But after Wen Xin heard it, she shook her head and said: "That's not the case, I didn't mean that, let me explain it to you, in fact, it's because I think it's because of Xiao Wentian's precociousness, so her mind and her psychology will be more mature?" In this way, it will interfere with her future growth a little, I mean she thinks too much, will it affect her physical health psychologically. ”

After Wen Xin said these words, Qian Bing was stunned for a moment, and then thought of what Wen Xin said

She finally understood that Wen Xin was not worried about Xiao Wentian's maturity at all, but because she was worried that Xiao Wentian's psychology was too mature, so that it brought her physical weakness.

It's like the saying that I often hear, wisdom will hurt, and people who are too smart are always easy to get hurt in all kinds of things.

Thinking of this, Qian Bing said: "It's Xiao Wentian who is smart enough, so she can quickly stand up from such setbacks and try to become your support, this is brought from the bones, not acquired, this is talent, do you understand what I mean?" You can't use ordinary means to suppress her, can't you still want to destroy your own child? ”

Qian Bing knew that Wen Xin was a little concerned and messed up, so he said these words, but as a good friend, what Qian Bing wanted to do was to press down all the worries that Wen Xin shouldn't have, Xiao Wen Tian was indeed a little precocious and a little too smart, but this was not a big deal at all? Just let her live in a carefree environment in the future, and she will always be in a situation where she doesn't need to think too much about how to survive? Then her mind will slowly become less heavy.

Thinking of this, Qian Bing directly said what he thought in his heart to Wen Xin.

"I think it's best for you not to try to change her thoughts, her personality has matured in that thing, that is to say, even if there will be changes in the future, the change will not be particularly big, many children will have personality changes in adolescence, and Wen Tian is because of those things that happened, so she matured and evolved in her personality prematurely, but it's not a big deal? Children will be more precocious when they are younger, so wouldn't it be good for you to raise a shorter girl? ”

The meaning of Qian Bing's words is obvious, that is, let her not worry about this kind of thing, she only needs to treat Wen Tian as an appearance, and some teenagers have developed into a complete teenage girl! There's nothing to worry about too much.

But it was on this matter that Wen Xin once again had a different opinion.

"I know what you mean? I can also understand that you just don't want me to think too much about it now, but have you ever thought about the problem that I can't 100% ensure that Xiao Wentian can live in a carefree environment all the time. ”

After Wen Xin finished saying this, Qian Bing said in surprise: "How is this possible? Is there any difficulty in upgrading your family, and the difficulty of survival is completely non-existent, that is to say, as long as you and Mu Beichen can maintain the whole family in harmony all the time, then Xiao Wentian can live in a carefree environment, isn't it? ”

In Qian Bing's view, it is actually a relatively simple thing to want to let children in a carefree environment, why is it very difficult to be here in Wenxin?

Wen Xin sighed, and then said: "Let's not talk about those women who want to flatter Mu Beichen layer upon layer, and the dirty water and attacks that I may receive in the entertainment industry, #单单是慕老爷是哪一便, Xiao Wentian is very worried every time he mentions his grandfather, and I have no way to persuade him to do something, after all, the old man's attitude is there, even if I want Xiao Tiantian not to think so much, Xiao Tiantian can't think about it too much, right?" ”

After saying this, WeChat took a breath and continued: "What's more, when Beichen and I are usually talking about things, we basically don't avoid children very much, Xiao Wentian will remember many things in his ears when he hears them, just like Liu Jingyue and Li Lu, although I didn't mean to let him interfere, but when I said it to him, he would be very worried, and even tried to help me." ”

After hearing these things, Qian Bing couldn't help but sigh, Xiao Wentian was so well-behaved that he couldn't help but want to sigh, after all, Xiao Wentian was just a seven-year-old girl, in this kind of thing, there were actually very few things she could do, but even so, she wanted to give her mother and help such a child, how could it not be distressing?

So, Qian Bing said directly: "Then it's better to be like this, let me make it clear to you, after all, she is your child no matter what, first of all, you can't dislike him, this is a 100% thing." ”

After hearing this, Wen Xin sighed, and then said, "How could I dislike my child? It was when I was pregnant and gave birth to a baby daughter, when I was abroad, I had always been dependent on her, how could I dislike her at this time? ”

After hearing this, Qian Bing nodded, and then said: "When you talk about those too adult topics in the future, don't talk about it in front of Xiao Wentian anymore, if you don't want him to worry about this kind of thing, don't always mention this kind of thing in front of her, even if you have more emotions in your heart that you want to vent, you can't find out until Xiao Wentian leaves, do you understand what I mean?" Although he is very precocious and precocious, it is not a reason for you to drag her into the adult world. ”

After hearing this, Wen Xin was stunned for a moment, she finally understood what made her mistake to make Xiao Wen Tian grow into the character she is now.

"After listening to your words, I think I did have a mistake before, because of her precociousness, so I instilled in her the things of the adult world too early, but although she is precocious, her mind is not enough to be an adult, but she will be more mature than children of the same age, but I have instilled these adult rules, the adult world into her, her intelligence is enough for her to think about these, but her experience is not enough for her to support the thinking of these things, so it will cause the current situation, Right? ”

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