Section 453 Appropriate x position of x (6)
Obviously, ma'am, you don't understand the difference between 'trying to save people' and 'trying your best to save people'.
Forget it, there's no need to explain it to her... Everyone has different perspectives and experiences, and the debate in this area is largely self-defeating.
"Isn't it always a bad thing to save people?" Wang Luo replied. "I don't think you have anything to complain about. If I act with such principles and with such a state of mind, are you and your companions not very dangerous? ”
Well, both then and now... Especially now.
"It's different." Lin Feirui said. "We passed many tests of space, and that failure was just an accident and an accident. Well, what if it's not us? If a team that didn't lose to you was asking a question like this, how would you answer it? ”
So, Phuket?
Wang Luo's attention was focused because of this wording. This is the work done by Mr. Phuket of the Two-Headed Vulture?
First Humphrey, then Philip Lin? Can he see that both of them have a certain status in the team, but neither of them is loyal to him? So, you can test yourself through them?
This is the reason why Lin Feirui quickly calmed down after a short period of irritability after being abused in that way, and communicated with himself with this attitude?
Unlike Humphra, this woman does not act purely for profit. For her, I'm afraid she will also see Phuket as a possible prey. And the fact that she rescued her back may have made her have some messy thoughts....
No, don't analyze her as a woman from your own point of view, everyone's thinking circuit is completely different. Let's exchange and write about things that we can all agree with.
"Alone is not king. And how can the strong become a group where only the strong exist? And who will compliment the strong? Serving the strong? To provide them with a sense of spiritual superiority and satisfaction? ”
Well, that's why you founded Wuzhou in the first place, ma'am.
"In well-functioning teams, the strong don't necessarily get resources, they only get more opportunities to take on harder tasks. If they complete these tasks and make outstanding contributions to the group, they will have the opportunity to obtain a higher status and more benefits. ”
Lin Feirui is not a competent regiment leader. She is addicted to pleasure, and although she has good fighting ability, she has done very little to develop the team. The real face of that kind of criticism of the weak is probably because they want to shirk their responsibilities and find a reason to forgive themselves.
No matter what the other party thinks, at least on the surface, he maintains a calm attitude. The mention of Wu Zhou would make her recall certain things, and these memories may not be good, but with her ability, she should be able to control her emotions.
Wang Luo thought so and continued to write.
"In teams that work well, the weak don't necessarily get taken care of. All they deserve is the channel of hard work---- when they are willing to work hard and are willing to improve, the team should provide them with the channel of these efforts and opportunities for progress. And once they get stronger, the team gives them the opportunity to prove their abilities, the opportunity to contribute to the team, and when they do it, they are rewarded as they deserve..."
"They don't deserve to be saved." After seeing this, Lin Feirui wrote. "I've seen a lot of people like that. I gave him a chance, but he was still not satisfied, he didn't do anything, he just kept complaining, he just wanted more. ”
They probably see through your nature and don't want to be used as a tool for venting their desires.... Then, what they do is used by you as a reason to abuse other teammates.
"Occasionally, there will be people like that." Wang Luo wrote. "But most should still be fine."
"I see through it, it's their nature." Lin Feirui wrote. "Sooner or later, other people will become like that."
With your style, it is true that sooner or later they will become like that....
"As long as you guide it well, this won't happen." Wang Luo wrote. "Just show how miserable the team out there is after failure, how unfair the distribution is, how the weak are abused, it will have a good effect. Where there is contrast, there is a sense of happiness and superiority. ”
"Why should I guide them?" Lin Feirui wrote. "I don't know them at all, I saved their lives, isn't it enough to take them in? Still want to guide? What do they think they are? ”
Count your men. If you want to be a leader, that's what you need.
Wang Luo thought so, but didn't write it--- the other party might betray him in the future, so there was no need to tell her these things.
"I'd rather do something else than that." Lin Feirui continued. "Even if the guidance is good, in the short term those people feel that you are good to them and work together with you. But what about later? What happens when the team you build becomes stronger, and you wipe out the team outside? ”
"I've been nice to them. But those people took advantage of the opportunity I gave me and became stronger, and not only did they not thank me at all, but they took my help for granted, and even thought that they deserved more. When the time comes, what else can I do but kill them? ”
It's shameful to get something for nothing. Wang Luo immediately thought of something that could reply to her.
Although, that's what people are looking forward to. But generally speaking, as long as you don't think so simply, don't overprotect the people within the team, but let them have more contact with the outside world and feel the complexity of the world and the malice of outsiders, you can avoid these problems to the greatest extent.
"All in all." Lin Feirui shook his head. "The method you give is just a small means, and it is impossible to fundamentally solve the problems that may arise."
That's because, of course, what is really valuable is not suitable for you, ma'am.
"These kinds of big teams have been there in the space, but none of them have lasted long. Even if it is formed in the short term, some people will think that it is unfair, they can get more, but they need to give up a lot of benefits to the weak, why? Fools will also feel unfair, and if they say that they are equal, why should anyone take so much more than them? ”
"Fools will forget everything, and will be dissatisfied, complaining, and even hating the way you are distributed. It won't be long before your team will split, disintegrate, and revert back into countless small teams. ”
It's kind of like a curse.... Wang Luo sighed lightly.
If a leader starts to blindly trust people's consciousness because he has done something good, and he believes that people will be grateful to him without any reason, and allows everyone's instincts to develop naturally, then of course this will lead to such results. But to manage a group, what you have to do is not to treat it as a person, to demand this from it, to demand that.... That's not appropriate.