Chapter 157: My Dowry
Zhan Changsheng uncomfortably diverted the topic and said casually, "You don't mind if I refuse their money!" ”
"Of course I don't mind." Ding Haixing raised her eyes and looked at him lazily, and teased, "Aren't you able to support your wife and children?" ”
"Of course I can." Zhan Changsheng immediately said indifferently, and what was even more gratifying was that she was no longer rejecting marriage and was proactive.
He is a traditional man, and it is natural for a man to provide for his family.
"That's it." Ding Haixing smiled and said, "Without their help, we would have a better life." ”
"Oh! That's right...... Ding Haixing raised his arm and looked at the watch on his wrist, "And the coat and shoes are your bride price." ”
"What do you want to say?" Zhan Changsheng looked at her with a slightly gloomy gaze and said.
Ding Haixing's heart moved slightly, "The gifts are still exchanged, and I should also have a dowry, right!" As he spoke, he took out two pearls as white as jade from his pocket and said, "This is my dowry." ”
Round and full, exuding a luster like jade, you can tell at a glance that it is not ordinary.
Zhan Changsheng looked at her in surprise and asked curiously, "How many pearls do you have?" ”
"Not much." Ding Haixing said vaguely, "Growing up by the sea, I can swim and dive in the sea since I can walk, so the chance of encountering them is greater." ”
"You don't need to do that!" Zhan Changsheng said distressedly, relying on the mountains to eat the mountains, relying on the water to draft, at a young age, he had to go to the sea to make a living.
"I insist, I can't control what outsiders think, in front of you, I don't want to be looked down on by you, it feels like your money is being bought by you. It's a bad feeling. Ding Haixing looked at him with a firm expression and said, "This is my dowry." ”
Zhan Changsheng looked at the stubborn expression on Ding Haixing's face, and couldn't help but have a gloomy dark light flashing in his eyes. Silently stretched out his hand and grabbed her hands, rough as sandpaper, but it made him extremely distressed, rubbing back and forth, it seemed that he also had to nourish his hands, and his serious eyes seemed to be cherished as if he was holding them in the palm of his hand.
was lightly touched by his rough fingers, the gentle and serious gaze, looking at her as if looking at the whole world, made Ding Haixing's body tremble slightly, this feeling is too heavy, she can't afford it.
There was a trace of guilt in her heart, she shook her head vigorously, and quickly slapped it away, what was she guilty about? She couldn't stop him from liking her.
Ding Haixing hurriedly took a step back, her black and white eyes swirled back and forth in her sockets, and she said with a straight face, "Just talk?" Why do you move your hands and feet, don't you know that a gentleman doesn't move his hands or not! ”
Zhan Changsheng was slightly stunned, then withdrew his hand, lowered his eyelashes and smiled warmly, "I've worked hard for you all these years, and you won't be in the future." I'll raise you. ”
"Thank you so much! But ......" Before Ding Haixingdi finished speaking, he found that he was looking at her expressionlessly, and his eyes as calm as the sea gathered the storm.
Ding Haixing quickly changed her words very unproductively, "I didn't say this, I didn't say it." "Those who know the times are junjie, anyway, doing and saying are two different things!
After brushing it, the anger under Chang Sheng's eyes dissipated cleanly, and he looked soft and warm.
How could Zhan Changsheng not know that this Nizi's words were insincere, and this matter can only be proved by time, it is useless for him to say anything, what she needs is practical action.
Ding Haixing suddenly thought of a possibility, and immediately declared, "This is not collective property, this is what I fished on the high seas, near the neon sea." ”
Zhan Changsheng was stunned for a moment, "uh......" A smile overflowed from his dark eyes, and then he said, "Don't worry, I won't confiscate it." ”
Ding Haixing breathed a long sigh of relief, it was really old, and his memories were blurred, and he forgot that this was an era of collective supremacy. Everything is collective.
"I remember that if a woman can't get on the boat, you can get on the boat too." Zhan Changsheng said casually.
So what is shrewd? Ding Haixing raised her eyebrows and looked at him and said, "You also have women who can't get on the boat, and the boat has to capsize." This feudal superstitious idea of patriarchy and disrespect for women. ”
People living by the sea have to deal with the sea every day, daily and the evil wind and waves, life often has unpredictable, this aspect has created a resolute and strong, rough and bold, up to the view of the character of the lottery, at the same time the fragile psychology also has a soft part, it feels the impermanence of fate, there are gods in the dark manipulation, so there are all kinds of superstitions and all kinds of taboos, sometimes it seems foolish and ridiculous, but the parties are serious and serious but look very sacred and solemn. Ridiculous has its own ridiculousness, but it's also very cute.
"I have a lot of respect for women, but it is said that the patron saint of the fishermen of the southern islands is Mazu, a hardworking, kind and beautiful woman. Men go to sea, but women are kept safe. "It's not so much a disrespect for women's individual status and a lesson to women not to be taboo on the boat, but I understand that a well-intentioned persuasion of women not to get on the boat to avoid risks is a responsible man's protective compassion for women." What men are facing is danger, the more dangerous and tribulation, the more they have to be men, and women dare to go to the soup and fire and curb the wind and waves, which can only show the failure of men's lives, so that women can take the responsibility of the family. ”
This is said sincerely, which makes her feel that she should explain it like this, this man's emotional intelligence is so high! No wonder he earned a piece of the sky at a young age.
Men who make a living by the sea not only need a strong physique, but also have a stoic mind, but for women who take care of housework and daily life at home, those rough and arrogant men also have the softest part of their hearts.
When going out to sea, it is dangerous and abnormal, and it is not a day or two to go home, so the nostalgia for shore life, the thirst for female tenderness is different from the general, and there is a sense of taming for women like babies and mothers. Just like Ding's father is fierce and vicious at sea, and when he sees Ding's mother smiling and supple like a sheep, he has all kinds of ugliness.
This is Ding Haixing's own understanding, I didn't expect this man who has never seen the sea to have such an explanation, which really surprised her and made sense.
He didn't say that it was natural for a man to provide for his family.
The topic was all crooked, and Ding Haixing quickly turned back and said, "Okay!" ”
Zhan Changsheng was silent for a moment and looked at her and said, "But one is enough, you don't need two!" ”
Ding Haixing thought about it, looked at him seriously and said, "The other one, as your bride price, is for my parents." ”
"Ding Haixing." Zhan Changsheng gritted his teeth and said, he was angry again, Rao is he has a super good temper, and he can't stand her acting like this!