Chapter 554: Emotional Intelligence (3)

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After reflection, I found that my emotional intelligence was really too low. I'm with others just because I don't dare to offend people. I knew from the beginning that others would not have the patience to walk away, and I didn't need to express my disgust or anything, who would lose an entire forest for a tree?

Before the age of 40, I had never told anyone what I wanted, in fact, I didn't dare to have any wishes at all. If you have to say that you have any wishes, before marriage, you hope that your mother will not cry poor, and after marriage, you hope that your husband and mother will not cry poor.

It should be said that I really can't bear it to write a blog to complain, but many people will give my husband a trick: beat me hard, don't be afraid that she won't shut up!

Mother-in-law is the wisest to speak, has never offended anyone, and my friends say that having such a wise mother-in-law is a great blessing in life. She told the story of someone in the village: the woman was very capable, and she was afraid of her husband because he would beat her.

The husband said that in his memory, the woman was beautiful. (I thought to myself: Where can a place that is not even basic water be beautiful?)

When my mother heard the foul language that I was getting divorced after being beaten, she wanted to beat me again. The next day, I was eating and drinking, and it was all right, which was very strange. I said: Habit becomes natural, like you, if someone scolds you and you don't eat for a few days, then I will starve to death thousands of times.

Sometimes my mother gets angry not because of someone else's face, but because she hears someone else's story. And she will also regard the person who gossips behind her back as a confidant.

I'm only angry with the gossip guy who upsets me.

If it is someone who likes and loves you, he will never say anything that upsets you, because you are unhappy, and it is he who is sad. I believe in this saying: love is easy to test. If the other person does not reciprocate you with the same love, they are secretly despising you. (Bacon)

Why should I die begging for people who despise me? I respect everyone but I don't cry for anyone, no one deserves my tears, I just cry for my lost youth.

I am sad that in my youth, there has not been anyone worthy of my tears, and even more sad is that the children are all 14 years old, and I have not yet worn a wedding dress, worn a wedding ring, or been to my in-laws' house. signed a marriage certificate of more than 20 yuan, worked hard for 15 years, and secretly complained in his blog, which attracted a scolding: This stinky woman is underwhelmed!

The newspaper said that the woman named Tiger who married the black and unruly man five times could get 300 million yuan in compensation if she divorced. The women over there are so happy! I just give him everything, and he doesn't divorce, because those girls let him soak because he is the husband of the Moon Flower Poet. Without me, he is not a fart, where can he get a female college student, a female white-collar worker and a female boss, only to the point of being a bar girl.

The law of our country is that both parties must go together voluntarily to get a divorce. If we follow the law, our mother's family and my mother-in-law's family can't afford to lose that face, and the evidence obtained illegally is not enough to rely on, so we don't have the right to break in. So some women dare to mail nude photos and taunt me and say: You should take it to lawsuit, my business has not been good recently, and I will come to you as a witness if I say a little.