Author: Zhang Zhongmou

In a society that pays attention to packaging, we often can't help but envy the glamorous appearance of others, and linger on our own shortcomings.

As far as I have observed over the years, no one of my lives is complete, and every one of them is missing something in their lives.

Some people have a loving husband and wife and earn hundreds of thousands of yuan a month, but they encounter infertility in a strict manner; some people seem to have a good life, can and have a lot of money, but the road to love is bumpy and difficult; some people have a lot of money, but their children and grandchildren are not filial; some people seem to have a good life, but they have an empty head and no skills in their lives.

Everyone's life has been marked by a gap in the heavens, and you don't want it, but it follows you like a shadow.

I used to hate the lack of my life, but now I can accept it with ease and live my life freely.

Because I recognize the gaps in our lives, like a thorn in our backs, a constant reminder of our humility and compassion for others.

If there is no suffering, we will be proud, there will be no vicissitudes, and we will not comfort the unfortunate with empathy.

I also believe that life should not be too fulfilling, there is a gap for the blessings to flow to other people is a beautiful thing, you don't need to have everything, if you have everything, how can you care about what other people eat?

I also realized that every life has flaws, so I will no longer make unnecessary comparisons with others, but will cherish what I have more.

I still remember my aunt, an entrepreneur who can be called a Taiwanese Ashin, told me before she escaped into the empty door when she was nearly seventy years old: I don't know how many dignitaries and dignitaries I have befriended in my life, and their noble and beautiful appearance is really enviable, but when I dig into it, everyone has a difficult scripture in their hearts, and even miserable.

Therefore, there is no need to envy others, just cherish the grace that God has given you, you will find that what you have is definitely much more than what you don't have, and the missing part, although not lovely, is also a part of your life, accept it and treat it well, your life will definitely be much happier and more open-minded.

If you are a mussel, would you rather suffer a lifetime of pain and condense a pearl, or would you rather live comfortably without pearls?

If you're a rat and you think you've been put in a rat trap and there's a fragrant cake in front of you, do you eat it or not?

In the early days, the puff was made of ceramic magnets, and once it was full of coins, it would be crushed, and if there was such a puff, no coins were put in, and it was all tiled to this day, it became a valuable antique, then what kind of puff would you like to do?

Write down your answer every time you think of a question, until one day your answer is fixed and doesn't change, and that's when you're mature.

In life, we sometimes choose to play dumb, whether it is facing life, love, or even self.

The simple feeling of being cared for by loved ones in life is sweet.

A retired professor and his wife live a life of good travel, climbing up a hill together in the morning to stretch their muscles, in the afternoon he cooks the flowers and plants on the balcony or reads a magazine, and his wife chats with friends in the café. Their only daughter, settled in the United States.

One night a month ago, in the haze, he felt that the mattress was wet, and it was his wife wetting the bed. He nudged her, feeling that she was no longer responding.

Condolences change. Many relatives and friends said.

Thanks for the concern, I will.

He replied very politely, without losing his bearings, with the demeanor of a scholar. Secretly, he deployed a qiē. Flowers and plants were given to neighbors, books borrowed from others were mailed and returned, and then they went to the law office, and everything was ready.

On a full moon night, when silver light filled the room, he lit up the yellowish table lamp and wrote his last words. In front of him, there was a bottle of pills.

Just as he was opening the cap, the phone rang suddenly. He picked up the phone, and a gentle and familiar voice came: Dad, I'm at the airport, I really want to accompany you. He suddenly woke up. After the old professor told me this story, he took a sip of fragrant tea, and said slowly: In fact, the most effective way to prevent suicide is not a profound academic cultivation, not a famous psychiatrist, not a rich and proud wealth, but just a sweet feeling that is simply cared for.

Because it is worth it, please pass it on to your friends one more time: 1. There are many reports of this social pathology, but there are few encouraging people's hearts. 2. We are actually part of the rich wealth of others, and it is worth saving more. So I forwarded it.

Note: Wikipedia, a free encyclopedia that everyone can edit: "Zhang Zhongmou was born on July 1, 1931, a Taiwanese entrepreneur, born in Yinxian County, Zhejiang Province (now Ningbo, Zhejiang), with a bachelor's and master's degree in mechanical engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, a doctorate in electrical engineering from Stanford University, the founder of TSMC, and the godfather of Taiwan's semiconductors.

Zhang Zhongmou was born in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province in 1931, his father Zhang Weiguan was the chief financial officer of the Yinxian County Government, moved to Nanjing in 1932, and moved to Guangzhou in 1937.

In 1941, the Pacific War broke out, and the Japanese occupied Hong Kong. In 1943, he moved to Chongqing and entered Nankai Middle School. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War in 1945, he moved to Shanghai and entered Shanghai Nanyang Model High School.

In 1948, he went to Hong Kong with his family, went to Boston in 1949 to study at Harvard University, and transferred to the Department of Mechanical Engineering of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology the following year.

He received his bachelor's and master's degrees in mechanical engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1952 and married his first wife in the same year.

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