Lu Zedao: "The manly man is full of his word, and Ze'er promised to take care of Fang'er's sister all the time, and she won't forget it." ”

He is like this, but his expression is still confused, and it is a little like a god who is not keeping up.

With such a look, it is no wonder that Ye Chenglin was not relieved and wanted to ask.

If Lu Ze is really unwilling, then Ye Chenglin and Yu Chengzhu will not force him, although they look at the two without guessing, they also have the intention of Yucheng, but in the end, it is also wishful thinking that is destined to be fate, when parents can promote and assist, but they can't force children to submit.

But Ye Chenglin's approach seems to backfire, what he means is that if he doesn't want to, then come out early, everyone will have a bottom in their hearts, and they won't put pressure on Lu Ze.

But when he asked, Lu Ze seemed to answer according to his heart, and when he came out, everyone present loved to listen to it, but when he looked at it, he felt uneasy.

Ye Chenglin wanted to ask again, but when the words came to his mouth, he still swallowed it, such a big child already has self-esteem, and this matter is a matter of privacy, so after taking care of things, go back and find a time, and then take Lu Xue to the place where he is not spared, and ask carefully, if he really doesn't want to, then come out, Ye Chenglin will also help him.

Ye Chenglin felt happy, if Lu Xue really had such thoughts, then it would be clear that when he grew up, the troubles he encountered would inevitably be encountered when he grew up, after all, the adult world and the children's world are different in the end.

The change in his thinking shows that he is growing up with all his heart.

Just seeing Lu Ze's growth, Ye Chenglin couldn't help but think of the iron mirror heart who had pursued his beloved wife Yu Chengzhu with him before.

Whether it is Yu Chengzhu, her good sister Ling Yunfeng, or her junior brother Zhang Yuhu, including her mentor Zhang Danfeng, they all have a lot of complaints about Tie Jingxin.

Tie Jingxin is equivalent to not integrating into Yu Chengzhu's world, not entering her life circle, and people who are close to her, if they come out, they will make her think, it is an important reference, and several people who have influence on her are not Tie Jingxin.

So no matter how infatuated Tie Jingxin is, isn't it still a dead end?

And the most unlikable thing about Tie Jingxin is that he thinks he is great too much and is too proud, which is the habit of a gentleman who grew up in a superior environment and has rarely experienced wind and waves, which makes people feel like a pampered son.

But after careful investigation, it is not difficult to find that the reason why he loves to show himself so much, loves to highlight himself so much, and appears so proud is because in his heart, he closely links right and wrong, good and bad, and whether things are done beautifully and whether he will be loved and respected.

In this way, it is inevitable that there will be some gaps, that is, it seems to highlight yourself, but in fact, your self-esteem is not strong, and it is easy to be impacted.

And the reason why he has this mentality is because he is actually a child, and he is growing up at that time, and his all-round growth has reached the point of maturity, and it is inevitable that there will be severe trials and tests.

Maybe this is also the level that he has to deal with as he grows up, and these levels are presented in the form of problems.

The reason why Ye Chenglin thought of Tie Jingxin was because he found that when he couldn't let Lu Xue take his own idea, he completely followed his wishes.

When people grow up, they should have their own ideas, be assertive, don't spare opinions for reference, but they can't rely on them completely, but they need to maintain good interaction and intimate contact with others, which is the lesson of growth.

And to cultivate Lu Ze's independence, then let him know that no matter what he does or not, as long as it is not harmful, he will be supported, and love will always be there.

This is the best separation, separating Lu Xue from the world of children, and making him gradually become a man on the top of the ground; At the same time, it also separated him from the state of being in the crowd and drifting with the crowd, and split him into an independent, assertive, and humane self.

Ye Chenglin has experienced a journey of growth, so he knows how to cut off.

Split with love.

It's like breaking away from the mother and cutting the umbilical cord.

Growing up is the second time to break away from the mother, to leave the familiar comfortable environment, to complete the leap, you need to be separated.

And to be cut is cruel, so it takes a lot of love.

Yu Chengzhu and Ye Chenglin are willing to take care of their two children, just to give them love.

But Ye Chenglin's thoughts were still unfinished, but Yu Chengzhu said: "Xue'er, if you don't want to, you can come out, this is your opinion, we won't blame you." ”

Pan Fang also seemed to understand, and added: "Fang'er also supports Brother Choice!" ”

Yu Chengzhu and Ye Chenglin laughed dumbly, this real child, she doesn't know what she is, do you know it, once Lu Xue is unwilling, she will be disappointed, it will be painful.

But the husband and wife are all of the same mind, quietly smiling and watching, and they don't break it.

Wearing, that is to advance Pan Fang's future pain to the present, to this moment, is this necessary? Isn't it too cruel?

No matter how innocent Pan Fang is, she can not understand anything, maybe in the future, she will also change?

At that time, would she be the current her?

This scene seems to be a thing, but there are many uncertainties, and it is not appropriate to describe it at the moment, and it is impossible to qualify.

In this case, the best thing to do is not to invite the future in, it will come from the future arrangement and development law, and only respect the present for now.

Silently smiling and paying attention is the best response.

Lu Ze took Pan Fang's hand, bowed his head and said, "I want to be with Fang'er all the time, but I don't know what it's like to grow up, so I'm worried." ”

"Poof", Ye Chenglin and Yu Chengzhu couldn't help but wonder, it turned out that this son was not unwilling, but he brought his thoughts about the future to the present, so he looked confused.

This is actually normal, many people have such a process of growth, and the road that should be taken will not be missing, which is really unreluctant.

Hearing Lu Ze like this, both of them were relieved, since Lu Ze's state was inevitable when he grew up, then he didn't need to go to him, just guard quietly.

Ye Chenglin gently rubbed Lu Ze's head, and at this moment, a gentle heart and deep fatherly love floated in his heart.

Yu Chengzhu said with a smile: "The child is too old to do this." ”

As soon as these words came out, she realized that her husband was a rare time to see family affection, wouldn't it be good to satisfy him? I secretly regretted it in my heart.

Lu Ze put his head in Ye Chenglin's arms and said, "I want to be an adult, but I also like to be loved." ”

His well-behaved feeling is shocking and delightful, so cute, it's like a baby falling off the top!