Gu Lingse has always felt that these children are very mature, both mentally and ideologically. Mature ones don't look like a child. They are also more rational and calm than many adults. Looking at the problem, it is also more cold.

Sometimes being too sensible is not necessarily a good thing.

It's not, the baby kiss that her daughter and Porgy set, this is no show.

"I guess you must have a standard in mind, right?"

Poggy smiled and nodded heavily, "Actually...... It's been there for a long time! ”

Isn't it the woman in front of him that he used to hate?

In a marriage, it is inherently unfair to women. A stay-at-home mom, in fact, has a hard time. The whole family gets up the earliest, and the whole family sleeps the latest. Take care of everyone in the family. This job is no easier than a man going out to work to earn money. But in the eyes of many people, I think it's not just cooking and sending children to school, what's so hard?

This is also the most common idea.

If you meet a good husband, you will naturally be considerate of your wife. Knowing that his wife takes care of this family, it is no less difficult than himself. But if you meet that kind of scumbag, that day will be even more sad.

Because there is no job, you cannot be financially independent. Even if the husband spends a lot of time outside, a full-time mother can't say anything. Once divorced, stay-at-home mothers who have been out of touch with society for too many years will even have a problem supporting themselves. If you say a little more about your husband, your in-laws will point fingers, saying that your husband is tired enough to earn money outside to support the family, why can't stay-at-home mothers be considerate of their husbands.

But what if a woman doesn't give up her career after getting married?

That's over, and there's even more to be pointed at.

How can you get married and not take care of your family? What kind of woman should take care of the children at home, laundry and cooking. A woman who does not take care of her husband and children in the family is not a good woman. There are too many such nonsense.

This society is too harsh on women.

Why do men only have to earn money and not take care of their families? And women, do they deserve to earn money to take care of their families?

A home is not something that can be maintained casually. It is necessary to operate, just like running a company, and you have to be very careful to operate. Everyone in this family needs to pay some and sacrifice some more.

And the hard work of a woman who can achieve both family and career is unimaginable.

There is a sentence that Poggy has endured and did not tell Tang Lin.

Gu Lingse only asked Tang Lin to see how hard he worked, but he didn't let Tang Lin see how hard she worked.

During the day, she has to take care of the food and daily life of everyone in the South Palace. It stands to reason that there is Aunt Wu in the South Palace, and she doesn't need to do too much housework. At least, you don't have to worry about Lingse when it comes to cooking, right? But in fact, Gu Lingse is sympathetic to Aunt Wu's age, and most of the housework is actually done by her.

In addition to taking care of the diet and daily life of everyone in the South Palace, Gu Lingse also had to take care of their children. Have you ever wondered what time she spends dealing with Qin's work?

It's not about squeezing in time, taking time.

In the morning, Gu Lingse was the earliest, made breakfast for everyone in the family, and accompanied them to finish eating. She drove to deliver Yuzu Shang School, and on the way home, she went to the supermarket to buy groceries and then make lunch. This time, in the blink of an eye, is in the afternoon. In the past, his godmother had the habit of taking a nap, but now she has used the nap time to deal with the Qin family's official business.

After dealing with the company's affairs with a tight time, it was basically another peak when Gu Lingse was busy. She had to go to the kitchen and cook dinner for everyone. The permanent population of the South Palace is basically maintained at about ten. Cooking for such a large family and taking into account everyone's tastes is definitely not an easy task.

Also, there is no fixed time for everyone to go home for dinner. This makes the cooking person feel even more headache.

His godmother basically cooks a dozen dishes at every meal. Make sure everyone has at least one of their favorite dishes. Did you notice that every time they came home, his godmother could bring out a plate of their favorite dishes very appropriately, and then watch them finish with a smile?

Have you ever wondered when his godmother ate?

Poggy had carefully observed, and everyone had ignored it, and no one had ever asked, whether his godmother had eaten. Even Uncle Ye forgot about it.

Then when Yuzu was studying, his godmother would also take the time to deal with some of Qin's work. Once someone came back to the house, his godmother would go to the kitchen to work for a while and accompany the person to eat.

After taking care of this big family, they were all sent to bed separately, and his godmother, like him, would lean on the head of the bed and deal with some company business. Basically, when Uncle Ye comes home, when will his godmother go to bed.

Gu Lingse has always been accustomed to waiting for his Uncle Ye to go home before he can go to sleep with confidence. Uncle Ye is also quite conscious, if he goes home too late or doesn't go home, he will definitely call home in advance to say something.

His godmother only let Tang Lin see how hard he worked, but she forgot that she was also working hard.

Porgy has always wondered why his godmother has to accompany him every time someone comes home for dinner?

"Godmother, why is that?" Poggy finally found the right opportunity today to ask this question.

"Huh?" Gu Lingse himself was stunned, thought about it, and replied slowly, "Maybe I'm used to it." "Habits? Poggi raised an eyebrow.

