Chapter 29: Changing Faces (11)

(11) If I cheat, do I have to get a divorce?

At that time, I was writing and losing weight while orthodontics, and my days flew by. I never thought that in addition to attracting my friends, even the teacher from 20 years ago was shocked.

When I saw the teacher, I was shocked, she was older than my mother, but she looked a generation younger. It can be described as bewitching.

Even more surprising was that she said she was "the season of missing".

The situation of meeting her was written in a blog post "I cheated, do I have to divorce?"

[I've only met twice, but I saw her life. Her story made me wonder, what should a man do if he cheats?

The first meeting was in early 1992. At that time, I went to Chongqing to participate in the 1991 Sichuan Provincial Outstanding Radio and Television Program Commendation Conference. The fairy tale radio drama I created won the first prize in the children's program, and she was an old-timer who attended the conference.

Because she read my resume, she wanted to give me a little advice.

"In my lifetime, I may not see you win the first prize independently at your age," she said, "and it is a common ......phenomenon for the author to prefix the leader and postpone the relationship."

I didn't grasp the meaning of my senior's words at all (and later suffered a big loss), but I immediately started interviewing her with curiosity.

Since 1983, when I was a student journalist in middle school, interviews with female characters have always been my interest. I was confident that I could get the material for an interview in two hours.

However, she did not leak.

In order to bring her to the point, two hours later I myself had been exposed, and I knew nothing about her. In the midst of my frustration and frustration, she said—

"I tell you a secret that I have hidden for thirty years," she said.

"At your age, I'm already a mother of two. Children are less than three years old and one year old. One day at noon, me

I came home unexpectedly and saw my husband and a woman disheveled.

I didn't say anything, closed the door and walked away, running to a secluded place and crying bitterly.

When I got home in the evening, my husband was waiting for me to cook a meal. After more than 20 years, his cooking skills became better and better.

In order to live up to his expectant gaze, I ate a lot for dinner every day, and now the "three highs" have become like this......

In the year when our San'er University was about to graduate, he suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and left without saying a word.

If we had been noisy like a normal couple and had opened the knot, he wouldn't have left so early, and I wouldn't have had these diseases......"

Her voice was deep and gentle, like she had heard on the radio before. With tears streaming down my eyes, I said, "How I wish I had a mother like you!"

The second time we met, she was almost 20 years old, and her three children are already well-known scientists and entrepreneurs in the industry.

She wears a brand-name solid color suit, a hat of the same color, lace gloves, a colorful silk scarf around her neck, plus sunglasses and lipstick, no one can tell her age.

She said: "I am an obedient woman, I listened to my parents when I was a child, I listened to my leaders when I worked, I listened to my husband when I got married, and I listened to my children when I retired......

I saw her come home and say to her husband, "I'll listen to you from now on!"

My husband said in surprise, "Then who do I listen to?"