Chapter 1015: Cultivate from an early age

You came back just in time, we were planning to make dumplings, and the fourth child just came back today.

Let's go into the house and talk, it's so heavy snow outside, and it's warm inside. ”

Qiao Lian looked at her children and grandchildren with a smile, at this time, she felt the happiest.

Jia Kang Meilin led Qingbao, and Qu Weiyang directly hugged Xinbao over there, and entered the house together.

Jiasheng met with Jiakang, and Jiakang patted the fourth brother on the shoulder, "You also arrived home today?" That's really a coincidence, how many of our brothers will have two drinks with our dad in the evening? ”

Their brothers are also busy with their own things now, and there are many fewer opportunities to meet, and they feel very close when they see each other.

Jiasheng scratched his head, "I have to ask my mother about this, our mother gave our father a ban on alcohol, and it seems that there is no alcohol at home." ”

Boys, when they reach a certain age, they all want to drink some wine or something, and Qiaolian is not too strict with this aspect.

When the children of the family reached the age of eighteen, they went with them, and they loved it.

However, Qu Weiyang is old, and Qiaolian doesn't want Qu Weiyang to drink, so she puts all the wine at home, so Jiasheng said that it is estimated that there is no wine at home.

Jiakang winked at Justsun, "I've brought your brother back."

Serious ginseng wine, I brewed it myself, but it's good, taste some at night. ”

Jiakang is participating in the field, isn't this ginseng ready-made? Two years ago, he deliberately picked two ginseng trees and brewed a large glass bottle of wine.

This time, I came back and filled two bottles, which were for Qu Weiyang. Although my mother restricts me from drinking, I can't stop drinking at all, right? How many drinks or two should not be a big problem.

Jiasheng laughed when he heard it, and he didn't know what his mother's expression would be when she saw her eldest brother bring back wine.

If you want him to say, you really don't need to control it so strictly, Dad can drink a little once in a while, and it's completely okay to relax your muscles and invigorate your blood.

"Then we have to intercede for our dad later, otherwise our mom will definitely not let us." Justsun whispered.

"Cheng, when the fifth child comes back, let's talk together." The brothers muttered as they entered the house.

Then Jia Kang Meilin put down her backpack, and Qingbao Xinbao took off her coat and shoes, and went to the kang to warm up.

"Mom, do you want to make dumplings? I'll help you. Mei Lin took off her coat and hung it on the wall, and then went into the kitchen to wash her hands and help Qiao Lian with her work.

So the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were busy, and after a while, the noodles were reconciled, the dumpling filling was also adjusted, and they were brought into the house and placed on the kang, and the family worked together to make dumplings.

Qingbao is older, and she can't help but want to learn when she sees others making dumplings, so Qiaolian naturally doesn't stop her.

"Okay, your aunt and sister-in-law almost started to learn to make dumplings when you were so old, and your aunt was younger than you, so she helped me cook.

Come, grandma will teach you how to wrap it, let's learn slowly, learning that hands are work, at least, you won't starve when you go out by yourself in the future.

Of course, we learned it for ourselves, not to be a nanny for others.

Granddaughter, remember, when you grow up and look for a partner, you have to keep your eyes open.

Find someone like your grandfather and your father and uncle who can do housework together, but don't find an uncle for you to serve. ”

Qiaolian taught her granddaughter to make dumplings hand-in-hand, and nagged in her granddaughter's ear by the way.

"No, Mom, how old is Qingbao, just tell her this?"

Over there, Jiakang couldn't cry or laugh, the child was only eight years old, and it was too early to talk about finding a partner, right?

"It's because I'm so young that I got vaccinated in advance.

Qingbao is the granddaughter of our family, that is the pearl of the palm of our hands, we can't just let any wild boy be abducted, we must choose it with wide eyes. ”

Qiao Lian disagreed, so she had to instill the idea from an early age that men and women were equal in housework, not women's patents.

In this way, the child will always remember that when he grows up and looks for a partner in the future, he can also have a ruler in his heart, so that he will not marry a man in a daze and be a mother for others.

Most parents seem to make a mistake, that is, they feel that their children don't understand anything, and they don't understand when they talk to them, and they will understand when they grow up.

That's not the case at all, is it? There are some points of view that should be shared with the children in advance.

Let children accumulate and consolidate in daily life, and when they really encounter things, they can make the most correct response.

In these years, the abduction and trafficking of children is a little worse, but it cannot be relaxed.

There are other aspects that should be taught to children, and bad people will not think children are small.

During the three months in Donggang, Qiaolian told the two children a lot of precautions, hoping that the children would have this concept from an early age and know how to protect themselves when they encounter danger.

"I think what our mother said makes sense, people's hearts are sinister, who knows what kind of people and what kind of things the children will meet in the future?

Let's tell our children in advance and tell them some truths, even if they don't understand them, but these will form deep-rooted concepts in their minds and will be useful. ”

It was Meilin, who felt that what her mother-in-law said was very right.

A few days ago, she heard Xin Bao carrying something there, muttering, so she listened carefully.

It turned out that I was carrying my home address, not only my own address, but also from the camp.

There is also the work unit of mom and dad, the work unit of grandpa, and so on.

When I asked my son, my son said that this was taught by my grandmother, and if I got lost that day, I would go to the police station to find someone and tell them the address, and I would be able to go home.

The son also said a lot, why don't you play with fire, don't go into the water without an adult, etc., are some safety knowledge.

At that time, Meilin felt that her mother-in-law was simply amazing, she could teach her children so many things, and they were the most useful things to ensure the safety of her life.

Maybe the child doesn't understand it now, but as long as the child really does what it does, at least there will be no danger.

Mei Lin is grateful to her mother-in-law from the bottom of her heart, she and Jiakang have never thought about these things.

At this time, I heard my mother-in-law talk to Qingbao about choosing a partner with her eyes wide open in the future, and Mei Lin not only felt a little fun, but also agreed in her heart.

A woman looking for a partner to marry is no less than a second reincarnation, looking for a good life of happiness, if she finds a bad one, that life will be ruined.

Qingbao is her daughter, she has been pampered since she was a child, and she must live happily in the future, but she can't be careless.

Over there, Qiao Lian didn't care about how Jiakang and his family argued, she only concentrated on teaching Qingbao to make dumplings, while making dumplings, the grandparents and grandchildren nagged.

"Qingbao, you remember, girls, you must be very good, you will have confidence if you are excellent.

Today's society is different from when my grandmother used to, and now both men and women can work and earn money.

If you are very good, you have capital, whether you are married or not, you can retain the right to speak. ”

"Girls, study with peace of mind, study more, and become the best person in the future.

Our family Qingbao is so smart, and she will be a strong woman in the future, and she will be better than men, so we must love to learn from a young age and study without distractions, right? ”

Qiaolian not only teaches children to choose objects, but more importantly, let Qingbao have a concept that excellent women are the most dazzling and cannot be reconciled to ordinary.