Chapter 990: Plan (Part 2)
Ning Lengzhi touched his son's face and said with a smile: "Yes, Xiao Rui is really smart. ”
"Then Mommy, I'll listen to it." Xiao Bai Rui looked at Ning Lengzhi with a serious face and said.
"Well, Mommy asks first, have you ever seen an aunt at Grandpa's house, a very beautiful aunt who can also play the piano." Ning Lengzhi thought about it, and decided to confirm this point first.
Xiao Bairui thought for a while, then nodded and said: "Well, I see, grandpa said that the aunt is called Aunt Shiyin, grandpa also said that the aunt is very good, she is a friend of Daddy, and said that the aunt can teach me to play the piano and the violin, but I don't like her, I think she looks at me strangely, and I haven't seen her again......"
"En," Ning Lengzhi carefully considered the wording before continuing: "Today, Daddy has found out who the person outside our house was yesterday, it is the Aunt Shiyin you saw at Grandpa's house. ”
"Huh? But Grandpa said she was Daddy's friend, so why did Daddy's friend do this? Xiao Bai Rui asked puzzled. Aren't friends supposed to help each other and have fun together, just like him and Shanshan, Mommy and Aunt Jiang Yu, and Aunt Li Man? Friends are very close to each other, so why don't Daddy's friends come to the house directly, but they have to peek outside and run away when they are discovered? ”
Ning Lengzhi thought about it, in order to avoid causing misunderstandings and misunderstandings of people and worldview to children, so Ning Lengzhi made it clear what he wanted to say before he spoke: "Well, how to say it, the relationship between people in this world is very complicated, because you are still young, so you have very little understanding of these aspects, and you are still very simple, so you don't understand what the relationship between adults is." ”
"First of all, grandpa said that Aunt Shiyin is Daddy's friend, right?" Ning Lengzhi asked.
Little Bai Rui nodded.
Ning Lengzhi asked again: "Then have you ever seen Daddy with that Aunt Shiyin?" Daddy didn't bring it to the house to play, or didn't take us to meet Aunt Shiyin, right? Think about it, how Daddy treats his friends. ”
Xiao Bairui thought about it seriously, and said at the party: "Daddy will invite Uncle Gu and Aunt Li Man to come to the house as guests, will take us to Uncle Wu and Aunt Jiang Yu's house as guests, and play with Shanshan and Grandpa Wu and Grandma Wu, Daddy will take us to Aunt Chen Rong to play with Aunt Chen, and will also invite Uncle He to play at home...... But...... I haven't seen my dad take us to meet Aunt Shiyin......"
After a pause, Xiao Bairui seemed to suddenly think of something, and said: "Also, Aunt Shiyin will only go to Grandpa's house, and she will leave when Daddy is going to pick me up, I haven't seen Daddy and Aunt Shiyin together, one day Daddy came to pick me up, I saw that Aunt hiding at the door but not greeting me in discord, shouldn't friends see someone to say hello......"
"yes, you see, other Daddy's best friends are very close to us, right? But that Aunt Shiyin has never been with Daddy, nor has she met our family, and Aunt Shiyin is actually not a friend of Daddy, because ...... How so...... You should also know Daddy's personality very well, Daddy is a very smart person, of course he won't make friends with anyone. ”
Ning Lengzhi paused for a moment, and then said: "Shiyin's Aunt Shiyin is not Daddy's friend, of course, for many reasons, Daddy didn't become friends with her, but Grandpa may also have his own reasons, so he will say that she is Daddy's friend, but you have to know that as long as Daddy doesn't say that person is his friend, then he is not Daddy's friend, because Daddy is very demanding of his friend." ”
"Because there will be a lot of interests and emotional entanglements between adults, it will make the relationship between each other very complicated, so first of all, we can be sure that Aunt Shiyin is actually not a friend of Daddy, and secondly, this aunt is the one who peeked outside our house yesterday."
"Mommy, why is she peeking at our house? Does she want anything? Xiao Bai Rui looked up and asked.
Ning Lengzhi also thought about it carefully, and then chose a compromise method and said: "Mommy doesn't know what her purpose is, or what she wants to get, but one thing Daddy and Mommy can be sure of is that she must have come to our family with bad intentions, so we hope that you must pay attention to your own safety in the future, I think Daddy has told you all about it, so Mommy won't say much, but remember, be vigilant, understand?" ”
In fact, Ning Lengzhi probably guessed why Miss Shiyin would do this, and did not hesitate to collude with that kind of bad person with her innocent reputation, maybe too paranoid and blind love will become like this, although she doesn't understand, but she has to admire how deep her love for Ji Mochen is, and it is worth sacrificing herself like this.
But Ning Lengzhi knows that he knows, maybe Ji Mochen also understands, but it doesn't mean that they can say this to their children, because after all, they haven't caught anyone, and saying it so bluntly will make the child feel that his parents are looking at people from a subjective standpoint, and they are speculating about a person's character without any actual evidence.
In this way, the child will also be preconceived in the future, first stand on his own subjective position to look at people, no matter what he will use his own thoughts to speculate about others, which will make him offend many people, hurt many people, and miss a lot of excellent people who can intersect. Therefore, Ning Lengzhi still chose to stand on an objective standpoint, and the matter of high-speed children.
Xiao Bai Rui listened, thought about it and nodded and said, "Well, I know, I'll pay attention, Mommy." ”
Seeing her son so well-behaved and so smart, it must be easy to understand what she and his father mean, and he will definitely know how to turn what they say into practice to protect himself, she believes.
"Well, Mommy believes that Xiao Rui can do it." Ning Lengzhi smiled and patted Xiao Bai Rui's shoulder and said, "Okay, let's go upstairs and play by ourselves, wait a minute, remember to come down and help Mommy prepare dinner, let's prepare dinner together and wait for Daddy to come home, okay?" ”
"Well, then it's time for Mommy to call me, and Mommy, I want to eat potato beef stew tonight." Xiao Bai Rui said with a smile, holding Ning Lengzhi's arm and being coquettish, her delicate and tender appearance was particularly painful.
Ning Lengzhi couldn't bear to kiss his son's forehead and said, "Okay." ”