Shanshan took a deep breath, then looked at Jiang Yu and said slowly: "Mom, I'm sorry, Shanshan lied to you that day, the hairpin that grandma gave Shanshan was not lost because I didn't believe it, it was thrown away by me......"

Jiang Yu and Wu Mizhe didn't show any scolding or disgust, Jiang Yu still listened carefully, and then asked, "Then why did you throw it away?" You also said that this is grandma's heart, how can you be willing to throw away grandma's heart? Is it that you don't like this hairpin? ”

Sansa shook her head, her eyes were already red, and then she said, "It's because ...... It's because I saw another little girl wearing the same hairpin on her head, I don't think this hairpin is owned by me alone, other people can have it, even if it was given to me by my grandmother, I don't like it, I want a hairpin that only I can have, so I feel very angry, so I threw the hairpin away, I'm sorry Mom, I shouldn't have thrown the hairpin away and lied to you......" Speaking of this, Shanshan's eyes were already full of tears, and in the blink of her eyes, tears flowed out.

Jiang Yu looked at Shanshan's struggle and guilt yesterday morning, he saw that the child he had loved for so long was so sad and struggling, and his heart was also sad, and his eyes were red, Jiang Yu turned sideways to wipe away the tears that were about to fall, and then turned to look at Shanshan.

Wu Mizhe saw that the mother and daughter were like this, and he felt very sorry for the child in his heart, but as a father, in order to make the child a better person in the future, no matter how much he felt sorry for the child, the principle and bottom line of the reservation should be well retained and adhered to.

Wu Mizhe is not like before, as soon as he saw Shanshan crying, he hugged her in his arms and coaxed her until he knew to coax her to be obedient, Wu Mizhe took out a tissue and handed it to Shanshan today, and asked her to wipe her tears by herself, he has always been a very warm and caring father, and he showed such a serious expression for the first time, so that Shanshan didn't dare to cry anymore, so he looked at Wu Mizhe blankly.

Wu Mizhe saw Shanshan looking at him, so he said slowly: "Do you know that you did something wrong in this matter?" ”

"Yes." Sansa nodded.

"Tell me, then, what did you do wrong?" Wu Mizhe asked.

Shanshan thought for a while, and then said: "I shouldn't have thrown away the hairpin that my grandmother gave me, this is to live up to my grandmother's heart, it will make my grandmother very sad, and it will also make my father and mother very sad, and I shouldn't lie to my mother when my mother asks me after the hairpin is thrown away, so that my mother is sad......"

Wu Mizhe wrapped up Jiang Yu with a calm face and put it on the table with a hairpin that was still stained with mud for several days, and carefully observed Shanshan's expression, Shanshan really changed her expression after seeing this hairpin, and she didn't dare to look at Jiang Yu or Wu Mizhe's eyes anymore, but kept dodging Jiang Yu and Wu Mizhe's gaze.

Wu Mizhe watched Shanshan's expression change, and said after a while: "You recognize that your mistakes are very correct, and you can have the courage to bear your mistakes, you are great, but it doesn't mean that your mistakes can be completely eliminated, you are not right about what you are wrong about." ”

Wu Mizhe kept looking at Shanshan and continued: "What you said about grandma's mind and lying to your mother, these two things are bad things, which will hurt the hearts of your mother and grandma who love you, but there is one most important mistake, you don't realize it, that is, you are more selfish in your heart, and you are also jealous that other children have the same card as you, which is the root cause of your mistakes." ”

"Look at this hairpin, I think you know it's the hairpin you threw away." Wu Mizhe pushed the hairpin over to Shanshan, let her look at it herself, and then continued: "Actually, when you buried the hairpin in the flower pot that day, my mother had already seen it, but my mother didn't know why you did it, but you lied when your mother asked you, which made my mother very sad, sad that grandma's mind was ruined by you like this, and I was sad that the child I loved very much deceived herself and lied to herself, but my mother was actually the saddest thing, It's that you don't even remember what your parents and grandparents usually teach you, you are jealous of others, you are very selfish, so you use such an extreme way to deal with your feelings. ”

"Indeed, people in this world are selfish and will think about themselves, and there will be people in this world who envy people who are better than themselves, but Shanshan, what Dad wants to tell you is that when a person is selfish to a certain extent, he will become a narrow-minded person who can't tolerate others, and no one wants to associate with such a person in the end, so he will only be immersed in his own world, and there is no way to get out of it, and he can't fit into this world."

And when a person envies other people's envy to a certain extent, he will become jealous, and jealousy will evolve into hatred, then such negative emotions will evolve into a kind of devil, this devil will keep tearing your heart, so that your actions and thoughts will become a person who can't be seen as better than yourself, such a person, and finally become a devil, there are many people in this world who are better than you, not that you can deal with it once or twice, then you have no way to throw away things, so what are you going to do? Kill them? ”

"Selfish people can take into account the feelings of others and be considerate of others, such people are often more able to face a lot of things, and a person who envies others, strives to turn himself into a better person who can catch up with others, and finally becomes the person who is envied by everyone, which is the reason why a person can succeed even if he has negative emotions."

"So Shanshan, Mom has always loved you, and Grandparents have always loved you, but is it right that you repay their love with such an act?"

Shanshan thought about it, tears had already flowed out, she shook her head, and then said: "Mom and Dad, I'm sorry, I will definitely take care of myself in the future, and I won't make you sad again......"

Jiang Yu finally didn't hold back her tears at this time, and burst out of her eyes, Jiang Yu held Shanshan in her arms, and then said: "As long as you can change, you will still be a good child, your mother has always loved you, you must tell your parents if you are in any mood in the future, understand?" Mom and Dad will definitely help you. ”

Sansa nodded, still in tears, and said, "Yes." ”