Chapter 973: Dog Days (66)

Pink Rose Love: Three Dogs (Varu Alan)

（66）

I chatted with my little sister about my son's beating, and my little sister said: If you don't beat you, your son will take revenge.

She also said: The beating is self-inflicted, and talking to others should be different from what you think in your heart.

For example, I think that one day my husband is paralyzed and sent to a nursing home, and I will never serve him. But say to him: I love you, and I will be as ...... as your mother serves your father.

The little brother-in-law works in the procuratorate and is often drunk, but he beats outsiders and does not beat his wife and children. I don't know if it's really drunk?

My husband has always been kind to outsiders, and he doesn't dare to say a word, only dares to beat and scold his wife and children. This is similar to his brother, his brother was beaten half to death, and he would rather carry the black pot himself and not dare to confess to his fellow villagers, and he will not be sentenced to a few years for fear that others will come out to retaliate.

In fact, my son and I didn't dare to talk to him at all, it was he who found fault and vented his own. My son and I won't retaliate against him, he just bullied us for that.

There was once a netizen who was less than 30 years old, and his father had been paralyzed for several years, and he had to take his father to the bathhouse twice a week to take a bath (it is estimated that he still lives in a bungalow without a bathroom). He said that when he was a child, he was very naughty, and his dad often beat him, once kicking him for several kilometers.

I said, "You're not a football, can he kick a mile?" not to mention a few kilometers.

He said it was just a few kilometers, and he kept kicking until he couldn't move.

I guess he chased and kicked, but the man ran too fast, and he paralyzed my father from exhaustion. I guess every time I go to help my dad take a bath, I have a happy feeling - it's finally in my hands!

If we want to give birth and raise children, we should respect our personality, so why should we believe in the golden bar of Confucius Lao Er and produce good people? I said that the kind of man who beats his children deserves to be paralyzed, and he has to find someone to serve him, and he will be freed as soon as possible.

He said: It's my father, I just hope he is better, you won't understand.

I actually understand very well that it is very pleasant to see the person who has bullied me weak and powerless in front of me, even if he is his own father. Of course, we must maintain this comfort, and the longer we go, the more fulfillment we will have. It's like a cat that catches a mouse and has to play for a long time before it eats it, as those who keep their opponents to torture often say: death is too cheap for him, and I want to make him worse than dead.

I used to have to report on the kind of role models who served the paralyzed for more than a decade or decades. In fact, I only saw the message "Please, let me die early" in the eyes of the paralyzed people. Sending to the hospital to be cured or treated to death is nothing more than spending a little more money at one time, and serving for many years and spending a lot of time is just to satisfy his psychological needs of "noble and forgiving", and he feels that how noble he is to repay his grievances with virtue is actually a real revenge and has entered his own life.

I feel that it is most important to take care of my life while I am still conscious. For example, sitting, dying, etc., all of them died cleanly after they stopped eating, and there was no rancid smell of food in their bodies. It's too miserable to wait until you're demented and toyed with!

Therefore, if you beat and scold and bully others, you will get retribution in this life, even if it is beating and scolding the children you have born. What's more, it's not your wife and children, don't think that those who don't fight back are fools.

(Pink Rose Love: Three Dogs, 2010.7.17-9.15, A Lan in Beijing)