When her sister Qiu Shuxin was sick, she took the initiative to take care of her nephew, at first, she really didn't have any ideas, but since she knew that her sister's life was short, her mind became active.

She was only a little over five years old, and she thought that as long as she was good to him, he would treat her like his own mother, and at the same time, she wanted to use him to achieve her own goals.

It was also this idea of hers that caused a rift in the rapport between her and her nephew.

Seriously, if she knew that a child who was more than five or six years old could understand so much, she would never have the intention of using him, but if she said it, she would spill the water, and what could she regret?

She wanted to talk to her nephew more than once, so that he could understand her mood back then, even if she didn't marry Nan Jianwu, there would be other women who married Nan Jianwu, the same stepmother, done by a stranger, and by her, isn't it obvious which one to choose?

It's a pity that as long as she mentions this topic, the other party's face can be brushed cold to Antarctica, and she can't say how many reasons she has.

She admitted that she was a little anxious back then, she shouldn't have used him, nor her sister, but she couldn't help it, if they didn't help her, Nan Jianwu wouldn't think about it at all, plus she couldn't afford it and didn't dare to drag it out......

As the other party grows older, her relationship with him becomes more and more vibrant, and it is even better to be close to ordinary people, because of the support of her mother's family, the child will not even enter the door of her grandmother's house.

For this reason, the old man and the old lady of her family scolded the child for his wolf nature more than once, no matter how he said it, it was also the blood and blood of the Qiu family, how could he be ruthless to that extent? Could it be that he is looking forward to his father marrying a stranger and entering the door and not seeing his aunt live a good life?

When she first heard this, she also felt that what they said was particularly right, but as the year went on, she had to admit that the more relatives were with each other, the more difficult it would be to accept this relationship.

Because sometimes her mother's family's requests for her also make her very tired, which also makes her understand that the most important thing for them to protect her is because they can get benefits from her, and they don't really expect her to have a particularly good life.

When my sister married Nan Jianwu, my mother's family more or less knew how to be more restrained, because the difference between the family backgrounds of the two families was too great.

But when it was her turn, they were really different, or because of the sudden departure of their sister, they didn't feel safe, so they always wanted to get a little more.

But after all, she is only Nan Jianwu's wife, and she is not liked by Nan's old man and Mrs. Nan, and she really can't meet some of their requirements.

Then, gradually, her mother's family became more dissatisfied with her.

It was precisely because of this dissatisfaction that she reflected on the relationship between herself and her nephew, and came to the conclusion that the more relatives and the more they demanded, the more contradictions there were.

Therefore, everything depends on what angle you stand on, in Qiu Shuya's opinion, the relationship between her and Nan Zi is not harmonious because Nan Zi asks too much......

It is precisely because of this self-centered perspective that she is particularly dissatisfied with Nan Zi's arbitrariness in family affairs, and she feels that whether it is from the perspective of her aunt or her stepmother, Nan Zi should ask for her opinion.