People are accustomed to paying attention to words, but in fact, the reception of words is often insufficient. Words are important, but it's the tone and body language that determine their effect. Tone affects the auditory reception of the other party, and plays a decisive role in causing emotional sympathy. Body language is a decisive factor in influencing the visual reception of the other party and causing meaning to be reinforced.

When words don't match tone or body language, the other person will choose tone and body language, not the meaning of words. When the tone of voice and body language are inconsistent, the other person will have a lot of doubts. If the other party is auditory, they will pay more attention to your tone; If the other person is visual, he will choose to trust your body language. And two-thirds of Chinese people are visual.

So whether you are lying or not, you can tell by your expressions.

"Distinctly different!" Zhan Changsheng nodded.

"Shall we borrow a book, then?" Ding Haixing looked at him with a smile and asked.

"Borrow!" Zhan Changsheng gritted his teeth and said, "Then let's finish eating first!" It is estimated that people are also eating, so it's not good to go to bother at this time! ”

When Ding Haixing and his wife were talking, Hongying had already consciously brought out the rice and set it up.

Dinner is simple, porridge side dishes, thick millet porridge, steamed buns with Sanhe noodles, stir-fried potatoes, and bean sprouts. The bean sprouts were made by Ding Haixing himself with mung beans, and the mung beans were supplied in the grain store, and only one catty was supplied for one person, and the supply of grain for their family to win the battle and the red tassel was exactly two catties.

"This bean sprout is crisp and refreshing, which can be regarded as a change of taste." Zhan Changsheng said that he would sandwich bean sprouts between the two of them.

After eating, the family of three cleaned up and knocked on the door of the opposite door Jing's house.

Jing Boda, who opened the door, looked at them in surprise, so he was a little dumbfounded.

"Little ghost, every day we run in the morning, why don't you welcome us here." Zhan Changsheng looked at the sluggish landscape and Boda teased.

Jing Boda came back to his senses, turned his head and shouted happily into the house, "Dad, Mom, it's ......" He braked the car again, almost forgetting that his loud voice was not heard, so he said, "Please come in, please come in." ”

The three of them walked in, and Jing Boda quickly closed the door.

Hearing this, Jing Hailin held the book in his hand and walked over, "You kid, do you talk halfway?" Did I teach you that? Who's coming? ”

As soon as he saw the three members of the Zhan family at the door, a trace of surprise flashed in his eyes, and he walked over quickly and said, "Welcome, welcome, please come in, please come in." ”

"I'm going to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing! Excuse me. Zhan Changsheng said with a smile and walked into the living room.

Jing Hailin walked quickly to the living room, looked at them, stretched out his hand to the living room and said, "Please take a seat." ”

Sit? They looked at the books in the living room, and everywhere they could sit were books.

The last time I came to their house for a big night, I couldn't see the black hole clearly, but this time I read it clearly, there are so many books.

Hong Xueli heard in the kitchen that Zhan Changsheng and them were coming, so she immediately took off her apron, wiped her hands, threw them on the table, and hurried out.

Hearing his lover's words, he hurried into the living room, quickly packed up his books, and made a place.

"Please be seated, please be seated, I like to read, so this house is full of books." Jing Hailin explained uncomfortably.

"It is worthy of the family of intellectuals, and there are many books!" Zhan Changsheng raised his eyes and said politely, and then said, "It seems that I will definitely be able to find the book I want." ”

Saying that, the family of three sat on the couch and glanced at the Jing family, the layout of their house was the same as their own home. But their family has a small population, but they look much cramped, and that's because there are so many books.

"Our family Lao Jing doesn't have any hobbies, he likes to read, and his salary is generally used to buy books. Hong Xueli said softly.

"I have a habit of having a book wherever I can sit, so that I can reach out and read it." Jing Hailin said embarrassedly.

In fact, there is another reason, that is, there are no guests at home, so in the past few years, I have been even more unscrupulous.

The family is big, even if he gets a separate study, but this sofa, bedside, dining table, coffee table...... Ding Haixing and the others saw that there were stacks of books in almost every corner of their house.

Jing Boda took three cups of water and put them on the coffee table and said, "Uncle Zhan, Aunt Ding, Sister Hongying, drink water." ”

"That's good!" Ding Haixing looked at the well-behaved Jing Boda and said with a smile on his face.

Hongying smiled generously, "Thank you!" ”

Jing Boda smiled shyly and replied with a sign language, "You're welcome!" Then he looked at Ding Haixing and said, "Aunt Ding, what I said is right." "I learned it from Sister Hongying." ”

Hongying's eyes lit up and she smiled at him, "That's right!" ”

Ding Haixing smiled and said nothing, Jing Boda now follows them every day for morning exercises, and during this period, he asked Hongying to teach him sign language. The time was almost up, and there were more people exercising in the morning, and this kid automatically disappeared in front of their eyes.

How can you not like it, and at the same time, a sour mood rises in your heart.

Jing Boda moved a stool and sat beside Hong Xueli obediently.

"Hongying, this one speaks much more neatly." Jing Hailin praised with a smile.

"This kid has been practicing ever since he was able to speak again." He said with great pride in battle.

After the politeness was over, Jing Hailin entered the theme and said, "What are you?" ”

"Oh! I'd like to borrow a few books. Zhan Changsheng asked very frankly.

When Jing Hailin heard this, he immediately asked happily, "What book?" He especially likes people who love to read, and he can't imagine that this dirt bun turned by the field army is a person who loves to learn.

"Books on psychology, expressions, and kinesiology." Zhan Chang Sheng looked at him hopefully.

Jing Hailin looked at him in surprise, he thought he would borrow books on the navy, "Let me ask you why you borrowed these books?" ”

"Yes, of course." Zhan Changsheng said simply, "It's for Hongying, of course, I also study, learn." He frowned and looked at him and said, "Why not?" ”

"Yes, yes, but these books are too professional." Jing Hailin said in embarrassment.

"Yes, that's it." Zhan Changsheng looked at him and said, "Where is it?" ”

"There must be psychology there, but this expression and movement science don't." Jing Hailin said.

"Take whatever you have!" He had never heard of these books, so he was not very demanding.

"Okay!" Jing Hailin got up and pushed the door into the study.

Ding Haixing looked at the study through the door of the study, and the first feeling was that there were many books, and the whole room was full of books.