"When you feel uncomfortable and you don't have the strength to fight yourself, you can turn to me for help... And your dad, you just need to remember one thing, in any case, your dad and I are your best backers, and no one can bully you with us. ”

There is often friction between children, and it is normal for them to bump and fight.

However, children play and bully are two different concepts.

Looking at the values of this parent, I can fully understand why this fat dun will be so cruel to Nuo Nuo when he grows up, in the old saying, this is called the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked, and from a psychological point of view, this is called the influence of the original family on the child.

Many parents often yell at their children, saying that she hit you, you hit back, are you a wreck!

But each child's personality is different, a child like Nuo Nuo, roaring at her like this, it is equivalent to causing Nuo Nuo to be hurt twice, each child is a unique existence, how can it be possible to educate different children in the same way?

Chen Meng told Nuo Nuo here, and the parents over there were not happy to hear it.

"What does this mean, I just pushed it, and I didn't knock off a piece of meat, and I didn't bleed or break the skin, why are you so squeamish?"

Such people will never realize that they have a problem, and they will not allow their children to suffer a little loss, as long as they don't beat others to death, it is a very normal thing in their eyes.

Chen Meng smiled at her and continued to say to Nuo Nuo.

"Remember what I just told you, some people can forgive, some people don't need to forgive, so what kind of people are worthy of forgiveness? He who knows his wrongs, and who repents, but who dies without repentance..."

Chen Meng calmly walked towards the parents and said to Nuo Nuo.

"Countering violence with violence is not the best way to solve problems – but why should we be the best people? What's the point of living if you can't make your life more comfortable? ”

After saying that, she walked up to the parent and used the grappling hand she used every time she fought to successfully trip over the parent who was still immersed in chicken soup and confused.

The parent was pushed down on the sand by Chen Meng with his back facing the sky, Chen Meng stretched out his feet, stepped on her stomach, and said with a smile.

"I won't beat your baby, let the children solve the problems between the children, and the adults will do the things of the adults, I want to talk to you about life and the three views, what did you just say? Just push it, no flesh knocked off, no bleeding, no broken skin, don't be so squeamish, right? ”

Triple step on the stomach!

The fat girl's mother was thrown on the sand by Chen Meng, looking at the blue sky above her head, her brain was still in a state of confusion.

A few seconds later, the pain in her stomach made her scream.

Chen Meng retracted his feet and looked at Nuo Nuo.

It was the first time she had done such a thing in front of a child since she came back, and she reasoned before she started.

Don't mind emphasizing it again now.

"Avoid the key points, pay attention to proportion, we don't take the initiative to attack others, but we don't need to be overly lenient either."

The woman's chubby child saw his mother being beaten, not only was he not afraid, but he clapped his hands and laughed, the mother scolded, and jumped up to play with Chen Meng.

is this kind of shrew fighting, grabbing ears and pulling hair, etc., which is completely incomparable to Chen Meng.

Chen Meng dodged her attack neatly, and easily knocked people down with a lift of his legs.

It is natural for her to educate herself that baby, and she can't fight with this kind of three views, so why bother!

What can be solved by hand, why do you beep so much!