Chapter 1032: Attacking the Heart
"Actually, I won't hand it over to you for your own good." Ding Haixing's eyes were gentle, and her voice was as warm as jade, "I handed over the child to you, this raises feelings, what if the child's biological parents find it?" When the time comes, it will be heart-wrenching. ”
Li Jianjun, who had returned to his senses, said with a strange look in his eyes, "Kindness is not as great as kindness!" ”
"You're right." Ding Haixing nodded in agreement, curled the corners of her lips, and said in a voice as crisp as water dropping through a stone, "But you live in the fear of your child being taken away all day long, and you can't live in fear, can you still live?" The most important thing is that if the child knows, don't you feel sorry for the child in the painful entanglement between birth and raising? ”
Li Jianjun's pupils shrank when she heard this, she really poked them to the bottom of their hearts, they were just afraid, they were only in their thirties, and they didn't dare to adopt a child.
"After recognizing the biological father and mother, people say that the child is ungrateful, don't recognize it! They all said that this child had no conscience. You want your children to live in such an atmosphere. Ding Haixing crawled to her face with a sad face and said, "It's really a dilemma." ”
"If you don't do the same, you don't have to worry about the child's parents coming and snatching the child from you." Liu Suqin retorted fiercely, what you said is high-sounding, I don't believe you have been so calm.
"Of course I'm different from you." Ding Haixing smiled slightly, and said calmly, "I will give myself the right to choose." Staring at them, the tone of voice unchanged.
Ding Haixing's subtext Li Jianjun and his wife heard that they have three children of their own, even if they are snatched away by the child's biological parents, they still have biological ones.
The purpose of adoption is different, and the peace of mind and nature are in stark contrast to their eagerness.
Li Jianjun took a deep breath, stood up and said, "Suqin, let's go!" He had to admit that Ding Haixing was right, they had no way to defend themselves at all, and their justification was only pitiful.
"Woo woo......" Liu Suqin covered her face and cried heartbreakingly......
"Don't cry, it's fine that the two of us don't have children." Li Jianjun sat back in his chair and patted her on the shoulder.
Liu Suqin said hoarsely, "I'm sorry Jianjun, I'm sorry for your old Li family, I didn't give birth to a son and a half daughter for you." ”
"I said it doesn't matter, why do you keep drilling the horns." Li Jianjun rudely pulled her up and said, "Let's go......" dragged her off the chair, and rudely dragged her away.
Liu Suqin was unconsciously dragged to the ground by him like a rag doll, dragging around.
Li Jianguo felt that he had lost face today, and said angrily. "Go to Lao Tzu, don't be embarrassed here."
Liu Suqin sat on the ground, one hand was pulled by him like that, raised her eyes and looked at him vacantly and said, "I'm sorry for the Li family, let's divorce!" ”
The accident happened too quickly, and when Gao Jinshan and they reflected, Gao Jinshan hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed his hand and said, "Lao Li, what are you doing?" He tugged at his hand and broke his fingers directly.
Liu Suqin's arm slid down, and the person also fell to the ground, muttering in his mouth: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I should die......
"Alas......" Li Jianjun couldn't help it angrily, and put down his hand dejectedly.
Liu Suqin suddenly got up, walked quickly to Ding Haixing, knelt down in front of her and said, "Sister-in-law, you lend me the child, I will raise it for a few days, and when I have it, I will return the child to you." Please, please. ”
Ding Haixing held her wrist and said, "Don't be like this, don't be like this." This is people's own beautiful imagination! Not necessarily. ”
There is a folk legend that if you raise someone else's child, you can bring your own child to an infertile couple.
This can be explained scientifically, pregnancy is not only related to physiological conditions, but also psychological, there are many couples who want to have children, before there are no children, it can be said that the psychological pressure of the couple is very large, and the pressure from the outside world is also great, so they are depressed all day long, resulting in the aggravation of the physical condition of both parties, the more anxious they are, the more they can't conceive, the more anxious they are, so a vicious circle is formed.
When raising a child, it temporarily unloads the heavy burden of childbirth, and it is relaxed. At the same time, I am immersed in the happiness of being a parent, and I look at the lively and lovely children every day, and my mood is naturally good. The impact of spirit on the body is great, it can change the secretion of hormones in the body, and slowly the physical condition of both husband and wife has improved, the condition is naturally alleviated, and it is reasonable to successfully conceive your own child!
However, not all couples who have adopted other people's children can successfully conceive their own baby, because it also depends on the individual's condition, husband and wife relationship, life circumstances, etc.!
And when Ding Haixing held her wrist, she took the opportunity to check her pulse, and there was no problem with her body.
raised his eyes and squinted his eyes slightly to look at Li Jianjun, those eyes comparable to an X-ray machine swept towards him, looking from beginning to end.
It's a pity that Ding Haixing just knows that it is difficult for him to have his own children in this life.
"Yes, yes, I know several of them." Liu Suqin said excitedly.
"If you don't agree, I won't get up." Liu Suqin said stubbornly.
Ding Haixing directly supported her arm to stand up, she understood her pain of not having children, but it was a bit too much to mess around like this.
Ding Haixing's eyes condensed into frost, and he looked at him coldly and said word by word, "Comrade Li Jianjun, you should know your physical condition, not to mention raising a child, it is to raise ten or eight ......."
"Don't talk about it." Li Jianjun knelt on the ground, looked at Liu Suqin with extremely sad eyes and said, "It's not your fault, it's my fault, it's my seed that has a problem." I secretly went to see the doctor, and the doctor said: I have only a 10% chance of having children. He lowered his head and didn't dare to look at her, "I'm sorry, it's my fault." ”
"How so? How so? Liu Suqin sat on the ground and looked at him in disbelief.
"I'm sorry, because of my face, because of my cowardice, because of my self-esteem, let you endure criticism...... Li Jianjun said reproachfully, "It's me who is despicable and shameless." ”
"It's not your fault, it's not." Liu Suqin flew into his arms, "Don't blame yourself, in my heart, you will always be a man who stands up to the sky." If you don't have children, you can't have children! This is very good, if you have children, you have to worry about their eating, drinking, Lazing and sleeping, and you will always have the heart to, not to say that raising a hundred children will worry about ninety-nine ......"
Li Jianjun buried his face around her neck, hugged her tightly in his arms and said, "I'm sorry! ”
Liu Suqin felt wet around his neck, and in his arms, he sobbed, "It's not your fault, we're all right." ”
None of the people present thought that things would become like this, and they didn't know where to persuade them!