Chapter 176: Together in Silence (6)

(6) Staying together and being alone

Someone who really loves you, if they can't see you often, will keep themselves busy, in order not to think about you, because of a thought

You're going to be out of control.

There are many couples in the world who are willing to be cowherds and weaver girls for survival or ideals.

When my parents were discussing the transfer, I heard three options: a school close to the city where there was a friend who had a holiday and it would be awkward to meet, a school that was better but far away from the city and a husband and wife could not go together, and a school that was too ordinary to have any special features.

In the end, they chose to separate temporarily, saying that they would be able to get together in a year or two. It turned out that five years later, my father threw a small bench at my nagging mother, and I subconsciously ran over to block it, and from then on, many black dots flew in front of my eyes. Later, as soon as my father was transferred to the family reunion, I went to study in the provincial capital.

I once heard a senior say that every time he was transferred to the organization, he had to ask his husband and wife to go together, and if he couldn't, he would give up the opportunity. He said that people like him, who often sink into creation, don't know what unexpected things will happen if they are not together. Moreover, he can't think of any better expression of love for his lover other than companionship.

I was very moved when I heard this, so I took a leave of absence without pay and began to teach my husband and children. But my husband's job is still a trapeze, and I see each other in a month or two. In addition to taking care of children, I can only sink into numerology, feng shui, religion, stocks, ...... Even when I was watching Korean dramas, I would send text messages, and he would hate me for nagging.

That's why I say, for men: friends are used to sell, lovers are used to feel distressed, wives are used to work, and wives are used to beat and scold! For women: friends are used to complain, lovers are used to dream, husbands are used to serve, and husbands are used to be beaten!

There are many people who are not married, and they have learned many theories about how to get along with husband and wife, such as the baby saying that he should free a hand to give each other at any time.

I said to my husband: don't ride this time, hold hands and walk to buy groceries.

As a result, he insisted on carrying all the bags in his own hands, and I couldn't hold his hand with my bare hands, so I had to grab the corner of my clothes. The people on the road were staring at my stomach, and after a while, they came back to their senses, and they dared to treat me as a pregnant woman who couldn't carry anything!

So I still do my own thing, I eat and drink with my son, and he watches movies with my son. After all, family life also needs efficiency, frugality, and time to be alone with your soul in order to preserve your strength and explore your potential.

If it weren't for my fanfare shouting about online dating, it is estimated that he would have earned a business trip allowance a long time ago, which is equivalent to an extra job, the work is much easier, and he can look forward to a romantic encounter. Basically, men who are used to traveling on business are like ants on a hot pot at home, and they always have to beat and scold their wives and children to get angry.

I told him, don't be angry with us, move the bookcase on the stagecoach and arrange for you to go on a business trip. He said, arrange for me to go on a business trip again, and I will resign!