Chapter 395: Manage Your Emotions
Chapter 395: Manage Your Affection
(2) Manage your feelings
If you can't control your feelings, it's best not to risk entering the stock market. I think the mood is the foundation that determines the success or failure of a thing.
Whether it's exercising, music, dancing, eating dessert, sleeping...... can change the mood, but after the age of 60, these things are somewhat inadequate.
Because of that tragic gua sha experience, I didn't want to set foot in that beauty salon again. It was decided to give away the card with more than 2,000 yuan remaining. But those who are retired and those who go to work don't want it, and in the end, Xiaoli, who is at home with the children, took it.
But after a week, he returned it to me, and he added a thousand yuan to it.
She said, "Those beauty ladies are so horrible, I'm afraid I'll be disfigured if I don't agree to pay for them!"
The result was that she did it once and spent 100 yuan on my card, followed by two young ladies downstairs to her house and waited for her to send the money out, and then sent a formal commercial invoice!
From this point of view, if you can't control your feelings, you can't venture into the beauty salon.
Even a well-trained person like Xiaoli will be led by others when he is naked, let alone ordinary people.
When a salesman sells a product, he does not directly ask you to buy his product, but first asks you to try and try on his product, and then asks to buy it after these requirements are fulfilled; when a boy pursues the girl he likes, he always asks the girl to watch a movie or eat before making a request for a relationship; a person who persuades alcohol will always let people "take a sip" first, and after drinking the first sip, they can finally get drunk; and the performer of street tricks will always let people taste the sweetness first, and finally let them slip away when they get a lot of money.
Therefore, to avoid being led by others, you must be optimistic about your "threshold" and refuse from the beginning.
When I go to the beauty salon, I always have to say hello first: I'm here to take a nap, get some cheap products to fool me, but don't talk to me!
One day, I listened to her godmother's story at her house, and she wanted to write a story about her mother's family and call it "Dream of White Mansions". It turns out that her grandfather is still the last prefect of Yangzhou!
In less than an hour, someone knocked on the door for the third time, the first one was to wash the range hood for free, the second was to remove mites for free, and the third one I went to open it myself, and it was actually a young man who took a box of beautifully packaged cosmetics and said that he sent it for trial. Through the screen of the security door, I asked:
"Is it really a gift?"
"Yes, open the door and see!"
"It's really a gift, you can just leave it at the door, I'll take it later." Aren't we men and women intimate! I used the phone to contact me again. I closed the door with that.
The godmother said: "You answer well, this group of people will not come again in the future." ”
I always felt that it was quite dangerous to enter other people's thresholds, so I would never do sales work that was said to be very training and lucrative.
In fact, in the past few years, there have been many people who want to pull me into business together, so it is inevitable that I will have to pass the sales level, and I really can't. Maybe a busy job can really make people happy. But I'd rather just pretend to be happy like that, and eventually the smile I've put on will spread to my heart. It's better to pretend to be happy than to look at someone else's face.
In fact, the stock market is the best place to pick up money, and I really feel sad for the people who rob, steal, cheat, and sell people, and the money in the stock market is endless!