Chapter 167: High Emotional Intelligence
"Isn't it!" Ding Haixing raised her eyes and looked at Ding's father with a smile and said, "When my father went to the battlefield, the farmland was almost barren, but the war needed grain and grass...... Both men and women have done their jobs. ”
"That's right! So I'm back, and your mother will be liberated, and she will return to the family, and she won't have to do men's work, how good. I just need to take care of my husband and children with peace of mind. Dad Ding said confidently.
Ding Haixing shook her head speechlessly, looked at Ding's mother and said, "Did Mom hear that?" When needed, women have to work hard like animals, and when they don't need it, they have to obediently return to the family and be a good rabbit. ”
"Hmmm! Reasonable. Ding's mother nodded in agreement.
"Old woman, what the hell are you on that side, now it's to let Xing'er dismiss the idea of working." Ding's father yelled and pulled Ding's mother to the side and said, "How did you do it." ”
"I'm on the side of Lizi, it's a good thing that my daughter has a job. The most important thing is that Changsheng has the ability, if you don't have the ability, it's just delusional, okay? Is it bad for my daughter to have a job? Didn't you dream that your daughter would jump out of the farm and eat the emperor's grain? Now there is a chance to say something stupid. Ding's mother looked at him and said puzzled.
"I want to, but I can't let Chang Sheng be embarrassed! Chang Sheng can't be allowed to use power for personal gain. Dad Ding said solemnly.
"Who said that he was allowed to use his power for personal gain." Ding's mother said angrily, "You are really cranky." ”
"I'm really afraid that you will make unreasonable demands on Chang Sheng." Dad Ding breathed a sigh of relief.
"Am I that unbounded?" Ding's mother glanced at him and said, her eyes deepened and looked at him, "It seems that you don't let her work, but you are breaking the law." ”
"Shit! Don't listen to Xing'er's nonsense, so many women who don't have jobs, why haven't they seen the police arrest them? Ding's father immediately said, stretched out his hands and said, "Come on, let the police torture me." Then the law is to fool people, and now the city is still streamlining the population and work? It's not bad if it's not streamlined. ”
Ding's father and Ding's mother choked on Ding Haixing's matter, and Ding Haixing was so happy that she quickly wound the thread and sped up the speed.
Duan Hongying looked at Ding's father and Ding's mother worriedly, as if they were arguing very much. Ding Haixing raised her eyes to look at Duan Hongying's concerned eyes, and waved her hand, indicating that it didn't matter.
It's okay to be idle, let them grind their mouths.
Ding's father actively continued to lobby and said, "You don't want to think about it, our Xing'er and Chang Sheng are not young, they are in their twenties, and after they get married, they will definitely have children. Besides, they won't just have one, maybe three years to hold both. You are not afraid that your grandson will not have a mother to take care of you, how pitiful the little child is! ”
"Isn't there a kindergarten?" Ding's mother said immediately.
"Can a kindergarten be as attentive as a mother? Besides, one aunt can take care of so many children, she can take care of your precious grandchildren. Ding's father said immediately.
"That's just as well! It's not good to be a woman, it's not comfortable to be a man. Ding's mother said regretfully, "You don't know how tiring it is to take care of children, it's more tiring than farming, I'd rather go to the field to cut wheat than take care of children at home." What's more, when the dragon's mouth was robbing of grain, I still went to work in the fields, watched the children, and when I came back, I had to serve your men to eat and drink, but your men were not satisfied. It's really unconscionable. ”
"You think that when you are a man, you can do whatever you want." Dad Ding was like a chicken, and he said with high morale, "It's also very hard for a man to support his family outside......"
As a result, the building was crooked, and it rose to the point of man or woman, who worked harder than whom? The original reasoning of facts has turned into a pure battle of will.
Ding's mother has eyes to watch, of course, she also knows how hard the old man is, but she is not idle, "His old man also said that women can hold up half the sky, and your thoughts are not right." ”
"I don't bring it to the line." Ding's father looked at her and said, "How can you talk about this?" ”
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Ding Haixingle finished winding the thread and began to knit a sweater.
Time flies quickly when something is done, and when the battle is often won, Ding's father and Ding's mother are still fighting.
"What's going on?" Zhan Changsheng looked at the old couple suspiciously.
"Oh! It's nothing? Because of some issues, we may have raised our voices in the exchange of opinions. Ding's mother explained awkwardly with a smile.
"Yes, we're definitely not arguing." Dad Ding waved his hand and quickly explained.
This old man? Ding's mother was so angry that she couldn't wait to cover his mouth, so she might as well not speak!
Ding's father also realized that he had said the wrong thing, and with an embarrassed face, he looked at the baby girl standing not far away, and quickly resolved this embarrassing moment!
"I'm hungry, aren't I going to eat?" Ding Haixing looked at them and said.
"Let's go! Let's go to dinner. Zhan Changsheng looked at her sideways and said, of course he saw his father-in-law glancing at Xing'er, the old man was reluctant to speak, and he was not interested in inquiring.
Pulled up Duan Hongying and said, "Let's go!" Let's go to dinner. ”
When he walked to the cafeteria, Ding Haixing, who was pulled by Zhan Changsheng, took the initiative to say, "My parents are arguing about how much they have paid for the family, who is harder than men and women?" He raised his eyebrows and looked at him, "What do you think?" ”
To paraphrase his old man's words: there is only a difference in the division of labor in revolutionary work, there is no such thing as being tired or not, and both men and women are paying for the well-being of their families!" Zhan Changsheng said slowly, his dark eyes slanted at her and said, "Are you satisfied with my answer?" ”
Get! Carrying him out of the old man, what else could Ding Haixing say, she dared to be dissatisfied, grinned perfunctorily, "Satisfied!" ”
"Hey! Or Chang Sheng can talk and say what I want to say. Dad Ding said cheekily.
Ding's mother looked at him with disgust, and said in a low voice, "After half my life with you, why didn't I find that I was so thick-skinned." ”
"Hmph...... Good men don't fight women. Dad Ding chuckled lightly and walked towards the cafeteria.
"Virtue!" Mother Ding shook her head funny, I beg you to save some face in front of her son-in-law.
The family sat at the dining table, and Ding's father pulled Zhan Chang Sheng, who was going to buy food, and said, "Just eat simply." ”
"Dad, can't this meal be simple today?" Zhan Changsheng said very seriously, "Xing'er and I got the certificate today, so this meal should be more hearty." ”
Father Ding heard this and said, "Then don't order too much, just enough to eat." ”
"One dish per person." The battle is often victorious, and he said casually.
"Good!" Ding's father let him go.
"I'm going to help!" Ding Haixing raised her feet and chased after her, she couldn't stand it alone.
After a while, Ding Haixing and Zhan Changsheng came back with two trays, five dishes, sour and hot shredded potatoes, fried onions, vinegared cabbage, scrambled eggs with leeks, four vegetables and one meat, the meat dishes are cabbage and pork stewed vermicelli, multigrain black steamed buns with Sanhe noodles, and a pot of tofu soup.
That's right, it's served in a pot.