Chapter 792: It's Hard to Be a Woman
Their family has a small amount of savings, and they also bought some fields, and their son does a little housekeeping in the Bai family, not worrying about food and clothing, and collecting rent from the fields, and will never take his daughter's things.
Bai Yunyi could see that Mama Huang really loved this daughter, and she didn't want to get anything from her daughter.
Miaoqin has seemed to have a shadow in her heart since the last incident, she is afraid when she mentions getting married, Bai Yunyi doesn't want to force her, she wants her to slow down and talk about it.
"In my opinion, Mama doesn't have to worry, Miaoqin is the person next to me, not only beautiful, but also capable, and when I enter the palace, I will be a female official, and I will naturally be able to marry a good son-in-law at that time." Bai Yunyi said with a smile.
"Actually, the slave maid didn't think about letting Miaoqin climb high, she didn't think about letting her marry into a powerful family, the slave maid just felt that she was not young and didn't want her to drag it down." Mama Huang hurriedly said.
"Mother, Miss is very busy, don't pester Miss to say so many things and delay Miss time." Miaoqin hurriedly said.
"Out of the way, out of the way...... I haven't spoken to your mother for a long time, it's okay to say a few more words, Miaoqin, you go and take out the candied fruit in the cupboard, and your mother doesn't know how to treat you when she comes. Bai Yunyi looked at her and said with a smile.
"Mother is not a guest, so she doesn't need to be entertained." Although Miaoqin said this, she still followed her master's instructions and took out the things.
Her mother basically comes to the main courtyard every day to walk around a few times, where can she be considered a guest.
Miss is good, and she is polite to everyone.
Although Mama Huang is worried about her daughter, she is not presumptuous.
Let her stay to drink tea and eat candied fruit, she would never dare, so she quickly retired.
"Miaoqin, your mother is right, your daughter's family always has to get married in this life, and if you have children in the future, you can rely on it when you are old, I won't force you in the past two years, you think about it yourself." Bai Yunyi looked at Miaoqin and said in a low voice.
If it was the time and space she came from, if there was a girl who said that she didn't want to get married, Bai Yunyi would definitely raise her hands in approval.
Because in that time and space, although it was claimed that men and women were equal, in fact, the pressure on women was very great.
After getting married, you still have to work like a man, earn money to support your family, and have children to raise children, and you have to pay far more effort than men, sometimes it is too hard, too tired, and too pitiful.
Want a man to keep you? It's okay, then be a housewife at home, there are endless housework to do every day, and you have to be picked and chosen, maybe one day you will see that you are a yellow-faced woman, and they will part ways with you.
At that time, there will be no job, no money, and the custody of the children will not belong to you.
But this time and space is different, although here, the status of women is not as good as that of men, but it is natural for women to support women.
Men don't bother with family matters, women are in charge.
If a man worries about the affairs of the back house for a day, he will be laughed at by others.
There are few concubines for ordinary men, unless it is a family of dignitaries and nobles.
Big families with strict family customs also do not allow men to take concubines.
Even if you become a yellow-faced woman, as long as you don't make a big mistake, it is impossible for a man to divorce his wife, and if he divorces his wife for no reason, he will have to suffer a lawsuit.
Therefore, being a woman in this time and space is not so stressful.
As long as you are not willing to fall and run to be a little wife, even if you marry into a poor family, you can live a peaceful and stable life.