according to the actual process, constantly improve your own methods, and constantly make your methods more and more suitable according to the actual situation.
In fact, sometimes, or your friend, can even change things, that is, when your friend is not a really reliable person, when your friend makes all kinds of strange requests, then obviously, you should understand that this friend is not really a person who is on the Tao, that is to say, this person does not really have his own thoughts, that is to say, this person does not really have his own path, so he will make all kinds of strange demands.