Chapter 638: Patience

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It seems that a person can only take one path, it is impossible to follow everything along the way, and no one will save you if you take the wrong path. You should be responsible for every behavior you take as an adult, and don't use your parents' education in the past as an excuse for your own indulgence.

Today's advertising, the Internet, computer games, mobile phones, pop songs, television and magazines all overemphasize sexuality, distorting real-life sex and gender relationships, and presenting an unreal side. And information about sex can be seen everywhere in life, and various media have also over-glorified the beauty of sex and misled the younger generation.

So when I say that I look younger than my peers, it's because my body isn't moisturized, and a lot of people don't believe it, and in their minds, sex is a skin supplement and a special sleeping pill.

I remembered a long time ago when I was writing in a rented house in Xiangshan, when the senior who lived in a courtyard said that women are flowers that need to be moistened by rain and dew, maybe people have already seen what clues, but I just didn't understand it.

I wrote about that incident in a blog called "What Courtship?", and some netizens left a message: I see that you still don't understand.

Of course, it's not that I don't understand, it's just that it's not magical. So far, some people have read novels, blogs, and photos, and still want to ask you are married, what do you do? It seems that I should be younger than some popular post-80s writers, and I have the potential to become popular, I really don't know if this is to praise me or hurt me.

I speak in the post-90s author group, which also belongs to the extremely naïve category, I want to be real on the Internet, not to be so hypocritical as in life. However, it seems that the phrase "coarse tea and light rice to raise innocence" has been fulfilled in me, and sometimes I don't know whether I am naïve or stupid.

In fact, a woman who can maintain her figure for a long time, especially a woman who has given birth to children, is usually very tenacious and self-controlled. Because when I was unmarried, no matter how I ate, I couldn't gain weight, but after giving birth, no matter what I ate, I grew my lower abdomen first, and then my whole body grew flesh, which is the kind of situation that makes me fat even if I drink water.

Usually I lose weight when I'm writing, especially when I'm writing stories about broken love. Because sometimes you forget to eat.

In my memory, no one has ever said the words "I love you" to me explicitly, including phone calls and text messages. My husband's kind of saying N times a day is the result of my long-term training can't be counted, he is just a need for me, not love.

Many people think that in the feeling of love, they are only needed. In fact, being needed is better than getting divorced and leaving, or cheating for a long time and not being needed, right?

Three months is the limit of what I can endure and wait, and three months without hearing from me is enough to prove that I have no place in the other party's heart. I don't have the experience of being summoned and lingering, and I don't believe that there will be any true feelings between netizens who are flickering. I imagine that online dating should be to inform each other of everything, because each other wants to feel each other's existence, and as long as they can feel it, they will laugh from the bottom of their hearts.

Even if it's my own crush in the fall, it's so fun to think about. If you can find someone you like next time, you must carry out the crush to the end and never say "I love you" again.