Chapter 380
Reality is reality, reality is not a TV series.
People's emotions in reality are far more complex than those in TV dramas.
The theme of the TV series is based on reality, but it beautifies human emotions in reality, that is, this beautification describes people's inner activities, emotional thoughts and emotional hearts too simple and pale!
For example, in TV dramas, those children may go through one or two special events, or get along for a long time, and they will naturally be able to cultivate feelings, but in reality it will not be so simple.
In real life, if you are not his parents, you are not his parents, even if he really calls you dad and mom, there will always be a kind of estrangement with you in his heart.
It only depends on whether this estrangement is manifested.
Mo Ming has seen several girls before, all of them are this kind of reorganized family, the mother died, and then the father found a stepmother, the stepmother is very good to the child, but this does not eliminate the estrangement between the two sides.
Girls will most of them be silent in front of their stepmothers, not saying much, and not smiling much, but they will not show any indifference or alienation, which makes you feel like ...... I know you, but only to know you, and I won't get close to you.
Moreover, because of the existence of such a stepmother who is not related by blood, the relationship between this girl and this family will most likely become very awkward, she will feel alienated and abandoned, and she will gradually stay away from this family.
As for the stepmother, she is bent on helping the girl Zhang Luo get married, and wants to marry this girl.
Because he also found it awkward to be with a strange daughter.
He originally came to this family because of the girl's father, and now he has become embarrassed because of the girl's existence, and she is naturally uncomfortable.
This is the reality, and the reality will not be so rosy.
After all, TV dramas are just a form of artistic expression, which is based on reality and beautifies reality.
The reconstituted family in reality is actually far more embarrassing than the reconstituted family in these TVs!
The most typical example is the relationship between Yan Tingcheng and Mo Ming's father.
In fact, logically speaking, Mo Ming's father is now Yan Chengcheng's stepfather, and the family has been reorganized for more than ten years, but Yan Tingcheng does not have much emotion for Mo Ming's father.
In fact, it can be seen that Yan Tingcheng has some father-daughter affection for Mo Ming's father, and with Yan Tingcheng's cold temperament, if she really has a bad relationship with anyone, she doesn't bother to deal with the other party at all.
So from this point of view, Yan Tingcheng actually recognizes Mo Ming's father, and Yan Tingcheng does not object to Mo Ming's father treating her as a daughter.
But...... If you really want to count it, Yan Tingcheng and Mo Ming's father are not as strong as the normal father-daughter relationship.
This shows how deep this estrangement between reconstituted families is.
Even if their family has been going through it for more than ten years, it is only this point.
And this also includes many factors such as Mo Ming's father's nature is good to talk and easy to socialize, think about it, what kind of bird will he become if he is replaced by another old-fashioned man?
This kind of estrangement is really deep in the flesh and blood.
Mo Ming's situation is more special, in fact, according to Mo Ming's situation, you shouldn't worry too much about the bloodline.
Mo Ming was brought to the Yan family by his father since he was a child, it can be said that since he has a memory, his mother is Yan Ningxue, and his sister is Yan Chengcheng, he has no special memory of his biological mother, and he doesn't know how many wives his father has.
And Yan Ningxue is very good to Mo Ming and spoils him in every way, so if there is no accident, Mo Ming is actually more like Yan Ningxue's biological son, and the bloodline problem will not become a barrier in his heart at all.
But!
Note that it's "but"!
Where is "Mo Ming" located?
It's the Yan family!
What is the Yan family?
The Yan family is a family composed of people with the surname Yan!
And what are you?
Your surname is Mo, from the moment you entered the Yan family, you were destined to be an outlier in this family!
You are not a member of other people's families in the first place, can people not reject you? In addition, Yan Buping, the head of the Yan family, is taking the lead in finding trouble, do you say that you can live in the Yan family as a child with a foreign surname?
People don't even need to do anything, just pick on you inside and outside the words, it's enough for you to stand it!
Why is it that Yan Ningxue's child is also Yan Tingcheng's surname Yan and not Mo?
Why do so many people in the Yan family reject him?
There are some things, it's okay if he doesn't mention them, once he brings them up......
Later, "Mo Ming" also realized that he might not be Yan Ningxue's son.
This is really terrible for a teenager, his mother who has always loved him is not his own biological mother, what is the difference between you and saying that the world he lives in is a virtual world?
Mo Ming is a child raised by Yan Ningxue, maybe in Yan Ningxue's eyes, the bloodline problem is not a problem at all, she can not care, but "Mo Ming" can't ignore this kind of problem.
Although he still calls Yan Ningxue's mother, the estrangement in his heart has arisen, and there has been a crack in the mother-son relationship between him and Yan Ningxue.
With this reason, it is even more unlikely that "Mo Ming" is willing to tell Yan Ningxue about his affairs.
Yan Chengcheng is the same.
Originally, "Mo Ming" was quite afraid of Yan Tingcheng, but after learning that he was not Yan Ningxue's son, and Yan Tingcheng was not his own sister, the estrangement between him and Yan Tingcheng was even more obvious, and the already unfriendly sister and brother were even more strange and estranged.
This rift lies between "Mo Ming" and Yan Ningxue and Yan Chengcheng, how could he tell them what he had experienced?
As for saying that "Mo Ming" dare not say it, that is not nonsense.
"Mo Ming" is very depressed in the Yan family, the whole family is rejecting him and looking down on him, this kind of inner pressure, let alone a teenager, even if he is an adult in his twenties and thirties, he can't bear it.
One can imagine how depressed "Mo Ming" is in his heart.
This is the Yan family, he doesn't know how to deal with these people from the Yan family, he is afraid that if he tells Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng, they will look down on him.
That's how the logic of the little ones is.
At the same time, he was also worried that even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, it would be impossible to protect him for the rest of his life, and these little gangsters of the Yan family could find an opportunity to bully him at any time.
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