"I always feel that it's pitiful to eat alone. Because I used to eat alone in my own room, and I couldn't sit at the dinner table with my family. So I subconsciously wanted to eat with everyone. Even if I did, I would sit by and watch everyone finish it. ”

"That's right." Poggi flattened his mouth and didn't speak again.

Look, he said, a woman who can balance family and career is too hard.

He didn't want his future wife to work as hard as his godmother. But he wanted to find a woman with her own career. It's just a contradiction anyway.

Gu Lingse glanced at Boji's expression out of the corner of his eyes, "What do you think?" Still frowning. "Godmother, are you working hard? ”

"Huh?"

"In addition to managing the Qin Group, you also have to take care of the South Palace. Do you think you're hard? ”

Gu Lingse thought about it very seriously, "Hard work is for sure. But I think it's okay. ”

"Why?" 
"Because of you, Uncle Ye. The corners of Gu Lingse's mouth couldn't help but rise, "He helped me share a lot." Whether it's at work or at home. Your Uncle Ye is helping me share the burden. Don't look at his work in the provincial department is very busy, but as long as he has time, he will definitely help me with housework. These are things that you do not see. At work, that's not to mention. I'm not afraid of any difficulties. Because I know that your Uncle Ye is right behind me. ”

What she can solve, of course, is to solve it herself. If she can't solve it, she will find a way to solve it herself. Until she was helpless, before she could speak, Ye Chengshu had already taken the responsibility on him and helped her solve it.

"So, I don't feel much hard work."

"Because Uncle Ye helped you share a lot?" 
"Hmm. He really helped me with a lot. ”

Poggi nodded as he thought, "I realized my mistake. "What mistake? "I've always had such and such demands on my wife, and I've always kept saying that maintaining a family requires everyone in the family to pay for it. But I only asked of others, but I neglected what I should do. ”

"If you realize, then fix it."

"yes." Poggi nodded fiercely, "It has to be corrected, it has to be corrected!" ”

Being able to balance career and family is definitely not something that only women have to work on. The husband, the husband's place in it is also important. His godmother was able to take care of family and career, and to a large extent, Uncle Ye was indispensable. If there is no Uncle Ye's share, even if his godmother has three heads and six arms, it will be difficult to balance family and career, right?

Therefore, the family needs to be managed.

Husbands and wives alike!

"You see, this time of my pregnancy. Didn't your Uncle Ye let me worry too much about the Qin family's affairs. These things have been taken over by him. Of course, Jingjing also helped me share a lot. Smiling, Gu Lingse said very sweetly, "That's why I've been so leisurely lately!" ”

"Alas......!" Poji sighed sadly, "I really can't compare to Uncle Ye anywhere!" ”

"How old are you, when your Uncle Ye is your age, he may not be as good as you."

"Godmother, don't say good words to comfort me. I know that I will never be able to compare to my Uncle Ye. ”

"It doesn't matter if it's better than that, just chase it slowly and don't stop. What do you think? ”

"I can't wait for forty-eight hours a day now, let me catch up with Uncle Ye."

Gu Lingse blinked with some concern, "Poji, hard work is very important, but you can't pull out the seedlings to help you grow, do you understand?" ”

"Godmother, you take this to Tang Lin. Once that kid works hard, he is definitely the type to die. I? "I know how to combine work and rest." You see, I'm not just going to give myself a day off today. ”

"Well, yes, you're the smartest." Gu Lingse smiled dotingly, and parked the car handsomely in the small square. She unbuckled her seat belt and said, "Poji, you bring breakfast to Uncle Ye first." ”

"Where are you going?"

"Today is the day of the pregnancy test, I'll go to the obstetrics and gynecology department first, and I'll be over later."

"Then I'll accompany you, right?" After all, his godmother is also a pregnant woman now. Isn't it a bit too pitiful for a pregnant woman to go for a pregnancy test alone?

Gu Lingse smiled and pouted, "What to accompany." It's all in the same hospital, and you still need to accompany it? ”

Besides, in this hospital, I don't know her, and I don't know that she is the young lady of the family, so I guess there is really none! What is there to accompany? And what is there to worry about?

"Okay, hurry up and bring breakfast to Uncle Ye. It's already late today, if you delay it for a while, I'm afraid that your Uncle Ye will starve to death. ”

Poggy was not hypocritical, nodded, took the insulated lunch box and went to the inpatient department of the Gaogan ward.

Gu Lingse pedaled on more than ten centimeters of high heels and went to the obstetrics and gynecology department to prepare for a pregnancy test.

Pregnancy tests three times a week are a waste of social resources.

Anyone who has given birth knows that a pregnancy test can be done once every two weeks. If you are an elderly woman, you will have to take a pregnancy test at most once a week. But Ye Chengshu was okay and arranged pregnancy tests for her three times a week.

I don't know why.

It's not that the pregnancy test is done diligently, and you can save a little pain when you give birth. There is no relationship between the two, okay!

But what can be done? Ye Chengshu was extremely nervous about her pregnancy this time. The whole person looks a little nervous. If it weren't for the director's persuasion of Ye Chengshu, she would have come to the hospital every day for a pregnancy test!