Chapter 428: Confusion (20)

Depression Spring: Confusion (Varu #8226; Ah Lan)

(20) The husband is more terrible than a pervert

In front of the Tianlian Building, near the West Railway Station in Beijing, several young people put on a show of performance art:

A young woman is wrapped in layers of white cloth and struggles but is unable to break free.

There are a few big words placed next to the young woman: "Anyone can become Deng Yujiao" Is this really the case?

If you study hard, you don't have to be a pedicure woman, and you don't have to work in the service industry, and there are not many opportunities to see that kind of daring pervert. At least, I haven't seen it in forty years.

Maybe it's because I'm colorless, so I can't arouse the wolf's interest, right?

At the age of 27, in order to fulfill the promise of letting his mother hold her grandson at the end of the year, she openly advertised to find a pervert and did not find it.

In the end, I still found a Madahar to officially get married.

At the age of 40, he openly looked for a pervert on the Internet (called "online dating"), and no one threw himself into the net for a whole year.

It seems that perverts are available but not sought. If I don't go out to look for it, the pervert won't find it, miserable, the husband is much more terrible than the pervert!

I don't have many friends in Tencent and I'm lazy, and finally one of them has been updated, or reprinted, so I had to go to the field and comment:

"Let's talk about something going on sooner or later!" commented: "It's good to have sweet words on the Internet, it's all bloody and violent, where are the lovers?

"Women Do Need a Lover" commented: "If a woman wants a lover, she has to divorce her husband first, and it is not so easy to divorce her husband." Men are broad-minded and have more lovers, the better, so it is normal to have three wives and four concubines. A woman can only pretend to be a man with a careful eye, so she can't have both a husband and a lover. ”

If you have been dealing with people for a long time, you will find that what you say is often not fully understood by the other party, and it is good not to misinterpret it. And you won't be as excited about the people and things he cares about as the other person. Even for the same issues, almost no one can have the exact same understanding as you.

Therefore, people lament that it is difficult to find a confidant in the world. In fact, strictly speaking, the real confidant is yourself.

This is also why people in cultivation often talk about non-action, try not to interfere with other people's lives, try not to say useless words.

Because you don't know what other people's paths are like, you take care of them, and it looks like you care about them, but it's likely to interfere with them. Of course, with the exception of saving a person's life, we must not only take care of it, but also do our best to manage it.

If a person wants to walk his own path clearly at all times, he must have the will to eliminate distractions, learn to say "no" without hindering his face, and remain calm in the face of irrelevant matters. I often couldn't speak, so I learned to avoid it, which was to be invisible and not seen.

I don't think of people who follow whoever pulls them as good people, I don't think these people have their own opinions.

I also don't think that nosy people are good people, because some things get messier and messier. Because you do it according to your own thinking, it is not necessarily beneficial to others.

Mr. Pei didn't care about my "online dating", but only restricted me from going to the party alone. However, some netizens have been trying to educate me, as if online dating is a time bomb. Mr. Bei has been dating online dozens of times, and he didn't say that he wanted to divorce his wife and marry a netizen as his wife, is it true that women are slaves of feelings, and will seek death and life for a virtual person, abandon their husbands and children?

At least Mr. Pei knows that I am not that kind of woman, netizens are not terrible, or people in life are more worthy of his mind.