1314. Gave Aoi a home

After Ye Ruo came back, he went to see the children first. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info Although Ye Ruo held this barbecue party today to make up for the two children who often don't see him, but this morning has passed, Ye Ruo doesn't have to go over to accompany the two cuties. They have their friend Xiaokui to take care of, so they have long put their respectable and cute big brother aside.

This is also a normal thing. No matter how good a big brother is, he is not as important as his age's playmates, which cannot be replaced by the aura of any protagonist.

However, Ye Ruo still needs to take the initiative to care about the two cuties, at least Ye Ruo wants to take a look at the little kui, otherwise, he will not rest assured.

If you want to take care of a child, you definitely don't just put her at home and provide good food and drink. Spiritual attention is just as important, if not more important.

Although the two little cuties have been keeping their hearts on their little friends, when they see Ye Ruo coming, they will also know to hold on to Ye Ruo first and pull Ye Ruo to sit between them.

Ye Ruo smiled and asked with concern whether they were all full and satisfied.

Tao Tao and Coco both said that they were full of food, and said that it was best to let Ye Ruo hold such a barbecue party for them again next weekend, but they hadn't eaten enough.

Ye Ruo couldn't help laughing, children are children, and it is very unrealistic to want them to feel tired of eating a barbecue.

Then, Tao Tao and Coco said to Ye Ruo again, and Xiaokui was not full. Because of Xiao Kui, she definitely doesn't eat much compared to them.

Hearing the two cuties talking about Xiaokui, and hearing that she didn't eat much, Ye Ruo immediately felt a dull pain in her heart. Ye Ruo understood why she didn't eat much, probably because she was afraid that she ate too much, and if he felt that she had eaten too much, she would be hated by others. What a sensitive child!

In fact. Ye Ruo had already set his sights on Xiao Kui. This child is also very delicate, and the clothes he wears are not tattered, but there is some trendy taste, which fits very well. But. This is all the superficial work that her shrewd stepmother did to this child, used to deceive the villagers and neighbors in the same village, so that people think that she is a qualified stepmother, a virtuous and good woman. On the child's body, the parts covered by the clothes, and the places that others can't see, are covered with scars left by abuse. There are old and new scars, which obviously means, even this morning. This child was beaten by his stepmother or maybe his father. In the same way, the hits are all places that others can't see.

Seeing that Ye Ruo had come over, Xiao Kui had already lowered her head.

Here, after all, is not her home.

She didn't feel any sense of belonging here.

Her home, even if it made her so frightened, made her afraid to go home, but. She also stood against the walls of her house and did not flee. What does this mean?

It shows that that place, no matter how dangerous it is, it is home after all. It's still Ye Ruo here, such a good place, incomparable.

She is here in Ye Ruo. Even more scared, more uneasy. Although, this big brother, according to Tao Tao and Coco said to her, is fine. Even if she believes that they are all children's peach and cocoa like her. doesn't lie and deceive people, she doesn't believe this big brother very much.

If a child's parents can't trust her, who else can she trust?

Then there are few people to trust.

For Ye Ruo, this little kui seems to be more shy, unlike Taotao. When Tao Tao first saw him, she dared to ask him to borrow a million. Of course, Ye Ruo knew that Tao Tao was also a child's innocence, and he was forced to only find logic to solve the problem intuitively. Ye Ruo doesn't really think that Tao Tao is a very bold child.

Ye Ruo could only see the subtle differences between these innocent children.

For children, Ye Ruo always has a strange amount of patience. He understands that for a child like Xiaokui, if she wants to have a sense of belonging here, he can't be anxious. Ye Ruo has even been prepared to take a year to three years to make this Xiaokui truly integrate into this family.

Ye Ruo will not force this child to answer the question of whether she has eaten enough, that is difficult for a strong man, Ye Ruo is already said with a smile: "If you are not full, it doesn't matter, let Zhang Suqin, Coco's mother, cook more dishes for you that you will like, you can eat more." Now, let the big brother take you to see Aoi's room. ”

"Come on, Aoi-chan. ”

Ye Ruo beckoned Xiao Kui.

Xiao Kui didn't react, but she was pulled by the enthusiastic Tao Tao and Coco to listen to Ye Ruo's words and go to see Xiao Kui's room.

"Big brother, won't Xiaokui sleep with me and Sister Coco?" Tao Tao held Xiao Kui with one hand, and held her Taotao bear with the other hand, holding her head high, and asked Ye Ruodao for Xiao Kui.

Ye Ruo replied: "You guys, now Coco is sleeping with her mother, which is very deserved." What about you, when I'm not at home, you always sleep with your sister Xue'er, and when I go home, you will go back to Aunt Zhang to sleep. And I usually don't spend a lot of time at home, so you two usually sleep separately, how do you let me put you together? The room we have at home, and there is no shortage of beds, I can get three beds into one room and let you sleep together, but, then, for Coco, she can't sleep with her mother, it's not fair. In other words, in this world, it is difficult to have absolutely fair things. The big brother let Aoi sleep in a room by himself, not that he doesn't pay attention to Aoi. It is also important for children to sleep in their own room and have their own little world. This can cultivate a child's independence, and can give you a more comfortable world, in this world, you can have any privacy of your own, this kind of right, will not be trampled on by your big brother and me and your big sister can be trampled on at will. Also, you two don't want to be able to sleep with adults all the time. At the latest, when you go to elementary school, everyone will have to exercise and sleep alone. One by one, they can no longer rely on their mothers or big sisters to grow up. When you have time, ask your eldest sister if she has been sleeping in a room by herself since she was a child......

Tao Tao immediately said: "Big brother, I asked the big sister, so I know that the big sister sleeps alone...... However, I still want to sleep with my big sister or Aunt Zhang. I'm alone, I'm afraid of the dark. ”

Ye Ruo immediately smiled and said: "It's no problem to be afraid of the dark now, and when you grow up, you will naturally not be afraid of the dark." Let's not rush, take our time. Well, look at what I'm telling you so much that you kids don't understand, it seems that I'm really getting verbose now. Oh, this room will be Aoi's room in the future. In the future, whether it's me or your big sister, if you want to enter Xiaokui's room, you will knock on the door first. As for you entering this room, if you need to knock on the door first, you will have to ask Xiaokui yourself. Discuss your children's affairs for yourselves. ”

There's a reason why Aoi doesn't feel a sense of belonging here. Without her own room, without a place where she can be the master, how can she belong here. No matter how well Ye Ruo protects her, she is not as good as she is now, giving her a room that can close the door and make her feel at ease inside, it is much more direct and important.

Although Xiao Kui still lowered her head like that and didn't say a word, Ye Ruo believed that this child might not believe his words much now, thinking that this room belonged to hers, but this child would slowly believe it in the future. As long as he can continue to patiently take care of the child's sensitive and fragile psychology, it will not cause the child to fall into a crisis of trust in people again.

The future will certainly be full of hope. Ye Ruo believed. (To be continued.) )