Chapter 877: Midlife Crisis 36
This incident was so big that even the neighborhood committee of the neighborhood office was alarmed, and the house rented by Li Huizhen was crowded with people for a while, and most of the noisy and noisy people were watching the excitement.
Following the procedure must first figure out the cause of the incident, so that we can prescribe the right medicine and solve the root cause.
Just ask.
After the queen mother babbling and scolding for more than half an hour, she finally figured out the reason.
Very speechless.
It turned out that he tried every means to snatch his daughter-in-law's salary card, but after waiting for a day, he didn't wait for the money that should have been sent today, so he ran over and made a fuss in a fit of anger.
It's a ruckus.
The staff also asked Siru what was going on.
After all, except for public institutions and civil servants, the time for paying salaries in ordinary small companies is not fixed, saying that it is the day of each month, there will be a delay to some extent, as short as three or two days before and after, and as long as half a month.
Not punctual.
In fact, everyone is complaining wildly in their hearts, whose old mother-in-law still cares about her daughter-in-law's salary card these days. It's not that I don't want to, how good it is to be in charge of the family's finances, but is the daughter-in-law willing? How stupid people are, let go of economic freedom, don't like to ask people for money to spend. The money earned from hard work is relieved to be handed over to others? Besides, most of the old women in the world are similar, and they will be rejected even if they are old enemies with their daughters-in-law, so they are willing to take out the money they have received again? Is it really just to prevent young people from spending money indiscriminately, and there is no plan to simply keep it?
Even if you make your own money, every time you reach out and ask for it, you will feel like begging.
It doesn't taste good.
After a long time, whether it is going to arrive or not, it is inevitable that it will be broken and remembered.
I've heard of an old woman's wife holding her son's salary card, but it's the first time she's in charge of her daughter-in-law.
Wonderful.
Siru didn't have a trace of concealment, and said very bluntly that she just canceled the card.
Got a new one.
The Queen Mother and Wang Lin had guessed before that she didn't want the family to get money, so she received cash.
Outcome......
Very angry.
"What do you mean, Li Huizhen! We said yes! Wang Lin yelled at her.
Say yes?
Siru sneered, "If I'm not mistaken, you snatched the card from my bag." ”
Turning to look at the community staff, "By the way, can I sue him for robbery?" ”
Taking other people's things without their consent and taking them for themselves.
Siru pursed her lips, "It's okay to steal." ”
Wang Lin's eyes widened, as if he couldn't believe that the words came out of her mouth.
Exclaimed, "We are husband and wife, what is yours is mine, what's wrong with me taking my own things!" ”
Siru didn't look at him and asked the community worker, "Is that what he said?" ”
Community:......
A kind-looking aunt laughed embarrassedly and said, "It's hard to talk about this family." ”
If it is true according to the joint property of the husband and wife, but the card is also a salary card.
Only mediation.
Advise.
After all, the community is not a law enforcement agency, and civil disputes can only be mitigated by reasoning.
Of course, if you can't, you can only appeal.
However, a man like this snatched his daughter-in-law's salary card and gave it to the old man's wife, and ordinary people really couldn't do it. Listening to the meaning of his words, it was quite a matter of course, and the community and neighborhood committees who came to mediate the conflict understood that this man was unclear, and he was also machismo, and he looked unreliable when he was not young.
Since ancient times, they have paid attention to family and prosperity, but more often than not, it makes the family jump and the dogs jump.
Annoying!
Siru said, "It is impossible to give the salary card to someone else, not in this life." ”
Looking at the people in the community with a smile, "It's not that I'm selfish, and I won't change you." ”
Community:......
Of course.
Isn't it good to spend what you want to spend when you make money on your own? Do you have to ask for money from someone else?
At that time, even buying a pack of sanitary napkins will be scolded as a loser, and no matter how old you are to come to that thing, you will know that it is a waste of money. Think you can just use toilet paper pads? Thinking too much, how can there be so much paper to pad at home, it is best to sew a strip of cloth like ancient times and stuff some grass and wood ash inside, which is much better than disposable sanitary napkins.
Recyclable.
Also save money.
It's not easy to make money, but you can save it.
The community and the neighborhood committee also knew that it was unrealistic for people to hand over their salary cards, so they had to start from the queen mother's side.
Persuade her to give up.
It is not easy to say that young people have the life of young people, and it is not easy to support their families.
Various.
But the queen mother is such a difficult person, she doesn't eat oil and salt, she doesn't eat soft and hard, and she can't listen to it at all.
Very stubborn.
As soon as she heard something that harmed her interests, she pretended to be deaf.
"What? What do you say? I'm old, my ears are not good, and I can't hear. ”
The staff who came to mediate were also helpless, so they couldn't yell at her ear.
Siru sneered, "Don't persuade her, what ears are not good, she has a bad conscience." ”
Get a polite but embarrassed smile from the staff.
The Queen Mother was furious and scolded, "You slut, your conscience has been eaten by dogs." ”
Siru ignored her and smiled at the staff, "Look, I'm not wrong." ”
What can the community say, the most annoying thing for them to do service work is to encounter this kind of unreasonable family dispute, and the key is that there is an old lady here, and they can't say something exciting.
In case it is touched, it is difficult to do.
Siru had a relaxed and fearless expression, "My family's situation is quite tricky, and it is quite difficult to see you." As the saying goes, the bell needs to be tied to the bell, and neither she nor I will compromise and give in, and it is not surprising that this knot cannot be untied. Don't waste the community's time. ”
Although the people in the community and the neighborhood committee know that Siru's words are very reasonable, they can't just leave, in case the family conflict is triggered after they leave, it turns into a violent incident, or an accident occurs, and the selection of the best community of the year will definitely be in vain.
The community is to serve the community.
also learned about the basic situation of this family, so he proposed to let Siru give living expenses every month.
You don't have to pay a salary card here, and you can get money there, so you can get the best of both worlds.
but
"Nope."
"Impossible."
The Queen Mother and Siru said in unison.
In terms of mediation, the two have a striking similarity and are absolutely uncompromising.
It's like a contest.
You have to fight to win or lose.
The community was completely out of order, so they could only continue to persuade and separate the two groups in different rooms.
Joke.
If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to stay together, no one will let anyone.
Those who persuade Siru say that they should be filial to the elderly, and those who persuade the queen mother say that they should be considerate of their daughters-in-law.
Of course, both sides have their own countermeasures.
Si Ru Xianglin's sister-in-law vomited bitterness from the time she got married to the present, and the queen mother scolded Siru for not raising her grandson and not giving living expenses. Anyway, both sides have their own reasons, and they still don't give in to each other.
Mediation is not accepted.
As the most critical man sandwiched between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Wang Lin completely stood on the side of the queen mother and accused Siru of being unfilial.