Chapter 128: There Are No Right Answers in Life
"Dad, Mom, what benefits did he give you, so that you spared no effort to help him say good things." Ding Haixing said strangely, just after she took a trip to hot water, her father and mother collectively rebelled.
Ding Fengshou said happily, "Xing'er, don't think your father is cheesy, people talk about the head of a group, how to say that we have also become the head of the group." Do you think anyone can be the head of the regiment? ”
Seeing that they all helped him say good things, Ding Haixing said indignantly, "His education level is not high. ”
"You have a high level of education, huh? Didn't you go to school either? Ding Fengshou blurted out, and when he said it, he covered his mouth to know that he had said the wrong thing, "This...... That one...... Dad didn't mean that? "Looking at Zhang Cuilan for help, 'Hurry up and help.'"
Zhang Cuilan glared at Ding Fengshou with disgust, looked at her daughter and said, "What's wrong with the low cultural level, you think that if the cultural level is not high, you can't be the head of the regiment, how many people in this army have a high cultural level, aren't they all the rivers and mountains they have beaten down." ”
"That's right! Then Zhu Yuanzhang was still born as a cow herder, and he became an emperor anymore. Ding Fengshou immediately said.
"Just because you don't have culture doesn't mean you don't have talent!" Zhang Cuilan said very rationally.
Ding Haixing's eyes flashed, she was surprised that Ding's mother said such philosophical words, no wonder Ding's father was eaten to death.
"That's right! Your mom is right, just because you don't have culture doesn't mean you don't have scheming, and we haven't read much, but do we look like fools? Ding Fengshou said immediately.
"Old man! Did you talk like that? Zhang Cuilan shook her head slightly and said, "You see that your father is excited, and he won't say anything." "But then again, if a big old man can be the head of a group, it is enough to show that he is very capable and talented." Poked her forehead and said, "Just say it!" What do you have to do with him? ”
Dissatisfied? I don't plan to get married, so why be dissatisfied? And what does dissatisfaction have to do with her?
But looking at the expressions of Ding's father and Ding's mother, if Ding Haixing dared to say that she would not get married, she would be the first to be slapped to death by the two of them in mixed doubles.
After a long time, "he has ......" finally chose to shut up, she dared to talk about the child, knew the truth of the matter, and scolded her with their simple and kind character.
"You mother and daughter continue to talk? I went to the toilet. Ding Fengshou got up and said.
"Dad, you're having diarrhea again." Ding Haixing stood up and said nervously.
"Don't be nervous, don't be nervous, I'm not running on my stomach." Ding Fengshou hurriedly said, walked out of the ward, and closed the door.
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As soon as Ding Fengshou left, Zhang Cuilan looked at Ding Haixing for a moment and said, "Xing'er, what are you worried about?" ”
"I'm not confident?" Ding Haixing gave a vague answer.
"Haha......" Zhang Cuilan laughed when she heard this, "You stupid child, who has confidence in life!" Who would dare to say that they are full of confidence! He shook his head funny and said, "Live your life, this life is lived, not you think of it, and where there is the right answer in life, happiness or unhappiness is usually like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing." ”
Ding Haixing nodded, she admitted that there is no right answer in life, because you don't know if you will be happy after marrying someone, don't try to find the answer
Because all choices have both right and wrong answers, the wise man works hard to make the choice to make it the right answer, the fool regrets his choice and makes it the wrong answer, there is no right answer in life, only a process of creating the right answer.
Zhang Cuilan patted her hand and said earnestly, "Xing'er, you can't look at external things when you look at people, of course, Chang Shengchang is definitely not picky, just like your father when he was young." ”
"Uh......" Ding Haixing said with a tangled face, "Mom, you really said something big." ”
"Go, your dad is like this now, he is all tired, he is heartbroken for you, his face is yellow and thin, and he is not hungry." Zhang Cuilan said angrily, "A girl with no conscience." ”
After a pause, he continued, "Of course, everyone likes good-looking people, and he is pleasing to the eye." As for the level of literacy you are worried about, can you learn this? The key is to see if he has the ability, and if he can't support himself, how can he support his wife and children. So ability is very important, his ability must not be said, otherwise he can climb to the position of head of the regiment at a young age. He looked at her and said, "The reason why my mother agreed with you and Changsuo was that she took a fancy to Changsuo's self-motivation, and the facts have proved it, but unfortunately you have no conscience." He sighed heavily, "Don't talk about this, let's continue to talk about Chang Sheng, he doesn't have to say anything about him, it's good!" Honest and kind. ”
Honesty is true, Hongying's matter is very frank, and of course it also has the intention of brushing up on good feelings.
"Besides, he always knows everything about you, and being willing to come to propose a marriage proves that he doesn't care. If it's someone else, why don't you make a fuss if you know it! Zhang Cuilan shook her head slightly and said, "No one says anything about a man who falls in love before marriage, especially if the people in the city are poor, he can still find a country woman, in order to jump out of the farm, this is nothing." And if we women want to talk about a few, if we blow, there will be some rumors, pointing and pointing that you have problems with your style and character. ”
Ding's mother said it in a targeted manner, Ding Haixing shook her head and smiled, "Mom, it's proper for you to be the women's director." ”
"Go, don't make fun of your mom and me." Zhang Cuilan continued, "Think about it last night, your dad ran out of his stomach, but Chang Sheng stayed with and took care of him all night, and even carried your dad on his back in the end. This is that even biological sons may not be able to do this, and if it weren't for you, he would have done it! This can only show one thing, he genuinely likes you and cares about you. ”
poked her forehead and said kindly, "You! Don't follow the flamboyant tongues and talk about your liking. This likes a guy too! It's not by talking, but by doing, and the man who just says and doesn't do it can't be trusted. You can't get married. ”
"Mom, what benefits did he give you, so that you went out of your way to say good things for him, am I your daughter or is he your son." Ding Haixing pouted and said sourly.
Zhang Cuilan told Ding Haixing everything that Zhan Changsheng said and did when Ding Haixing went out to fetch water, "Look at it, if it weren't for you, he would be a dignified grand master who would kneel down for us and beg to marry you." Dream on you? The index finger continued to poke her forehead and said, "Hurry up and agree!" Don't take Joe anymore. He ordered directly, "Could it be that you really want to be an old girl that no one wants!" Looking at people in pairs, you are alone, people are full of children and grandchildren, but you are lonely, we just go down to the ground, and death is unstable. ”