Wu Mizhe hugged her tightly, and then said: "This matter is not in a hurry, you see, Leng Zhi and them are because of the special situation, they used to be cold and took care of the children, so it is inevitable that the children will be more sensible, but Shanshan is different, you also know that Shanshan has experienced such things, I and my parents are actually more willing to spoil Shanshan, Shanshan is also very sensible, nothing bad happened, so don't worry about these things in a hurry, okay, educate children, I'll be with you. "Sansa must have done something to make you think like this today

Jiang Yu nodded, but the sorrow in his eyes still did not dissipate, he still looked sad, and then said: "Ah Zhe, I know the intentions of you and your parents, you also really love Shanshan, I am very grateful, but now I feel that I can't go on like this, children have no self-control, and they are also curious about many things, so it is inevitable that they will accidentally go crooked, and it will be difficult to pull it back if they go crooked, now is the most critical period for Shanshan's growth and qualitativeness, if you don't teach her well, I'm afraid it will be too late." ”

Wu Mizhe understood Jiang Yu's meaning at this time, and guessed at once, probably what happened to Shanshan today when they didn't notice, and then Jiang Yu saw it, so Jiang Yu thought of these things, otherwise, according to Jiang Yu's character, how could it be possible to bring up such a topic when everyone was happy to go out to play together?

In fact, Jiang Yu now began to worry about Shanshan's education is known before, Wu Mizhe knows that she has been blaming herself for not protecting Shanshan last time, fortunately, now Shanshan is recovering well, Jiang Yu is slowly relieved, but recently Jiang Yu has indeed begun to be anxious, because Wu Mizhe himself can feel Jiang Yu's abnormality, he has also comforted Jiang Yu, and also communicated with his parents hoping not to spoil Shanshan too much, but after all, the old man and the child are separated by a generation, and the child will naturally be more spoiled.

But in comparison, Wu Shu and Lin Dan also began to play a role in Shanshan not to meet her requirements but to supervise her relatively, but to be honest, although such an effect is also there, it is not obvious, Jiang Yu is also using different methods to make Shanshan listen to what he hears from others, but Shanshan doesn't know why, there will always be no change, which also makes Jiang Yu have a headache.

Wu Mizhe also knows that because of Jiang Rui, Jiang Yu will be more careful about Shanshan's education, for fear that she will become like Jiang Rui, it can be said that even if it is Jiang Yu's own Hazi, maybe Jiang Yu will not be as attentive to Shanshan as he is, just because he loves her too much, no matter what, Shanshan always bleeds the same blood as Jiang Yu, and Jiang Yu has already regarded her as his own daughter, so he is even more afraid that he will become a bad person because of Jiang Rui's influence.

Wu Mizhe directly picked up Jiang Yu upstairs and entered the master bedroom, because there are some things that are more appropriate to talk about in a more private space.

Wu Mizhe put Jiang Yu on the bed, lay down and hugged her, and then said: "Xiaoyu, there is something you can tell me, you also said that I am your most trusted person, but what do you have to tell me, I know, Shanshan must have done something to make you have such an idea today, and there is something we can face and solve together." ”

Jiang Yu knew that he could see her thoughts, thought about it, and then said slowly: "She may have been affected or stimulated by that incident, at first she would hit the plush doll prepared for her by her parents in her room very hard, at that time I also saw it suddenly, I thought I was wrong, I didn't take it seriously, and then I saw it again, I felt that something was wrong, the child would not be like this before, I was thinking that it might be because of the influence of that incident that she became like this." , that's why I went to see a psychiatrist......"

"When was that? How did I not know? Wu Mizhe asked with a frown.

"It's not long after she recovered, and it's time to move into the old house, I'm sorry I didn't tell you, but I think it's not very serious, and it's ...... And this kind of thing makes my parents know that I always feel very sorry for their hearts, I think after talking to the psychiatrist, the psychiatrist will guide Shanshan correctly, but it doesn't seem to have any obvious effect, but she has changed a lot later, I think she will slowly get better......"

"Well, I remember the last time I went to a psychiatrist, I specifically told us that we must actively guide her to develop in a good direction, saying that the child's emotions and hearts are still unstable, so we must guide her well, the child is still young, and there is still a chance to change, right?" Wu Mizhe recalled what the doctor said that day, and recounted it secretly.

"Well...... In fact, after seeing it that day, I called the psychiatrist, and the doctor said that the child's behavior may be in the extreme situation of those days, and there are many emotions in the heart that dare not vent out and can only be held, and then she will have a time when she is eager to vent her emotions, but at that time she may have been pressed down again because she saw that you were injured and her mother was gone, which aggravated her stimulation. ”

"That's why she chose to vent in a way that mimicked the people she saw during that time, so that at first she just started working on inanimate things, and after doing it, she had the pleasure of venting her emotions, and in the end, it would lead to the child possibly having violent tendencies." Jiang Yu said sadly.

"So did the psychiatrist mention to you how she would guide the child to customer service such psychological emotions and then treat the child?" Wu Mizhe asked.

"The doctor said that she would play games together in a hypnotic way, plus a child's storytelling guidance and so on, in fact, I looked at the child a lot better during that time, at least I didn't see her do all kinds of violent acts on those stuffed animals, and she wouldn't smash things. I thought that would be fine. Jiang Yu's eyes turned red when she said this, and then after thinking about it, she continued: "Ah Zhe, do you think I'm a very irresponsible mother......

Only then did Wu Mizhe know the truth, hugged her distressedly, and said, "No, you are the best mother, believe me......"