Chapter 458: Hypocrisy

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I hurriedly said, "If it weren't for the fact that my son is more than 1.8 meters tall, how could he have carried you up and down to the ground and served you for more than a month?"

The expert's meaning is: take seven times a week to pay the medicine first, and then go to the cancer hospital to see, as long as the doctor says it can be done, it is best to do it. Then continue to take his medicine to consolidate.

Mom herself felt that she didn't need to take medicine after surgery. It's really strange that she can lose as much as she loses playing mahjong, and she is reluctant to cure her illness.

I told her that if you want to consolidate the effect of the surgery, you have to take medicine, and if you don't change your eating habits, it will be longer. She also said that the old people who don't eat those things are either dead or demented, and eating tempeh to prevent Alzheimer's disease has been confirmed by doctors. The doctor she said was the president of their Class of '63 alumni association, and she also called on everyone to eat more tempeh at the alumni reunion.

Mom still loves to lift the bar, always thinking about things in the bad way, and often thinking of sad things. Some of them had passed away for years, and she remembered every word she said during the fight, and she retold it exactly how well. When my sister was young, she used to quarrel with others over us. We are older, and because I am always hurt, my brother is always hurting, and we are in a hurry. I often say that thinking more about the good of others and thinking more about happy things is the secret of beauty. Others may listen, but Mom can't.

When I went out with her, I met a neighbor who greeted me, and I said, "Yo, I look so young in this body, I can't even recognize it!"

My mother asked me what this person does, how old he is, and what unit he lives in? I don't know anything, she was very strange:

- "Then how do you say you look young?"

- "To make others happy!"

- "Why do you want to make others happy?!"

- "When others are happy, they don't speak ill of me, they don't curse me." Then I won't be able to get angry and get sick easily. ”

"It's your business when people are happy," said her mother, "and young people nowadays are taught by mothers like you, who have a very sweet mouth and a very bad heart. ”

My mother was right, my rapport with the people around me was hypocritical, and if there was something really going on, I had to pay someone to ask for help, and no neighbor or friend would take the initiative to help. I even think that saying hello to stop people from pulling home is often delaying other people's time and should be compensated, so I never take the initiative to say hello and delay other people's time. It sounded like my mom thought I was very close to my neighbors.

The old expert of traditional Chinese medicine said to my mother: "Don't be angry anymore!" I explained to her that "putting gas" is "tantrums", she thinks it is "sulking", she said, "My temper is good enough!", she doesn't think that her words and deeds are tantrums, and she also thinks that my hypocritical words and deeds that suffer losses and never conflict with others are cowardly expressions.

But I always feel that false friendships are better than bad words, and it is not the volume of quarrels that can make people tough, but the renminbi in their pockets.