Chapter 185: Refusal
No matter how much he refused, no matter how much he expressed his thoughts and meanings, no matter how much he didn't want him to help, in short, in the end he accepted the help of others.
In fact, he doesn't want to accept this kind of help at all, but sometimes it doesn't mean that you can accept it if you want to, and some society doesn't mean that you can't accept it if you don't want to accept it.
That is to say, others are likely to say that they are very tough to stuff you with some of other people's kindness, and others are very tough to stuff some kindness to you, and then let you accept it, at this time, of course, you have to accept it, because others have been forcefully stuffed over, because others have strongly expressed their kindness, then then at this time, if you don't accept it, it is obvious that you need to let other people's kindness fall into the flowing water, that is, with these flowing waters, you have let other people's kindness flow away.
But obviously, since others have paid these things, these things do not mean that you can not care if you don't accept them, yes, many times in fact, there are many things that you may not care about, there are many things that you may not want to accept, but since others have paid, since others have paid something, then it is obvious that you should care, or whether you care or not, you have passively accepted such a thing, just like others pay some time like others have paid some money, then obviously, at this time, whether you accept it or notor whether you are deriving your own benefits from these benefits. At this time, in fact, you have passively accepted these things, or at this time you have been frozen, accepted the kindness of others, when you passively accept the kindness of others, in fact, you should understand that you can not really reject these things, or even if you really want to reject these things, you should actually wait until this thing happens, or you need to wait for the result of this thing to come out, you can really thank others.
Yes, whether you accept it or not, what you should do is to thank others, even if this thing does not achieve a good result in the end, or even if this thing does not really want to achieve the effect you want in the end, but since people have paid energy, since others have paid time, then you should really accept the kindness of others, although the kindness of others, and even sometimes it may be bad for this thing, but if you are a normal person, or you are a normal person who can feel the hearts of others, then obviously, at this time you need to really thank othersOr what you need to really thank others for this one thing. Of course, if you are a person who gives kindness, or you are a person who is willing to help others, in fact, you should not really look at this matter from the final result, that is to say, you should actually give your heart and soul without regrets, give your time without regrets, and pay your money without regrets. If you really want to help someone, if you really feel that the other person is someone who deserves your help.
Then obviously, you need to give something of your own, you need to give something of real money, you need to give something that you really think is precious. At this time, when the final result is not very good, of course you should not complain about yourself, and of course you should not really complain about others, because after all, this is what you are willing to pay.
Or, if you're really a very wise person, you're really a person who knows what's wrong, and you really know what to do with something, and you really know what to do with something that's the most reasonable. At this time, in fact, you should consider how you should pay your time correctly, pay your own money, pay your own energy, you should use some correct methods to help others, only at this time, in fact, is the most correct way, no matter what kind of mentality others have for you, no matter what kind of mentality others have towards you in the end, meaning or complaining, you should let yourself do your best, you should let yourself really help others, you should use the right way to help others, of course, the most correct way also needs to pay a lot of energy。
The most correct approach also requires some effort and some cost. Of course, these costs are all voluntary by you, or these are all things that you should feel that you should pay, and you feel that you want to pay, and this time is actually the best situation, that is, it is good for yourself and others. But if you know that you are not a person who is good at planning things, or you know that you are not a person who is good at solving problems, you may not need to give your own opinions at this time, and you cannot force others to use your opinions at this time, because after all, you are not a person who is good at solving this kind of problem, and you are not a person who can really solve problems, so you should let yourself really quiet down at this time.
As in the current situation, in fact, he simply wanted a nurse to be quiet. Yes, if this nurse can really calm down, if this nurse can really do nothing else, in fact, he is already grateful. But it was clear that the nurse was doing something else, and the household showed some interest in him in a few small gestures, and these interests were obviously the real interests of the nurse. That is to say, through these small actions, he has judged that there are actually a lot of warm ingredients in this nurse's help, since it is warm, since it represents the heart, since it is the true heart of others, then it is obvious that he can also feel it, or he can really feel it.
But nothing will go smoothly because of his own imagination, or if he really wants something to become, it will be something more than that. That was of course the best, but everything wouldn't go the way he wanted, and everyone wouldn't do something the way he wanted, so in the end the nurse was very aggressive about it. Tables and chairs, and then took out these meals very quickly, yes, from the movements, he could see that in fact, this nurse is really good at taking care of people, or from the many he can see that this nurse is actually a very quick person.
Yes, in fact, from some small actions, you can see whether a person can take care of people, or from some small details, you can see whether a person is willing to take care of you, or you can see from some small actions whether they are willing to do certain things, it is obvious that this nurse is doing these things willingly, because he is really attentive, because he even once was cautious Yes, there is no conflict between being cautious and careful, that is, it does not mean that you are very careless when you do something quickly, and it does not mean that you will appear to be very attentive when you do something very slowlyObviously, this principle is very clear, or this principle is very simple, because if a person is very slow to do something, obviously, it is either because he is not proficient, or because he does not want to do it at all. If a person is very quick, if a person is very willing to do something, then it is obvious that he really wants to do this thing, he really wants to express his thoughts, just like this nurse now, he really wants to express his concern, he really cares about his body, although he doesn't know what this concern is, or in fact, he has thought of why before, but now he has overturned this idea.
And he also found some problems in the meals, it is clear that those meals are not hospital meals, that is, these meals are made by the nurse herself. Yes, often a lot of things do not mean that the more expensive the better, or that a lot of food or things are not as expensive as possible, if it is made by a certain person, if it is really completed by a certain person, it is obvious that his meaning is more important, that is to say, everyone will actually make a judgment on a certain thing or the process of completing a certain thing, if he judges that this thing is not very easy to obtain, then it is obvious that he will really cherish these things, of course, whether he will cherish is another questionIt is obvious that from this process, he can feel that this thing is actually a precious thing, or that this thing really contains the thoughts of others, and that he can feel that this thing is actually a precious thing in the process of truly containing others, or that this thing really contains the thoughts of others and the care of others.
In fact, it can be seen in simple things, if there is a man who is willing to cook a meal for you, if there is a man who is willing to make a thing for you, if there is a man who is willing to complete a thing for you, then obviously, as long as it is done through his own hands, as long as it is done through his own heart, as long as it is done by himself, then it is obvious that this is a very precious gift, this is a real gift that you should feel very good, but it seems that all people do not understand this truth。