Chapter 473: All mouths are golden
Chapter 473: All mouths are golden
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I took my mother to the Cancer Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences to hang up the expert number of Dr. Xu Zhengang and opened a bed such as a hospitalization order. Dad said that the doctor seemed to be trustworthy and that he felt he could do the surgery. Previously, an old expert was afraid that his hands would tremble, and another was too young and afraid of being inexperienced. This time I know what it means to be in the prime of life. Director Xu graduated from Beijing Medical University in 1982 and is a master's tutor and an authority in head and neck tumor surgery. Dad didn't know this beforehand, and he felt relieved at first glance, because the doctor's tone was firm and calm, and there was no ambiguous wording.
The level of surgery on the hospitalization list is divided into critical, urgent, routine and other four, which is a tick on the "routine", and the mother is still scared. In fact, she just wanted the doctor to tell her that it was no big deal, that she could do it or not, and so on.
Then she asked me to inform the other five sisters and wanted to hear their opinions. As a result, after a round of phone calls, my father completely lost confidence. Because each sister said that her neighbor died shortly after the operation, it sounded too scary.
Probably because I wasn't with my mother, I suddenly felt terrible to see such a big lump, and they were used to seeing it often. The eldest brother said don't move if it doesn't hurt or itch, I became angry all of a sudden, is it possible to say that such a big tumor doesn't hurt or itch!
The younger brother lives with his mother, and he said that it is okay to do it, and his mother has a wish.
The mother was just scared, because a patient who was treated with her with acupuncture four years ago had surgery as prescribed by the doctor after her son began to practice in the hospital, but only had two rounds of chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and then passed away. In fact, she still hopes to remove the physical and psychological baggage with one operation. Even my son felt it and said, "Grandma can use my 13,000 yuan for surgery, and she can sleep with anesthetic."
The younger sisters made several phone calls a day, and at first they were glad that they had found a good doctor, but later they were worried and even said that they would not be able to operate until the sisters were all in Beijing.
Director Xu told me: You can't delay it any longer, there is a great possibility of malignant transformation if you delay it any longer, and the problem of facial paralysis caused by surgery that you are worried about will soon appear if you don't continue to grow up.
I didn't dare say it yet, for fear of making them nervous. As a result, the younger siblings said that the postoperative death cases were even more terrifying, and finally I heard my father saying into the mobile phone: yes, I am also afraid that two people will come and go back alone with the urn.
The mother laughed: "Not really!" She was just worried that it would take longer if she was cut, and that it would be troublesome if she grew faster.
Mom's diet and living habits are not long, she believes that people will win the day, so frequent colds are inevitable, causing inflammation. I also love spicy and pickled food. Because of the illness, I am in a bad mood and get angry easily. Walking on the street with her, she can't get used to many things, and when someone hits her, she gets angry and thinks that others are doing it on purpose.
I said, "Even if you think someone else is doing it on purpose, you have to think it is intentional in order to knock out your illness and give you strength." If someone bumps into me, I smile at them, thinking that it's because I'm pretty that someone else is deliberately trying to see better.